Hey what's up hello! This week’s episode is very special. It’s a full rundown of what asexuality is. If you are asexual and struggle to give the long talk that explains asexuality to loved ones, you can use this to do the talking for you. If you’ve just learned what asexuality is or if you were sent here by a loved one, hopefully, this episode begins to help you to learn and understand. Episode transcript: https://www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/what-is-asexuality Find our list of asexual reso...
Jun 16, 2019•1 hr
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah do a 6-month check in on their New Year's Resolutions ! Did they give up on their goals after one month like everyone else? Did they realize all their hopes and dreams and change their lives? Find out! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/its-the-year-of-like-realizing-things Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Jun 09, 2019•48 min
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah are joined by special guest Amanda (Sarah's sister's girlfriend) to talk about what it's like being a queer teacher! What's the benefit of teaching kids about gender and sexuality early? How do you even do that?? Listen and find out! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/queer-education-in-schools-feat-a-friend Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book...
Jun 02, 2019•1 hr 6 min
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah go down the rabbit hole and play the Wikipedia game! It doesn't take many clicks to get from a random Wiki article to Hitler, but how many will it take to get to asexuality? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/wikipedia-rabbit-hole Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
May 26, 2019•48 min
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk all about their growth over the past four years and what the future will hold now that they graduated college! We live-streamed on YouTube while recording this episode! Check out all the nonsense and see our faces while we talk here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aUN3jvRZ304 Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/personal-growth-and-the-future Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7V...
May 19, 2019•46 min
Hey what's up hello! Did you know Kayla is in a ~feminism~ class??? This week she talks about her research project about feminism and asexuality and what she found while researching asexuality. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/feminism-and-research Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
May 12, 2019•46 min
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about quizzes that are supposed to tell you what your sexuality is. They take the Kinsey Scale test and tests about asexuality and demisexuality! Listen in to see if they're ~really~ aspec. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/sexuality-quizzes Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
May 05, 2019•50 min
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about what it's like being a queer woman in a position of power. They talk about how being a woman has affected their leadership style and how their experiences of directing a musical and a movie were influenced by their identities! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/queer-women-in-positions-of-power Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: w...
Apr 28, 2019•52 min
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk to the infamous Perry Fiero (aka Piano Fiano) about queerness and gaming. How good is representation in online games? What's the state of homophobia in the community? Hit this this ep up to find out. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/queerness-and-gaming-feat-a-friend Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Apr 21, 2019•1 hr
Hey what's up hello! This week we read your assumptions about us and see if they're true! Does Sarah want a QPR? What would our superpowers be? Is having a podcast overwhelming! Listen to find out! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/what-do-you-assume Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Apr 14, 2019•54 min
Hey what's up hello! This week, Kayla and Sarah talk about the upcoming holiday - April Fool's Day. The gals talk about all the things you shouldn't do on April Fools' Day, including coming out as a 'joke,' outing someone else, or getting braces. Take a listen and please don't prank us (Sarah will get very mad)! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/april-fools-day Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy ...
Mar 31, 2019•50 min
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah sit down and talk about aces in space. What are the benefits of only sending aces to space? What would be the best planet for aces to colonize? How to periods work in space? How does zero gravity even work??? All this and so much more! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/aces-in-space Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/b...
Mar 24, 2019•57 min
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah are joined once again by Sarah's sister Emily! Emily talks about unhealthy and abusive relationships, specifically in queer relationships. Typically we think of the man being the perpetrator of abuse, but what happens when there is no man in a relationship or two men? TW: Mentions of mental and physical abuse, self harm, suicide. If you or someone you know is in need of help in an abusive situation, call 1-800-799-7233 or visit www.thehotline.org Ep...
Mar 17, 2019•57 min
Hey what's up hello! This week, the girls talk about their thoughts after watching their first ever episode of The Bachelor. By most perspectives, this show is wild but extremely riveting, but what about looking at it from a queer/aroace perspective? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/the-bachelor-from-an-aro-ace-perspective Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Mar 10, 2019•51 min
Hey what's up hello! This week, Kayla and Sarah talk about the burden of having to explain and define asexuality and aromanticism. Are you obligated to give that TED talk? What happens when you don't want to give it? What do you do as someone who wants more information? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/the-burden-of-explaining-asexuality Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfak...
Mar 03, 2019•46 min
Hey what's up hello! This week, Sarah talks about what it's like passing for someone who is straight. The girls talk all about passing guilt and what to do with the privilege you gain from passing as a "normative" person. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/passing-as-straight Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Feb 22, 2019•41 min
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah rant all about their hot takes - all the way from takes about warm tomatoes and Ellen, to Tony Stark and the whiteness of asexuality. It's getting spicy on this ep. Come take a listen. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/hot-takes Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Feb 17, 2019•1 hr 2 min
Hey what's up hello! It's almost February 14th and you know what that means - time to get love and romance shoved down our throats! For real though, this week Kayla and Sarah talk all about Valentine's day from an aromantic and asexual perspective. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/valentines-day Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Feb 10, 2019•47 min
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about what they call microACEgressions - small instances of aphobia that are so ingrained in society that we may not even notice them. You know, like when your weird aunt talks about WHEN you get married or have sex like it's inevitable. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/microacegressions Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfa...
Feb 03, 2019•47 min
Hey what's up hello! Being aphobic is very stupid - so this week Kayla and Sarah give you a long list of alternative things to do! How fun! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/what-to-do-instead-of-being-aphobic Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Jan 27, 2019•58 min
Hey what's up hello! What do you do with your feelings when you get a crush? How do you deal with feeling like you're faking your sexuality? How do you know for sure if you're aromantic? How do you keep your cat from blocking your computer screen! Listen in as we give dubious life advice! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/advice-for-asexuals Thank you to Frita Batidos for sponsoring this episode. Check out their amazing Cuban inspired street food here: http://www.fritabatidos...
Jan 20, 2019•56 min
Hey what's up hello! You read that right! This week our special guest is Sarah's mom!! We talk to Julie about her experience as a mother of two queer kids - what was her reaction when her kids came out? Was her reaction different with Sarah? Does she regret anything? Does she have any advice for parents of queer kids? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/parenting-queer-kids-feat-sarahs-mom Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt...
Jan 13, 2019•46 min
Hey what's up hello! Even though Sarah hates making New Year's Resolutions we're doing it anyway! Today we talk about how we've grown in the past year and what our resolutions are for our sexualities, the queer community, the world, and each other. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/new-years-resolutions Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Dec 30, 2018•50 min
Hey what's up hello! It's the most wonderful time of the year but in some cases, it's also the most stressful. This week Kayla and Sarah talk all about the difficulties of having a "non-normative" sexuality during the holiday season. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/family-and-sexuality-during-the-holidays Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Dec 23, 2018•48 min
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk all about identities and communities. In America, everyone is obsessed with "what they are" or what country their family came from. Why is that and why do we feel so connected to our country of origin? And can we feel the same way about the queer and ace community? Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/finding-your-place-in-a-community Read the Michigan Daily article about us here: https://www.michigandaily.com/section/statement...
Dec 16, 2018•51 min
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk with their good friend Erin about life as a bisexual woman. What are the most common misconceptions? What's the most difficult part? The most rewarding? Come find out with us! Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Dec 09, 2018•59 min
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah talk about all things clothes and fashion. What does it really mean to dress "sexy"? What happens when someone doesn't want to be perceived as sexy? Do asexual people dress a certain way? All this and more!! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/how-to-dress-queer Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Dec 02, 2018•54 min
Hey what's up hello! This week Kayla and Sarah take another stab at answering the questions posed by songs. Life on mars? Mary did you know? How you feeling? (With a slight transgression to learn the actual words to the American national anthem). Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/answering-questions-posed-by-songs-pt-2 Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Nov 25, 2018•46 min
Hey what's up hello! It's almost thanksgiving so this week Kayla and Sarah are talking about what we're thankful for! We start out with cheese and felt tip pens and eventually get ~serious~ and talk about how thankful we are for the podcast and you!! Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/thankful-for-asexuality Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Nov 18, 2018•1 hr 6 min
Hey what's up hello! Today Kayla and Sarah talk about the pros and cons of social media when it comes to coming out, living queerly, and the potential difficulties of living a 'double life' on the internet. Episode Transcript: www.soundsfakepod.com/transcripts/social-media-and-sexuality Donate: patreon.com/soundsfakepod Follow: @soundsfakepod Join: https://discord.gg/W7VBHMt www.soundsfakepod.com Buy our book: www.soundsfakepod.com/book...
Nov 11, 2018•56 min
