re. seeking love, validation & approval. Do you think we can ever be truly free of seeking these things? I know that I need validation & approval far less and I am not looking for it a lot of the time. However there is still a small part of me that wants to be loved, recognised & approved of & despite being present with it when the need arises.Maybe I am asking the wrong question as I am wanting this suffering to end in me , the mind tells me it is wrong to want these human needs...
Jan 28, 2024•11 min
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Jan 26, 2024•11 min
There is a lot problematic going on in self, life and family of late. It is around mental health, physical health, relationship issues, house problems, slow down of beloved work, end of life care and all within this dark SAD time of year. I could list them all out specifically, yet I’m conscious that wouldn’t be a helpful practice. Very clear signs of overwhelm, stress, depression and anxiety in self are prevalent. In your latest wonderful book you share “moments of suffering are the greatest of...
Jan 24, 2024•9 min
How do we account for personality or nature?
Jan 23, 2024•9 min
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Jan 22, 2024•7 min
I'm curious about your invitation to sit with the discomfort and bring it in closer, inquire about what is actually real, rather than avoid or numb with distraction. Sometimes I have the where with all to do this yet a lot of the time I can be in brain fog / overwhelm / busy mindedness / emotional reactivity and the distraction of going for a walk, doing Wordle, having sex (I wish more often), jumping in cold water helps my mind settle and I can then more clearly see what is actually real and wh...
Jan 21, 2024•11 min
I am trying to break down my fears and understand what is behind then. Maybe due to my upbringing and environmental factors an learned behaviour, it seems I've always compared myself, been too self conscious, low self worth, self critical, etc. But behind it all I think i protect myself from being judged, found out; humiliated. It's all about the presence of others. It is such a strong force that it keeps me from doing stuff for fear of all those very things. I know we are all equal but it doesn...
Jan 20, 2024•10 min
how do you know whether you’re genuinely orientated towards the truth or secretly using this exploration to solve your problems / resolve your stresses and strife?
Jan 19, 2024•9 min
Completely understand the importance of where we direct our energy. When experiencing immense bouts of anxiety energy is so misused that the body becomes weak, breathless, shaky, jumpy, nauseous, and fragile. My question is does, or, will this suffering cause any actual harm to our mind or body in the long run? Surely it has an effect on our defenses over time after repeated bouts? This concerns me.
Jan 18, 2024•9 min
Its about the war in the middle east. I have for the mostpart been cutting myself off and trying not to think about it as the stories coming out are just so so horrific.. The stuff of horror films and nightmares. So much hate, loss, grief, and unimaginable suffering. When I do allow myself to think about it, I just feel utter despair and sadness. So heres my question. Is all this just a reflection of human consiousness right now? And if it is, it seems the only solution must be to simply go with...
Jan 17, 2024•12 min
How do you define Flow, Clare and how do we make The SHIFT from grind to Flow?
Jan 16, 2024•9 min
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Jan 15, 2024•11 min
I feel like I've asked this question in many forms, but here I am again. I've just watched your latest video in the "Energy" course. I was shouting out to it, "but I do move into the space of discomfort, in fact it feels like there's no choice about it!" The retraumatization that you talk about is seen so clearly and of course it's depleting my energy. Over the past few years I've decided that it's not worth my short or long term health anymore. I've been applying to any job where I feel like I ...
Jan 14, 2024•14 min
Just reflecting on energy. More specifically the amount of energy that as stated by Adyashanti it takes to maintain those illusory beliefs,the false narrative ,the conditioning ,the projection of the I at the centre of a created reality as opposed to being alive, in flow, whole, true and home. My question is are we saying that we do not have a mind i.e it is a maladaptive programme running on false data. Or that the mind does exist but that inner engineering is required to make it work in servic...
Jan 13, 2024•8 min
I am still marvelling at the shifts happening on a daily basis at the moment. I forgot to mention on our call about how out of seemingly no-where I find myself doodling, drawing, painting, making shapes out of paper napkins…. having never done anything like that before and swearing I didn’t have a creative bone in my body ! This really is like magic!
Jan 12, 2024•10 min
Good morning, my dear Clare I just finished listening to your utterly brilliant response to the participant in your Energy course who is struggling with histamine issues. My mind was immediately transported back to 2019 when I was taking all of you courses, and when I took REAL for the second time in October of that year, my own histamine symptoms went through the roof! I was terrified. And yet, something kept my ass on the seat in your course. My mind hated every word you said, and my body’s hi...
Jan 11, 2024•7 min
These last few days have been really uncomfortable and at times painful, as I am staying with what’s going on. No numbing, no trying to change it. I feel the pain, I feel the grief as I see again and again where my mind goes to… the stories it tells, the narrative that’s been going on for so long, most of the time unnoticed. “Unconscious mind activity makes you unhappy” says Eckhart Tolle, and I am seeing more of this activity now. I am experiencing “feeling” like I’m unwanted, ‘low vibe’, ‘a fa...
Jan 10, 2024•6 min
I’ve not asked a podcast questions since ‘Find the narcissist in you’ many, many moths ago, so here’s a new question inspired by page 66 of GAME… Whist I get the subjective lens of the character, is it True that there is NO absolute reality?
Jan 09, 2024•8 min
On today's podcast on truth you talk about Truth being beyond the mind. I've long been curious as to how all similar concepts that we might lump under "ethics", "eternal values" or "the verities" fit in with non-duality. Is it all relative in the Real, in the field beyond good and evil, with no place at all for absolutes? I've been rereading C. S. Lewis's "The Abolition of Man", and he does make a lot of sense about the pitfalls of trying to live in a world where all values are relative. But may...
Jan 08, 2024•11 min
I'm loving the Energy Course that we are doing at the moment. Day 4 video WOW - I found everything you said just seemed to almost flow through me, making complete and utter sense. I have a question for you - one area I seem to struggle and get caught up in still, is my health (believed to be caused by high histamine levels). My mind/body system still wants to resist the energetic flow of Intelligence/life and shift back to a Reality of fear, confusion, insecurity when the physical symptoms appea...
Jan 07, 2024•12 min
I am finding myself at a lockdown all thought believed but unable to see a way through this. My husband died in 2015 when i was 51 and 3 months later my brother committed suicide. At the time of his death he was under mental health care. I believed 100% that he wouldnt kill himself, and tried to constantly tell my parents that he wouldnt and that it was all attention seeking, but he did. He hung himself and had a massive heart attack and was not dead when found and taken to hospital and put on l...
Jan 06, 2024•12 min
I havent been on holiday abroad since 2017. In June 2018 I was ill with GAD and couldn't go on holiday with my husband and daughter. I came back in taxi and they went alone. That same year in November 1st my husband aged 51 passed away from sepsis at the hospital I worked at for 16 years, due to negligence. We won our case it was an awful experience. My anxieties are more to do with me all my life and are not about my husband if you understand what I mean. Grief is a completely emotion. I was ve...
Jan 05, 2024•11 min
Seems to me that I have chosen to put myself into Reset to feel all the feelings or the identity has but my concern is, is that healthy for me? By saying there is nothing to gain, I get it but, I am here to gain something, some kind of change to the endless suffering. Aren’t we all here for something, some gain, change or peace from pain? The premise of Reset, seems to be re-traumatisation in order to see through the made up self-identity/story of me. It is based on a belief that this is true. H...
Jan 04, 2024•13 min
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Jan 01, 2024•6 min
https://wildfigsolutions.co.uk/2023/12/15/enlightenment-summit/
Dec 31, 2023•21 min
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Dec 31, 2023•7 min
What does 'you are not broken' mean and what are the world's therapists, psychologists and counsellors doing if it is true?
Dec 30, 2023•9 min
Is the aim to not go into your mind as a separate entity and view the world outwards without running it through the I filter if that makes sense?
Dec 28, 2023•6 min
