Hey guys and girls, welcome to Speak Your Chaos. Speak Your Chaos is a podcast all about submitting your truth completely 100 % anonymously. Regardless of what it is, you can go and hit us up at speakyourchaos at gmail .com. contact us on Instagram, hit us up on YouTube, also on TikTok, and you can go ahead and submit pretty much anything you'd like. We do at times go over it prior to listening to it or reading it out loud. That way we can make sure that it doesn't have anything completely
illegal just for your safety and ours. Again, my name is Carlos. I am the host of Speaker Chaos. This week we will have Santos, whom we've had last week, joining us. for this recording. Alright guys, so our first submission of the day is going to be my boyfriend, 25 male, and I, 23 female, have been together for about a year. We've always had pretty good communication, or so I thought.
Recently, I found out that he's been regularly getting drinks after work with a female coworker, just the two of them, and never mentioned it to me. When I asked why he never told me, he said it never came up, and that he didn't think it was a big deal since they're just friends.
What bothers me, is that he tells me about every other after work hangout with his guy friends he swears there's nothing going on between them but now i've noticed he leaves out details when she's involved last week he told me he was grabbing a quick drink with some co -workers but conveniently didn't mention that she was the only one who showed up when i confronted him about this pattern he got defensive said i was being controlling and that i was being paranoid he claims he only
omits details because he knows i'll overreact But I feel like if it was truly innocent, he wouldn't feel the need to hide it. Am I overreacting for being upset about this? Part of me thinks I might be overreacting, since he technically hasn't done anything wrong. But another part feels like the secrecy is a red flag. What do you think, Santos? I mean, it definitely is a little sus. Like, bro's taking this chick out after work, and now all of a sudden, like, yeah,
now he's talking about it, but not really. given details about it but also too like he never mentioned it before so like why are you trying to you know hide hide this other you know chick that you're seeing after work you know whether it's you know just friends or not like that just like you're making it weird for no reason kind of thing if it if nothing's going on you know what i mean yeah my thing is that why the lie why say oh yeah you know me and Some co -workers are going
out, and then she's the only one that shows up. I get that he said because she's overreacting, but I feel like this is the reason that he's overreacting, because she's, or he's obviously hiding things, so she kind of has that right to overreact if it's a lie. And it's, I do find it weird that it's just him and a female. They go out for drinks, and it's pretty often, it sounds like they're low -key going on a date. Yeah, and then it's like, I want to know, like,
are you taking your girl out for drinks? Like, what's going on? Like, are you, like, looking for something in this other girl that you're not getting with your girl kind of thing? You know what I mean? Right. Is it, like, a physical attraction? Is it, you know, you work with her, so is it a personality thing? Or is she filling some type of void that your girl isn't? Either way, though, you need to talk to your girl and... Honestly, if I were her, I don't know. If you
were her, would you leave him? I mean, if we talked about this multiple times and I'm not comfortable with it kind of thing and he's not willing to set boundaries, then I don't know. I mean, it all really depends on what you're able to deal with. I just feel like for me, I wouldn't want my significant other. spending time with someone else and not, not even mentioning it to me or letting me know like what's going on, like behind, behind my back kind of thing.
Yeah, no, I agree. And I will say like, you're only 23. You're very young. There's, you don't have to deal with a lot of shit yet. Um, so I, depending on how the conversation goes, I would just cut your losses if it continues. And, you know, because right now it could just be drinks, but, He's already hiding things. I don't see it going uphill. I see it going downhill. So you're 23. You still have a lot of time left. You still have plenty of dating to do. I wouldn't
settle for just that one person. Yeah, it might be time to reconsider other options if they can't get past this. Our next submission is a 28 year old female who has severe eczema and has finally found a dermatologist recommended skin care that works after years of trial and error. The products are medical grade and they cost her about $300 per month. Her boyfriend who lives with her has normal skin but keeps using her special cream
despite having his own drugstore products. When I asked him to stop, he laughed and said it's just lotion and that I'm being ridiculous. But he's going through my small expensive tubes twice as fast, leaving me with constant flare -ups when I run out between shipments. Last night, I put a lock on my cabinet after finding him
using my $80 facial serum as hand cream. he's now calling me selfish and petty saying couples should share everything am i overreacting for drawing this boundary i wouldn't care if they were normal products but this is medically necessary for me and financially unsuitable if we're both using them he can easily grab his five dollar moisturizer from the shower caddy instead my opinion i think he's he's he's being a bit of a dick for i mean she's paying 300 a month for
things that she needs for her eczema and you're using it as fucking lotion for your hands i think that's kind of fucked up i don't actually think that he cares about her eczema or cares about how much money she's having to spend and you know based off of this it doesn't seem like he's dishing out any of the money for it she's paying for it and he's using it and just wasting it which is causing her skin to have issues Because
he's just... I don't know. I don't like it. I don't like that he's using her shit when he has his own. And that he's not even using it for the right thing. He's using her face cream for his hands. Yeah, that's kind of crazy, bro. Like, he's spending $300 a month, and I'm like, he's gotta know, like, he's spending that kind of money on it. Like, how does he not understand that, like, yeah, you can't just use this anytime
you want to. It's not just for... you know hydrating and and and uh making your hand smooth like you're over here like making her have to go out and have eczema breakdown and she's probably not feeling comfortable about herself out there but you're like you know we should share this because we're in a relationship like it doesn't make sense no not only that but it my thing too if it is like you know if she has to get to the point where she has to lock her shit away from
you and then you're getting mad about it that's a that's a red flag and he's he's 30 she's 28 i feel like the maturity the maturity level should be there to where he's not getting upset about it um but even then like she shouldn't have to go to that level that she has to put a a lock on it for you to not be spending her you know wasting her lotions i feel like she's trying to set a boundary and trying to tell him how important it is for her and he's just not giving
a shit and you know in this she's saying that he's calling me selfish and petty saying couples should share everything i do agree couples should share things but not everything this is a prime fucking example you should absolutely not be sharing and he's the one that's being selfish using your things that you're paying that money for but I would also say if you have insurance use your insurance because spending $300 a month on over -the -counter products That's a lot.
That's a lot of fucking money. Yeah, and I mean, like you were saying, like, if she has to go to that extent, do you have to literally physically lock up the lotion so that he doesn't use it? Like, he's obviously just, like, not being sensitive to the situation and not understanding, like, how she feels about it. But it's not only that, but it's, like, it's also super expensive. So, like, not just lotion that you use daily just to use it. Like, she needs it. you know, to take
care of it all. Right. All right. Next one is, I'll keep this short and to the point. A few years ago in my early 20s, I was still living with my mom and stepdad. I found a hidden camera in the bathroom. It turned out it was his. I gave it to my mom thinking she'd confront him or at least do something about it, but she didn't. Nothing ever came of it. Years later, after I moved out, I brought it up again. I told her I didn't feel comfortable with them staying over
at my house anymore. I was already dealing with anxiety and their visits made it worse. I was calm and respectful about it and even felt like the conversation went well. Three days later, she asked if they could stay the night. It felt like she completely dismissed what I said. After that, I started pulling away. She's the kind of mom who texts every morning to check in, but I couldn't bring myself to talk to her like nothing happened. She told me I needed to let it go.
and stop uh ruminating and even said her life had been worse and she got over it that stung i told her i love her but i need space since then i stopped entering her cause we haven't talked much or had much contact she's the only person i have left so this hasn't been easy but i keep asking myself am i overreacting or is it valid that i need to step back i also wanted to mention that this isn't the only time when i thought her relationship was more important
than us Never expected her to leave him. I even told her that I would give him the benefit of the doubt. It might have been an accident for how a camera ended up in my bathroom. But for me, the way things were handled hurt even more than the camera itself. I have a few opinions about this. My first one is that's fucking weird that your stepdad's camera ended up in your bathroom. That's fucking dude. I've seen this movie before.
That's weird. I don't like that. The second thing is I feel like her mom is dismissing it and not the whole like, oh, I've been through tougher shit in life than you have thing, but I feel like her mom probably thinks that she found the one and she's not going to let anything ruin it. So regardless of what this guy does, her mom's going to stick with him. But I don't know. I mean, yeah, like that last part, I'm just like,
how can you? How can you somehow give someone the benefit of the doubt of a camera accidentally ending up in your bathroom in a spot that was supposed to be hidden, of course. But, like, that makes absolutely no sense. Like, that's unjustifiable. Like, Bro's definitely, he's definitely reporting her and, you know, who knows what he's doing with the footage after that. Like, disrespecting not only her. but, like, the relationship he's supposedly having with her mother, which he seems
to value more than her own daughter. I don't understand that right there. No, not only that, but also, like, you know, it makes me feel like she isn't the first person that he's probably done this to. But the fact that he's just getting away with it like absolutely nothing. And then if I were her, I would be confronting him as well, not just the mother. But I'd be like, yo, I found your shit in my bathroom. I want to see what the fuck you recorded. I want to see the
footage because who knows? It could be a lot of things. It could be her getting naked, take a shower. It could be her in the shower. It could be just, you know, doing her morning or her nightly routine and whatever the case. But either way, there is. There's zero reason why you should have a camera in the bathroom. There's absolutely no reason why there should be a camera. And if she said that she found the camera, that means
that she was, she wasn't looking for it. You know, she was doing something and bam, there's the fucking camera. Um, what I'm wondering is how she knows it's his specifically, but I'm assuming it's, it's either her mom's or it's his. So the obvious was to plan. It seemed that no one else is staying in the house. And I think so. It'd have to be his. I also like the mom. She's saying that worse things happen to her and things like that. It's kind of brushing her
under the rug. That shows you the kind of mother she grew up with and where she stands. I mean, obviously, it can't be her first run -in. No, it's absolutely not her first run -in. And yeah, the whole I've been through worse things in life.
her mom is absolutely traumatized but she she doesn't care she doesn't care she cares more about the man and about the dick than she cares her own daughter um that to me is pretty pretty fucked but moving on i 29 female have been married to my husband 31 male since january he literally never opens his phone around me which i find very suspicious i think i'm just overreacting Because I've been cheated on in the past. I open mind around him all the time, and I have no issues
with him seeing who I'm messaging. Am I just insecure? Am I being paranoid? I just think it's weird that he's never opened his phone around me before. I mean, she could be overreacting to it, especially if they never had a conversation about it. There's definitely some context we're missing there. She obviously... you know, has the past with the, with someone, you know, cheating on her. So she most likely would assume, you know, have her, have her defenses up or walls
up, but they also, they're married. So it's like, if you really feel uncomfortable about it, like I've got to talk about it. Cause communication is going to be the only way you're going to, you're going to get through this one. Right. And it could just be something that, that he's not used to. He might, he might not be the type
of guy that. you know he uses it and maybe he always pockets it afterwards or he just doesn't use it around you just because of the fact that he wants to enjoy his time with you and he's a quality time type of guy or he just finds that there's nothing important he also might not be the type of guy that's into social media so we're not you know we weren't given a lot of context to really give that much of a of an opinion but You know, both of our opinions essentially is
talk with him, have a conversation with him and let him know how you feel about it and see how he reacts. See if he's like, yeah, here's my phone. I don't care. Or if he just tells you, like, I just don't care to be on my phone. So you're on your phone more than I am. And that's why yours is always around me. It could just be something as simple as that. But I wouldn't overthink it. I would have a conversation. He's just trying to check his crypto portfolio, man.
alright next one is I know this probably sounds really stupid I was washing my face in the sink some water went up my nose and now I'm worried I live in Texas and I saw the news about an elderly lady getting a brain eating emoba from using tap water and an RV to clear out her sinuses like a neti pot I'm sorry if I'm being really dramatic. I deal with really horrible anxiety and would like my mind to be put at ease. Any help is much appreciated. You want to take this
one? No, I mean, with the amoebas, I know they're usually in fresh water. So I don't think if it's like city water, you're probably not having a high risk or high chance of getting something like that happening to you. I don't know. I guess it really depends on your location. I mean, people have different fears about getting sick, and I can understand that, but, I mean, I think you might be okay. Nah, I disagree, bro. I think you're fucked. Start writing your will. You feel
me? I think you're doomed. The Amiibo's gonna get you, and, you know, next time you should just be more careful when you're washing your face, you know? Too late now. Right, that will put us in it. Alright, the next one. My girlfriend, 27, female, and I, 23, male, have been dating for four months. We went out for some drinks after work. For context, she's been borderline amazing in helping me emotionally and mentally recover after my six -year relationship with
my ex. It's been a 180 in how I've been treated, which has been great in our relationship, but in my mind, it feels almost too good to be true. So after we came back to my place, she fell asleep, which led me to snoop through her phone. I know it's a big no -no, which I took 100 % accountability for, but I couldn't resist due to a nagging feeling in my gut. After a few minutes of snooping, I found a conversation about a year and a half prior to us dating about her best friend reminiscing
about the time that they hooked up. It was a bit vulgar, all things considered, and after reading enough, I couldn't find any more messages. I confronted her, and I can't lie, she's done all the right things since. She's blocked him, she said it was a one -time thing, and admitted that it was during a rough time in her life when she thought maybe a hookup could fix things in
her life, but I'm not sure. It was annoying to think about before when I met him, and I wasn't even aware that it took place, and the part of me feels like I can't trust her. Any advice? My advice is this. You've been together four months. This happened about a year, year and a half, possibly even longer than that before you. I don't feel like you have the right to say that you can't trust her unless she did something right now during these four months to break your
trust. I don't feel like you have any right to cast any doubt on her. She blocked him. The first thing she did is block him. So right then and there, that should give you more than enough trust. I understand feeling awkward being around him or if she even still speaks to him or spoke to him at that time. I understand why you would feel uncomfortable with it and it would feel
like an awkward thing. I get that. But I don't think that you have the right to not trust her over something that happened well over a year prior to you when you're the one that went through her phone. So if anything, she shouldn't trust you, in my opinion. Just because of the fact that you invaded her privacy while she was sleeping. But that's my opinion. What do you think? I think
my boy has some imposter syndrome, bro. Like, you go and you take a good thing and you just want to throw it away because you have all these doubts that, like, things aren't supposed to be the way they are. Like, he even said it himself. He felt like it's too good to be true. It's like, sometimes you get lucky in life and you just gotta let it be. Let the, you know, relationship
take its course. I mean, yeah, he found some, like, I guess some vulgar things in there and, like, things that he's done in the past, but, like, that it was way before him. And plus, like, from what it sounds like in the context there, like, he handled it really well in comparison to, like, how most people would react or most girls would react, I would say. So he's, like, kind of lucky to still even, like, kind of have
relationships. yeah no i agree and like he said he he she's helped him emotionally mentally recover from his previous six -year relationship but that shouldn't be on her that should be on you and if you weren't healed enough before you're you know if you weren't healed before you got into that relationship then if this doesn't end up working my advice is to take the time to heal take the time to know who you are, know what you want before you jump into the next relationship
and commit the same mistake. But like Santo said, there are times that you just find someone that's fucking, you know, that's it, that they're just incredible and that it seems too good to be true, but that's what it is. That's what they are. That's who they are. And she did take all the right steps right off the rip as soon as you confronted her. She took the right step, so there shouldn't be any doubt. There shouldn't be any trust broken on your end. She's fine, in my opinion.
If she has doubts on you, I hope that you're not getting defensive about it and that you're allowing her to have her doubts because she does have the right to have them since you did go snooping through. Yeah, it's even crazier than at the NES. Like, I can't trust her anymore. Like, I don't understand that. Like, she seems to be taking all the right steps, so I don't know what else she could really show you to actually
earn your trust. Right, besides fucking sending you a screenshot of every message she sends and receives. Like, no, and that's just crazy. Speaking of, I got told to put clothes on in the library
because I was in gym clothes. the sports bra i was wearing went just above my belly button and covered more than some crop tops and my shorts were pretty loose not revealing not tight just right they were above the knee but they didn't look like underwear not to mention it's hot out and we live in a desert i don't know i feel like the lady acted like i was being immodest but jesus people walk around on campus in bikinis like am i crazy for thinking she was being weird
for telling me i need you to go put some clothes on Only for me to then be kicked out anyway because the library was closing. I don't know. I get very cagey when people comment on the modesty of my clothes because it's been like this since I was a kid. People complain when I wear anything and I often was the only one getting dress coded at school despite other girls wearing similar or more revealing things than I do. Maybe I'm
overreacting. Maybe I'm not. I don't know. I mean, the lady could just honestly be one of
those old school people. that's like if you're a woman and you're showing any skin then you need to go you need a balance and whatever the case and i get the part where you're saying that other people on campus dress way worse than what you were you know wearing but you are specifically mentioning the library so it sounds like if this person the librarian whoever You know, it sounds like if there was anyone else dressed like you were or worse, you would have just kicked them
out too. I don't feel like you're overreacting because, I mean, I wouldn't like it if I got kicked out just because of my dress choices, especially if it doesn't seem that bad. But I wouldn't take it as you being targeted specifically. I feel like she would just do this to anyone. Yeah, I mean, it's hard to say without saying the whole outfit ourselves. You are kind of in a public place in the library. So, I mean, I guess there could be higher standards in there.
And it sounds like you said that you were on a campus. So you might be on a university and not sure what the rules might be for that university. Maybe she was just trying to adhere to the guidelines there for maybe being a little bit more professional in the library. But other than that, I mean. Yeah, I get it. Especially since it seems like you have been dealing with this since you were pretty young. It seems like you feel like you're getting targeted, but it might just be her upholding
the policy. Yeah, that's true. She could just simply be doing her job and it'd be absolutely nothing against you and she's just doing what she needs to do because otherwise somebody else walks in there and sees you and then it becomes a bigger problem. So I don't think it's specifically towards you. I think that she's just doing her job or she just says that to everyone and you
just happen to be that person at that time. So next one, we have a 22 -year -old male and his girlfriend, 21, have been dating for a year and a half. She's amazing. She's caring. She tells me she loves me. Our sex life is great, but also respectful of each other's time, class, work, time with friends. However, she has an ex -boyfriend who is on her best friend's list on Snapchat. I've watched her send him Instagram reels and
sometimes Snapchat him back. Am I being paranoid for asking her to cut communication with him? Not entirely, but break the Snap streak and stop sending reels. For clarification, I don't think she sends him real TikToks constantly, but they're definitely in communication. Definitely Snapchat,
at least occasionally. Um, well, it's an ex, so I can feel... i i can understand why he's insecure about it but i feel like there's a there's a bigger reason there's a deeper reason as to why he's really upset about it i feel like it has to do something with something that went on with him at some point you know with an ex possibly he has he has some type of trust issue um i will say if you know not everyone is meant to be together and there is a chance that they
just formed a friendship after their relationship, which can happen. I also understand if he maybe feel like, what if it circles back? So, I don't know. I think he might be overreacting a little bit. I don't think it's that big of a deal if they're not having actual conversations. They're just sending each other TikToks and shit. But I don't feel like we have enough information.
Yeah, I agree. It's hard to say because it's really not like... a lot of information on this but I mean from what it seems like it seems like he has a you know a pretty a pretty great girl um it seems like they're both working towards other things on their own time I mean I definitely get like you know with it being the ex involved like having like the doubts of like you know why is she still like keeping him and her life if like they were done like if there was an end
to that kind of thing you know I mean, like you said, I mean, they could have decided to be friends afterwards, but I don't know, guys and girls being friends, then previously having relationships, it just could get messy and it just doesn't always work out that way that we think it will work out, like them just being friends, you know what I mean? Yeah, I think you need to, Donifer, have a talk and not just start off with, hey, I need you to... Cut the conversation from or cut this
or cut that. You know, find out what they're talking about. Maybe they're, dude, maybe they're talking about you. You never know. But I would sit down with her, have a conversation with her, see if they're just sending each other dumb shit that is really irrelevant and doesn't matter. You know, it could be absolutely nothing. It could just be something that's a habit for them and they're used to it. But if it also makes you feel that uncomfortable in your relationship.
Then talk to her and see what kind of boundaries maybe you guys can set up. The next one we have is a 20 -year -old male. He hosted a close friend of his in his apartment for a few nights. He says, while I was out doing the grocery shopping, he decided to take my laptop, which I heavily use for editing, university work, and other functions
without my consent. he claimed it was for a quick check so it didn't warrant asking for clarification my laptop has a ton of personal files and very sensitive client footage i didn't yell at him but i expressed that it was unacceptable and they crossed the boundary his response to my anger is that i was being overly dramatic do you think i'm the one who's being dramatic you want to go and start this yeah i mean that i mean especially like just taking someone's property
without their consent is is wild to me especially i mean no matter what you were doing like it's not your laptop and you don't know what she does with that laptop like what if you broke it what if you messed up something on it and now she can't access those files like from what she's saying it sounds like that it was like pretty like critical information and that she was in pretty sensitive information she was handling so like It could even be her running the risk
of him taking something from there that she didn't want him to have or couldn't have or something that could get her in trouble. Yeah, my biggest part about it is the fact that he said, my laptop has a ton of personal files and sensitive client
footage. So it's like... you know maybe that shouldn't be on your laptop to begin with unless that's maybe your work laptop but even then if you have this sensitive stuff it could impact your career depending on what it is it could impact your life could impact your livelihood he also said that he uses it for university work so it could impact your school there's a lot of things that could have gone wrong that it could have impacted So I don't feel like you're
being overly dramatic. I think your anger is justified because if whatever you had on there is found out, is shared, is exposed, whatever the case, maybe it's something to do with medical records. Maybe you work for some type of clinic, doctor, hospital. Maybe you do photography and certain things that other people can't see. Maybe, whatever, maybe. It's something that could have impacted you in a negative way, so I don't feel like your friend should have gone through your
shit, especially without asking. Just absolutely not. They use a more secure password. Much more secure password, or at least put a password on if you don't have one. So, the next one is a bit ridiculous. Myself and my soon -to -be husband are expecting a little one at the end of July, early August. That means getting baby supplies as gifts. The biggest thing on the registry are diapers. We've had all registry gifts go to his mom's house as we just moved and need to do a
bit of work before getting stuff here. One of those things we received was a box of size 1 pamper swaddlers. The box has a black baby on it. She called us a bit ago and said we couldn't use it because the box was for black babies, claiming their butts are bigger than white babies. And yes, we're both white, but like that doesn't make any fucking sense. I'm just so baffled and confused because who says something like that? That's literally just a baby who happens to be
black on the box of Pampers. Am I overreacting or is she trying to troll us? I'm so confused and honestly kind of upset that she would say something so stupid. And my husband is completely on my side and agrees with me. Yo, yo, mama -in -law is racist, bro. Straight up. There's no ifs ands or buts about it. Your fucking mother -in -law is fucking racist. And that makes no
fucking sense. It's a fucking baby. They don't make fucking diapers for whites only, blacks only, fucking Hispanics only that have fucking peppers on them or bananas. No, bro. They're diapers for babies. It's universal. It doesn't matter what kind of baby you are, what color baby you are. It's the same shit for every baby. Yeah, see. He just stepped right off the plantation with that one, bro. He straight up was like, back in my day, I didn't have no babies on my
diaper boxes, you know? Like, I don't know. I mean, it's just a baby model. Like, it's not a... It's literally just to show that, hey, these are diapers for babies. Like, it didn't have to go to that level. I don't know why she was thinking that way, other than just being, like, straight up, like... Well, you're not having a black baby, so these aren't the right diapers for you. Yeah, bro. Like, what if the fucking wipes, what if the box of wipes has a black baby
on it? Then what the fuck are you going to say? What if the baby food that you buy in four, five, six months has a black baby on it? Then what? Are you telling me white babies can't eat fucking apple fucking baby food? Like, how does that make sense? Your fucking mother -in -law is just fucking racist. She still has the mentality from back in her old autumn days. Oh, man. I feel
so sorry for her. She literally sat down, looked at this box, had a thought about it for a good minute, and said, I need to tell my daughter that they have to take these back. They cannot use these diapers. She really had to process this, and it made sense to her. It made absolute fucking sense to her. Okay, so then my question is, what if it was Huggies? Huggies used his fucking Mickey Mouse on it. Damn. So what the fuck were you going to say then? Mickey diapers
are fucking rats. Mouse is like, what are you going to say then? All right, well, our last
one of the night. My wife. 34 female and i 36 male have been married for eight years we have two kids together she recently started a new job where she's gotten really close to one of her co -workers she calls him her work husband she says it's all jokes and off his banter nothing serious at first i brushed it off but over time she started texting him outside of work hours she's constantly laughing at his jokes and she's even facetiming him while we're away on a family
trip with our kids i finally told her it was getting weird and she told me to stop being so insecure last week she asked if he could come with us on our summer vacation to the lake house she said he has no family around and he could use a break i said absolutely the not this is our family Our family time, and I don't want some random guy that I don't know tagging along, especially someone that she flirts with every single day. She got mad, said I was being controlling.
Her exact words were, I'm not even allowed to have friends now. I told her it's not about friends, it's about boundaries. She's still mad and says I embarrassed her by making a big deal out of nothing. Bro, straight up, your wife is a hoe. I said what I said, and I don't regret it. Your wife? Is fucking around. With another dude. She don't give a fuck about your feelings. And I guarantee you. If he came on that trip. Your wife would have gotten piped down. By somebody
the fuck else. With your kids being there. So. First of all the work husband shit. As soon as she said that. You need to shut that shit down. Fucking right away. But the fact that she's facetiming him. While on a trip. With you and your kids. That she's texting him all the time. That she wants him to go on trips with you. Nah. No. Nope. You're 34. Oh, no. You're 36. You're still fucking young, bro. You can remarry. Fuck that. Yeah,
I mean, like... Like, that's crazy. I mean, like, you know, people, you know, say that stuff playfully at times. Like, not really being serious. Like,
you know, nothing too serious. So I could understand where, like... that side of it's coming from like oh it's just a joke kind of thing like you know since we work together all the time kind of thing blah blah blah but then it's like like when you uh when you start going into these directions where now you're escalating the situation like now you're texting them uh now yeah and crazy like the craziest thing is inviting him to the to the family vacation like that's nuts bro And,
like, what other guy would be like, oh, yeah, I'm definitely going to go on this vacation with some other, like, her family and her husband. Like, blah, blah, blah. Like, like, come on, man. Like, that's crazy as fuck. But the thing is, too, is, like, we also don't know if, like, she even, like, offered that as an option to the guy. So maybe he, you know, maybe I'm calling him weird too soon. But still, like, the whole thing's weird, bro. Like, she's definitely on
some stuff, bro. Bro, not only that, but I also feel like not only are you disrespecting your husband, but you are straight up disrespecting your fucking kids by trying to have someone that is not their fucking daddy that they don't know. I'm assuming they don't know. Come on a trip with you. You feel me? How do you also explain that to your kids? Yeah, just trying to introduce
them to their future stepdaddy, bro. shit bro could you bro that's some shit that you could that you would see on the news that you would literally be like oh husband kills you know wife having affair husband kills the fucking guy during a family vacation like you know that's some shit that you would absolutely see on the fucking news that's wild bro i don't i don't understand how how she even is is justifying this in her
own head You know what I mean? How is she justifying inviting him over and then not even considering her husband's feelings and all that? That's insane. No, I agree. As soon as she started FaceTiming him while her husband and her kids were on vacation, that right there, that's that line. She didn't cross that line. She jumped over that shit. So right there, dude, that right there, that's just
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