¶ Reunited After a Month Apart
If it's love that you need , you can't take it from me , cause I'm the one who's giving it up , and I know it's been hard , but you've made it this far Now I'm the one who's giving it up .
All right , all right , all right , all right , all right . Pura vida , pura vida . And I say that because life is good , because Jimmy's back , thank God .
The last episode that we released got unreleased , actually because it was a solo episode , and I decided that , I don't know , I just wasn't a fan , maybe it's because of the critical eye and ear that I have of myself , but , um , I'm incomplete without you , jim . So , thank god you're back . Um , welcome to the straight love podcast . It is the the .
The straight love podcast without jim is just stir . I thought it was good man . Well , thanks , buddy , I mean that that that means a lot coming from you . But , uh , I don't know , I just , for whatever reason , I was just stewing over it I'm like I can't have the world hear this . Yeah , that's fair , it is what it is .
It's gone now , but , hey , jimmy's back . It's been a month , man , yeah , time flies , it really does , but we've been busy , obviously . Um , I was out getting married and you , um , I gotta say , man , seeing you with my daughter out in costa rica . I mean really that that that was , that was really special yeah .
Yeah , it was a lot of fun , it was like the way that she took to you , though you know like I mean , obviously you've met her a handful of times , but like for her to spend that much time with you , and like we'd start off the day you'd be down by the pool .
She'd be saying uncle she doesn't have that many words in her vocabulary , but that was certainly one of them all of a sudden makes it easy , totally , totally . But that was that was . That meant a lot to me , man . You know , you guys got to spend a lot of time together and she was nuts about you .
Yeah , she's easy going , man , she's was fun , she's definitely easy going . Yeah ,
¶ Jimmy's Special Bond with Her
yeah , she's uh a little joy to have around . Oh yeah , yeah , it's uh , yeah , it's nice man , it's just like , uh , they're , they're bright moments totally . The only the only one time where I was like oh , I don't know what to do here is , I think , when you guys were guys had left to go take more photos At the actual reception .
Yeah , and I was holding her and standing , and I was holding her , and I was holding her and I was holding her and I was like I don't know what to do . Am I allowed to put you down ? Should I put you down ? I feel like I want to keep holding you . You , I don't know what to do here .
And then eventually , after a while , my remedial brain was like we can sit down , hey there we go I think literally after 40 minutes .
Oh , because we abandoned you for a while yeah , probably for like 40 minutes of like standing and holding her and walking around and you know like just whatever having fun I was like oh yeah , we can sit down , let's go sit down so what was that interaction ?
like ? What were you ? How were you killing the time together ? Um , we were just chatting , is that right ?
Yeah , oh , she's good like that , just chatting and looking at stuff and see it's funny because we like I just kind of threw her on you and I'm like I guess we'll be back , and I don't think that I even ran it by you before it was just kind of like hey , we're going , yeah , it's not really anything .
You need to run by , I know , but I just think that within the moment , you know , you just kind of take for granted that .
You know , obviously she feels safe with you and I , you know , there's like three people in the world that I trust , along with my child , and you're certainly one of them .
I appreciate that . Yeah , it was good man , it was fun .
Like I said , she's easy going and I liked the little hugs and yeah , it's good , good times , um , if you haven't done so already , please head on over to Instagram straight . Love S E R , the number eight , dot , love , love , as usual . Uh , we were having a a heart-to-heart upstairs .
We should just move this entire podcast studio , to be honest , um , and we were talking about , um , different frequencies that we kind of operate on , and jim was just making a lot of sense and saying a lot of things first person ever to think and say that . But really , man , you were saying a lot that was really hitting home .
And I think that when you hear certain things and they feel true to you , you can , you can feel that you know , and I , one of the um , one of the things that I will say about you , um , and your , when you be , when , when I hear a lot of confidence in your voice , I know it's about something that you truly believe in and something that you truly mean .
And when you started talking about how you feel invincible when it comes to combating viruses in this world , not in those words necessarily . No , for sure . Not in those words necessarily , um , for sure . No , I , I , but , but I .
I think it's important to share this kind of thing because it , it , it does again have a lot of um truthful meaning and feeling in it . So , yeah , can you ? Can you talk about
¶ Operating on Different Frequencies
first of all what it is , that that you know , um the frequency that you're operating on , and maybe even how you got to that particular level of belief in yourself ? I guess to a certain degree .
Well , none of it is anything that I've curated , it's all just stuff that it's sort of maybe not the right way to put it , but I want to say kind of it's like reverse engineering , like I you know , about the theory and the thought and the idea and the philosophy , and it resonates or makes sense and then , I guess , at at some point , through actions and
that belief or that direction of belief , then you sort of kind of realize , oh , I guess I have been doing that , and maybe some of stuff is on purpose and intentional and some stuff isn't .
And so the stuff that we were talking about there , it just in that context about how we were speaking , it just in that context about how we were speaking , based upon what I have been exposed to in terms of these philosophies and beliefs , then it just starts to make sense and I guess , as you said , because I choose to believe in it , or my experience has
led me to choose to believe in it , then , yeah , I guess I do have a lot of confidence in it . Right , I would have never thought of putting it in that way , but , um , I do , and and and maybe even from like a science based point , it also does make sense .
Someone that was a lot more intelligent than I am could probably speak more to that , but really , what I'm blathering on about is that , yeah , so the illness thing I think I just do the right things that are intentional to support my immune system , to fend off and ward off illness or whatever the case might be , and so .
So then it strengthens my belief , right , and then it's kind of that grows in and of itself , and then you almost get to the point where it's like is all that really matters is my belief ? Now I'm certainly not there . I'm still going to keep doing things because I believe in those things .
But your belief is built on this . These pillars almost like this knowledge .
This , yeah for sure . And then that , just like I said , sort of the reverse engineering part of it . It makes me go back to the things that I've learned about , read about , heard where oh well , I guess this is in this context you're operating at a frequency that isn't able to have a transmission of things that are not operating at other frequencies .
Uh , so then , therefore , you won't be subject to them I love this man . Okay , I love this so much you know , like the old , the old kind of , if you want to listen to whatever 105.5 on the fm , but you're trying to . You're in the 90s , you know what I mean .
You'll never get it totally , totally . So what ? What I what I think is is important about this too , is this belief that you have is soul . It's so wholehearted and it's so like there's no doubt in your mind when it comes to the way that you feel about your immune system .
When it , when it , when it comes to how you feel about being able to fend off viruses , you say to yourself I am not someone who gets sick , right , and you're not saying that to convince yourself .
You believe that now , maybe you say that to yourself in order to convince yourself , like , like , to get your to yourself to that point where you're trying to establish that belief in yourself . There's no questioning it . There's nothing that's going to seep into you , that's going to affect the way that you feel , believe like .
It's just , it's , it's unshakable to a certain degree , and I think that there's something very admirable about that , yeah , yeah , maybe a little bit there is .
I mean , I also like the things that I do consistently are very important , and I think if I compromise those , then it would also compromise how I feel about it . How could it not ?
Yeah , so it's um , both of those things contribute for sure , and I think the both are important , though You're going to continue to do these things , because in order to have that belief , you need to have again that kind of thing underneath Right .
Yeah , um , now the real , the real skill and feat would be to be able to like apply that to all things in life ?
Absolutely , man , and that's where I kind of wanted to go with this , because this is a very concrete example . But how can you like spilling this over into other areas ? That's where the real magic could start to happen , for sure , right ? So where else
¶ The Power of Belief Systems
could you potentially see something like this , like where can you plant a seed , necessarily , and then build on that in order to get to this same level of wholehearted belief .
Do you want to answer that question ?
Look , man , I mean like there's , there's a lot of different areas .
I think that , um , you know , another example that we were giving is is like good things are happening for me , good things are coming to me , like I am someone who attracts positivity and good fortune , and like you can , you can , you can feel those things and you can , you know again , work on trying to convince yourself of them .
But what are you doing underneath , you know , to be able to kind of have something that you can prop up this belief on ? You know , like that's what I think is is missing for a lot of people . You know , we try and speak things into existence and we try and manifest . Okay , you can , you can do that all you want , and there's a lot of power in that .
But what's underneath it ? You know ? What are you doing in order to be able to support that ?
yeah , my experience , and I guess until further notice , is that there has to be a contribution of both sides of it . Right , you know it's um , there has to be a contribution of both sides of it . Right , you know it's um , there has to be a little bit of believing before you see it and a little bit of seeing it to believe it . Okay , I love that .
I mean , I don't know which one , uh , I don't know , I don't , I don't know how you initiate , which one initiates first , or if it matters , or it's , uh , it's elusive to me when it comes to different to to frequencies , though , man , do you kind of envision that you're operating on a different frequency than these viruses that are beneath you kind of thing ?
No , I don't , I don't think so . I think I just have . I think I've just experienced to be health , I've experienced being healthy from that respect and um , and I guess I just trust in it , I guess I've learned to trust it . I mean , I don't have full like , even even speaking about it , this much is shaking me up a bit .
I'm going to be completely honest with you . It's shaking me up a bit . I'm gonna be completely honest with you . It's shaking me up a bit . But then maybe it's sort of maybe this is like a challenge . This is my challenge to to be like , well , don't waver in it , you know .
Like totally don't let this make you uncomfortable with what your belief is I just I also think that because you have again , when we were speaking about it and you were speaking about about it with such confidence , I think that this is just something that can be so I don't want to say easily , but something that can be duplicated in other areas , that's all I'm
sure it can be .
I mean , I don't I don't have the blueprint of that , but I mean , like we were speaking about I don't think , think there are a lot of variations of how things change . What do you mean by that ? Things get better ?
Well , like we were saying , it's kind of you either work harder or you do something differently or a combination of both Right now , exactly whatever . the specific details of that are certainly different , are dependent upon whatever the circumstance , situation or objective is . But it's hard to argue , I think .
And if I welcome whatever insight it is , but I think it's kind of hard to argue those tenants to say either you work harder , you do something differently , or both , man , but maybe not . But again , to be my own uh , contrarian , maybe not like me .
There's also a whole bunch of things where it's like you should just allow the flow to go with you and , yeah , you know and accept , uh , whatever the case might be or whatever it is and so it's , maybe it's all predicated on what your belief is yeah , you know what man I hear about that going with the flow kind of thing and just kind of relaxing into the
world , um , and I think that there's a lot to be said for that .
But I don't know like , is there a lot of power in that man , perhaps ?
I just feel like , if you can , there's something to also be said for taking charge of a certain situation and , you know , taking your power back and then making certain decisions and putting a lot of effort into something and creating something on your own and realizing how powerful you are .
Man , like you know , we , we , we tap into such a small part of our , a small portion of our own potential .
It seems like sometimes I don't know if it's because of procrastination or laziness or whatever it is , but a lot of us never reach our full potential because we just , I don't know , either don't have the belief or , you know , don't um , or don't know , I guess either what to do , right I ,
¶ Applying Frequency Theory to Life
I do agree , and maybe it's because we overcomplicate things as humans Also , true , yeah , yeah , I don't know .
I , I , I think I do have this one kind of thing sort of lined up for myself that seems to work . But as for the rest of it , you know , I'm still figuring it out . I'm still figuring it out as best as I can .
Well , look man , um , I'm still figuring it out as best as I can .
Well , look , man , it's good to speak about these kinds of things , it's good to highlight things that aren't working , that are working , and then you know using that as some sort of a basis then to try , and you know , figure out how to kind of like duplicate that kind of success in other areas .
I do really believe , as we were talking about the frequency thing , I just I certainly great to hear a different perspective . I don't know if I would be , I don't know if I'd be accepting of a different perspective , I guess .
So , as much as I say that maybe I'm kind of being more closed minded and pretending I'm open minded , but just that , the frequency thing , when you think about that concept and idea and philosophy , it just does make a ton of sense . Dude , it so does .
And I remember actually this was I was watching a uh uh weight training video or whatever the case might be again making fun of myself as I have before , because I haven't watched enough of those , I guess you know , but , um , not the best use of time but I remember there was a clip of Arnold Schwarzenegger speaking and he was saying , you know he would , he
would see these other train training people at the gym and you could just see who was at the frequency of training and working and who was not .
You see , it , you could just see it , you could just see that , and sure you can frame that in whatever how , whatever the words you want to use , whatever semantics you want to have towards this about saying , okay , well , you know , is someone focused or someone concentrated or someone you know putting their their mind ?
Muscle connection is another sort of buzzword , cliche statement together , but really to me it's kind of like . Or you could use the word frequency are you operating at the frequency of I am here to grow and build these muscles by lifting these weights and doing these mechanics with my body ? That is the frequency that I'm operating at .
So then , therefore , I'm going to attract the frequency of this . Or are you just operating , again , at the frequency of like , I'm here , I'm going to lift those things over there , whatever , do this and that and then you go ? Those are two different places to be working from .
They really are , man , and I'll do you one more . You could be even lower than that when it comes to frequency and being like why am I even here ? I'm so weak , I'll never figure this out like this is such a waste of my time . Everybody here is stronger than me , right ? Like ?
Even using those words , man , you can feel , yeah , it going lower , you know , yeah . So I mean there's something to be said for these different frequencies that we're choosing to put ourselves into yeah , yeah , they .
I think they really do produce tangible and intangible uh uh products .
I think that one of the things that we've kind of overlooked here is there really is an easy answer when it comes to frequencies , and that's to ask kenneth what's the frequency , kenneth ? Oh , rem , rem yeah yeah , shout out to what's that guy's name ? Michael sniper ?
yeah , something like that , yeah it is why does he say that in the song ? Do you know who's Kenneth ?
I don't know , but we got to find out . Jim , If there's one way that we're going to be able to wrap up this episode is to figure out who Kenneth is and then get him onto the podcast .
Or we can just end it .
What's the frequency , kenneth
¶ Episode Wrap-up and Goodbyes
? All right , I guess we'll end it there . Yeah , even though my joke landed flatter than a pancake , I didn't understand it . Somebody out there got it . Yeah , if you did , please let me know .
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All right . Well , we're back . We're back to every two weeks here . Um , we're sorry that we uh abandoned you all for a month , but there was a good reason for it . Uh , we missed you , jim . I missed uh sitting across from you here . I'm glad that you're back . I'm glad we're back and , um , I love you a bunch , as always , buddy . Yeah , man , same here .
Love you . All . Right , we love you everybody .
Thank you for listening . Bye , everybody bye . So I'm not there with you . And I fight , and I fight and I fight . The world is leaving . I fight for the betterment , and I fight , and I fight and I fight . The world is leaving . I fight for the betterment . The world is leaving us . I don't care .