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Stacy & Stacy

Stacy Trasancos and Stacy Farquharsonstacyandstacy.site
It’s time to dig deep with Stacy and Stacy. This is a podcast for anyone hungry for God and willing to tackle today’s relevant issues with authentic conversations inspired by Holy Scripture, prayer, and devotion to the sacraments. Stacy and Stacy is hosted by two gals who went to the same country Baptist church as little girls, had crazy lives, and found each other decades later as Catholic convert wives and mothers. Get ready, y'all, they're fixin' to get real! See more at StacyandStacy.site.
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Episodes

More Prayer and Less Preach

Stacy & Stacy wrap up Season 3 with Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's timely advice they discovered in her book Refined by Love: Letters to a Young Bride. In this episode, they discuss the power of prayer, testimonies and faith.

Apr 04, 202329 minSeason 3Ep. 12

I Thought I Knew How to Love

Stacy & Stacy discuss Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's advice in her book Refined by Love: Letters to a Young Bride. In this episode, they reflect on how to 'live your love', give grace and love like the dickens.

Mar 30, 202330 minSeason 3Ep. 11

What's the Big Deal?

Stacy & Stacy discuss Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's advice in her book Refined by Love: Letters to a Young Bride . In this episode, they reflect on the importance of humility, eggshells and forgiveness.

Mar 28, 202327 minSeason 3Ep. 10

On "Teaching" Our Spouses Things

Stacy & Stacy continue their discussion of Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's book Refined by Love: Letters to a Young Bride . In this episode they talk about "Lily's" advice not to "teach" your spouse things, how to avoid power struggles, and how to check yourself before you wreck yourself! Join us.

Mar 23, 202322 minSeason 3Ep. 9

Creating a Symphony of Love

Stacy and Stacy continue discussing Alice von Hildebrand's book By Love Refined: Letters to a Young Bride. In this episode they discuss the importance of saying, "I love you." They give tips on keeping love alive and creating a symphony of love.

Mar 21, 202328 minSeason 3Ep. 8

When Other People Have Perfect Marriages

Stacy & Stacy continue the discussion of Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's book, Refined by Love: Letters to a Young Bride . In this episode they tackle that familiar old insecurity -- when other people seem perfect, and you don't. What's at the root of this feeling and how do we deal with it in our marriages?

Mar 16, 202332 minSeason 3Ep. 7

Never Say "Always" to Your Spouse

Stacy & Stacy continue the discussion of Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's book Refined by Love: Letters to a Young Bride in which "Lily" gives Julie advice. In this episode, they talk about that dangerous little word "always" (and its sister "never") and how overgeneralizations and accusations shut down communication. If your spouse says things like, "You always leave the dishes on the counter..." (etcetera), they have advice of their own about how to ask your spouse not to communicate that way fo...

Mar 14, 202323 minSeason 3Ep. 6

How to Fight Well in Marriage (or Anywhere)

Stacy & Stacy discuss Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's advice in her book Refined by Love: Letters to a Young Bride . In this episode, they consider "Lily's" comments about fighting in marriage, how to avoid it and how to do it well.

Mar 09, 202322 minSeason 3Ep. 5

Know Thyself and How to do a Modest Cartwheel!

Stacy and Stacy continue to discuss Dr. Alice Von Hildebrand's book By Love Refined: Letters to a Young Bride. Join them as they discuss dignity, honor, lounge wear and manners.

Mar 07, 202327 minSeason 3Ep. 4

When You Say Hurtful Things to Each Other

Stacy & Stacy discuss Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's book By Love Refined: Letters to a Young Bride . In this episode, they talk about her advice when your spouse says hurtful things or uses corrosive humor. How do you deal with it? What do you do? She has great advice for putting up shields instead of walls. (And they discuss actual abuse at the end.)

Mar 02, 202326 minSeason 3Ep. 3

Is Your Home Foreign? Or is it a Mystical Enclosure?

Stacy & Stacy discuss Dr. Alice von Hildebrand's book By Love Refined: Letters to a Young Bride . In this episode they talk about the importance and difficulty of setting up a home both spouses feel at home in. And they talk about how to talk about the little stuff (THAT BECOMES BIG STUFF).

Feb 28, 202329 minSeason 3Ep. 2

Lent with Alice von Hildebrand #1 - Freely Bound

Stacy & Stacy begin Lent with Alice von Hildebrand in Season 3. They read the letter, "Love is a Great Thing," and talk about courage, freedom, and risk in marriage. This is not just for married couples. Dr. von Hildebrand has relationship advice for everyone.

Feb 23, 202326 minSeason 3Ep. 1

End of Season 2, See Y'all Next Year

Stacy & Stacy end Season 2 with a Scripture reflection on David acting insane and then praising the Lord (it's the responsorial Psalm today). And they talk about St. Lucy and her eyeballs. Quite a story there! Finally, they wrap up with some thoughts over the podcast journey so far and where they are going in 2023. Watch for us on Facebook and Instagram. Links from This Episode 1 Samuel 21 Saint Lucy - Wikipedia Memorial of Saint Lucy, Virgin and Martyr | USCCB...

Dec 13, 202230 minSeason 2Ep. 60

Our Lady of Guadalupe! Faith -- Beginning of Eternal Life

Stacy & Stacy celebrate the beautiful Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe! Thank you, Mother Mary! We discuss the Catechism (163-165) on how FAITH is the beginning of eternal life, that through all the suffering, pain, and darkness, we can look to the cloud of witnesses in the Bible and among the saints to persevere in the race that is set before us. After tomorrow, Stacy & Stacy are taking a break for the rest of 2022! They have large families and lots going on, plus they have some pretty ex...

Dec 12, 202235 minSeason 2Ep. 59

You Don't Choose Your Consequences, and More on the Perseverance of Faith

Stacy & Stacy discuss the Memorial of Saint Juan Diego and the Psalm reading for today about our choices in life towards happiness. (This is the very first Psalm!) We get to make our choices, but we don't always get to pick our consequences. In the Catechism, we read about the freedom, the necessity, and the perseverance of Faith. How does it all fit together? Listen in. Links from This Episode Ecclesiam Suam (August 6, 1964) | Paul VI - The concentric circles are described in section 97-113...

Dec 09, 202234 minSeason 2Ep. 58

Who Told You You're So Ugly?

Stacy & Stacy discuss the Genesis Scripture reading for today, the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception, especially the verse, "Who told you that you were naked?" Do you hear those lies from Satan too? And today in our journey through the Catechism, we read paragraph 159 on faith and science. It's a fun day! And they are so happy to be back together. Links from This Episode Gaudium et spes, 36 (Stacy T forgot the name!) - "Therefore if methodical investigation within every branch of learni...

Dec 08, 202230 minSeason 2Ep. 57

Burdens, Burdens, Burdens, Not Always So Light

Stacy & Stacy are in different states today! They had to get creative for uniting their conversation. From Texas, Stacy F reflects on St. Ambrose and the Gospel reading about BURDENS! She has a neat breathing exercise. Breathe in peace. Blow out burdens. Try it! Stacy T is visiting her son in Seattle and is broadcasting from there. She talks about "faith seeking understanding" in the Catechism. What does that have to do with burdens? Listen! Links from This Episode Catechism of the Catholic ...

Dec 07, 202226 minSeason 2Ep. 56

Who Bends Down to Me and Hears My Cry?

Stacy & Stacy discuss the Psalm for the Memorial of St. Nicholas, especially where it says that God "stooped toward me and heard my cry, and he put a new song into my mouth." They review the Catechism on the certainty of faith and how faith seeks understanding. Links from This Episode Optional Memorial of Saint Nicholas, bishop Catechism of the Catholic Church, 156-157 Tuesday of the Second Week of Advent | USCCB...

Dec 06, 202230 minSeason 2Ep. 55

Do You Have Faith in Your Friends? In God? Just Ask.

Stacy & Stacy start out the Second Week of Advent with the Scripture on the paralytic who was lowered to Jesus for healing and the Catechism on the gift of faith. Do you have friends with such faith to care for you when you need it? Do you hear God telling you to pray for your friends? Do you have friends you would trust to lower you on a stretcher down to Jesus for healing? "Believing is an act of the intellect, assenting to divine truth by command of the will." God gives us the grace to be...

Dec 05, 202231 minSeason 2Ep. 54

Walk in the Land of the Living, Even if You Have "Mad Faith"

Stacy & Stacy turn to the Responsorial Psalm (27) today. "I believe that I shall see the bounty of the LORD in the land of the living. Wait for the LORD with courage; be stouthearted, and wait for the LORD." From the Catechism, they talk about what it means to have faith in the One God, the Holy Trinity, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. As always, they reinforce the importance of Scripture study, theology, philosophy, and even science to NOT be just an academic exercise but for the truths we le...

Dec 02, 202232 minSeason 2Ep. 53

When You've Been Abused, Building Back Your House on Rock

Stacy & Stacy take a long look at the Sermon on the Mount in light of today's Gospel reading in Matthew 7. Having lived through severe abuse herself, Stacy F. reminds us not to judge people by their worst moments, because we do not know all that they are enduring. She reviews the other lessons from Christ in Scripture, and then they discuss Mary's perfect embodiment of faith and why the Church honors her as the purest realization of faith. Links from This Episode Catechism of the Catholic Ch...

Dec 01, 202234 minSeason 2Ep. 52

Some Big Catholic Words! And the Eulogy of Faith in Hebrews

Stacy & Stacy discuss FAITH today! First, they reflect on the life of St. Andrew on his Feast Day. Stacy F. shares some new (to us) big Catholic words: saltire, crux decussata, nunc dimittis. Then they talk about the faith of Abraham in the Old Testament and in the Eulogy of Faith in Hebrews 11, from the Catechism lesson for today. All of it brings us back to the question: Will we walk by faith today? Links from This Episode Catechism of the Catholic Church, 145-147 Saltire - Wikipedia Nunc ...

Nov 30, 202227 minSeason 2Ep. 51

When Jesus Said, "Good Night a'Mighty" to His Disciples

Stacy & Stacy discuss the Gospel reading in Luke where Jesus talked to his disciples about how to spread the Good News and say "yes" to God. Then they begin Chapter 3 of Part I, Section 1 in the Catechism on the meaning of "belief" and specifically Mary's "blind obedience," the Blessed Virgin as the "most perfect embodiment" of faith. What a beautiful way to enter Advent! Links from This Episode Catechism of the Catholic Church, 142-144 Mary and the Virtue of Blind Obedience Questions about ...

Nov 29, 202233 minSeason 2Ep. 50

Blessed Advent! We're Back and Talking about Jerusalem and Scripture

Stacy & Stacy are back after a week off to celebrate Thanksgiving with their families. Busy time! Happy Advent. They pick back up on today's Responsorial Psalm and the last of the Chapter on Sacred Scripture in the Catechism of the Catholic Church. Join them for Scripture and Tradition all during Advent 2022! Links from This Episode Dei verbum Catechism of the Catholic Church, 131-141 Monday of the First Week of Advent | USCCB...

Nov 28, 202230 minSeason 2Ep. 49

Take Courage, What is Catechism? And Typology

Stacy & Stacy discuss the Gospel reading from the optional Memorial of Dedication of the Basilicas of Saints Peter and Paul when Jesus said, "Take courage, it is I; do not be afraid." Then they answer a question about what a Catechism is and how the current one fits into history. Speaking of fitting in, they also discuss the meaning of "typology" when reading the Bible as a whole with Christ as its center. Links from This Episode FAQ about the Catechism | USCCB Optional Memorial of Dedicatio...

Nov 18, 202227 minSeason 2Ep. 48

How Do We Forgive but Not Forget?

Stacy & Stacy are back! They missed two days due to travel. Today's Scripture for the Memorial of St. Elizabeth of Hungary deals with forgiveness. How do we forgive and still protect ourselves from those who hurt us? They also pick back up in the Catechism on the section about the Gospels, in the words of St. Thérèse of Lisieux, "always finding fresh lights there, hidden and enthralling meanings." Links from This Episode Catechism of the Catholic Church, 124-127 Memorial of Saint Elizabeth o...

Nov 17, 202237 minSeason 2Ep. 47

Do the Do, Blend Your Makeup, and Read the Bible Like a Catholic

Stacy & Stacy discuss the responsorial Psalm 119 today, "Blessed are they who follow the law of the Lord." Do the do! In real life, this means looking honestly in the mirror and not forgetting to take a look. Then they discuss how to read the Bible like a Catholic. Airing from Bangor, Maine today! Links from This Episode Catechism of the Catholic Church, 115-119 Memorial of Saint Martin of Tours, Bishop | USCCB...

Nov 11, 202232 minSeason 2Ep. 45

From Season 1: The Church Through the Eyes of (the Moms of) Pregnant Teenagers

Still traveling, Stacy & Stacy play another episode from Season 1 today about how the Church can better minister to pregnant teenagers. They both have loved their daughters through these difficult times and hope the view through their eyes helps others understanding what is in the heart and mind of these young mothers. They'll be back tomorrow live from Bangor, Maine.

Nov 10, 202224 minSeason 2Ep. 44

From Season 1: How Can We Be Happy in Heaven if Our Kids are in Hell?

Stacy & Stacy are traveling for the next two days to Bangor, Maine to speak at a women's Advent by Candlelight event. Today's episode is from Season 1, where they talk about how hard it is to live with free will in your children, especially when they are older and making decisions that turn away from the family and from God. We ask the question all parents are afraid to confront: How can we be happy in Heaven if our kids are suffering for all eternity in Hell? How is that even possible?...

Nov 09, 202227 minSeason 2Ep. 43
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