Spreadsheets and Spreadeagle

Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman, Performance Artist and Kinky Siren Switchress Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets and Spreadeagle is an occasional and moody podcast exploring the powerful intersection of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism through the lens of cosmic spirituality and pleasure. If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, tune into this bliss. Learn more about the host at ShayAuLait.com. Find out why she's called the Typhoon of Temptation, The BadonkaMONK and the Vulnerability Doula.

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If You Need Someone To Stand Beside You The Next Time You're Cornered

Switchress Shay Au Lait shares a story of an ally coming to Shay's side when they began to read the room and scan the corners during a festival. The person without needing any details noted someone who might need help. Moving beyond a bystander and into a direct aide, Shay was held and protected after being cornered. In this pop-up bonus episode, enjoy the lessons, the discomfort, and the hope as we move into a new season of Spreadsheets and Spreadeagle, the podcast. Are you new here? Welcome to...

Aug 17, 2023•30 min

8. How Should White People Celebrate Juneteenth?

Should white burlesque producers give up their shows on Juneteenth and simply sit in the audience tipping all the black people? Should nonblack performers sit this one out? Should the whole world pause and only let black people make money on that day? Is it better to be white and have a "black" show theme? Maybe play all black people's music? Maybe I can be a white producer and hire all black performers? How should black and nonblack people approach entertainment and the nightlife industry as it...

May 12, 2022•31 min•Season 1Ep. 8

7. What is a Switchress? A New Honorific and Title for Select BDSM Practitioners

What is a Switchress? Have you ever heard of that word? In today's episode of Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, Shay Au Lait shares about BDSM roles and the evolution of this Honorific and Title. How should you be addressed? Kinky Siren Switchress - https://www.shayaulait.com/kinky-siren-switchress/ Visit Shay Au Lait.com - http://shayaulait.com/learn-more Are you new here? Welcome to Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. We started with asking ...

May 05, 2022•30 min•Season 1Ep. 7

6. There's Something Quite Spectacular In Being His Latex Rubber Sex Doll. It Appeased Me.

In today's episode, Shay Au Lait recounts a BDSM experience in becoming a "Latex Rubber Doll." In this deliberate and measured ritual of adornment, as part of agreed fetish protocols, Shay surrenders into a deep "Submissive Head Space," aka Subspace. In the practice of chronicling her experience in Subspaces, Shay also discovered Domspace too. Perhaps for you, it might be Topspace and Bottomspace. Is there such a thing as Switchspace? In either case, listen in to this core memory moment that ult...

Apr 28, 2022•9 min•Season 1Ep. 6

5. Happy World Burlesque Day! Are You Wondering What Is Burlesque?

In today's BONUS episode, Shay Au Lait celebrates World Burlesque Day by sharing burlesque gratitudes, favorite burlesque performers, and burlesque goals and desires to reach for as we head towards World Burlesque Day 2023. What is Burlesque? According to SpeakEasy Noir, it is EMOTIONAL STORYTELLING, EXTREME PARODY AND EXTRAVAGANT REVEALS. Are you new here? Welcome to Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by I...

Apr 27, 2022•44 min•Season 1Ep. 5

4. A New Appreciation For The Power of Submissive Men

In today's episode, Shay Au Lait reads an essay that recounts her notions about dating submissive men. After expressing her ignorance to a friend, he offered her a new archetype to consider. It changed her mind immediately! *In this episode Shay Au Lait also begins with an introductory caveat, trigger warning and/or acknowledgment as in the timeframe of the story, she did not know to speak beyond the gender and sex binary. ABOUT: Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a Podcast for intensely sensuous a...

Apr 21, 2022•9 min•Season 1Ep. 4

3. Capable Of The Most Heinous and the Most Holy

In today's episode, Shay Au Lait explores unfiltered, channeled streams of thought first with a question. Why are we not being present? Beginning with a trigger warning, Shay delves into aspects of cancel culture, rape culture, and more as she explores the notion that we each as individuals are capable of the most heinous and the most holy. Both can be true. ABOUT US: Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a Podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by I...

May 07, 2021•37 min•Season 1Ep. 3

2. If You Think of Blow Jobs When You Meditate

In today's bonus episode, Shay Au Lait reads a journal entry written during a dervish silent retreat in which she tries to use the pathways of Shambhala teachings to meditate while continuously thinking of oral pleasure. The particular book Shay Au Lait is referencing is Shambhala: The Sacred Path of the Warrior by Chogyam Trungpa. ABOUT US: Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a Podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman ...

Apr 15, 2021•3 min•Season 1Ep. 2

1. Welcome to Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle w/ Shay Au Lait

Shay Au Lait introduces us to Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle, a Podcast for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. Of what use is the Erotic? Hosted by Intellectual Sensual Shaman & Performance Artist Shay Au Lait, Spreadsheets & Spreadeagle is a biweekly podcast exploring the powerful intersection of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism through the lens of spirituality and pleasure. If you enjoy provocative stories, subversive conversations, and transformative thoughts, Spreadshee...

Apr 02, 2021•4 min•Season 1Ep. 1

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