STBYM Listener Mail Extravaganza

lot and express ourselves. But Arnie, poor Arnie, the robot just kind of comes back and forth on his little wheels and that's about it. Yeah. So so co come on over here, Arnie. How's how's it going? Well? Yeah, yeah, I know, I know, we we we haven't had as much time for the listener mail recently. That's what this episode is all about. So this time you're you can be more part of the episode, and you can you

can share more of the listener mail. So so let us let us have some what have you got here? That's interesting? Arnie? You don't need to stand so close all This first one comes to us from Paul Paul writes, and it says, Hi, Robert and Julie, I'm a long time listener and have been wanting to write you guys for a long time and just never got around to it. I just listened to your Healing Power of Laughter podcast and I wanted to let you know how inspired it

made me. I am a combat medic in the U. S. Army and I am going through the process of getting medically retired. I am lucky enough to be doing this in a specialized unit called the Warrior Transition Unit. This unit is special because it allows soldiers to do whatever it takes to heal. One of the newest programs they have implemented is recovery through music, guitar lessons, piano, et cetera. So I know that they are willing to think outside

of the box when it comes to healing. Your podcast pushed me to try to create a program that connects soldiers with comedians and teaches them to laugh and make others laugh. It's going to be complex and take some work to develop on my part, but I think in the end it will be a great program. I love your show and couldn't do this without your inspiration. I listen to you guys on my forty minute drive to work, and you make it fly by. Thanks Paul. Oh that's

really cool. Yeah. Oh, but and he was in the hundred airborne by the way, that is very cool and I love that he put that together. I do wonder if he is about to look into laughter yoga as well, which in this case, I would say, yes, I think

laughter yoga would be very helpful. Yeah. Yeah, I mean, I think that the great thing about the program, like you said, it's it's showing that they're willing to think out the outside of the box about healing, and it shows more of a focus on actually healing people instead of going through just a regimented process to be like all right, step one, two three, you should be healed by now, how you know, go out and live your life. It's it's more it seems more results oriented, which I

think is great. Well, and you had brought up and we were talking about stress and stress being that paper tiger um that that puts us on all alerts, and how laughing is one of those things can that that can be that chemical release, that the way that you can return your blood pressure to normal, and the way that you can sort of vanquish all those chemicals that are building up the cortisol and so on and so forth in your body. So very cool stuff to hear about.

And m Paul, please let us know how that turns out. Yeah for sure. All right, here we have another one. This one is from Chris and Baton Rouge, and Chris says, Hi, I've been listening to you guys for a while, and for my obligatory comment, you two have very soothing voices. And don't take this the wrong way, but I often

listen to your podcast as I go to sleep. We've heard that from people before, which I I never take it the wrong way, but it does make me want to do a podcast where we talk softer and softer and softer and then either you're very sleepy right now, yeah, and then and then start messing with them, either with loud noises or just nightmare inducing like I said, Yeah, I hope nobody's sleeping right now and they just bolted

up in their beds. Chris continues and he says, Anyway, recently I listened to your podcasts on the Dark Side of Creativity, and let me say mission accomplished. You successfully blew my mind. What you described was me exactly. The analogy of the flashlight view and the lantern view was perfect. This was especially important to me because I feel it's hard to explain to others my mind mindset, and often I get frustrated with others not trying to get all

the facts or look at the whole picture. But I do envy other mindsets because they are sure and uh, and that they're better at shooting straightforward down a path to a destination. Well, I seem to be forever scheduling searching for the best destination, if that makes any sense. Sincerely, Chris and Baton Rouge. I think that's uh, that's really fascinating. I think it also. I mean, as we talked before, I mean you really need the different types of viewpoint

in life. I mean the people who have the flashlight view, Arguably they might not it might not be the best view for like a full experience of the universe or you know, or what have you. But in terms of say getting done with the task on the other end

of that flashlight that's great. Likewise, people with more of this lantern view of the universe, um, you know, that may be great for for bursts of creativity and whatnot, but maybe it means you can't focus as well on a given test, so nothing to trade off with both.

Now the origins of those terms, um, I think we have to talk about Alison got Nick, and she is the child psychologist who who talks about how kids have this highly creative mind, in particular babies because they have that lantern view because they are more aware than adults and they're streaming all of this stimuli. And um, so that's kind of what we were talking about. We were talking about the dark side of creativity or not necessarily

dark set of creativity, which is creativity in general. Is this ability to tap into that and to not let those details that are all around us at all times just fly by, to be able to consider these things and and um find sort of unique meaning in them. Yeah, alright. This next one comes to us from a listener by the name of Jim. Jim written to us before and he has a book recommendation for everyone. He says, Robert and Julie, about a year ago you did a podcast

on whether mathematics was an invention or discovery. I wrote to you shortly after that that, placing myself mostly in the invention camp. I would like to update my position based upon a book I received for Christmas, The Joy of X by Steven Strogatz, an applied mathematic it's professor at Cornell. On page five, Dr Strogatz, who is a regular contributor to Radio ad right to following. Math always

involves both invention and discovery. We invent the concepts but discover their consequences, as we'll see in the coming chapters. In mathematics, our freedom lies in the questions we ask and how we pursue them, but not in the answers awaiting us. So, uh, yeah, that sounds like a very interesting text. Well, I don't have to pick up the

next time I get on a mathematics kick. Yeah. I was talking to my friend Maria um over the weekend, and she is a mathematician and she actually she teaches in Germany now, but she teaches UM math to to physics students, and she was saying she was kind of talking about some of her interests in her field, and she was talking about infinity, and so I, who don't have a very large mathematics background, and said, look, don't strike me down for saying this, but a lot of

what you're talking about releasing very philosophical, and she said, yes, yes, that a lot of people don't realize that when they're talking about math, they are in a sense talking about philosophy, albeit in another language. All right, well, this one comes to us from Charles. Charles writes in, and uh and

he isn't. He's writing in response to our Splendid Isolation podcast a while back, where we talked about how isolation affects us and about how there's with many of us, there's this desire for it, like, oh, I don't I don't have enough alone time in my life, and then if you have too much alone time, then you start going a little crazy sometimes. And we talked about it too in the context of Astronauts, right, yes, yeah, so, Charles writes in and says, Robert and Julie, I enjoyed

listening to your podcast Splendid Isolation. I found the concept so intriguing that I decided I'd like to try it myself for a full year. In June two thousand twelve, at the age of forty, I charted a boat to drop me off on an uninhabited island in Alaska with my dog, a goat and supplies. This was my first time to the island. I found a good spot to build and erected a seventy seven square foot cabin. I've encountered hurricane force winds, heavy snow, constant rain, and had

to bear encounters while filming everything. Besides a few chance encounters with hunters and vacationers, I've been completely alone for six months. As of last Friday, I post updates on Facebook on the Alaskan Pioneer page and uh if you want to visit that, that's Facebook dot com slash Alaskan Pioneer. One word, he says. While I do have limited communication, the isolation has had some interesting effects on my cognition and emotions. It's increased my sleep, impaired my memory, and

at times increases aggression and vigilance. My mood has remained consistently positive, however, and I've experienced no sense of loneliness. I've long wondered what it would be like to live alone in the wilderness for a full year, and now I am finding out. While I look forward to returning to society next summer, I suspect it will be difficult to leave. I look forward to sharing my footage of my time here when I returned. Thanks again for the

fun podcast, Charles. Wow, indeed that I mean, that's a lot to take in, and that is amazing and and uh I I know I had talked about like living on a boat with one of my dreams, but that is sort of one of my dreams too, is to go off and to to be able to not like leave my family necessarily. But there's a fantasy in being able to go off and know what it feels like to rely on yourself and to be out in the wilderness. And that's just an amazing plug and everything. I think

it's neat that he brought. He brought a dog and the goat. I'm assuming he did not eat these say that they're both alive, they're all doing well. But I feel like that would help enormously, like having some sort of, you know, a companion, even if it's not human. We've talked before about how how intense and how emotional our relationships with pets can be, and and goats have a

lot of character. I love goats. Joe's Carol Oates has a short story about a lighthousekeeper in the eighteen hundreds, and I believe at the point where the dog runs off. That's when his madness sort of give us into effect. But anyway, that that that's of course the eighteen hundreds and Charles, you sound like you're having a wonderful time, and I really I think this is wonderful. I'm living

vicariously through you. Um did he say the Facebook page is Alaskan Frontier, Alaskan Pioneer, Pioneer excuse me, Yeah, but I definitely have to check that out. Oh and speaking of Joyce Carol Oates, real quick, have you been following her Twitter? I have. It's awesome. Yeah. I think she

maybe the best Twitter account out there. I was telling someone the other day, like, if you just have to do one Twitter account and just mean besides ours, right, Um, you know, check it out because she always has something terribly interesting to say. It is it's it's always interesting and insightful, and I wish more more Twitter feeds were like hers. Alright, here we have a couple of emails

regarding our recent Hallucinations episode. Now, this first one comes to us from Justin Justin Wrightson and says, Hi, Robert and Julie, I recently listened to the leprechn Hallucinations podcast and wanted to share something from my childhood. When my brother and I were younger, we would infrequently get what we called small vision. For a short time, everything in the world would seem to be smaller, further away than

it really was. You could even put your hands in front of you and your arms would seem much longer than they should be. This would be accompanied by a slight pain pressure at the back of the head. I believe this is where the visual cortex is located. I have no idea why this happened, but it sounded a lot like Alice in Wonderland syndrome you described in the podcast. Until not now, I had never heard of anyone else

experiencing something like this. Thanks for sharing the information with your listeners and giving me a little more perspective on my own experience. Wow, that's pretty pretty fascinating. Um. Yeah, I mean it does sound a lot like the Allison Wonderland UH syndrome about some of the lillipution of hallucinations we were describing, where it starts messing with the way

you're perceiving the size of objects and distances. Yeah, and so it's interesting that the visual cortex was brought up right, because just to root everybody back in that podcast for context we talked about is that when your vision is impaired um in a variety of different situations, your brain doesn't like, uh, the void and will begin to construct images for it. So that's why these hallucinations occur. And uh, yes,

it's very interesting to hear about that account. There anything talking about the pain that accompanied it, which which brings to mind like a small like I haven't even I haven't researched this. Perhaps there's a there's a miracle blog post out there that explains at all. But we've all, at some point the other probably tried to bend spoon with our mind or move it with our mind. Have you done this, tried to do something psychically? Yeah, it

was probably. It was probably like when I was yesterday. Yeah, But when you do it, did you you inevitably start to feel strain. You feel something straining, You feel like a slight I'm trying too hard? What what where is that taking place? What are we straining? I have a feeling. Maybe it's just something as simple as we're we're straining our vision because we're kind of thinking hard, we're kind

of squinting, but but I don't know. It got me thinking it's like if because if I can't do something, I shouldn't feel the strain of trying to do it. I wonder if your pupils dilate and tried to take in more light. I have a feeling it's eye related, But if anybody has any any feedback on that, I'd be interested to hear. Like I said, I haven't looked into it, but just thought about it the other day in the car Car Thoughts with Robert Lamb. All right,

this one comes to us from Tony. Tony says, hey, guys, love the podcast. Great topics to get me through my long walks on this very large campus of Michigan State and my long meals in the cafeteria Go meals. Fun fact, Brody Hall, an area of dorms on the northwest side of campus, actually houses the largest non military cafeteria in

America and maybe the world. I'm not sure, but anyway, I was listening to your lepro Con Hallucinations episode and I actually experienced very bizarre and usually arguably terrifying hallucinations When I slip into a lucid dream. I think lucid dreaming is an interesting category of hallucination because you were dreaming, but you are aware of it, and in many cases you're able to control what goes on. Usually, when I dream lucidly, I like to take a back seat and

let my mind unwind the story. But there are sometimes when things will pop up that are very jarring, and I typically undergo a fight or flight reaction in this dream dreamland, it stays asleep or wake up. I don't dream lucidly very often, maybe two to three times a month at most, but I've had some very bizarre encounters with interesting creatures popping up. For instance, about a week ago, I was dreaming that I was sitting in a room

and there was a rain storm. It wasn't actually raining at the time, and I was really just enjoying my night in content. Then a very large thunderclap echoes through my mind, most likely a door slamming down the hall in my dorm, and the lights uh in my dream go out, but I can still see they various shapes

and shadows. I then turn and look to the left physically and mentally and see a large dark shadows standing in the doorway which I am concluding is the dresser that is in the exact spot I was looking, So I immediately think wake up, but instead I slipped into sleep paralysis, which if you have ever never experienced, is extremely bizarre. When I experienced sleep paralysis, I am still able to move, but only very slowly, or so it

seems from my perspective in the dream. I wonder if brain activity is so high or low that I am actually moving normal, but but the speed is perceived as slow. I am also able to open my eyes see the world, but not actually be awake. It's easily, easily the weirdest visual experience. So this dark figure appears, walks towards me, and my body feels like it feels like it's under immense pressure. I try to raise my arms, but it takes ten minutes. My eyes are open, but I still

can't wake up. The figure is almost there, and then out of nowhere, I'm awake with the most intense body tingle and an elevated heart rate. Maybe it doesn't technically classify as hallucinating, but I think it does. Again, thanks for the cool topics, Love you guys. Tony. Well, that's that is fascinating because for the most part. What we're talking about there in an example isn't a hallucination, but

it is. It is sleep paralysis, which we have talked about before in its relation to paranormal experience, which is also something that relates to hallucination experiences where something unreal happens, but but it feels real and it's observed as real. Yeah, when first is used the concept at the beginning of that email, I wasn't quite sure that that it could

be a hallucination. But in describing that, yeah, I mean because you talk about sleep paralysis in the problem with that is that your brain has not quite come back online with your body. Because the idea is when you're dreaming, you may be throwing kung fu chops and kicks everywhere, but it's kind of like a simulation. You don't need to actually throw kung fu chops around, So your body is under lockdown, and when sleep prolysis occurs, your mind

wakes up, but your body is still locked down. Right, So if you're receiving data again from your eyes visual cortex that isn't driving with the rest of your experience, then you know again the brain abhores avoid and it will fill in for you, So I do kind of like I said, I wasn't quite sure the beginning, but in the description of Chinese experience, I see how that is a possibility. Um, it would be very interesting to see some sort of mri I studies that could correlate

with that. Of course, then you'd have to do someone into loosen dreaming and then sleep. But the graalsa the great thing here. It's Tony is applying critical thinking to an experience that in other cases might be perceived as something supernatural or abnormal. I mean it's still terrifying obviously, but he was able to afterwards realize, oh, well, what's going on. There's a scientific explanation for it, all right.

Here's one from Michela Mickello writes in in a response to our PoCA episode, and she says, love the podcast. I had my own experience with PoCA during my second pregnancy. I craved I so strongly I started bringing cups of it to work with me from home to keep up with the demand. The weirder craving was was of a smell the a c in my car. I would sit in my driveway for fifteen minutes with my nose as close to the then as possible, breathing in the beautiful fragrance.

This became increasingly increasingly hard is my belly group. Almost immediately after having my son, the smell all but disappeared from my radar. My doctor, although pretty surprised at this odd habit, attributed both of these to my anemic status

during my pregnancy. All Right, that is unusual because again when we talk about pica, which I think we were saying pick up by the way, so we have to apologize for that, or I was when you think about it, more is is eating dirt for the nutrients that are inherent there, but not necessarily the ac coming in of the car. I mean, I I love the smell of air conditioning. I can remember that as a child, like loving it, maybe because I liked you know, I like the cool and all, and I didn't like being out

in the sweating heat. But there's something even today, like when you when you reached that point we were suddenly turning the air conditioning back on, kind of like the smell that smells good. I did not even realize that air conditioning had a smell. It does it has. It has a smell and uh and a quite lovely one if you're in if you're in the mood for it. Okay, So now that makes me wonder, is there a large part of the population that likes to smell or conditioning

and can't detect the smell of it? And I believe that I cannot. Well, we talked before. I mean, smell is a powerful thing, and we attached memories to smell that that we almost really can't completely fathom. We've all had that experience where we're walking down the street and we smell something and we're like, and it just takes us back to like a childhood memory, and then we don't even know where the smell came from or even

necessarily what it was. But the press Dan Pressy and a Madeleine's right from the story that he talks about his memory and food. Yeah, I was at a friend's house and they opened up a new board game and I ended up having to like just basically huff the board game box for a little bit because the smell was taking me back to something that I had some positive feelings about with nostalgia for and I think maybe it ended up having the same smell as like dungeons

and dragons manuals from the mid nineties or something. I don't know, I think that's what it was. I couldn't quite put a pin on it, and it's so, you know, it's probably like a weird chemical smell, you know, but it pulled something out of me. Crazy game board sniffer. Yeah, alright, this one comes to us from Antonio. Antonio writes, and it says, Hi, Robert and Julie, my name is Tony, and I just wanted to comment on a podcast you did a couple of months ago about bad neighborhoods and

how people generally don't help to start. I live in a city of about thirty thousand people, so pretty small and not really any bad neighborhoods to speak of. But I recently went to Las Vegas, and it was almost a sickness to me to give money to every homeless person I saw. I believe it is because I live in a place where we don't have a homeless population,

therefore I'm not blind to it. Also, I just watched a show on the Science Channel called Alien Encounters, and it was mentioned that we just might be developing a hive brain mentality with the help of the internet. Um in our smartphones, iPods, etcetera, and how that could greatly help us against not only an alien invasion, but just about any problem human god could face. I'm curious as to what you think about the hive brain versus the

plain old single brain. I love your podcast. I listen to it while I work my factory job, and it keeps me saying in my brain working, keep it up, Tony. So two interesting things. He's he's responding to their one talking about you know what happens when we encounter, you know, say a homeless individual or somebody in need, and how

group dynamics affect that. You know, where if if if you're seeing other people pass them by, then it kind of becomes the norm and you want to and a lot of times you feel like you need to keep with the norm, or if there's kind of a culture of not helping, you know, versus versus other environments where you're going to be more in close proximity and they

seem more human to you strangers in general. Yeah, we've seen this in countless experiments, whether conducted on the street or you know, in an instance where someone is placed at a situation where they could give money to another person. But if the other person knew they were giving them money,

then they would give them it. But if they you know, like there's all sorts of they are all sorts of experiments that involve altruism, and it does seem that whoever sort of does the first thing dictates what the protocol will be. So if you help that stringer industry, other

people will follow suit. Yeah, we've talked about this too in terms of corporations and industries large you know, any kind of large social structure where if you have if there's like a caring um culture at the beginning of it and the roots of it, then that tends to carry on out through the company as it grows. But to whatever degree it's not there, then it's not there

in the larger social organism as well. So anyway, it was an interesting email because he really drives home like two aspects of the group think and uh and this hive mind the idea that it can it can lead to some great things, some some bringing together of ideas, our potential to better the world and potentially protected against an alien invasion, but also in our ability to all decide not to do anything for someone that needs help. Well, now, also,

I think points towards the self organizing nature. And I always think about this whenever I get an elevator. Now, since we did the podcast on elevators, and you watch people come in and see how they organize themselves, and over and over again people will self organize into these certain configurations. So um for of these invisible forces always at play, and we just don't always realize it, all right,

And here's a one from a listener. Eric Eric writes in and says on the subject of laboring, labeling food with gross names, like writing cloaca cake on a cake. My mother came up with a recipe she calls garbage can casserole. She invented it shortly after getting married. She had a can of soup, some chicken, and a little bit of other food, but not really enough of one

thing to make a meal for two people. It's basically a chicken casserole with cream of chicken and cream of mushroom soup right from the can without deluding it so it stays thick chow, maine noodles, water, chestnuts, and quote unquote other stuff, topped with corn flakes and baked. She says, it makes it. It makes you clean out your refrigerator, and anything that's not green and fuzzy it goes into

the dish. It's not quite that easy, but the other stuff usually consists of different vegetables like peas, green beans, and or a corn i ate. It a lot growing up, and despite its name, it's one of my favorites. I usually make it for potlock parties and it's almost always gone by the end, so long as I don't display

it with the name garbage can cast role. I've tried displaying it with that name in the past as an experiment, and if I do, it's almost always untouched, except for the helping I took for myself to show it was tried. So there you go. Eric has already done this experiment that we were talking about to it to a certain extent. Call it garbage cat roll. Who's gonna eat it? Call it, you know, beautiful cast role or just cast role and

then country cast role. People will go for it. You see the same thing with with some fish species, right you have fish where it's like if it's called a slime head or if it's called a dolphin. Because we have the fish that is the dolphin as well as the mammalian dolphin. People are going to be hesitant to eat it, but you rebrand it as something I forget what the slimehead brand it has, but with the dolphin

became my ma right yeah, yeah, um, it's true. Yeah, So I still want to do the I think we should. I think we should do it. We should film it and uh and see see how it pans out here in the office. All right, So there you go. Um, robot, do you do you feel better about things now? Look good? Good? Yes? Well I love you too, all right, and we love you, guys, I love you. This is a lot about just sharing some of your feedback with everybody else. And we love

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