1433 - Jess and James Recently Started Hotwifing

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They are super fun. Oh my god, there are a couple of times with James and I'm just like, What the fuck? He's so funny. There's a couple of things that I was like, Oh, I can't believe it but it's a fun conversation. James has this wife, Jess, who I'm like, Oh my god, she's so much nicer than me. Uh she's married

they've been together for a very long time and you know, he was always a super jealous, like Latin guy, very possessive of her and stuff. But eventually he started, like a lot of guys, like kind of getting into watching

videos online of like guys, wives with other guys and he started getting into that kink, which was so even surprising for him, right?'Cause he's like a super jealous guy. Uh and then he eventually and he tells the whole long winded story. I'm just telling you the short version. He eventually tells her She eventually decides to be okay with it and try it out and they wind up doing it. She's definitely into black eyes. They explain why. Uh she's calls herself like a Queen of Spades Hot Wife now.

She uh has had a bunch of experiences and they go through the first one and then the second one and they talk about all their rules that they had. That's where I go off on James. Wait till you hear one of his rules he had for her and how nice she was about it and then And they talk about how it has affected their relationship and how things have changed.

They eventually did start on OnlyFans and an Instagram. I will put the name of it and they give a shout out to it at the end. But the whole their whole story of how they went from being like a vanilla couple and they had actually, I forgot about this. In the beginning, after they had kids, they did get like have issues with just really not being into sex. And she eventually went on testosterone therapy and she talks about that.

as well. And that's super interesting too. So anyway their whole story is interesting. They're a fun couple to talk to. They both called in together. Uh, I have hot pics of Jess over on my Patreon. You could sign up there to see pics of her and all my other guests. Um but anyway, I'm gonna get right to it and be right back on with James and Jess.

Hi, James and Jess. You guys are both sitting in a car ready to talk to me. That I can't tell you how many people are doing that. I always make jokes that people are either cheating. Adults, the only things they do in their car is drive to their destination, cheat. with a a partner or they're calling into my show. This is what adults are doing in their car. So many couples are calling me from the car. It's so funny. So is your James and Jess?

Jess is the hot wife, Queen of Spades, Hot Wife, okay. Whatever I put that in a title, people go crazy for it. I don't know. The whole interracial thing is really big, you know. But anyway, I have you both on the call, right? Jess the claims to say the clith seems to think she's a bad storyteller, but we'll s we'll see, okay, Jess. We definitely want to hear from you, okay, so make sure to chime in.

and talk, but like where do you guys want to start? First of all, like w tell me first, you guys, like how long you've been married and how long you guys been together and how around how old are you? Okay. So we're in our mid forties, our forties, let's say. And uh she's slightly a little bit older than I am. You like the older women? Uh, I don't know that that's what it was. She pursued me, I would say. No, I like it. So Jess is not a good storyteller, but she's aggressive. Yeah. For twenty.

Okay. And so before you guys got into this, what was your like, you know, life in the bedroom like So so our so our bedroom life it How can I say it started off spicy? Uh huh. first when we first met, uh we were having sex everywhere. Like it was uh Just, you know, by the by the lake in a car, you know. In the car. During during the day. Yeah. You know, in front of my parents' house, you know, crazy shit like that.

You just couldn't keep your hands off each other. I feel like that's how it should be in the beginning, right? Right, right. And then kids. You know the whole kids thing? Oh I know. Yeah. Yeah. And then for many years, I would say uh it was just we were kind of just going through the motions, you know. Yeah. How many kids did you have? It was so good. Yeah, I mean it wasn't bad. Sex sex was good, but it wasn't great, I would say. It wasn't the way it is now where it's just like amazing. Right.

So and I used to be a super jealous person. Right? The the typical story is I was a super jealous guy. Like if anyone even oggled your girl, would you get pissed off? Oh yeah. Yeah. Oh yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah. I was I was constantly looking to see who was looking at my girl. You know she She's a Latina with a big ol' booty.

Yeah, so you know guys are checking her out. Exactly. And I was young and dumb, you know, full of testosterone, you know, that and uh And you're Latina too, you're a Latin too. Millas. 'Cause so it's your culture, uh don't you think a little bit to be very possessive and jealous and hot headed. Yeah. Yeah, possessive for sure. I saw her more as like a possessive Yeah, yeah. It's I think it's a part of your culture a little bit.

Exactly. Yeah, I hate to yeah, it's a it's a bad thing, but and I guess the older that I got I you know, I just started realizing certain things. It just it you know, stuff like that is just nonsense, you know? Bye. But in a way, you know, I'cause I would question her about, you know, her, you know, boyfriends that she had had, you know, and I know that in my head it was like turning me on, you know, uh like I'm saying the typical story that you hear on all your shows. It would turn me on.

Were you even surprised by that? I was. I was very I was like, what the hell is going on? Yeah. To myself, right. Mm-hmm. Yes. And uh and so it just went on that way. And we got to a point where I noticed that we were having sex but it was mainly for me. I could feel like she was

She was just doing it for me. She wasn't trying to get off. And I was good at first and then I was and then later I was like, No, I don't I don't like this. I I want her to get off. Like that's my whole thing is You know. I think most guys are like that. That's what I say all the time and I think it's very true. People tend to think guys are super gel like super selfish and bad but typically I think a men really want to please a woman. It gets their it feeds their ego, right?

For for sure. Yes. Yes, yeah. And uh so so then so she would tell me, you know, that she had very low energy. you know, just didn't she's like, I wanna have sex with you, but I just don't feel the drive. And, you know, I had li I think I had listened to your podcast. And then other podcasts as well and you know, they were talking about getting women on testosterone and and I I take ta you know, you're gonna frown on this. You're gonna frown on this big time. No.

But well, I don't know that we started this way. But anyway, I I did have her go to the doctor and uh the doctor's a buddy of mine and uh we kinda, you know, told him the whole thing and he agreed, you know, to get her on test. And so so I started and she was okay with it. I was super nervous about that, like even bringing that up to her because I thought she was gonna shoot it down and she was gonna be like, No, no, no, you know. And

Jess, you were like you were down. You wanted to get your sex try back. Yes, yes. Because I mean, like you said, it was super hot at the beginning and then of course, you know, I became a mom and we had kids and and I still wanted to please him because I've always been the type of person that's like You know, they say happy wife, happy life, but no, it's happy husband, happy wife, happy life.

Everyone needs to be happy. Yeah. Yes, you keep him happy and he's gonna you know, do everything to make you happy. I always try to make him happy at home and it was just hard because I didn't have the energy, I didn't have the drive, but I wanted to please him. And all that is testosterone, especially because you're saying energy too, you know? That's all testosterone.

Yeah, so as soon as I mentioned it to the doctor I said, I don't really have a sex drive I said, And and I'm just tired and he said, You're no on testosterone and I said, You know what? That's what my husband said. Had me do blood work and sure enough, he put me on testosterone and And it was great. It was great. Immediately. It was great. How did you take your testosterone? Was it a cream? Was it a No. Субтитры сделал DimaTorzok Like in between the thighs.

And I was on that for a couple of years and after a while it started kinda not working as good. Mm-hmm. And so I went back and he said, You know what? We need to do like an injection. Yeah. And he's like it'll be very minimal. And I was just afraid of the side effects, you know? And so at first he had me on quite a bit, so I was having the side effect. What were the side effects? Well the breakouts and the just a little bit. Oh yeah, that's how you say it.

I'm wanted hair, you know, certain things like that. Yep. And we we backed off a little bit and so finally I think I'm at the point where I'm good now because I don't have the breakouts anymore and you know, everything else. Dial'cause you gotta dial in. And so it I mean I take very little, but it we were taking it twice a week. But what was I gonna hate you for? You haven't told me yet. Did you just start dipping into her objections or something?

Well it's I I forgot that we did go to the doctor and all that, but there was a there was at a point where I think she stopped the cream and she used a little bit of my That's all. Maybe that's why she was breaking out. Listen, Kathy, I know I I I know you frown on that, but listen, it's the exact same thing. It is. Mine's mine's prescribed as well and it's sustained bottle. You know, you just give her

No, but I know, but is i you when you look at the formula, sometimes it's like five milligrams of this amount. I can't explain it, but it's okay. You're past that now. She's being dosed by the doctors, right? We could just forget this. Okay. So then I did mention it to the doctor and he said if you want to try a little bit of your husband's like a little one Uh stop. I can't even handle doctors that say shit like that. I said, okay, we'll try it and we tried it and sure enough and it worked.

Okay, no. I cannot promote anyone using anyone else's medication. Yeah, I definitely. But I can promote Yeah, no, no. I can promote testosterone for women. It does work. And it was a ch game changer for you, right? Yeah. And men too. It saves marriage just to blackwill. For yeah, for sure, for sure. Okay, so now you're on testosterone, you're back to being horny. Yeah, so then our sex just, you know, was back to normal again. Well, p above normal. It was she was wanting to fuck in the mornings.

And at night. Every morning and every night. Yes. Yeah. And so I would still so I would still watch porn every now and then. You know? You know, because obviously we're you know, we're parents and sometimes one parent is angry, the other one's you know, it's not all Still watch porn separately. I mean I think it's more normal. Well, you know, and at the time she was still a little bit against it. against it because I felt like I should be the one turning you on and I should be the

Oh my God. That has nothing. It doesn't mean that he's not turned on by. Absolutely not. Oh, my mentality's completely different. I was I'm super uptight. So how I got here, it's on him. Right. Super uptight, super shy, you know, and so this kinda brought me out of my show, I guess. All right guys, you wanna feel both fully on and ready both mentally and physically in the bedroom.

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Ja. Well, you know, and at the time she was still a little bit against it. against it because I felt like I should be the one turning you on and I should be Oh my God, that has nothing it doesn't mean it doesn't mean that he's not turned on black. Absolutely not. Oh, my mentality's completely different. I was I'm super uptight. So how I got here, it's on him. Right, right. super uptight, super shy, you know, and so this kinda brought me out of my show, I guess. You know?

Anyway. Yeah. Yeah. So so then I ran across Some porn where a guy was recording his wife getting fucked. I can say fucked, right? Yeah, so you can. And I thought, wow, what a weirdo, you know, I was You know, it wasn't what I I was thinking like, what a simp, you know what I mean? Uh it I had that mentality, right? Totally. Yeah.

And and then I just found myself that I just kept watching it. And I'm like, Why am I still watching it? And then eventually it was like, Oh well, this is kinda hot. It's kinda hot if you like

set everything aside and I'm like you know, and the girl was super into it. It was a black guy that was fucking her, but it's uh and that's not the whole thing about it, right? It's just what they were doing and I thought well it was super naughty and it and it is kind of hot And I got to a point where I would I was going to that video, but I would imagine my wife in that scenario. Uh-huh.

I was imagining my wife the whole time. I didn't care whatever girl that was. I I was imagining my wife in that situation and it just progressed I guess into a thing where it was like I want this to happen. I I need this to be my wife. And uh we went for a while, you know, just doing our wild stuff because once she got on testosterone, once again, you know, we were fucking outside of the truck, you know, on the side of the road.

You're having fun again. Like it revived it revived your sex life. That's how it should be. You're married. He travels a lot for work and I go with him and that's actually what we're doing now. We're on we're traveling, that's why we're in the vehicle having this interview. Uhhuh. And so th that's why he's saying like in the vehicle and outside the vehicle, I mean we would pull over everywhere just You know, because Yeah. There's always so much you can do. Um, right.

Yeah, this is like our time away where we can do all our crazy stuff. So do you w do you wind up copying to her that this is like what you're secretly watching and into eventually, I would assume. Not not really. Not really. What I did do is one night we were traveling and, you know, it was late at night it was like two in the morning. And, you know, you start talking about, you know

naughty things and so we I was talking because I kinda I wanted to bring it up and what I brought up to her was a fantasy. I said I asked her, I said, what you know, do you have any type of fantasies? And my wife is like super vanilla and stuff. Quick point. So she was like, No, nothing.

I was like, okay. I was like, well, you know, and the typical thing is like I was afraid that she was gonna be like, is he gay? You're like, why is he why is he wanting to do this? you know, and so I went ahead and told her, I was like, Hey, like, I've got a fantasy, I'm like, for threesome.

But it's not the type of threesome that you think. Said I I I'm I would I would like to you know for it to be you and me and another guy. Yeah, sure. Yeah. She was very surprised. You know, but I was I would get into detail about it and, you know, I could tell that it would turn her off. And but at the same time she would question me you know, thinking that that I was just that it was like a way in for me to try to get a girl

Totally. That's what everyone says. Jesse, let me Jess, let me hear from you. Like what were those thoughts going through your mind when your husband comes to this? Because listen, the only reason why I know this this is a kink and it's so popular is because I do my show. But when I was outside of my show I would

I would be uh shocked if some guy came and told me that because not one guy ever in my life ever said that, including the guy that just told me he was into it and I was always his best friend. So, you know, I don't think that w most people know that this is something that guys are into. So when he first comes to you and tells you that You kinda think it's like a trap for him to get like the two girl thing going on. Yes, well and especially b coming from a person that was so jealous Control.

with a relationship. You know what I mean? So I honestly didn't know what to think. At first I thought, Oh my God, is he trying to leave me? Is he trying to test me to see if I'm gonna go along with this and And what's gonna happen or is it because he wants another girl? And I told him, I said, Look, if you want another girl, like I wasn't okay with it at the moment because I was still kinda close minded, you know?

And so I told him I was like, If you want another girl, I said, I mean, you can try it. I don't know. I'm not I'm not bi, you know, but I was like, We can kind of try it, I guess. But I wasn't really completely open to it. You know, like I wasn't expecting it to happen like right away or anything like that. Right. But you couldn't believe what he was putting out there. Like even though he's telling you I this is what I like, you're thinking it has to be something else other than this.

Uhhuh. And so it it I mean, we just kept going with the conversations and You know, every time we traveled we'd we'd bring up those conversations because that was that's what would keep us up at night because sometimes we travel through the night. And so it was always our conversations and more and more he kept saying it and I thought, oh my gosh, he's serious.

He's really serious about this and without how is he gonna let someone else touch me if he used to be so jealous and like he said he used to question my past, you know, and I didn't have a big past or anything. I just had a you know, a couple of boyfriends. And so he would question those and I kept thinking, Oh my gosh, he's just Testing me right now to see what I say.

Or like it sounds like a trap, right? Like you're gonna you're gonna give him what he wants and he's gonna get upset. There's no way, right? Yeah. Be afraid too. Yes. But no, I mean it wasn't that wasn't the case. Yeah, I was I was being a hundred percent. And I didn't bring it up to her until I knew that I was like at least ninety percent sure about what I wanted us to do.

Right. Because so I would play out the scenario constantly over in my head and think and also think about well what could be the negative part of this and like like I thought to myself, Okay, the worst thing that could happen is She can really dig the guy that she's fucking and then she can run off. And you know what? If that's what it is, you know, what what am I gonna do? You you know, you just gotta keep living life. Right. It's It's not over. You know, life's not over.

Right. But that's a logical thing to think of. I mean, uh you know, if i for people that don't think that they're stupid, right? Like you're thinking it all through every angle, right? And that is a possibility. How do you know? You're offering her up to somebody else. Exactly. Right.

And from and for my thing is so I'm I'm an average guy, you know, I've got an average size cock, maybe a little bit above average, but but it's just average, you know, and and so I wanted her to experience You know, but I was watching in porn, you know. Isn't that weird? Every guy is like you. It's like that that's another thing, Jess. Isn't that like the opposite of what you would think you'd want? Someone bigger than him? Like it doesn't make any sense. It's like the upside down world.

It just the whole scenario was just like, What in the world are you saying? As far as like him thinking that I was gonna think he was good, I absolutely did not think that whatsoever. Okay. And then he did show me he started showing me like the videos that he was talking about and I thought, Okay, it looks like she's having fun. It looks like work, but it looks like she's having fun.

And so I still just thought, oh, it's just a fantasy. You know, it's gonna stay as a fantasy. I didn't hear to act out on it. Cảm ơn các bạn đã theo dõi và hẹn gặp lại. Like I said, it was just more for him. If that's what he wanted to do, I thought, okay, but I really didn't think it was gonna we were gonna go through with it, to be honest. Okay. I didn't think it was gonna happen. She thought I was all dark, but I was for real.

Thank you. Okay, keep going. How does it progress? This is like the super interesting start, right? Because that everybody that hasn't started yet, like these are the moments that changes everything, right? Right. And so the second step is to just is to look for a guy. And Well when did you say, okay, let's do this in real life? She pretty what, like maybe three months in? We talked about it a lot. Because we didn't actually do anything until like a year later.

Yeah, but you had agreed to it though. Yes, because I thought it we I thought he was just bluffing. So you're just like yeah, okay, we'll do it, fine. But you didn't think it was gonna act. Yeah, because I was like I was like he's full of it. He's not gonna go through with it. Well, I mean he he you set up the Instagram account.

Well first he used to s he used to take video of us while we were having sex and I sometimes didn't really pay attention. Like I was all into it and he had already set up something and I'm like, What in the world? You're recording? He's like, Yes. Oh my god. figure, you know, about my body. And and uh he was loving it. He you know, he would record us and You know, since the videos were just for him I thought, Well, okay, it's fine, you know. He would take So go ahead with the

This is interesting. What what's what's what's wrong with that? No, it's'cause she's going off into the fact that she's got an only fan you know, into how she got into that, but we're still on the hot lifing part. I know but this was the part that got us

There. Right. Cause you start before you hook up with a guy. He starts put wait, but listen to me, you guys. Before you hook up with a guy, you do start this Instagram account with these videos or pictures, right? Okay, so that's important to start. Yeah. And this was behind my back. He went off and

It's easy. So he set up an Instagram account because I would tell him, you know, I was so insecure about my body, about myself and he was like, No, you have this amazing butt and all this stuff and I was like, It's just you. It's just you thinking that. Cảm ơn các bạn đã theo dõi và hẹn gặp lại. Let me tell this story because she talks down about herself a lot and I don't like it because she's amazing. But anyway.

So the thing is she used to so what she used to do is she used to always be like bent over on the bed. She's got this big old booty. And she'd be bent over on the bed waiting for me, right? Uh just, you know, once once I'd get out of the shower. And so I would sneak a picture every now and then. And I think I think she knew I was taking pictures that I I catch. And so on Instagram I noticed that there was a lot of girls that were showing their ass and I'm like, Well my wife's ass is

either just like this or better, you know? So so I made an account. I and I don't think that anybody should do this. I just I did it. Is I've set up an account uh and started posting her pics and I wanted her to see the love that she would get on Instagram so she could see that That she's hot, that she's wrong. That she's not right. Right. You want to give her the confidence because you're trying to tell her you're fucking hot and she's not listening to you. Yeah.

Yes. And I wanted to show her that like hey there's other men out here that think you're hot as well. Like Yeah, right. I'm not famous just because I love you. It's because I really, you know, that aside, I think you're hot. Right. So did this, immediately got tons of followers, thousands. And You're kidding. So then I worked up the cards. I was like, you know what? Thank you.

It was less than a month. But anyway, so I worked up the courage to tell her about it. I was like, hey, so I did this and she she was a little bit upset about it, but then quickly got over it. She saw how many she was getting tons of likes and good comments.

So my thing was that I w I it I just didn't want my face to be shown. I didn't want anyone to know it was me. So I was just afraid. But once he showed me that it was just booty picks and you know, just things like that, my face was not being shown. I thought, okay, you know what? That's fine. Right.

You know. Yeah. So so then that progressed to the OnlyFans. Then I told her about OnlyFans. I said, Hey, I think we could we we make money with this with your booty. But uh and so then we opened up the OnlyFans, started doing that. It was decent and uh but the conversations that the guys were having with her, a lot of them were like suggesting that she should be with a black guy. And

Then it just I don't know, it I had already been watching that point as well and I was like, you know, this would be good. And then I guess we're going back and then you know, I brought up the whole thing to her about the threesome and all that and then I guess we

Can move on from there. But uh so so I started looking on Reddit. For a guy. You know, there's certain pages there's certain pages on Reddit that you can look for BBC in Texas. Right. And and so got on there, advertised her and you know Got all kinds of messages. And the sad thing about it is there's a lot of there's a lot of fakes. So many fakes. And a lot of guys are on there that'll post pictures of other guys and say that it's them just to get a picture of your wife.

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So I started looking on Reddit. For a guy. You know, there's certain pages there's certain pages on Reddit that you can look for BBC in Texas. Right. And and so got on there, advertised her and you know, got all kinds of messages. And the sad thing about it is there's a lot of there's a lot of fakes. So many fakes.

And a lot of guys are on there that'll post pictures of other guys and say that it's them just to get a picture of your wife. Right. I n I started getting a whole lot of that. So then I told my wife I said, Hey We're not gonna send pictures of you. We're just gonna, you know, do the whole process and see if they can verify a picture and go from there. So we ended up finding a guy from Houston. I don't know, can we say that? In Houston We're in Texas. But anyway, uh over in Houston and uh

It was a bust, was it? I would say it was a bus right. So we get to a hotel and then he says, I'm gonna have someone come over and I said, What? Oh my god, you don't even know that this is set up? I okay. Like I said, I was still calling his bluff. And I was like Seriously? He's also he's kinda also calling your bluff no b no offense. I kinda Yeah. Come on, you're both calling each other's bluffs. Oh my god.

And he lays out this sexy lingerie on the bed and he's like, All right, go shower and get dressed and I was like, Okay, he's kidding. Like no one's gonna show up. You know, this whole time I'm like No, no, because I thought surely the guy's not gonna show up and surely he's not gonna let someone touch me, right? No, the the guy shows up and I'm nervous. You know, I'm so nervous and the whole time I'm still looking at my husband like, Oh my gosh, we're gonna let him touch me.

Your face, like you're gonna let someone touch me when you you know, the way like I said, the way he was years ago, right? Yeah. And he's like, Yeah, go ahead and I was like, Oh my gosh, well what do I do? You know, I act new to it, like like if I've never had sex basically. And so then he he you know, usually he just

you know, well how we do it is he my husband will come up to me and just kiss me and, you know, kinda get me to calm down a little bit. So that's what we did the first time and and so Just to calm nerves down. But let me ask you this, James, before you explain what goes down during this whole time while you're with this guy. How are you feeling though? Because

Listen, you could go over it in your head a million times. Like are do you have any part of you that's nervous because you don't really know how you're gonna react until you're in this situation. Or had you thought about it so much that you weren't nervous anymore? But did you have any kind of like worry?

I was excited, but yes, I was nervous. Right. first place you got a stranger coming over to an a you know hotel or You don't know if he's gonna kill you. It's gonna be that situation. It's either gonna be real bad or or real fun. And uh Luckily, you know, the guy showed up. He was a decent looking guy. Uh, and it's funny because I guess I had only seen my cock ever, you know what I mean? In real life. Right. Right, exactly. I've never looked anywhere else.

And then so I thought, okay, well I'm surely they've got big cars cool. But yeah, I w I don't think I was ready for what I saw. When he dropped his pants, I was like, Holy shit, like this guy's this guy's fucking huge. Oh my Not really. Yeah, well I'm gonna say yeah he was. He was n like about eight, eight and a half, nine inches, something like that. So it's big. Yeah. But anyway, so he drops his pants or he starts making out with my wife, then he drops his pants. My wife

This is something that I was very surprised. My wife just instantly just dropped to her knees and started sucking his cock and

kinda scripted a little bit. He said, I I want to see this, I want you to do this and I said, Okay. So once we were all in, well Then I went ahead and I mean I did take something to kinda calm my nerves before before he arrived, you know, so so I was kinda relaxed. And so it I mean, it didn't last long. Yeah, so the guy was like a two pump Uh huh.

Yeah. That's that yeah, that was a sad thing is uh as soon as she bent over and he was fucking her doggy like yeah, I'm gonna say it was like two or three pumps. And then he changed. He was done and then after that I think he got nervous.'Cause he was kind of a nerdy guy. Uh and yeah, and then he just got super in his head, I guess, about coming.'Cause we were like we're like that's it you know and he just couldn't get hard anymore And I remember as well, I couldn't get hard either.

Like I was like maybe stopped like halfway. And but I remember I was super turned on of of the whole scenario, but for some reason I just couldn't get hard. And that went away, right? Now now it

No, you're fine. But that first time you had stage. First time yeah, it was just it was It's a lot of emotions, you know, during that that first time, you know. So I feel like It was... good for us to just kinda try it out since it was just like two, three pumps and then he was done and then we were like, okay, get out, you know? Yeah. And then we had six.

was good'cause I don't know if I would have been ready for her to just get pounded for hours and then, you know, the be it being the first time that would be kind of weird. So yeah, it was like baby steps in, I guess, kinda deal. How did you feel afterwards, by the way, James? Like did you f realize okay, wasn't jealous at all, I was totally fine? Yeah, I I was totally good with it. Yeah, I wanted more. I was like, Yeah, we need to we need to do this again. Like

Yes, they've all been black guys. Okay. So I've got this weird thing and I'm I'm not I'm not racist whatsoever, but so a lot of we had a lot of When you follow that with a butt, what the fuck does that mean? Anything followed with a butt is like what the fuck? No. Well the thing is the thing is is we ha we had a lot of Hispanics and a lot of white people and then a lot of black people home message, right?

It doesn't matter if you post on BBC, everybody just starts hitting you up. And so a l I noticed that a lot of the interactions with the Hispanic guys and the white guys, they were super aggressive. And they were like, They're gonna be the best cock that she's ever had. You know, just really, really cocky. Yeah, I'm not sure. I did not exactly it it is especially for her it but for me it's like I already I'm already uh like a I wanna say a macho guy but

I I o I don't wanna be like already you're fucking my wife. I don't wanna be the sissy in the room, you know. I'm not a cook. No, no, I get it. And them saying that makes them you feel like you like You're kinda like I'm already doing that to my wife. You don't need to come in and fucking do that. Yeah, I get it. Yeah. Yeah. You're not gonna be the greatest thing in the world, like it's okay. Yeah. They have no fucking game. That's that's wrong to go in that way. Yeah. It is.

It is. It's super yeah. And for me, I'm like I'm at the point where yeah, that's great if you could do that, but don't say it. Exactly. Imagine you're having a threesome with a girl and the girl says to your wife, Oh my God, don't worry, I'm gonna go in and I'm be the hottest bitch your husband has ever had. You think about the girl would feel. You're like, no ma'am. Yeah, of course. It's like it's just not cool, right? At all. Yeah.

And so I I noticed that. And and the black guys for the most part w I you know, give it there was a few sprinkled in there that had the same attitude. But for the most part, they were super chill. Very respectful. And I'm like, hey, this this is what it is right here. These these but these guys are awesome. Mm-hmm. Yeah. So we're gonna go this route. And then I had heard of the whole Q O S thing and it was exciting. I love

You know,'cause you've talked about it as well. It's like the the whole, you know, the black cock and the white pussy, you know, it's just it goes together for some reason. It just looks hot. Right. It's it's the it's visually very stimulating, correct. Plus you actually like the personality more, right? Like they were they were just cooler. Super chill guys. They're they don't look like they're trying to take your wife away. And also

I've I've listened to me, but still. But so I've I've listened to a lot of your episodes and I've heard I heard w uh a white bull one time. he was kinda bragging about taking his hi the the guy's wife, I guess he was a cook, I don't know what it was, but yeah. He was kinda like bragging about taking the guy's wife. And that's the kind of energy that I'm talking about. I'm like, no, like if he was a real bull, a real bull doesn't do that. Right.

But I gotta say though, but if in that story the wife's husband was a cuck, that's what the the extreme cuck does want. Okay. That's what that cuck wants. You're not a cuck, you're a stag, right? So you're not looking for that. Right. Mm-hmm. Yeah yeah, I guess so that's what but you know, and don't get me wrong, also uh the the the gangbang guys you had a group on who's the gangbang guys. Oh, the one guy that runs all of them. Oh my God.

I guess he sets up gangbands as like a whole group of black guys. He I think he seemed like he's yeah, I think he was an older gentleman. Yeah. But he seemed he I felt like he could have done a better job. He seemed way too excited. I'm like, dude, just calm down. He was all over the place, yeah. Was he was he was way too excited to see oh a wife naked. It's like, dude, you're you know, you've been there, like it's okay.

But anyway, for the most part that's like that's why I love what we do these Well tell me about your second, third experience. Like when did it start getting good? Well, imm immediately the second guy. The second guy she met up with was great. Like this guy Right. It was a it was a couple of months later. Uh because we live out in the out of nowhere and so we're like several hours from Dallas. So the guy we met up with next was over in Dallas.

And uh yeah, super cool guy, chill, and huge cock, and he knew so a lot of things also is these guys they think. Because she has had bad experiences, you know, where it just looks like a mess. It just looks like two people clashing bodies. Yeah. And so the second guy, he was just in motion with her. He was doing exactly what he needed to do. Yeah. And like you said, I did get a little bit so we had restrictions.

We I did have certain rules. It wasn't just ev everything goes And so I cut it off I cut it off too soon because I could tell that she was getting really turned on and it almost seemed like she was about to come. And I was like, okay, we're done. That was one of our... It was an asshole it was an asshole move. So that was all on me is so we had a rule that she couldn't come. Also not really any like eye contact while she was

Stuck in their cock, like no eye contact. Uhhuh. I don't know. It was it was rules that are out the window now. Like The eye contact one I've heard before. It's not as out there. Like of course the kissing one's always the the first to come in and first to go, but I've heard of the no the eye contact thing before. That's out the window too. Yeah, oh for sure. It's way hotter if she gives them eye contact now. Like you know,'cause I take video we take video of all these meetups, like

And that just that's way hotter. Yeah. And at the time I didn't, you know, it was still my ego that was had these restrictions, right? And and yeah, like I said, now they're out the window. I think there was no kissing as well, right? In the beginning. think so. Yeah, and so yeah, that's all gone. I mean there was a lot of roles. He had a lot of roles. Yeah. What were some of the other ones? Do you remember Jazz? Well well listen there's a lot of rules for the guys because

So we s some of these guys would show up like in Crocs. Uh you know, just not put together at all. Maybe maybe not freshly out of the shower. Oh my god, yeah. You know, my biggest pet ease is the white dirty sauce. White socks, please let the let it be a clean pair of socks. Yeah. I just don't understand or a branny pair of white socks. You can't you know so that'd be a thing so.

My dream in life is to have a new pair of socks every single day and never have to re wear a pair of socks. I'm so into clean socks. That's how much I you know, exactly Exactly. Yeah, I got it. And white socks get dirty fast, but it's fucking gross. Sorry, I w I agree with you.

Yeah. So you know, black socks or you know, take your socks off. Yeah. So yeah, we that was my biggest thing and then just be clean. My wife has a really good sense of smell. So they would have to be like Freshly showered. Good breath. All that you know, because all that, you know, it kills the vibe. Well, and also like I take the time to get ready for them. Hubby usually picks out my outfits, any outfit that he wants to see me in.

And so I get dressed up, I do my makeup, my hair, my nails, he spray tens me. I mean like I we go all out, you know? Like I get ready for them. Right, so you want the same. Yes. I we expect for them to look like they're going at least on a casual date, you know, look presentable, be clean, smell good. You know, just the basic, you know, just hygiene. Just be clean, you know.

Yeah, not too much to ask. I mean, do most guys show up? But let me ask you this, out of all the guys that you've been with, would you say the majority shows up like how you want them to? I think... No. That's why they're a regular. Yeah. Yes, for sure. Are you let me ask you this about like when you're having the three sons, are you typically involved, James, or are you watching, doing both? Are you videotaping? Like what's your participation?

So it started off, you know, I set up the cameras and it started off with me being a little bit involved. And uh and then I kinda just that way she warms up, you know, and then I back off and just let them do their thing. And because I started noticing that I don't like to see myself in care on camera. I jerk off to these vids later. So I don't want myself in the video. That just weirds me out. So uh so I like to for it to just be her and them.

Eventually I want her to be with two guys, but we have yet to do that. Right, but that is on your bucket list? Oh for sure. Right. So did you start then posting this stuff on your OnlyFans and or or do you keep this more stuff just for yourself? Well you know, for OnlyFans you gotta get it. Consent. Yeah. Yes. So it's only for the guys that have given consent. Yes. And one of our bulls gave consent so all his stuff is out there on her OnlyFans. Right. And uh

And yeah, just them. And the guys that don't, we still go ahead and do it. And, you know, I just keep the videos for myself. You know, they're fine with it. You know, as long as I don't put it out there. Hey Jess, let me ask you a couple of questions because you know, listen, this was hi something that he got like hardcore into and everything and you kinda like it sounds like maybe in the beginning you're like wanna please your husband, you're jumping on board.

Like, do is this something that you're very into now? Did you realize you were very turned on by it? Like, do you enjoy Uh, like the whole hot wifing thing now? You know, how does how did your feelings sort of progress from like the first time you did it to now? So now I think I'm just more as long as I see him getting turned on, it turns me on. Right. He's turned on, I'm turned on and then I do better. Right.

Is a lot better. I do enjoy it. I do enjoy it at the time, but then once we leave, it's like it never happened. You know? Wait, this is kind of interesting. So you don't have like the whole reclaiming thing, you haven't been able to tap into that, or you do. No, we do. Okay. So when you say it's never happened, it's like it just becomes back about you and your husband and you don't even think about that guy. That's what you mean? Yes, yes, I don't think about it at all

until we talk about it again, then I'm like, Oh yeah, I did do that. Oh yeah, it was fun. You know, so he he'll tell me, Well, it looked like you were enjoying it and I'm like, show me and I'm like, Yes, I was enjoying it, you know? It kinda you know, kinda like it never happened. But let me ask you this, did you ever have bad feelings about it? Like did you ever feel like not right about it in the beginning at all or ever? At the beginning. Yes. At the beginning I yes.

I think that's important to talk about. That's you know, that's real life. Our I think our first time on our drive back, we were both kinda quiet. Mm-hmm. We were both quiet and then he started asking questions and talking and I mean it happened so fast, right? It was kind of a blink of an eye and then the guy was gone. Yeah. So there wasn't a whole lot to talk about, but we were talking kind of about our emotions and I think he just still kind of needed to

process the whole thing and me too. And so halfway home then we started talking about it and and And that was it. You know, we just had a conversation about how we felt at the moment and and if it was okay. And then he said, I still want to do it again and I said, Are you sure? And he said, Yeah. I said, Even though this wasn't as great and he's like, Yeah

So, you know, second time came around and it was better, a little better. But like he said, he stopped it and I thought why would he stop it if that's what we were trying to do? Of course I wasn't gonna come. Yeah. But it was Never come? No, see so before my husband I never came until my husband. And what is he why with him do you feel like it's because you felt so intimate with him or because his dick is shaped a different way or he just knows what to do? Like why him and nobody else?

All of it together, like everything combined, he just knows how to please me. And so he was the only person that's ever made That's why you married him. So it was kinda like You know, so when we started playing that was one of the rules, like you can't come. Now it's out the window. Oh, that's the dumbest rule I've ever heard. Wait a second. Who made up that rule? Oh my god, James, you are so that is so fucking selfish of you. Toxic, yeah.

See it was his fantasy, so we went by his rules. I basically No, no, no. Wait, sorry. Jess, listen, okay. I I need to stick up for you. If you were my friend, I'd be like coming over to your house with you to help you deal with this, okay? Because it's b it when you say it's his fantasy, so it's his rules. No, it's his

fantasy which means he's getting what he wants so that means you have even more of a of the option to say I get to fucking come too so I get something out of this. It that doesn't make sense. Well the thing is the thing is that it takes a lot for me to come. Like he's the one that knows what

I know, but I'm sorry, I don't care about that. I care about the fact, James, you are too fucking funny. Even you know it's ridiculous. The fact that you told her you were not allowed to come is out of control. Yeah. BECAUSE HE WAS THE ONLY ONE I HAD EVER MADE He wanted to keep it yes, he knows now. He wanted to keep it that way. Like him being the only one to ever make it. It was just the macho part of me that. That was the leftover.

It honestly was gone like within not even six months. He was like, No, I want you to come. Okay, finally. I'm I'm sorry, I'm just always perple this is why like you're married to him and I'm not. Like I just can't believe how nice you were, Jess. Like I would be like, All right, go fuck yourself. Like I would like I can't believe girls are

So much nicer than me. This is why I never got married because I could never be like you, Jess. You're so I can't believe you signed up for that for six months. Cat Cabin. Southern women, that's the word. Oh really? Okay. Oh that's listen up guys, this is where you get the nice girls. So this Thing for me was just more like, Okay, we're doing this for you. I'm cool with it. You know what I mean? Like you're already allowing someone else to touch me.

Yeah, no, I know. You're so nice. That was nice of you. It wasn't so much that I was like, Oh yes, let's do this you know, I wasn't the type and I'm still not the type that that is like, Okay, yes, let's do this and I'm like pushing for it every weekend because if it was up to him we'd do it every weekend, we can't because we live so far.

Uh we do it maybe like three or four times a year is that when we you know, get them lined out. But it's not it's not as often as he would like. And for me I'm just like it's whatever. It's hard to corral guys. Single guys. Of course. Yeah, well that's well she she does have her regulars. How many regulars do you have? She's got two bull two regular bulls in Dallas. Okay. And let me ask you. Awesome, guys.

Jess. Like because you go for like these guys that are kind of bigger than your husband, like are have are you becoming a little bit of a size queen? Do you enjoy the bigger dicks? Do you come from them now? So I don't think I'm a size queen at all. Okay. You know, but even though my husband says he's not Uh, he's just a little bit above average. I feel his is perfect for me. Right, like you're completely fulfilled. Yeah.

Yeah, and especially like he knows exactly what to do. So I don't I don't feel like I'm missing anything at all. Right. So so these guys just kind of make it fun for the moment. He records it, then we watch it together or he watches it, whichever. And that's it. You know, it's just for fun. It's just added fun. Totally. Do you have orgasms with any of them? Yes. I do. It's not often. It's not all the time. That's kinda big for you considering your husband was the only one that ever could, right?

You know, and it's funny'cause now I'm the one that gets upset if she doesn't. It's really That's why she's having the orgasms. It's all she's doing it for you, James. She's so nice. And if it was up to me and to him, we I'd come every time, but it doesn't always work out that way. Sometimes the guys just Can't stay hard or Now. Yeah, that's more common than it's not. Yeah. It is not your fault. Oh my god, I always say that, yeah.

Yes. You know, us men, I don't think anybody realizes, but the slightest little thing, it could be something that we're thinking about early in the day. Some something could just completely kill it. Terrible. Once it's killed, then all you do is focus on the fact that you can't get hard. And then you really it's gone. It's really hard to I I do wanna mention this and I once again, not not what is it? I don't recommend it for Oh no, here we come.

I I don't know if you've uh we we got really deep into peptides. Well Oh okay. There's there's a peptide. It's called PT one hundred four one. Mm-hmm. Uh men who are after bulls, I highly recommend this stuff. It's we actually don't recommend it because we're not doctors or anything like that. Yeah, yeah. But you take it. You're allowed to talk about taking it. Yeah. Okay. Okay. Okay. Just making sure. It makes you get so it works from the brain down.

Mm-hmm. It's not like Viagra, all that stuff. All that stuff is great. But this works from the brain and then works it its way down. It makes you want that but at the same time without even thinking about it. So I get hard ons with that just randomly. And I I'm talking about the hard arms like when I was sixteen, seventeen. That's good to know. I wanna get a doctor on talking about peptides soon because I wanna I wanna learn about them for my show. Yeah. It's like super hard.

Yeah, we do other peptides and they're great. I don't understand why it's such a thing, but No, it's actually a new thing. I think people are becoming better educated about it, you know, but they're becoming more mainstream and more doctors are into it. It's just a matter of educating people and learning about it because I feel like there's a lot of stuff on the market they say

people are selling without, you know, scripts and everything. But, you know, I want someone coming on soon to talk about them'cause I think it's like interesting and people talk you know, people that do take'em talk very highly of them. Yeah. The only bad thing about it i it it does have side effects. It does move.

And it gives you like a headache and things like that. But we you know, there's different places that you can inject it and I feel like the last time we did one'cause he he'll give it to me also. Or I've done it three times I think. The first time it was good. It's for men and women.

Uhhuh. The first time it was good, I did feel nauseous, feel a little bit sick for like a few minutes, and then I was like on him for like two days. I could not get off of him.'Cause it only lasts like two or three two days, I think. Yeah. It looks like it's like two nails. Less than three days.

And then the second time the second time it did make me sick and it ruined the whole night. So I we didn't get to do anything'cause I felt so sick to my stomach. The third time we injected in the thigh and then went to sleep. And I woke up fine and I wouldn't get off of him for two days again. The thing about it is I recommend to do it right before bed. That way the nausea and all that, you sleep right through it.

Yeah, that's when I take my supplements at at night so I don't feel anything. I do have to say like Blue Chew now to has Blue Chew Gold and it's kinda like uh you know, maybe this is why they're doing it'cause there's all these things out now where

The blue chew gold has all the ingredients to make you hard, like the Viagra and the Seals, all that kind of stuff, like you know, stuff like that. But they are now putting in oxytocin and something else like I forget what the two other ingredients are in it to uh change your brain, right? It's to make you again

Yeah, to to so that now you're getting the blue chew, so you're getting like the physical heart sensation you're supposed to get, but it's now you're getting also the mental thing that you're talking about, which is great. It gets you like in the mood as well, in your brain, not just in your body. Yes, ma'am. Yeah, there you go. So let me ask you guys this, okay? Like at the end of the day, you you how long have you been like hot wiping for now at this point? It's only been like three years?

Yes, three. Only I thought you were gonna say three months. That would be only three months. Okay, that's all that short of a time. I talked to a lot of newbies, so for me, three years is, you know, a lot a long time. How do you feel like it has changed your relationship, you know, i you know? And and how has it made you guys feel about each other? First, you answer James, and then you answer Jess. Both of you answer the question.

So yeah, it's I think it's amazing. I don't I don't know if it's just me, right? It might be other g other guys too, but something about Her being able to go out, be naughty, then come back to me and only me and only want me, uh there's like a like a little flex for me. It It's like uh I don't I'm not intimidated now. I I don't feel like I could just lose her from uh the drop of the hat, you know? You feel more confident is what you're saying than less.

Mm way more confident and I love the confidence, you know, it's not you know,'cause guys you know how guys are, you know, they're always afraid of the guy with the big dick that's gonna come and steal your wife away. Uh-huh. type of thing. And I don't have that. Like I know that she can have that and then she can come back to me and And uh yeah, and she's she's awesome. Our sex life is great. We have amazing sex. And now Jess, you answer the question.

I mean honestly what it's done to us is it's made our communication a lot better, our relationship a lot stronger. I mean, we talk about everything now. Everything is out in the open. Our sex life is Even better, I think. I mean it just I mean it was great before. It was great but like our orgasms now are just like

beyond amazing, you know? Because I feel like our connection, like I said, our communication has a lot to do with it. So it makes our relationship stronger. Mm-hmm. And it makes us just want each other, desire each other a lot more. And then our trust. I feel like we do trust each other a lot more. I don't leave. I don't go and have

you know, meet up with them by myself. He's always there. And that's the biggest thing to me. Like I don't feel like I would ever want to be away from him because I feel like I did it for him. So I need him to be there watching. I want him to be there watching. That's what turns me on. Right. And I feel like that's what makes it sexier and just hotter. You know. So but I feel like our relationship has gotten way stronger for sure. Yeah.

And do you the last question, Joss, is because he did say that he wants to see you with two guys, right? Are you planning to do that? Well we kinda tried but it doesn't usually work out. Like one always has something going on and we're trying to get both of my bowls from Dallas, the the two that my regulars because I feel like they would be a good

a good fit with me. You know? Like both of them have the kind of like the same energy. Uh they're both very laid back. They both kinda let me take charge and I like to be the one taking charge. I like for them to do

um for them to take control here and there, but I like to be in control as well. Right. And so I love that they both let me just do whatever I wanna do. If I wanna bounce around on them, they let me do it. I mean So I feel like both of them are a really good fit together for me, you know. Right. So that's who you would do it with. So you could do it with them.

Yes, because we had been looking for someone and every time we have a meetup I'm like, No, he wouldn't be good for a meetup with someone else. Like we're not you know, like he said, we're not always in rhythm. You know, I'm not always in rhythm with them because I like to take control and a lot of these guys wanna be the ones to take control and bend me up like a pretzel and you know, all sorts of things. And I like things more sensual.

And so the the two bulls, my regular ones are the ones that I feel like yeah, they they would be a better match. Yeah, it's just scheduling to Right. I mean we have something coming up in a couple of weeks and they're both available so I'm hoping that we somehow get them both. the same day and maybe make it happen. So we'll see.

Oh my goodness. Okay, so listen now, why don't you give a shout out to your Instagram and your OnlyFans and all that kind of stuff and make sure to send me pics for my Patreon and all that kind of stuff. Okay. So let me see, we had to write it down. Субтитры сделал DimaTorzok It's at it's at Curvy Latina zero zero seven. Kirby Latina zero zero seven. Okay. Yes. And then I have a Reddit account which is Kirby Latina underscore zero zero seven.

Okay, that's easy to remember. Okay. Uh-huh. And then do you have the Instagram still or no? No, we don't we don't focus on the Instagram. That's They blocked us several times. And then somebody reports it and then that's it. And I mean I don't even show much. I have no idea. I don't I don't know what happens that somebody just reports it for no reason.

I know because you see straight up porn on there all the time. It's rampant. It's doesn't make sense. But you know what you learn really early on? Because I got deleted on YouTube and I have fifty seven thousand followers in there. You just learned that don't put your time in places places where you're not really safe and put your time into the places where you are. You know what I mean? There's no reason to bother there uh because you get thrown off.

Yeah. And we kinda feel like maybe it could be some of the people that we turn down because there's so many, so many that message and we're never Yeah. No, I know. I used to fight with people in the comments on YouTube and th those are probably the ones that got me thrown off too. But who you know, whatever. You can't be on platforms like that if they allow people to take you down with l like that easy. It's not worth it for you.

So listen, I will put your names and your uh a link in your in the description and you know, send me picks though. For my Patreon I always say like R rated picks, like if you have like lingerie shots or something but where nothing like private is really showing, like no nips or anything. But for my Discord, you're gonna when you hang up you'll get a free uh link. Not free. My Discord isn't you don't get charged, but you'll get a private link to my Discord.

There there's a content creator section so you could go in there and promote stuff for your, you know, insta it your OnlyFans, put your OnlyFans link in your bio, and then you can post on the guest channel when your episode airs for sure. So you'll get that link when we hang out. Up and then send me picks ASAP so I have it for when your episode airs for Patreon. Those picks should be the R rated. The Discord you could do X rated. Anything goes over there.

But Patreon is R rated. But send me that stuff sooner than later and I'll send you a free link to see the comments on your Patreon episode for like one month when your episode airs. I'll email you, okay? Okay, perfect. Thanks you guys. You made me laugh, James. Thanks so much for calling in. We love you by the way I love it. So I love couples that listen together. You're the best. 안녕히 계세요. Yeah, it's awesome. Now thanks for calling in and telling your short your story. you guys bye.

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I will throw in a complimentary link to my Discord. My Discord does not disappoint. Okay. There's no way you could get into my Discord any other way than getting the link from me. Okay. I give it to people who buy my book. There's tons of people in there.

Everybody shares content with each other and that's what you get to do there. You could post your own pictures and videos. There's tons of channels. We have lots of contests where you could win a lot of money. It's a super fun place to be. It's a total strictly anonymous community and you will love it. I will be giving anyone who buys my book access to my Discord. It's private, like I said.

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