Send us a text You'll hear Carissa and I talk with Sarah about her journey into stripping and more recently into podcasting about sex and sex workers. You'll also hear about normalizing and de-stigmatizing talking about sex and making a living from sex. Sarah was from a small religious town where sex was taboo but she always liked talking about sex and when she moved to the city, found a job as a server in a strip club. She loved the supportive environment and found it empowered her as well. Hea...
Jul 26, 2022•29 min•Season 2Ep. 39
Send us a text You'll hear Andrew and I talk about some of our experiences on the dating apps and who pays for dates in our opinion. We go over typical gender roles, masculine and feminine energy when dating and how that affects perceptions and reality. Should you approach or plan dates as women or let the men do that....and what if they don't/won't. What are your deal breakers when it comes to sex and dating? Do you connect mentally, emotionally and physically...it's not just the ladies that wa...
Jul 19, 2022•30 min•Season 2Ep. 38
Send us a text You'll learn so much from this episode! Nick shares how he got into his work and passion of energy, neuro-linguistic patterns or NLP and hypnosis and ways to understand the different parts of ourselves. You'll hear about connection being the most important thing for the human nervous system and how you can apply it and create connections with others. And how your connections, rapport, and energetic frequencies match others with the same ones and repel others. You'll learn about at...
Jul 12, 2022•30 min•Season 2Ep. 37
Send us a text Chris Shelton jumps right in talking about current and past trauma and how it could be affecting your health and well-being today. You'll learn techniques to release the trauma from the various organs where negative energy can be stored from feelings like, shame, guilt, worry, fear, shock, anxiety. You'll be provided tools and hear why it happens as well. We each mention books, shows and movies that add to our discussion about releasing your past and manifesting your soulmate thro...
Jul 05, 2022•30 min•Season 2Ep. 36
Send us a text You'll hear Jayna and I talk about how to prime yourself for amazing orgasms. Take the needed steps to better your chances to be in the right head space and then get your blood flowing from your brain to your body and then sexual organs. Multipile orgasms are not only possible but likely if you apply these steps. Jayna mentions the book, Come As You Are, by Emily Nagoski and found at https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090 (especially after you liste...
Jun 28, 2022•44 min•Season 2Ep. 35
Send us a text You'll hear Chris and I talk about all things dating and sex. We start out discussing when to talk about sex when dating and how differently some men and women think about it and our opinions of course. You'll hear our discussion about when to have sex and if there is a timetable or not nowadays. There seems to be a generational gap and I mention a book without saying the name but for those interested, it's called Love Rules by Joanna Coles, she talked about women who shared stori...
Jun 21, 2022•32 min•Season 2Ep. 34
Send us a text You'll hear Christophe and I discuss dating and some struggles as a little person. They'll sound very familiar to anyone with dating experience with an extra twist. Christophe is an amazing guy doing real cool things and is based in LA. We had a great time talking about our missions in a fun way. We discuss dating and sex and ask the question you all want to know or were curious about. He's an attractive guy with a great personality who happens to be a little shorter than the rest...
Jun 14, 2022•31 min•Season 2Ep. 33
Send us a text Denise Figueiredo, an occupational therapist, who offers whole health and healing practices talks about the brain and its three types of intelligence and where in the brain these are located. She offers exercises and movements to assess where you stand currently, then goes over PACE starting from the end with Energy, Clarity of Thinking, Activation of Physicality, and Positive Attitude. She wants all of us to live our best lives and shows us how doing this practice will cause that...
Jun 07, 2022•39 min•Season 2Ep. 32
Send us a text You'll hear Chel and I discuss what exactly squirting is and misconceptions about it. We share our own experiences with sex, squirting and experiencing our bodies. Chel has done tons of research on the topic too and I'll add those links/resources in a minute. If you're sure it's not possible for you, listen to Chel share about teaching her best friend...and now it happens every time for her. Get out of your head during sex and start having the amazing orgasms that come from squirt...
May 31, 2022•31 min•Season 2Ep. 31
Send us a text In this episode, you hear from hotwife Myrina and Tristan from the podcast Accidental Swingers. They share how they got into the swinging lifestyle, what they like about it and their dynamic. You'll hear about resources if you're curious about getting into alternative love and lifestyles. They highly recommend the book Ethical Slut. They cover some pitfalls and myths too. We cover how to talk to your partner or share with your partner that you'd like to learn more or maybe even tr...
May 24, 2022•44 min•Season 2Ep. 30
Send us a text Coach Lucy Price is back talking about closure and grieving the loss of a relationship. You'll hear about her 4 week program, website with the course or just use what she shares here to finally get over your ex and move forward. It doesn't always take as long as you'd think. You'll hear us discuss a few books too like Single. On Purpose. and It's Called a Break-up Because it's Broken. You'll learn how to grieve the lost potential, feel your feelings, set boundaries and act on thos...
May 17, 2022•29 min•Season 2Ep. 29
Send us a text Dr B and I talk about the male perspective on the female-led relationship, chastity and some resource’s for you to learn more. Dr B. discusses the idea that everyone wants balance in their lives so dominant people on the outside may be more submissive at home and vice versa. He sold me on the many benefits of women being more empowered in asking for what they want and makes the case that maybe it should be that way in order for all of us to have more sexual satisfation. He discuss...
May 10, 2022•30 min•Season 2Ep. 28
Send us a text Lots of people are doing this but not a lot are talking about it...until now. You'll hear how to get into the liefstyle or at least be a voyeur at first. The ins and outs and website and apps to be on to learn more about it. We cover kinks, fetishes, events, and the needed communication and potential pitfalls of the liefstyle as well. Hope you enjoy it and check out Love Sex and Goop on Netflix as well. Sex is being normalzed! Support the show Thanks for listening! Check out this ...
Apr 26, 2022•31 min•Season 2Ep. 27
Send us a text Tea and I talk about the book she found years ago that really helped educate her man about how to please her. She even bought the book for her male sons so they would also know what they were doing when pleasing their mates. We talk about the key components of each chapter but there are pictures too so you'll definitely want to buy it after listening to the episode. I also mention a couple of other books that a guy friend asserts work really well. Link to purchase: https://www.ama...
Apr 12, 2022•28 min•Season 2Ep. 26
Send us a text Mike Blocker, a life and relationship coach talks about the gender differences where it comes to "playing the field" and his personal take on it. You'll hear us discuss aging and the way "society" sees it when it comes to attraction, interest and confidence (from a couple of us in North America at least). He talked about a few sexualtiy courses he took and what he learned about himself that could apply to you and your sexual relationships or situationships. His social media links ...
Mar 29, 2022•30 min•Season 2Ep. 25
Send us a text Heidi, Carissa and I talk about why forcing a relationship only delays the end of the relationship and other great insights including potential issues with control and being in alignment. We talk about patterns and self-sabotage and knowing that respect, your values and what's important to you is crucial when dating and in relationships. You can reach Heidi at hello@heidigruss.com Listen for some amazing advice and insights. We learned a lot during this one and you can learn some ...
Mar 15, 2022•30 min•Season 2Ep. 24
Send us a text In this episode I talk with LaGina R. Harris (or LaGina Rae) who has a network of podcasts and we are joined by my friend Tameica. We talk about dating/hanging out and a great way to approach it. We talk about self-love, taking breaks from dating, asserting yourselves, knowing what you want and then we switch over to talk about sex in the same manner. This is another episode where you will learn a lot and you'll want to take notes or listen again. As always, we mention some books ...
Mar 08, 2022•31 min•Season 2Ep. 23
Send us a text Heidi Gruss, a psychotherapist, transformation strategist and entrepreneur joins me and Carissa to talk about how often we tolerate bullshit in relationships and what we can do to stop that and have those uncomfortable conversations. She also asserts you know which advice to take because you're great at giving it to others but it's much harder for you to take your own advice. You'll learn a lot and we had so much to cover we'll have a follow up episode as well. Follow her @heidigr...
Mar 01, 2022•40 min•Season 2Ep. 21
Send us a text Dorothy Stover and I talk about the inportance of self-pleasure and bringing in the spirit. She covers the connection, embodiment, empowerment and healing properties of self-pleasure as well. She provides a few examples or practices you can try too. She has her own podcast which is called Nantucket After Dark where I make a guest appearance soon. She also runs the Nantucket Love School. We also covered the idea of bringing God and Jesus into the bedroom rather than shutting them o...
Feb 22, 2022•32 min•Season 2Ep. 22
Send us a text Vernon and I discuss the fact that not a lot of men are talking about erectile dysfunction and it's a needed conversation. We also share what women can do to support a partner going through this issue. It's more common than is known and can be hard for men to process, deal with and discuss and need a safe space to talk about it. If this sounds like you, you're not alone. Ladies, you might be insecure but it's probably not about you, have that dialogue and find out. Have your partn...
Feb 08, 2022•29 min•Season 2Ep. 19
Send us a text On this episode, Lucy Price and I discuss Mindset, Emotional Intelligence and Embodiment. She lays out both the macro and micro level of how to stop self-sabotaging as well. We discuss texting do's and dont's or at least she helps you identify what you feel you need in a relationship. She also mentions the power we all possess. Lucy shares all the ways you can get in touch with her if you're interested in relationship coaching or joining her FB group. Books mentioned: 90 Seconds t...
Feb 01, 2022•27 min•Season 2Ep. 18
Send us a text Carissa and I thank all of our listeners on every continent in the world with a majority in North America. We're close to 1000 downloads and couldn't be more thrilled you enjoy the show. Listen for our shout outs to the cities with the most listens! We also cover tips and suggestions we've noticed would be helpful or at least we'd love to see more of it on your profiles...including pictures. And if you're ready to start a podcast, I highly recommend SquadCast for recording it(and ...
Dec 14, 2021•16 min•Season 1Ep. 17
Send us a text You do not want to miss this episode with game-changing information and products that provide you both (or when alone) pleasure....seriously!! Post-baby sex, performance issues, and gaps in your sex life, Dr Soum has a potential solution. His sexual health research, information and devices can improve your sex life and make great gifts. I was able to see the devices while on video and did my best to describe them. He provides pratical solutions to talk through ideas as well. Must-...
Dec 07, 2021•32 min•Ep. 16
Send us a text Krystine and I talk about her Female Led Relationship and the dynamics within her lifestyle. We educate the listeners on the lifestyle and offer some resources and talk some about her experiences with her subbie/husband. We talk about the myths out there. We dicuss her two podasts as well and why we both want to have real talk about all these subjects hoping to educate and destigmatize others' lifestyles they have chosen for themselves. No judgment zone! Join our FB group!! Resour...
Nov 30, 2021•32 min•Ep. 15
Send us a text Carissa and I talk to Leah Carey who is a sex and intimacy coach as well as a podcaster. Her podcast is Good Girls Talk About Sex. Leah shares ways that work and don't work when asking for something in bed. She also highlights the acronym STARS which she suggests as a starting point to have the conversation. She provided her link to a game she also uses to explore what works for you. Dr. Evelin Dacker - STARS method - www.maketimeforthetalk.com https://www.leahcarey.com/sexual-sci...
Nov 23, 2021•34 min•Ep. 14
Send us a text In this episode, Liza, Mike and I talk a bit about the book Date Like a Man by Myreah Moore and Jodie Gould as well as Get a Life, Then Get a Man by Jennifer Bawden. We hear both the male and female perspectives for this type of dating and why having a long list of criteria could be thwarting your chances and the idea of enjoying new people one date at a time. Have any questions or topics you want to hear? http://www.instagram.com/tamara_schoon_comic Join our FB page: https://www....
Nov 16, 2021•33 min•Ep. 13
Send us a text David shares about BDSM and specifically consent, negotiations and dating kinky. He shares books and websites to learn more about the lifestyle. Do you like it a little rough but don't know how to ask for it. Have you considered being tied up or does it appeal to you? Learn from David or read the books he shares or listen to the highlights of each. This is a starter episode for getting into Bondage, Domination/Submission and Masochism or if you're curious about a large but fairly ...
Nov 09, 2021•31 min•Ep. 12
Send us a text Tiphany Kane whose podcast is Love & Life After Divorce is here along with me and Carissa. Tiphany shares why she started her podcast, we talk about how to get from online to offline dating faster and we talk about several great books to inlcude Martha Beck's The Way of Integrity, Brene Brown's work in general, I Suck at Relationships So You Don't Have to by Bethany Frankel and one I forgot the name during the podcast which is The Upside of Stress. Join our FB group: https://w...
Nov 02, 2021•33 min•Ep. 11
Send us a text Danielle, a dating coach based in Sydney, and I talk attachment styles again plus love languagues too. Important to know for both you and your partner. Based on the book, The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman, we cover various aspects of these languages and keeping your "love tank" full! Plus tips on dating as a bonus. You can follow Danielle at @_the lovelist on IG and Tik Tok. You can follow me @ http://www.instagram.com/tamara_schoon_comic Join our FB group: https://www.faceb...
Oct 26, 2021•31 min•Ep. 10
Send us a text Danielle, a love coach based in Sydney, talks with me and Rawan about dating and relationships. She gave us great insight about talking about the timing and phases of relationships and actively choosing together, core values, when to be selfish, dating out of convenience and getting into a dating mindset. Danielle has her own podcast Love Undressed and you can find her @_thelovelist on IG and TikTok. https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Straightfsmouth Support the show Thanks for listenin...
Oct 19, 2021•35 min•Ep. 9
