Stop Polling Your Audience

Have you ever shared someone’s online dating profile to a friend, or multiple friends, and asked for their feedback? This is something a lot, if not all of us, do. I was recently working with a client on why she should stop polling her audience and that is what inspired this topic that I love. For years, I was polling the audience, until I realized that it never served me. Now that I am no longer doing that, and trusting myself, I have clarity in all areas of my life, and you can totally have that too. You have to be willing to show up and think and act differently, and I promise you will have the results you are seeking.

Topics in this episode

• My rock bottom heartbreak: 
  https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2019/4/1/my-heartbreak-story
• Booke Castillo’s thought model: your thoughts create your results
• Episode 1, All I Want Is For Him To Come Back: https://clairetheheartbreakcoach.com/podcast/2019/3/4/all-i-want-is-for-him-to-come-back
• The difference between bouncing things off your friends because you love them, and taking what they say to heart.
• Doing self-coaching
• At the end of the day, how do you want to show up differently in your dating life?
• Look for past evidence that you know what you’re doing in your dating life
• If you are looking for a place to start, start managing your mind with this thought model
• Having a difficult conversation with a friend if her feedback isn’t serving you