STYBY #085 - More People Share Your Pain Than You Realize
You will go through periods where you are angry that no one seems to understand your struggles. You need to remember you do not know many of the struggles of others around you.

You will go through periods where you are angry that no one seems to understand your struggles. You need to remember you do not know many of the struggles of others around you.
Don't get to hung up on criticism of your body of work from a person who hasn't taken the first step to start theirs.
There is no need to write million dollar checks for expenses that don't exist, but don't let current lack of progress keep you from being ready for the first big break.
It is okay to not want to rise to audacious heights. It is not okay to sabotage the advancement of others to keep them on your level.
You might be surprised at your ability to build grand structures from the discarded scraps of finished projects. More Information @ http://yourbetteryou.info
Lawyers deal with time in quarter hours and every quarter hour gets billed to someone. Lawyers seem to be successful, so there may be something to this process. More Information @ http://yourbetteryou.info
Just like you should plan out what activities you should do to ensure success, you should not the things you should not do to hamper that success. More Information @ http://yourbetteryou.info
The motivations behind your work and another's on a common project may not be shared. That is not a bad thing.
Meeting personal heroes often does not live up to the hype, both for you and them.
The key to fixing a problem with an out of control mouth is to admit the problem is yours, not theirs.
We take another break from fresh content to celebrate getting this far, and boost our own egos in the process.
We make fun of people forced to pay a 'stupid tax,' but there really is an adverse cost from not having proper knowledge.
Their best interest should not be the main motivation for giving you a hand, but it does make it easier for them to buy in.
Know what the number you use to plot your course really mean, and how misinterpretation can steer you off course.
You may find yourself forced to choose what is really important when you begin to completely deplete your energy and abilities.
Don't take a full turn to the dark side, but embracing your personal green-eyed monster can be a great source of gain with little loss to others.
Right now is just as good a time for a fresh start as January 1st.
As you enforce boundaries on others to keep their craziness from overtaking your schedule, you should respect the boundaries others attempt to enforce on you.
Sometimes lessons learned from those still suffering is a worth the active sacrifice.
The silly images born of text based characters are serious and sophisticated tools for real communication.
Science backs the idea that in 90 seconds you can change your emotional state by allowing yourself to change your emotional state.
Market saturation is an issue to contend with, but it is rarely an issue to blame for killing a dream.
You can only jettison so much 'dead weight' before you put yourself in a worse position.
A trick I use to help me become familiar with strangers also helps me learn more about the stranger that is myself.
When your world gets fuzzy, it is important to have enough state of mind to recognize when you have clarity.
It is okay to give up on a book, movie, or TV show as soon as you realize it offers no value.
Being content with your current state is great as long as you don't dismiss the potential heights you have yet to achieve.
As momentum and novelty begins to fade, you may lose motivation for long-standing projects.
Even in short burst, focused action can lead to great advancements
How others introduce you to new people is a direct reflection of your standing in their eyes, and vice versa.