What is the bowl? Freestyling? What is a Salt Daddy? Find out in this episode! As Sugar Dating becomes more popular and the community grows, these terms begin to show up and solidify, while it can seem like a lot at first, it is helpful to become familiar with them to interact with others and ask questions within forums and communities. Episode starts at 4:47 Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy h...
Mar 17, 2022•30 min•Season 3Ep. 54
What is somatic coaching? What does it involve? Rachel Overvoll uses a holistic, somatic approach to sexual healing and explains the benefits of involving your body rather than strictly your mind. In this episode Ellie and Rachel talk about religious trauma and how difficult and long the process can be, but also how important and worth it the process is. Learn about what Rachel does, offers, and how to connect with her below: Connect with Rachel on IG: @rachelovervoll Visit her website to find h...
Mar 03, 2022•47 min•Season 3Ep. 52
Everyone knows what a happy ending massage is, why did I (Ellie) ALWAYS automatically picture and assume it is for cocks and penis owners? Massage is an awesome way to get things to turn sexual, sure, but how about treating yourself, as a vulva owner, to a full massage and orgasm with no other expectations? YUMMY. Listen to this episode to find out what the top seven (7) sexual fantasies are, something we can know thanks to Justin Lehmiller, the author of Tell Me What You Want who spent two year...
Feb 17, 2022•20 min•Season 3Ep. 51
Holy bonkers, how did we get to episode FIFTY? Ellie and Andrew have an enlightening conversation all about first times and crazy experiences becoming sexual beings from religious and conservative upbringings. Sneaky woods sex, accidental anal, buying condoms, YouTube channels, and more! Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...t...
Feb 10, 2022•43 min•Season 3Ep. 50
Ellie is back from...the dead? Not quite, but almost. This episode is spent discussing the beautiful act of aftercare with Andrew! What is aftercare? How do you do aftercare? Who SHOULD be doing it? All these things and more are talked about and discussed in episode 49 of Sugar Pussy. Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with The Bigger O to deliver you massive loads...of lube...to y...
Feb 03, 2022•25 min•Season 3Ep. 49
How do you finger? How do you eat a girl out? Should you use the alphabet method? So many questions. A woman's pleasure is a mystery, right? No! Ellie and Andrew both tell you tips and what you need to know about giving a woman pleasure in this episode of Sugar Pussy. Step by step, important considerations, why it is important to take seriously, and techniques to use on a clitoris or vagina to give the ultimate pleasure. *NOTE* in this episode both Ellie and Andrew use binary terms when discussi...
Jan 14, 2022•47 min•Season 3Ep. 48
Vulva, clitoris, vagina: basically a wonderland of pleasure and treasure right? But what about for non vulva owners and people who haven't explored a woman's body before? Or, maybe you have but you just kinda yolo'd it? How to touch a woman can be intimidating! This episode covers all of the foundations. What are you looking at? Labia? Clit? Vagina? Isn't the whole thing a vagina? Who knows. It actually isn't rocket science! This episode answers questions about what everything is, the four diffe...
Jan 06, 2022•31 min•Season 3Ep. 47
Ghosted. Getting yelled at. Chlamydia. Cocaine. Blood...so much blood. And more. The stories Ellie hasn't told yet are here and I hope you're ready because you can't sugar date for 7 years and not get a little messy. Should she be shouting these into the abyss that is the internet? Probably not. But here they are for all your listening joy. Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar Pussy has partnered with T...
Dec 16, 2021•29 min•Season 3Ep. 46
Pizza Delivery for Ellie? What could possibly go wrong? Listen to the 45th episode of Sugar Pussy to find out and learn all about the history of pornography. Ellie talks a lot in this episode. She goes all the way back to 28,000 years ago and looks at the timeline of porn all the way up to what the porn industry is like today. Read Sarah Chadwick's book The Sweetness of Venus: https://www.amazon.com/Sweetness-Venus-History-Clitoris/dp/1736298836 Listen to The Pros and Cons of Porn (Do We Know Th...
Dec 10, 2021•46 min•Season 3Ep. 45
Ellie and Paloma talk about the transition or influence that a lack of sex education and sexual openness growing up can have in creating sexuality professionals, discovering personal pleasure, what blocks many women from orgasming, and how Paloma balances working as a sex coach/sexologist and being herself and pursuing passions as a model. Follow Paloma: @awaremoma Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sugar P...
Dec 02, 2021•31 min•Season 3Ep. 44
Another look into the past to arm yourself against haters, understand the sex industry better, learn cool facts, and more! This week the history is all about seductive ways people have moved their bodies in dance throughout history. Ellie also tells about catching up with a Sugar Daddy she never thought she would see again and tells a story about going to Girls Night Out a few years ago. Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter...
Nov 18, 2021•34 min•Season 3Ep. 43
Ellie describes exactly what she means by "pleasure body map" and why it is helpful to us humans. She also digresses with the worlds longest penis, erotic museums, and sugar daddy sponsored travel...but back to the important stuff: listen to her map her OWN body for the first time in this episode as an example for how you can do it. Follow along or listen and take notes so you can light up some candles and try it out for yourself. Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie o...
Nov 11, 2021•25 min•Season 3Ep. 42
Ellie goes back in time, all the way back to 3000BC to be specific and goes through the timeline of Prostitution and all its ups and downs. From cutting women's noses off to sex boxes, things get interesting! Also, Ellie did what on their road trip? Find out all this in the first episode of season three! Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @its.ellie.rae Follow Ellie on Twitter: @its_ellierae Sources for the episode: The History Of Prostitution in the World htt...
Nov 04, 2021•39 min
Wow, what a season! It is so exciting to reach another milestone and celebrate with all things anal sex *gasp*. Tim comes through and not only gives amazing tips for pleasuring our butts but also shares a story that will make you a little less worried about any mishaps you could have exploring anal play... Season 3 is only a few weeks away and full of amazing content Ellie has planned, in the meantime, connect on IG: @its.ellie.rae and on Twitter: @its_ellierae and of course follow the show: @su...
Sep 30, 2021•47 min
Ohhhhh HONEY. Ellie has a new bff and he is fabulous, for real. He was SO generous with his time not only did he talk for 60 minutes about coming out (his story, advice, and resources), entering the gay dating scene, sex and sexual expectations, AND his experience as an escort and sugar baby but he also gave Ellie a lesson in Anal...but that is for next week ;). This week: get to know him, fall in love with him, and probably shower him with money hoping he lets you be his new sugar daddy because...
Sep 23, 2021•1 hr 6 min
Ropes turn me on; tie me up Daddy! Shibari, Western Rope Bondage, Cuckolding, and Ellie's sugaring life all make an appearance in this weeks episode of Sugar Pussy. What is Shibari and where did it come from? Can I be tied up and not have to have sex? Is bondage good for you? What are the benefits of bondage and rope play? What is a rope bunny? SO MANY QUESTIONS. Think of this episode as a little, BDSM bondage/shibari 101. Follow Ellie on IG: @elliesugarrae Follow the show on IG and Twitter: @su...
Sep 16, 2021•25 min
Older and wiser advice for the podcast? Ellie gets stories and advice and a great conversation from Jeff Abraham, the CEO of Promescent. Why did they expand and create women's pleasure gels and products? Is male delay spray for men or women's pleasure? Has he ever been a Sugar Daddy (yep, she asks!) and his answer might surprise you! What does he think about the taboo around Sugar Dating? All this AND MORE in this episode of Sugar Pussy! Follow Ellie on IG: @elliesugarrae Follow the show on IG a...
Sep 10, 2021•48 min
As promised, the obvious part 2 after episode 33! This one doesn't just explain how to work a cock, however, it also talks about how to survive having a gag reflex, something even Ellie deals with (so of course, it's personal). What is facefucking and how do you survive it? There are two ways to take and swallow cum-- what?! Tips and techniques for a blowjob are cumming for you in this episode so maybe be sure to wear headphones this week. P.S. Don't worry ladies and gentlemen, we will be discus...
Sep 02, 2021•29 min
Only Fans is doing WHAT?! Wow, what dumbasses. Ellie theorizes where all the Only Fans creators are going to go with the announcement that no porn is allowed and sex workers and content creators are undercut so unfairly AGAIN. Also, what are some personality traits needed as a sugar baby? What are some tips to go into a Sugar Date with confidence for the first time? It can be super scary if you don't have the right mentality and thankfully Ellie has years of figuring out what that is. Help Afgha...
Aug 19, 2021•22 min
Ellie and Andrew discuss sadism and masochism; what they are, how they are practiced, how to enjoy these desires safely, what to look out for in a BDSM partner, and tips to a fun and safe scene. Why do people like watching their partner experience pain? Is it wrong to be a sadist? Is it wrong to be a masochist? These subjects can be difficult to address when google only has articles about how it can be a mental health disorder. We promise you, we approach this very realistically. *TRIGGER WARNIN...
Aug 12, 2021•44 min
Okay, Blossoms, this is probably the most explicit episode yet cause how else do you explain how to give a handjob? Can you count how many times Ellie says "cock" in this one or do you get lost too? But this had to happen because Ellie wishes she had this guide a few years ago so why not create one? ALSO! You might have noticed that she got a sugar daddy trip to San Diego recently? Want all the details? It's all here on this episode of Sugar Pussy. Follow Ellie on IG: @elliesugarrae Follow the s...
Jul 29, 2021•22 min
Oh YES YES YES! Dina, the founder of The Bigger O comes on to talk about her favorite sex toys, how to properly care for and store your sex toys (all sorts of advice!), and answers the question: do kegel balls actually work? Oh and...Ellie talks more butt stuff. Go check out the shop! thebiggero.com and use the code SUGAR at check out! Follow The Bigger O on IG: @thebiggero_ Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie: @elliesugarrae
Jul 15, 2021•31 min
She is alive and back with episode 31! How do you start conversations? Take those first steps? Deciding to be a Sugar Baby is hard and the first time around is intimidating as hell. Ellie reads off a real conversation and gives insight into how to manage those early conversations as well as what NOT to put up with. Follow the show on IG: @sugarpuspod Follow the show on Twitter: @sugarpuspod Follow Ellie on IG: @elliesugarrae
Jul 08, 2021•21 min
Ellie gets all the details about Angie's amazing Ear making business, Bubblegum Ears! These referenced, legendary ears have quickly become a staple in Ellie's life and in this episode hear about the business as well as how to add BDSM into a relationship, is 50 Shades of Grey a healthy representation of BDSM, and more Pet Play talk. Follow Bubblegum Ears on IG: @bubblegumears Buy your own set <3: https://www.flowcode.com/page/bubblegumears Follow Ellie on IG: @elliesugarrae Follow the Pod on ...
Jun 10, 2021•41 min
How do you tell someone you like that you're a sex worker? When is it appropriate to tell them? What if they reject you afterward? Brianna tackles these concerns and discusses with Ellie how to approach and have these conversations with a new flame, or anyone, really. Finally, Brianna and Ellie talk about bad hookups and the female orgasm to really round this chat out. Brianna's podcast: Sexy Soulful Confidence Follow Brianna on IG: @briannaendrina Follow Ellie on IG: @elliesugarrae Follow the p...
Jun 03, 2021•30 min
Wait...what did Ellie do last weekend?! Ellie talks butt stuff, sugar dating, healthy relationships, monogamy, and safe submission this week with Brianna Endrina, a Love, Sex, and Relationship Coach. Here this part one of the interview and tune in next week for part two, where Ellie and Brianna talk about how to talk about a history of sex work with new partners, one-night stands, and more... Follow Brianna on IG: @briannaendrina Follow Ellie on IG: @elliesugarrae Follow the podcast on IG and Tw...
May 27, 2021•38 min
Ellie committed a Sugar Dating Felony...but who knows what could happen still. Lex, who runs the IG page @sexisnotadirtyword is on to talk about sex education, working in a sex shop, sex work, and her poly relationship. Because every poly situation is different, hear how hers works, why it works, some of the challenges, and the benefits a good poly relationship can bring. Follow Lex on IG: @sexisnotadirtyword Follow Ellie on IG: @elliesugarrae Follow the podcast on IG and Twitter: @sugarpuspod...
May 20, 2021•44 min
Ellie has some life updates for you! Where is she at, does she have a sugar daddy right now, and what is to come on the podcast? Then she deep-dives into pet play. What is it? How do people engage in it? What is Ellie's personal experience with it? Why do people like it? Pet play comes with a headspace at times; how is it different from sub space or little space? Find out everything Ellie has to say on the topic in episode 25 of Sugar Pussy! Check out those custom ears Andrew got Ellie: @bubbleg...
May 13, 2021•26 min
Ellie goes through all her tips for masturbating since it should be celebrated in excess this month. With vibes, without vibes, with partner(s), or without. Oh my May, what a month for some serious self-love! Follow Ellie on IG: @elliesugarrae Follow the podcast on IG: @sugarpuspod Follow the podcast on Twitter: @sugarpuspod
May 06, 2021•17 min
Ellie talks about different approaches to Sugar Dating: staying unattached or treating it like a traditional relationship. Emotional attachments can happen and are something to be prepared for no matter your approach to Sugar Dating. Through the years as a Sugar Baby Ellie has heard stories and talked to people who have fallen for a sugar daddy or sugar baby, no one is immune! Learn how to prepare! Also in this episode, Andrew joins to talk about choking-- why would you want to, what happens to ...
Apr 29, 2021•23 min
