Not a fan of vanilla? This fetish and BDSM podcast is for you. Brought to you by the FET app, each episode hosts Anna and Gregor sit down with a sex-positive guest to dig deep into the wonderful – and at times, weird – world of kink. Expect lust, laughter, and the occasional spank, as they pose questions you've always wanted to ask, but didn't dare to. For hardcore fetishists as well as curious newbies, this kinky podcast will serve you like a slave to their Master. Judgement-free, no bulls**t – just kink.
We all know about pegging. We 've all watched porn and see how men love to put it up women's butts. But how is anal for women? Pain, pleasure, poop... all the above? In this episode, Anna and Gregor dive into this hot and peachy topic. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter . Email us with feedback and show suggestions to podcast@ideawisegroup.com ....
Sometimes things just don’t go the way you’d hoped. In BDSM, this can lead to bizarrely funny or even dangerous situations. In this episode of Spank U, Next’s BDSM Basics, Anna and Gregor discuss how to avoid any kinky disasters and how to deal with them if they happen anyway. 00:00:00 - Introduction and Host Banter 00:01:24 - Overview of BDSM Basics Series 00:01:58 - Topic Introduction: BDSM Gone Wrong 00:05:30 - Medical Emergencies and Honesty 00:07:05 - Emotional Impact and Aftercare 00:09:06...
Spank U, Next listeners... we're back with another mailbag episode where we take listener's questions and answer them in the best way we can. We've been a bit MIA recently due to life events, so we'll update you on the podcast for the next few months and check in with each other on what the hell has being going on in both of our lives. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter . Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show sugge...
Listen to one of our most successful episodes ever where we talk to a male ProDom who caters to female clients only. Christian Grey, your time is up! This episode, Anna and Gregor talk to London's most prolific pro Dominant, Master Peter. Hear about the women who pay for a good spanking, and why sex work catered to female pleasure is so rare (the patriarchy!). Treat yourself to titillating tales from the BDSM underground, as Master Peter reflects on moving away from SSC (Safe, Sane & Consens...
This episode's topic has had such an impact on our show that we couldn't ignore it any longer: We're gonna talk about spanking and why so many people enjoy having their booty beaten. Join Anna and Gregor as they explore a kink that's found its way into many people's bedrooms and get inspired to spice up your own sex life. 00:03:27 - Dynamics of submission and domination 00:04:29 - Different preferences in spanking 00:10:26 - Men struggling with feminism in BDSM 00:14:30 - Checking in with body b...
Welcome to the podcaster showdown! Anna and Gregor interview veteran podcasters Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast and discuss their 20 years of experience in the BDSM and fetish world. Dan and Dawn share stories of life on the road living in an RV, power exchange, polyamory, and thriving in alternative lifestyles. Timestamps: 00:01:45 - Dan and Dawn's Polyamorous and Kink Journey 00:02:20 - Open Relationships vs. Polyamory 00:02:47 - The Health of Polyamorous Relationships 00:03:20 - Di...
Listen to an old fan favourite about DDLG (daddy Dom/little girl), littlespace, age play, and so much more! You're invited to explore the much-misunderstood world of age play and DDLG (Daddy Dom/Little Girl) with hosts Anna and Gregor. They are joined by Shaun and Sarah, a couple who met on Fetish.com, to talk littlespace, consent, sensual domination, aftercare, and funishment vs. punishment. Get educated on the BDSM community's move towards the gender-inclusive term Caregiver/little, and let th...
In this episode of BDSM Basics, we're taking it back to basics... literally. Sadomasochism: what is it? Where did it come from? How can you explore it? Listen now, you sadistic/masochistic freaks! Timestamps: 00:00:03 - Introduction to BDSM Basics 00:01:44 - Defining Sadism and Masochism 00:02:32 - Origins of Sadism 00:03:46 - Marquis de Sade's Novel "Justine" 00:04:30 - Historical Context of Sadism 00:05:36 - Marquis de Sade's Reputation 00:06:21 - Origins of Masochism 00:07:25 - Psychiatry and...
Delve into the dynamic and evolving landscape of porn with the multifaceted adult performer and activist, Mickey Mod. Hosts Anna and Gregor chat to the seasoned porn performer – who is not only passionate about his craft, but also deeply invested in advocating for the rights of sex workers – about ethical adult content, race, sex work, and so much more. Mickey Mod is an industry icon – enjoy his wisdom here. Timestamps: 00:04:18 - Mickey's entry into the porn industry 00:06:05 - BDSM community a...
Sun salutations, Tantra, the inner goddess... and kink. Sound like a strange mix? Not for Alice and Pau, two yoga coaches and instructors bringing kinky yoga to women and couples looking to do some self-discovery. They tell Anna and Gregor why yoga and BDSM are a heady mix that opens up the sensual and sexual self. Timestamps: 0000:00 - Intro 00:04:40 - Discovery of Kinky Yoga 00:07:29 - Rise Women Rise Collective and Retreats 00:08:46 - Concept of Holy Whore Retreat 00:11:30 - Explaining Tantra...
Dominatrix and kinky influencer Eva Oh is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about her fascinating journey to sex work. She went from working in strategic consulting to becoming a highly successful dominatrix, now earning up to $10,000 a day with an online following in the hundreds of thousands. Eva shares the psychological aspects of her work – particularly her interest in power dynamics and emotional masochism – and misconceptions surrounding sex work and the BDSM community. Timestamps...
BDSM often gets a bad rap in pop culture, notably exacerbated by the problematic portrayal in 'Fifty Shades of Grey'. Determined to shift the narrative, Anna and Gregor sit down with kinky documentary director Todd Max Carey to talk about his latest project, 'Touch Kink,' a film that explores real-world BDSM and fetishism. Carey tells the story of how he got into BDSM and why it was so important for him to bring the stories of other kinky people to the big screen. Tune in as they navigate throug...
It's all about leather in this episode of Spank U, Next... and quite frankly, it's long overdue. The leather fetish community is perhaps the most well-known aesthetic of the queer kinky community – but where is at today? Once thriving leather bars in New York, San Francisco and beyond have closed their doors as dating apps fill the supply and demand of queer and kinky sex. Artist Steven Harwick, a Brooklyn-based artist, has been photographing modern leather kink culture and how the subculture ha...
It's the spooky season – the demons are among us. So Anna and Gregor dive into the realm of vampire fetishism and blood play in this special Halloween episode. They talk Buffy the Vampire Slayer and gothic influences, how vampire fetishists play with their prey, and their recent trip to New Orleans, a city with a vibrant vampire community. Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter . Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us with feedback and show s...
Listen to an old fan favourite about the world of full-time BDSM with fellow podcasters and IRL couple Kayla Lords and John Brownstone (JB). The husband and wife duo met on the internet before sparking up a 24/7 Daddy Dom/sub dynamic in their shared home in Florida. Hosts Anna & Gregor get the lowdown on what it takes to make a kinky partnership work all day – every day. From the domestic to the downright dirty, Kayla (affectionately dubbed the ‘coffee sub’) and JB lift the lid on round-the-...
Spank U, Next is back after a summer hiatus and you're in for a treat. World-renowned sex therapist and kink specialist Dr. Stefani Goerlich is in the studio to talk about BDSM and psychology. Early into her work, Stefani was struck by the kink-shaming she saw among other sex therapists and decided to do things differently. She takes an empathetic and non-stigmatising approach to help kinky people (and their partners) enjoy good sexual health and happiness. In this episode, Stefani tells Anna an...
All anyone is talking about is AI. How it’s coming for our jobs, our minds, and our sex lives. But does ChatGPT know a thing or two about BDSM? It appears so. New AI tools tend to swerve sexual and adult content – including anything about kinks – but Anna & Gregor hacked ChatGPT to become a curious kinkster. They were surprised about its sophistication – as you will be, too. Follow Spank U, Next and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter . Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like y...
In this episode of BDSM Basics, Anna and Gregor explore the world of foot fetishes and how the allure of feet may be tied to their taboo nature, often associated with dirt and sweat. Listen as they make biblical references to foot worship and discuss the symbolism of submission and adoration tied up with these fetishes. If 1 in 3 people have a fetish, and foot fetishes are the most common, that's a lot of people into feet. Timestamps: Intro [00:00:00] Why sexualizing feet feels taboo [00:03:17] ...
Have you ever found yourself in a relationship where sex goes from hot to hardly ever? It's a tale as old as the orgasm gap, but there's actually a lot you can do about it. The UK’s leading psychosexual therapist Kate Moyle is in the studio with Anna and Gregor to talk about desire, sex and the therapist's couch. They dive into topics like why sex dwindles in long-term relationships, how mums can get their groove back after maternity, prioritising pleasure over penetration, and exploring BDSM wi...
Been ghosted by your Dom? Did a kinky relationship end abruptly and you're left pining? Breakups are always tough – in BDSM, they're tougher. Trust and consent are such fundamental components of any dynamic that a rupturing of these things can feel devastating. It's abandonment, but without the play. Don't fret, though, co-hosts Anna and Gregor are here to walk you through the healing process, so you can get back to indulging the kinks you love. Timestamps: Intro [00:00:00] When your kinky partn...
Today, BDSM podcast royalty is in the studio with co-hosts Anna and Gregor. Tina Horn’s podcast ‘Why are people into that?!’ – where she has candid, thoughtful and steamy conversations with people about sex, kink, gender and love – is a go-to audio bible for fetishists everywhere. Horn found the kink community through sex work and Domming and is now a world-renowned author and creator of sci-fi sex work comics, a diehard queer punk, and an “educatrix”. Don’t miss this one. Timestamps: Intro [00:...
"The butt is the new pussy", says co-host and anal aficionado Gregor. In this new episode of BDSM Basics, he gives Anna the lowdown on all things anal, prostate stimulation and the gateway to new forms of pleasure. Expect expert anal-ysis on preparation and practice, how to try butt play for the first time, and why everyone should be using lube. Straight, gay, bi or anything in-between, the bum is for everyone. Welcome to anal 101. Timestamps: Knowledge is power in anal play [00:01:47] Be open a...
On the perks of being a bisexual boyslut!! New York columnist, author, and sex expert Zachary Zane is in the studio with hosts Anna and Gregor to talk about his bisexual journey and how the community has got stronger over the last ten years. They talk ethical non-monogamy, struggling to exist in both queer and straight culture, and why being slutty is the best way. Timestamps: 00:00:00 Intro 00:04:44 Bisexuals need acceptance and support. 00:09:09 Men need sex positivity too. 00:10:41 Create inc...
BDSM contracts: what are they, who needs them, and why? That's what hosts Anna and Gregor are discussing in the newest episode of BDSM Basics. Forget what you learnt in Fifty Shades of Grey – get a real education here. Here are some BDSM contract templates to help you get started. Follow us and send a DM on Instagram and Twitter . Sign up to Fetish.com and meet other kinky people like you! Email us feedback and show suggestions to spankunext@playamedia.com. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to...
Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast is back and bigger than ever! To kick off season 3, hosts Anna and Gregor are joined by entrepreneur, businesswoman and social sex activist Cindy Gallop to talk real sex – not porn. Cindy learned about the negative effects of porn on IRL sex by exclusively dating younger men, and as a result founded her company MakeLoveNotPorn in 2009. In this episode, Cindy talks real sex for real people, Big Tech's big problem with adult content and how she's changing...
Join the revolution of pleasure. Spank U, Next: A Fetish & BDSM Podcast is back for a third season with hosts Anna & Gregor from Fetish.com. Look out for the first episode of season 3 dropping this week! Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! Follow Spank U, Next and send us a DM on Instagram and Twitter . Email us with feedback and show suggestions to podcast@ideawisegroup.com ....
Listen to an old fan favourite while the hosts plan more spicy content for season 3. Enjoy a walk down pegging memory lane and listen to the first – and by far most popular – episode ever while you wait. Here, Anna and Gregor sit down with no-frills sex educator Lola Jean to talk first-time pegging, anal communication & squirting like a pro. Get the low-down on straight men embracing prostate stimulation as they dive deep into the greatest tool for self-exploration: the bum. You'll also hear...
Enjoy a very special Spank U, Next bonus episode that takes a microscopic view of kinks in the British royal family, celebrity culture, and the hottest fetish trends of the last year. Think of it as a retrospective on the BDSM cultural zeitgeist. 2022 may be over, but better late than never... right? Expect conversations on Prince Harry's first sexual experience, as detailed in his explosive memoir, Spare, and his brother Prince William's rumoured love of pegging. Hugh Grant has also been into S...
'Tis the season for festive cheer. And multiple orgasms. Carve out some time for yourself over Christmas and settle down by the fire with a special Fetish-phone. It's Christmas Eve. She should be stuffing her turkey, but instead, she's getting stuffed by 3 hot guys. What greater gift could anyone ask for? As always, this episode is NSFW or appropriate for families. Please listen with discretion. Download the FET app or 🇺🇸 FET US to meet other kinky people like you! Follow Spank U, Next and sen...
Spank U, Next’s special Fetish Con episode is here. Go on a wild ride with Anna, Gregor, and the Fetish.com team to St. Petersburg, Florida as they attend one of the biggest and best BDSM events in the United States. The hosts meet fetishists from all walks of life – literally, trampling was big at this convention – and hit the kinky red carpet, the bondage battle, pervy pool parties and so, so much more. Surviving on Starbucks super-size coffees and latex-charged adrenaline, Anna and Gregor get...
