Kicking it with Katie Morton

l A and Tampa, so, oh my gosh. I know I asked her about the dating scene in All three. But Tammy was last week. So if you haven't listened to the last week's episode, definitely go check it out. It was a great one. This week, we have a very special guest who is joining us via zoom with I think a fake white wall background? Is that fake? Oh my god? It looked so it looks like you look super imposed in front of it. It's Katie Morton. Ladies, Gemen. It looks like Katie is zooming in from like the

gates of Heaven or something. Seriously, this is it? Slight little halo coming behind you? This is it? This is Katie. Well, welcome to the podcast. It's a it's a pleasure to have you here as always. Hey guys, I'm so happy to be back finally. Yeah, we're happy to have you back. Your hair looks good. Um, what's going on? Phill Us in on your life? What's what's up with? What's up with Katie Morton these days? Um? I mean, I'm I'm back in l A. At the moment. I've kind of

been a nomad. Dean. I love it. I love the nomad. Katie Moore in, Yeah, I've kind of been a nomad. So I'm I'm giving Dean vibes and I like spent some time with my family back home. But now I'm back in l A filming for like a fitness video. Don't you. You've done a lot of that before, haven't you. Weren't you on like a Netflix show or something like that,

and you're like you're like dancing or something, weren't you. Yeah, I'm like, I am a professional dancer, So I have been on a cup Yeah, I was on a Netflix movie memory, thank you. I feel like I feel like they're probably not the same though, obviously a fitness thing and a dancing thing are pretty pretty different, but in the same Marina at least. Yes, ok, yeah, yeah, book by the same agent. I knew there was some some connection there. Um, well, that's exciting. What is this fitness

thing that you're doing. I'm like a fitness model for Beach Body, remember back in the day, like pen I d x M. It's that same company, and I'm one of their fitness models, like for their video for like Body on Demand. Yes, Dina, and I know beach Body on Demand very well. They've been a sponsor in this podcast, So thank you so much for your body And that's awesome, Katie. Yeah.

So like, yeah, I'm basically like Joel Is. He's the guy that's like, hey, guys, we're going to be doing a you know, squats, and then I'm the person right next to him doing the squads. Okay, so you're the person that like shows off the technique. So Joe will come over and be like, this is Katie's Katie leg gentlemen, Katie's got the perfect form. Yeah, get a Katie, Get Katie,

and I'm like, I'm dying. That's great. So next time, I mean, yeah, like Jared said, Beach Body has been keeping the lights on here, I help my second dating. So now when we promote it, we got to promote you at the same time. It's a win win amazing. So Katie have a quick story too. So I was at the Warwick Mall about like three weeks ago, which is you know, it's a pretty pretty big deal here

in Rhode Island. And I walked back past I think it was the G m C store and I saw a sign for this company called a Lonnie l A L A N I says, buy one, get one off. And it was a big sign, probably like four ft by four ft in front of the store, and it had this very pretty lady on the front of it. I don't know if you can see it. It's me, But I was like, is this Katie? So I took

a picture of it. I meant a d M you, and of course I just got sidetracked, but I was like, I don't want I'm pretty sure that's Katie in the Wark Mall and Rhode Island. Wow, and it is you. I told you I was a nomad. She's all over the place, so that is you. Yeah, that's me. So how does that work? I've always wondered, So do you, like, do you know where your face is going to pop up? Did you have any idea that you'd be in a random mall? Um and all? Honestly, no, I had no idea.

I give people like depending on the contracts, people get certain rights. You know, one point we all signed a contract and gave way all ab our rights. No that true signed contracts and like you give the rights to like certain usage and so yeah, I don't know sometimes how nomadic I will actually be. So I didn't know I would end up in a mall Nord Island. But honestly, I'm not gonna lie. That's that's like a bucket list of mine to be like on a featured poster in

the work mall, because I was like the mall. I was a mall right in high school, so that would be the mall that was Yeah, we wo cigarettes, no candy cigarettes. I was a pussy girl still a cigarettes are bad. You're not condoned the use of cigarettes. I've got a similar ish story. So on my season of the Bachelor, at my season on rachel season, and I was lucky enough to be a participant on uh, there was a male model named Brady, really nice guy. Uh. And fast fast forward like a year later, me and

my buddy Alex was also on the same season. We're driving, we rento motorcycles and drive into the north of France. All the way in France, like this random, rinking dink, little beach town. We're just walking down and to get breakfast or something, and we look to her right and there's this bank and it's Brady, the guy from our season, the American guy that was a model, was like modeling sunglasses or something for the bank, and I was like,

I lost my mind. I was like, what are the odds in this little rinky dink town in France there is a poster of a guy who was on the same reality TV show as this guy that I'm traveling with. It was just it was weirdly serendipitous, I guess. But um, you never know where your poster is gonna end up. I mean, Jared and I don't have the luxury of being just naturally beautiful, so we don't. We're not on any posters that I know of, at least, um, so

we're not gonna end up anywhere. I mean, I'm on Audrey's poster, but you know, I put myself on there, so Hey, Jared, congrats and getting on the road sign for Audrey's. Thanks, that's big. What's the bureaucousy like in that? Because I noticed sometimes where it's like, let's say a restaurant goes out of business, it would the name is still on the sign like years later, so what is

like the what is this? What is that? Like? It was pretty easy, I mean just I had to talk to the property manager and be like, hey, we need to get a sign up. Some people know that we're in the plaza. So it's just like going through it was. It is ridiculous, how like time consuming it takes just to get the sign exactly the way you want because there you know, and it makes sense. Like the proper

edger was trying to help me out. He's like, well, I want Audrey's as big as it is so they could see people, you know, so they could see from the side of the road, which means we'd have to make the coffee house and lunch smaller. So we went through different sizes and it was pretty pretty like not strenuous by any stretch of the imagination, but I put a lot of time, more time than I thought I was going to for like being like, hey, just put a sign up front place. For the love of God.

Some people will drive by and be like, oh, that's where Audrey's is. But you know it's funny. So the previous owner, he put up a sign for his coffee shop on a piece of grass and it's like stuck into two by four and it's still there. But he went to the town and adopted the land, so I

can't touch it. So there's still a sign or I think actually he might have taken it down by now, But for like two or three months after we opened, they were still a sign and saying like, hey, check out this coffee shop, even though that coffee shop wasn't there anymore. And I was like, well, I can't touch it. I don't want to get in trouble. I think he adopted that land, so like that's his property. Hey, um

on this on the same Audrey's note. Uh, I just googled Audrey's Coffee Shop, Rhode Island Google Maps, expecting it not to be on Google Maps, but there, sure enough, there it is Audrey's Coffee House and Lounge. Four point seven stars. Screw those people that didn't give you five stars. By the way, I wasn't gonna say anything because you know, as a business owner, I'm so grateful for everybody who comes in. But you know, the stars on Google and

Yelp they mean a lot to a business. You know, they mean everything because you go on, the first thing you see is at four point seven. So we were a decisions exactly like that's how people make their decisions. So we were at four point eight and we went down to four point seven. And you know, I'm not gonna say this user named I'm sure they're very sweet, but they're they're common said menu needs to be expanded. Service and coffee are great, just which they had more

food options. Okay, fine, I mean we have a pretty extensive lunch in nighttime option. But that's all I find. It's your opinion. But they only gave three stars. Oh man, And it's like, if the service and coffee are great, the only issue had was that you think we should add more food to the menu, that's fine, very least. Yeah, you can't give me three stars because that's like it brings us down so much and it really hurts us.

Three stars is not good. It's like it's like in school. Unfortunately, when you like randomly would have like, I mean, I don't know about you guys, but there were times when I would get like a bad grade. But it's like when you get a bad grade, it's so much harder to start at a low g p A and try to bring it up, Like it's so easy to go down and and it's so much more difficult to just

even bring that up. Like one bad grade affects you like drastically, and you have to like one for one d you have to get ten a's to balance the totally and the same thing. We were at a four point seven for like two months and then finally bumped up to a four point and I'm like, yes, after we got like fift like ten five star reviews and thank you for everybody who leaves a great review for ardres.

It means the world to me. And then so we're at four point and I was like hell yeah, and then literally one three star review brought it down back to four point seven, and I was like, son of a bitch, it's the same, it's the same with the same whatever. It's this way off topic, I guess, But like when I'm investing money and like the stock market and crypto or something. I'm like, I can lose money so fast, but I can never make it back as fast. It's like, it's so easy to go down, but it's

so hard to go up. So easy to go down. Guys, Um, I was reading some reviews, Jared. I'm just gonna share a couple. Oh God, you're commenting back to which is really good? Uh? And these are the mean ones to remember when he did the mean segment on help My Second Day, don't ready the mean comments about Audrey. I don't care if you read read comments about me, not about Audrey's. Okay, well then I'm not gonna read them. I just have questions for you. This person is upset

that you have your Christmas decorations up in February. Are the Christmas decorations down? Yes, they were down. So what we did we thought was a cute idea. I remember that review and I felt very self conscious about it. So Ashley and myself had the We were very busy, you know, Dawson was just being born, so and then I was bouncing back and forth between Virginia and our hands are very much on Audrey's. So it's it's hard to like get a lot of things done when I'm

not there. So we had the idea like, hey, let's keep the fake trees up and make them Valentine's Day trees in the Christmas trees, so they were decorated with hearts and red lights. We thought it was cute. This person, I guess, still assumed that it was a Christmas tree and not a Valentine's Say tree, which is why they

were upset that the Christmas decorations were still up. And there's a silly thing to be upset about, though, you know, dude, what a silly thing to like labor like the I don't know, I feel that for me, it takes a lot for me to leave a review in terms of like I understand that it is really good for restaurants, and I honestly I'm sitting here thinking about it, like, you know, maybe I should leave more reviews, like now that you're sitting here like as a business owner, and

I'm thinking, oh, for the because it's when places are good, It's almost this expectation of places to be good, so you almost like don't even leave a review, and so like a lot of the times I find that the only reviews coming in are bad reviews. Because it's just

like they felt compelled to share this experience. But most the majority of the time, like you almost have to cut a restaurant in some slack that maybe even has like a four surview or like maybe a three stur review even because how many people are going in there and leaving good reviews. Like the people that have a good experience is because they expected a good experience, because

you really should have one. And I don't review because it's like an expectation, and I think that it's just the moment someone's expectations aren't met, that's when a review is left. So it's almost like not a balanced way of ratings and like and like how often do you go into a restaurant expecting it to be bad and then it's good and then you leave a good review. It's like that's never. Never, like, oh my god, you know that was perfectly satisfying. I'll leave a review. Yeah.

And it's funny because we do that in all different aspects of life. Like a lot of times I'll go to a movie would be like it's probably gonna suck, and then it's like, oh, that was pleasantly surprising. That was good, you know, yourself. Huh you say it to yourself,

you don't leave the review. Oh yeah. My point being, you know, is like when we don't go to restaurants being like, oh this is gonna suck, you know, But it's we do it in a lot of different aspects of life where it's like, yeah, that's a good point. That's a good point. What's the last movie, Jared that you went into that you expe it did not be good that ends up surprising you. That's a great question. I'm man, Uh, you want to know all that while

you think about it. I want to say. The opposite that happened to me a movie that was hyped up to be good and I just it just didn't catch for me. Was in Conto Watch Jesus Christ. I didn't I didn't love in Content. I love those movies too, like that style of movie, the beautiful storytelling and all that stuff. Something about in Content just I didn't love it. There was no like real major like point of struggle

that they had to overcome. Yeah, I get at the House is losing its charm and stuff, but I just didn't like, I don't know, I didn't love it, and I was upset that I didn't love it as much as I wanted to. It's funny that you say that, Dean, because I'm going to go ahead and say I watched in Kanto back to back, like oh wow, watched it and then was like I didn't even catch everything I needed to catch. Watched it right away again. I started playing.

I'd be like, hey, Google, play the in can't a soundtrack? I started doing that. That's how much of it in Canta fan or cantor in Canda. That's how much of a fan I am of that movie. So, like of all the movies for you to take Son and that, Like, now that you say it, I don't think that there was so much to overcome. But I honestly I also didn't go into that movie thinking they should probably really

overcome something here. I was more there for the music than the same that composed the music of that movie was the same guy that composed Hamilton's. Okay, what's Leslie Lima Miranda? Yeah? I think so what is his name? The same composer of lim same composer of the music of music as Hamilton's. And so I knew that I needed to like, I knew I would just be like addicted to the songs. Yeah, I do love that guy

lin Manuel Miranda. Is that what it is? Um? Because I liked Hamilton he also was He's super talented too. He sung a couple of songs. He sings this really good version of your Welcome from Ilana that I just didn't obsessed with. So yeah, I agree, I see where you're coming from. The music is very good. Um, I guess I was tuning in for more of the storyline, which I was just a little underwhelmed by. So what's

the name? What's the name of the animation movie where they're the kid plays music and like they're dead their skeletons and yeah, Coco, I know what you're talking about. Coco, Yes, is one of those movies. There's like two of those movies that are pretty similar. I think Coco is probably one of them. Yeah, I think it was Coco. So Ashley was watching it when I got home from work because she was watching with Dawson, and I watched the last hour of a Dan that's an emotional Roycalist or

holy crap, that's a sad movie. I will say there's definitely more UM animated movies that have better or like more more of a storyline and more of like an arc to get over. Like Incanto's really flowy, like it's just happy kind of all around, Like the sadest part happens like it's in a snap. Have you guys seen up emotional roller coaster? For sure? I in five minutes into the movie, I was getting choked up. I'm like, what the hell am I watching? Why am I crying

right now? Oh? My god. They do start you on a low note though, with like the old man who lost his wife and then he's all lonely and you're like, yeah, you can see what I'm like starting to tear if you just mentioned it. I was like, I gotta turn this off. Like I'm a thirty year old man watching this by myself. I can't all right, and we should get back aple time for you to think. That's ample time for you to think about before we get back

to dating. I want to know what you're under. Impressed movie choices, Oh like one where you were like so excited and you just couldn't you couldn't get over something about it. I don't know. Well, I'd say most recently was The Batman. I was very didn't love Batman. Did not love it. I liked it. I have only seen

it once. I really have to see it again. But yeah, I was very much looking forward to that movie, and there were things that I really liked about it, But honestly, there were things that I really didn't like about it either. Um So yeah, I'd say The Batman would be the most recent movie I could think of where I was like,

I didn't love it. That's fair. I feel kind of like a simple bitch because I liked it, and I know you have a much like deeper taste in movies, and so for you to not like a movie that I like, I'm like, crap. He's so much he sees things so much better than I do. Know, I wouldn't say that. I mean there's a lot of things. I mean, Robert Pattinson is great. I really enjoyed Paul Dano as the Riddler. I just thought that, Um, I I think

there's too much happening in that film. Uh, we don't have to get into the film critique of it, but I really wish. You know, there's like a whole hour in the second act where the Riddler is not even shown because they really focused on the Falconi storyline. And they kind of get into Colwin storyline a little bit, and I just felt like, as much as I love Colin Farrell as the penguin, I like he was underutilized.

He wasn't in the film as much as I thought, like, if you take the penguin character out of that movie, I don't think it changes in the movie one bit. Um and Uh. As much as I love Pattinson as Batman, I just felt like he was lacking a certain charm, not because of his acting skills, but because of the the script. There's a lot of times where he's just walking around and I get it that he's, you know, intimidating Batman and he's a little bit younger and he's

still kind of finding his way. But like a great example is that there's a scene where Catwoman, I want it's not a spoiler, but Catwoman has this guy on the roof that she's interrogating. Batman walks up and sees like her punching him in the face and she's like I found him, and he's like I can see that. And it was just like a like one miniscule moment

that was so charming from Pattinson as Batman. I was like, we need more moments like that where like you're letting Robert Pattinson breathe in the suit a little bit where he can really become Batman instead of like this overbearing emo type character where he's just and he is vengeance.

So I get it, but I don't know. I would have liked to see a little bit more character development throughout the film instead of at the very end where he's like, oh, I need to become more than vengeance, I need to become a symbol of hope, which was a cool ending, but the movie is three hours, so it took a while to get there. Let me ask you this the Dark Knight series. I feel like the first Dark Knight was uh critique a very similar way that you just mentioned, and then in the second one

he really comes into his own. So do you first see that happening with Robert Pattinson's Batman? Oh a thousand percent. I think Pattinson will become more and more Batman esque into the next one. Sorry, Katy, we don't have my God, we should really move fastest because we're definitely losing subscribers right now. But my point being is, yes, what I really enjoyed about Batman begins going into the Dark Knight was that Batman Begins was the same thing, a story about,

you know, Bruce Wayne becoming ultimately becoming Batman. But also one of the downsides I'm sorry of the new the Batman was Bruce Wayne. Bruce Wayne is a character that I really enjoy I like the duality of an actor playing both Bruce Wayne and Batman, and Christian Bale as much as I didn't love him as Batman, I love him as Bruce Wayne, and I think he did a really good job. Christian Bale really played three characters, honestly, because he played Bruce Wayne himself, where he's trying to

become a better human being. Then he plays Batman, which is this like vengetabul character who's just acting in anger. And then he also played the facade Bruce Wayne, where he's like this playboy billionaire and he's trying to put on this facade that he doesn't really give a about the world because he doesn't want people to accuse him of being Batman. So like that was really interesting to see.

And unfortunately in this incarnation, which I understand why they did it, but still just because I understand why they did something doesn't mean that I have to like it. Is that like this emo Bruce Wayne, who doesn't say or do anything and is barely in the film, just was something that I didn't really enjoy watching. Sorry, I love I love how you're like, Okay, we shouldn't be talking about this right now. He go for ten minutes

of something completely right now. I want to see when you were telling, uh, explaining all that, which, by the way, thank you very much. I feel like my brain is swollen a little bit more. I'm a little smarter now. Um. I want to see a superhero movie like Batman, like you know, like one of the mainstay superhero movies where, um do you remember like Awesome Powers, the Spy who

shacks Me? How Mike Myers played every role? Basically, I want to see a superhero movie where like Robert Pattinson plays Batman and the Joker in the same film, kind of stupid, like he's not the it's not the same person, but like he's playing both characters as as separate people like like Mike Myers, did you know, like fat Bastard? Not like like the parent Trap? Is this supposed to

the parent Trap? I wanted to be a serious movie, like you're serious Batman movie where Robert Pattinson plays himself, the joker, the butler. What's his name again, bos Wilford or something like that, Alfred. He also he made let's say, let's say it's a he. You know, Batman in this iteration of the film series is a homosexual. He also plays the love interest of Batman. Um anyways, is getting pist off at us for the movie talk. It's just

an idea. If you guys are listening to this, and when I say you guys, that mean like the big wigs in Hollywood, take it and absorb it, and you know, try and spit something out similar to it and make me happy. That's what We're gonna take a quick break and jump to a commercial and then uh, we're gonna jump into everything revolving dating. I know, it's dating podcast. We have not been very dating centric right now, so taking a break, beer, right back, we are back and

as promised, let's talk some dating. So let's talk about Katie. Yeah, let's talk about Katie. My dating life is boring, Jared's dating life is boring. Katie? Is your dating life boring? Nope? Yeah, So if you don't mind us asking because you are and help us like a dating. The last time we talked to you, you were in a very committed relationship with you. Guys were doing long distance right he lived in London? Still does still are? Yeah? Still are okay? Great?

Oh that's great, yeah okay. Because your your response to Dan's question was very um interesting cells like oh oh god, no, like we did um actually like break up for a second. I mean, life this complicated, but I we like broke up for a second o because we don't really care about each other. That was last year, and that was because we were like, how in the world are we going to figure that this out? Like is it impossible? Like do we break up? Like we're just like what's

going on? And now? And then we were like, wow, we actually don't want to be without each other, which was really nice, uh feeling. And so now we're it's still hard, but it's worth it. And we're in the process of like talking to an immigration lawyer and oh, so what is immigration? You immigrating that way or him immigrating this way? So he loves it over here. Um, sometimes I'm like why, Yeah, he loves it over here. Um, so him immigrating this way, but just like to have

the option to be here. Um, we've also talked about going there, but going there like in the future. Mm hmm. Well how does it work for him? Because he I mean, obviously he has to be physically in London in order or you know, England to work, right, Like his job is to be a soccer player, isn't it. Yeah, So he wanted to try playing in the MLS here when he when he came to California, he was like, I love California. Why they charged us so much? Because California

is just beautiful. Um, he was like, I love California. And so he was trying to get into the MLS. But it was like a weird you know cycle of the MLS wants you to already have an international like players visa, and then they won't give you a visa if you're not already in the MLS. So it was like a thing where you're like, so is anyone going to help, Like we don't need to get on a team and you sponsor recipe for the visa because we can't get the visa without being on a team. But

the team, you know. So that's what we found out last summer and that's when we were like, oh my gosh, this is quite a lot of work. Like we really thought it was gonna because he's a really good soccer player, so we thought it was. He also thought he was like, we're just gonna go there, I'm gonna get into training, I'm gonna get on a team, because that's how it works for him in England, and it just didn't work

that way. Um, we're just trying to find ways around it in terms of like there's a certain type of visa where if you're like an athlete, basically you can come and then have the visa to try out for a team. So we could present a team and say like we have the visa already because they wouldn't get

into training with that one. So we're going that route now. Um, and yeah, well, I mean definitely, Like it's it's crazy to hear because obviously, like relationships are hard enough on their own, and then you implement the dilemma that like a he lives over there, he wants to come over here, but he can't just come over here that easily, Like they'll flag you if you're in the country for two

and a half months. Of it, like you can be here for three months at a time, but you can't be here for three months at a time too often. We're also flagged and your visa could get denied and

then you won't be able to enter the country. But it added an extra element of um stress to the relationship, I think, um And it came to a point where I had to be like, okay, like I was being a little bit of a negative Nellie because I was like, relations ship shouldn't be this hard, because they really shouldn't be hard in the relationship, but our relationship isn't hard when we're in it. And I think I got that confused because it's really just the logistics in our heart. Man,

what did we sign up for? But I'm really happy and we're really happy, and it's just like it's like, Wow, this is really going to be freaking worth it. So let me ask you what happens. I don't know how it works when somebody gets married, not saying that you guys should get married, but I'm sure this is something that's popped in your head. Yeah, it has. I think like we're trying to make it, you know, just like

more special. Like I just don't want to be like, you know, I think we're gonna be together forever, which I actually like, I do feel like we're going to be together for a really long time. Like I definitely Seehi as my person. But just like marriage is so intense to be, like it doesn't feel right to be like, well, we get you into the country, get married like it for me, it just doesn't feel like it's not the

right time right now. That feel it doesn't give me like as good like to get married, Like it doesn't mean you feel it's like happy. But um, you know, people do it all the time. Don't blame them because also like we we did discuss the marriage visa with the lawyer just to hear it out, Like what does that look like? Holy smokes. The wait times are insane, Like it's like six months at least. Um, it's just

the way times they're basically insane. And then if you do get married, when you're waiting for the green card, that can take between two weeks to two years, and you have to stay for that period of time, you have to stay in the US for that period of time, and it's just that's and that's really intense, Like especially if he doesn't have like a team here already and

all that stuff. So, um, the visa option we're going with like gives him the option to be going back and forth between the United States and England, and we both essentially about to do that, and so yeah, I was like, oh my god, while you're waiting to get your green card, you have to stay in the country for like I think some people are waiting at this point with COVID processing times up to three years actually, and you can't leave, Like there's no like going to Mexico,

there's no going to England, there's no going anywhere else. Like you have to say, that sounds very stressful. I'm very glad that I don't have to deal with that. I mean, I can only imagine the stress it puts on your relationship. I can't even not leave the country. I can't. I can't believe that we're it's the two and we're still confined by these imaginary borders that like keep us rooted in certain places. It's like, who cares if you were born in the USA or in England

or anywhere else? Like, why it just sucks that they don't let you move as freely around as we feel like I feel like we should be able to move around, you know what I mean, Yeah, just like a permanent visit. Like I mean, I know that sounds. I'm sure a lot of people like that. That would be like out

of control potentially. I understand why, like some rules are in place, but I'm like, if you can prove that you're in a relationship, like why aren't we just why aren't we just allowing it to be just a little bit longer? Yeah, is a bit intense. I feel a lot of the laws are outdated. I mean, it's just because there should be obviously rules and laws. But I agree with you both, it should be it's a little

outdated right now. Yeah. Yeah. So um, I will say, like England does have a really good health I would say healthcare is like nice, like it's free for everyone and like all that. So maybe later in life I can see myself there. But guys, it is the one thing I have to say about England. I love England so much, like England England till I died, But like there's no sun instead of confect me a lot. And yeah,

it's no Southern California. Yeah, I was born in Florida, like the sun when I was born in Virginia, but I was raised in Florida, the Sunshine State, and then like I'm in California, and so going there. I love England, like I think it's so beautiful, but I'm like, actually a little bit nervous over like a long long periods of time without Son. Well you said that you guys bill see each other moving back there at some point, Yeah,

so what would I would need to be? I would then turn into Dean and I would escape to like Greece or with Son frequently. Yeah, I mean why not. You can become a vagabond. You can even just buy a van and you don't even have to have an address as far as the government is concerned. You're just you know, you're you're not even there, You're just an apparition. Yeah, you're cruising. Um. I will say. One of my best friends moved in London a couple of years ago, and

that was his one big complaint about it. He's like, it's always gloomy, there's never sun, And I'm like, oh, it can't be that bad, but he's like, no, it's bad. It's even worse than you think it could possibly be. So Um, the healthcare is nice, I guess, and he loves the city of London, like I know, I could definitely see living there. So when the side, so it's really beautiful and it's it's really honestly, people like to go there, and especially when you're in l a and

everyone's quite literally on top of each other. Um, to go from here to nobody being around it is actually like a breath of fresh air. When do you guys, when do you guys get to see each other? Now? Each other here for two months January and February, and then I went there for a month in March, and then now we have to wait a certain period of time for him to come back to the US, but they'll be back this summer again for a month. And to also like help me figure out, you know, what

I'm doing with all my stuff in storage here. But I'm really just like, so what do you do in in the time period that he's not here? Because I think a lot of people going through long distance relationships have difficulty not being with their significant others. So how do you and him cope with the fact that like, Okay, I'll see you in three months. Yeah, So basically I keep myself busy, but also we have like certain times

where we talk. It's not super super rigid, like like it's not super strict like it's but it's generally the same time every day. I say good night to him at my two pm mm hmmm, which is like that's weird, and then you wake up and he's already been up for basically an entire day. Yeah, And I also so I say good night to him at two pm, and like, get this, Like imagine I say good night and good

morning in the same day. I'll say good night at two pm, eleven pm, twelve pm rolls around, or eleven PM rolls throughout, but um, I'll be like going to bed around eleven and I'll like text him good morning, and he's texting me good morning. So like that's eight hours, like literally like eight hours happens, and by day it's like two pm and like good night and eleven PM.

I'm like good morning in the same day. And that's it's kind of cool too, because then you gotta wake up at your eight am or whatever it is, and you got to ask him about his whole day and he can fill you in on a whole day's worth of information. Usually he's like, I've got one whole left in golf. Oh nice, that's all. That's right. He was a golfer. We were supposed to play golf that one were not the one time, but I do remember talking

about that. Yeah, He'll be like I'm on my last hole and I'm like, all right, good morning, good morning. Oh my gosh, you guys. Well, that's gonna do it for this episode. We're gonna keep Katie around. We are going to have a great guest coming up here in our next episode coming out later this week. Um so, Katie, thank you for joining us this week, but you're not

going anywhere, so don't turn off your zoom yet. Um We're going to take a break and be sure tune in next episode because maybe we suck a little bit less. Follow hell by Suck at Dating on I Heart Radio or wherever you listen to podcast.