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Startup Therapy

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The "No BS" version of how startups are really built, taught by actual startup Founders who have lived through all of it. Hosts Wil Schroter and Ryan Rutan talk candidly about the intense struggles Founders face both personally and professionally as they try to turn their idea into something that will change the world.
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The Most Expensive Equity Doesn't go to Investors

Why do founders fight over giving an investor 15% but hand out huge chunks to co-founders, employees, and advisors with far less certainty of return? The episode argues that investor dilution is often the cleanest trade because cash and terms are clear, while “everyone else pays in maybes and promises.” It warns that early-stage equity feels worthless but represents 100% of a company’s future value, so giving away 50% to a near-stranger can become a permanent cap table problem that also costs sp...

Jun 01, 202646 minEp. 334

How to be Great at Worrying

Ever wake up at 3:00 AM convinced your startup is about to break? The conversation unpacks how founders can’t really “leave work,” and how constant vigilance can turn into fear dressed up as responsibility—endless rumination that produces stress, not decisions. Will shares decades of 3:00 AM worry cycles, the superstition that anxiety prevents disaster, and how even vacations get hijacked by disaster simulations (including getting hacked on the way to Comic-Con). They draw a line between real th...

May 25, 202636 minEp. 333

Can Startups Be a Team of One?

What happens if building a startup no longer requires a team? The conversation explores how AI is rapidly turning the classic “product + developer + marketer” founding trio into an optional choice, making one-person companies the new default as tools get dramatically better and far cheaper than hiring. They unpack how this shift changes equity, speed, and the quality filter that co-founders and teams used to provide, while also threatening many “on-ramp” roles like customer support and other kno...

May 18, 202643 minEp. 332

Why are we Really Building a Startup

What are you really trying to fix by building this company—and what happens when you finally admit it? The conversation unpacks how founders often default to a public “change the world” story while their private motive is something more personal like safety, control, validation, belonging, autonomy, or even revenge. When that real why stays hidden, decisions get miscalibrated and founders chase the hardest possible path (like massive VC rounds) even when a smaller outcome might satisfy the true ...

May 11, 202634 minEp. 331

We Rarely "Control" Our Startups

Worried about “losing control” because of dilution? This episode breaks down why equity is a poor proxy for control in startups: the cap table splits money, while control is defined by decision rights in the operating agreement and enforced through board voting. The hosts explain how founders can own most of the company yet still need permission for key actions (like senior hires), how boards are built (often 2 founders, 2 investors, 1 independent), and how board math can outweigh founder owners...

Apr 14, 202647 minEp. 330

Founders Need Finish Lines

Ever feel like you hit a milestone in your startup and immediately get handed the next problem? The episode explores why startup work rarely delivers a true sense of “done,” how founders get trapped by the arrival fallacy (believing the next round, milestone, or cushion will finally bring relief), and how the constant threat of being “eaten” by faster competitors turns ambition into paranoia. Ryan and Will compare the endless nature of startups to more finite work, discuss how chasing metrics an...

Apr 06, 202639 minEp. 329

What Should My Expectations Be?

Ever feel like you’re working nonstop and still falling behind? The discussion argues founder happiness and decision-making improve fastest by recalibrating expectations, because “happiness = reality ÷ expectations.” Using stories from trading work for pizza or restaurant tabs to later winning massive business, it highlights how low expectations can make progress feel rewarding, while the “snowflake myth” and unpriced optimism create entitlement and disappointment. They distinguish aspiration (w...

Mar 23, 202648 minEp. 328

What Actually Happens When A Founder Runs Out of Gas?

What do you think really happens if you burn out and step away for a minute? The conversation breaks down how founders often imagine an apocalyptic chain reaction—customers leaving, the team collapsing, investors panicking—when in reality burnout is a predictable capacity ceiling and most worst-case scenarios don’t happen. They argue the real danger is pretending burnout won’t come, pushing until physical failure, and keeping recovery secret, which can create the chaos founders fear. Using sport...

Mar 02, 202634 minEp. 327

The Value of Distraction

What if the thing that looks like a distraction is actually the move that saves your startup? This episode breaks down why the “stay focused at all costs” advice can be risky when you’re still figuring out what actually works. The hosts challenge the myth of the linear startup path, arguing that side quests—small, intentional experiments with capped downside—create learning, reduce single points of failure, and help you earn the right to pivot with evidence instead of vibes. They share how Funda...

Feb 23, 202635 minEp. 326

Master Failure

What if failure isn’t something to avoid, but a skill to master? This episode breaks down why startups can’t be built on certainty—new markets, new products, and new teams mean you’re guaranteed to be wrong a lot. The goal isn’t to “be right,” it’s rapid error correction: make decisions, ship anyway, learn fast, and recover even faster. The conversation covers how avoiding failure leads to paralysis (“steering a parked car”), why indecision compounds in startups, and how to reduce risk by keepin...

Feb 16, 202636 minEp. 325

We Can't Predict the Future Anymore

Is AI truly the game-changer for startups, or does it bring unexpected chaos? This episode dives into how AI is transforming forecasting, marketing, product development, employment, and investment in the startup ecosystem. Ryan Rutan and Will Schroter discuss the rapid pace of change brought by AI, including the exciting opportunities and the unsettling uncertainties. They explore how traditional pillars of business like hiring, marketing, and customer acquisition are being upended, creating bot...

Feb 09, 202638 minEp. 324

We wanted efficiency. We got isolation.

How has the relentless pursuit of efficiency, aided by tools like remote work, Zoom, Slack, and AI, affected our human connections? In this episode, we're exploring the cost of optimized workflows on our humanity. We delve into personal anecdotes and discuss the ramifications of isolation in the workplace and the loss of shared experiences. We also contemplate the importance of reintroducing human interactions to ensure a balanced, connected, and more fulfilled work environment. Resources: Start...

Feb 02, 202642 minEp. 323

Are startups the future of employment?

What will AI do to everything? In this episode, we explore how AI is set to create a surge in new startups, reshaping employment as we know it. As jobs get displaced, the concept of big employment shifts, giving rise to smaller, more agile companies using AI tools. Drawing parallels with past technological revolutions, we highlight the opportunities that lower costs and new market demands present for founders. We discuss the transformation in various sectors, from customer service to content cre...

Dec 03, 202547 minEp. 322

The Founder Hard Reset

Ever felt like vacations just aren't cutting it when it comes to startup burnout? In this episode, Ryan Rutan and Will Schroter dive deep into why burnout is inevitable for founders and how quick fixes like vacations often fail to address the root of the issue. They explore how to truly recover and maintain that all-important spark in your work. Learn why it's crucial to inventory what drains and fuels your energy, and how making meaningful changes—not just taking time off—can lead to sustainabl...

Nov 25, 202526 minEp. 321

Is there a line between Founder optimism and delusion?

Can founders turn delusion into success? In this episode, Ryan and Will discuss the essential role of optimism in startups. Drawing parallels between founders and firefighters, the duo explores how belief against all odds drives entrepreneurs forward. They explain how maintaining optimism is not just about having a positive outlook but about creating momentum from minor wins and leveraging chaos as an opportunity. The hosts also address the fine line between optimism and dishonesty, emphasizing ...

Nov 17, 202538 minEp. 320

Prioritize Productivity Over Popularity

Ever find yourself caught in the trap of confusing visibility with progress? In this episode, we'll delve into why seeking attention can often feel like momentum but doesn't necessarily translate to business traction. Will Schroter shares a cautionary tale from his own experience, revealing how his focus on brand-building and networking kept him from truly building his company. We explore the fine line between personal branding and productivity, and why many founders need to prioritize the latte...

Nov 07, 202532 minEp. 319

Better is Better than Bigger

Is getting bigger always better for startups? This episode dives into the hidden costs of scaling up and how growth can sometimes make a company worse, not better. Ryan and Will discuss the trade-offs between size and quality, using examples like Google and PayPal. They explore how rapid growth can diminish company culture, slow down decision-making, and introduce inefficiencies. The conversation also covers personal experiences in startup growth, emphasizing the importance of optimizing for bet...

Oct 27, 202536 minEp. 318

Founder Authenticity: Use with Caution

Ever wonder if being your authentic self at work might sometimes do more harm than good? The delicate balance of authenticity and diplomacy in leadership. From discussing the rare contexts where pure honesty works, to sharing personal anecdotes about navigating the consequences of unfiltered truth, this episode unpacks how transparency can impact your team, brand, and personal relationships. Find out why being your true self might only be great advice 6% of the time and how effective communicati...

Oct 22, 202531 minEp. 317

Founders, Embrace Your Flaws

Are you convinced that you need to fix all your flaws as a founder? In this episode, we explore why that's not necessarily true. Ryan and Will dive deep into the idea that both startups and their founders are loaded with problems, some of which aren't really 'problems' at all but hidden superpowers. From obsessive tendencies to ADHD, they discuss how to harness these traits for success rather than trying to fix them. Drawing from personal experiences and industry insights, they touch on the infl...

Oct 14, 202541 minEp. 316

Is Remote Culture, Actually Culture?

Have you ever wondered if remote work is better than being in the office? Ryan and Will dive into their experiences and how their work culture has evolved over 20 years. They discuss the pros and cons of remote work, the importance of autonomy, and how remote setups have stripped away some of the overhead, revealing who truly thrives in this environment. They also explore whether it's possible to create a strong company culture remotely and how the shift has amplified the best and worst in emplo...

Oct 06, 202539 minEp. 315

Can I Hand Off My Startup?

Ever dreamt of handing off your startup to a killer operator and sipping margaritas while the money keeps rolling in? It sounds perfect, but reality often has other plans. In this episode, we break down why passing on the reins isn't as smooth as it seems—from the slow degradation of everyday tasks to the irreplaceable instinct and urgency a founder brings. Discover why certain roles and tasks can be handed off successfully while others, like maintaining culture and strategic vision, often falte...

Sep 29, 202542 minEp. 314

Did I Just Get Promoted or Fired?

Ever wonder what happens when a founder gets 'promoted' out of the CEO role? Ryan and Will dive into the tricky terrain of founder transitions, exploring how it feels to be nudged into roles like Chief Vision Officer or Chairman—positions that often come when a new CEO is brought in. They discuss the emotions involved, the motivations of investors, and the strategies for turning this awkward moment into an opportunity. Whether you're in the thick of this situation or just want to be prepared, th...

Sep 22, 202542 minEp. 313

Burnout is a Treatable Injury

Ever felt like burnout is inevitable in your startup journey? You're not alone. Burnout can feel like a silent co-founder, but it doesn't have to signal the end of your entrepreneurial story. In this episode, we discuss why burnout happens, how to diagnose it, and most importantly, how to treat it. Discover the importance of pacing yourself, the hidden costs of burnout, and why taking a break is crucial—not just for you, but for your entire team. We'll share personal anecdotes, practical tips, a...

Sep 15, 202540 minEp. 312

Stop Pretending You Don't Have Enough Time!

Ever feel like you need more hours in the day? Turns out, you don't. In this episode, we dive deep into time management for founders, starting with a viral Reddit post that stirred some controversy. We'll explore how compressing your timelines can lead to greater efficiency and free up your schedule for the things that truly matter. Forget the chronic meeting bloat and endless email chains; it's all about optimizing every minute. Discover how focusing on small, incremental tasks can lead to sign...

Sep 10, 202540 minEp. 311

Are Founders Aligned with Those Around Them?

The complexities of alignment among founders, employees, and even spouses. They debunk the notion that perfect alignment exists, emphasizing that often, perceived alignment is more fiction than reality. The conversation covers the inevitable differences in expectations, contributions, and risk tolerances that arise between co-founders and employees. The hosts also delve into the personal side, exploring how founders' professional decisions impact their relationships at home. Through candid anecd...

Sep 02, 202541 minEp. 310

Will the Payout be Worth the Sacrifice?

The challenging question of whether the sacrifices made in pursuit of entrepreneurial success are ultimately worth the payoff. Will retells his personal story of almost buying an expensive house in Bel Air only to realize, thanks to his wife's intervention, that it wasn't what he truly wanted. The duo explores themes of sacrifice, payoff, and how aligning personal goals with true desires can lead to genuine happiness and fulfillment. Whether it's the freedom to travel or the joy of creating some...

Aug 25, 202544 minEp. 309

How Founders Blow Their Fortunes

This episode delves into the critical dos and don'ts for startup founders after a significant financial win, highlighting the pervasive fear of blowing it all. It emphasizes the importance of shifting from an offensive to a defensive mindset, advocating for discreet wealth management to avoid judgment, jealousy, and people seeking to extract money. Through real-life examples and the 'Congrats, Now Don't Mess It Up' speech, the hosts explain how to navigate the psychological and social challenges of newfound success, stressing the need to preserve gains and avoid the urge to 'prove yourself again' by taking unnecessary risks.

Aug 19, 202547 minEp. 308

When is Enough, Enough?

This episode explores the founder's dilemma of relentless growth and the difficulty in recognizing when "enough is enough." It delves into the scarcity mindset, the law of diminishing returns, and the psychological impact of always chasing more, both personally and professionally. The hosts share anecdotes and offer practical advice on balancing ambition with diversified sources of happiness, emphasizing that true fulfillment often lies beyond continuous business expansion.

Aug 11, 202541 minEp. 307

Can Entrepreneurship Alleviate Poverty?

How entrepreneurship can transform lives and communities? Will shares his personal journey from a challenging childhood to becoming a successful entrepreneur. They explore whether entrepreneurship can be a means to alleviate poverty, emphasizing the importance of hope, a safety net, and access to education and mentorship. The conversation dives deep into the potential impact of entrepreneurial initiatives on economic development and the need for structured support to foster entrepreneurial succe...

Aug 04, 202548 minEp. 306

Should Startups Be a Family?

In this episode of the Startup Therapy Podcast, Ryan and Will discuss the challenges and dynamics of blending friendship and professionalism in startups. They delve into the potential pitfalls of treating your startup team like a family, the consequences on both founders and employees, and the importance of setting clear boundaries. They highlight shared experiences from their early careers and emphasize the need for empathy, respect, and a professional approach to lead effectively without compr...

Jul 28, 202537 minEp. 305
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