Ditch the Plan: Trust Your Gut and Live Unstoppable

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Please go and click them and I'll see you in there . Hi everyone , welcome to today's podcast episode . Today I want to talk to you about something that's been coming up a lot with my clients , people in my community , and also it's one of the chapters in the Becoming Unstoppable book .

Now , one of the steps in the book is about how to make things really easy , and what I talk about in this chapter is how to start dropping the how .

Now , we've been talking about this on the podcast for a couple of weeks , but I want to really bring it back to how simple we can make everything in life and why we need to make it really simple , because we have normalized this torture that we put ourselves through . We have normalized the way that we live our life that we need this logic .

We need to know all the steps up front . We fear the unknown . We've been trained from a young age to fear the unknown , and I've talked about this in a previous podcast and , if you think about it , we've had this from prehistoric times , when we could have been attacked by a tiger if we'd have went to the watering hole .

But now it is more thinking about when you were a child if you went near anything dangerous , would your mom just let you do it or would she go ? No , come away from that . So , even though you were exploring , you were searching things out , you were putting things in your mouth , you were touching things . You were learning through out .

You were putting things in your mouth . You were touching things . You were learning through your senses . At that point you were told to fear the unknown . So you were told that if you touch something it could be hot , or if you touch something it was going to hurt or whatever it was .

We're taught this level of fear from a young age , from a point of love , so it always comes from love , but it allows us to learn that there's fear in what we don't know .

Now that's okay if you want to live in the consumer world , if you want to live in the idea of society how it is , and if you just want to follow all the rules and stay in your box .

I know that the people listening to my podcast don't want to stay in a box , want to come here to break the rules , want to come here to rewrite the rules and want to live out their life purpose , no matter what . They are unstoppable , but they have been trained to be stopped .

They've been trained to keep stuck , keep small , but it's time to break those rules . It's time to step into your unstoppable energy and make that the real energy that you live from . And this is the thing with the book . It goes through the seven steps , but this needs to become the energy that you live from .

It's not that it's a nice to have , it's not that it's something you do on your best days . It's that you live from this energy . That's how I live my life and that's how I have literally kept going , becoming unstoppable .

So when you think about making things really easy , there's a part of you I talk about it around this queen energy , the magician energy , that part of you that's connected to your divine self , the part that's connected to that inner knowing , the part that's connected to the divine energy of the universe .

That part of you knows exactly how to navigate your life and your dreams . That part of you knows how to make everything so easy , without you realising . But we don't train ourselves to listen to that part of us . We don't train ourselves to listen to that part of our voice that just knows that doesn't need a 10-step plan .

It's happy with a two-step plan because it knows , once it does the two-step , it'll be able to see the next 10 . So today's all about how do you engage that part of you that already knows ? How do you really step into that energy and make it easier for yourself ?

So what I want you to start doing is not think of this as your higher self , not think of this as your queen energy that you need to step into , because it's not anything you need to step into . I do talk about stepping into a lot , because it's it's taking you out of where you currently are , but what you need to do is wear it and wear it every day .

It's not about becoming something that you're not . It's about allowing that part of you inside to take over . At the moment , you might be living from your ego mind , so you might be letting your lower vibrational archetypes play out , like your ego , your logician , your prostitute , your victim mindset . They might be the ones running the show .

Your inner child might be the one running your business currently . But what you need to adopt is that version , this real you version , the version that knows , the version that's connected to your queen , your magician , your sage , all those parts of you that have that inner knowing . They are the real you .

They are the you that you were here long before and that you were born into . Long before you learned all of these bullshit rules , long before you learned all this fear , long before you learned all the limitations . They were you . They are the core of you . That is the real you .

So when you get glimpse of it and you feel really amazing , that's because that is how you are meant to feel . The other stuff that you feel generally , if it pulls you down . You have been trained to be pulled down . That is not the real you . That is the learned behavior . That is the conditioning . Not the real you . That is the learned behavior .

That is the conditioning . So what we've got to start adopting is this real you inside . So what is the real you Get into a practice . Call her forward every morning , call that energy of you ever desired what are they living like ? What is their life like ? What is their energy like , what do they think like ?

And start bringing that energy forward in the morning and wearing it , keeping it on . If it drops , bring it back , use that energy to get used to you acting as the real you , because you need to start running your business , running your life from this part of you , from this whole part of you that knows you are unlimitless . You can figure everything out .

You don't need all the next steps , but what is the next step she will take ? What is the next step she knows is right in her heart ? And like I talk about in the book , you get this zing , you get this tuning fart going off inside your body , going this feels good . Everything else outside of that can be figured out .

You don't need to know all of the next steps . And just to put this into context , when I was launching and I've talked about this on the podcast , but when I was launching the Miraculous Success Academy this year , which is my mastermind that I run for entrepreneurs .

I was launching that earlier on in the year and I asked the real me what is my next step in this ? And what really come through was to do a seven-day challenge , and the message was that it wasn't really about MSA at all .

It wasn't about launching MSA , but this challenge was this thing that I really needed to do and put out , and the reason I needed to do the challenge was because that challenge was then meant to be the book , and that was the clear message .

So , instead of going , oh well , that's not going to work because I'm launching MSA at the moment , so how is me doing a challenge that's going to go into a book really going to affect Miraculous Success Academy ? I didn't do all of that overthinking . I didn't do all the thinking of how am I going to get it into a book ?

Where am I going to get the publisher , what's this going to look like ? All the things that you want to understand before you start .

So what I did was I just wrote down my seven steps to success , I got them on a piece of paper and I started recording the videos and the next week they were out , all planned in the diary , just followed what was coming through and got it out there .

I didn't allow my logician to come in and say , well , this isn't the right way to do it , or it needs to be called this , or it needs to be called that , or you know who's going to do this and all of the things that it likes to tell me . I just got the intuition and did it and the real me come through and said this is your next step .

Now , since that challenge that I did in January , I kind of stalled my energy and then kind of got into the well , what's next ? What am I doing next ? I got into the motion of running Miraculous Success Academy and being a little bit lost in the other things and I got a bit disconnected from doing the book , probably until about June , july time .

And then I was like I'm going to an exhibition in November and I really want my book to be ready . And I connected in with the real me and it was get your book done . And it kept coming up write the book , write the book . I kept seeing it everywhere . I kept seeing it on TikTok videos , I kept seeing it absolutely everywhere Write the book .

So I got in this mindset of let's do it , let's write the book . I don't even know where the name Becoming Unstoppable come from . I can't remember the reasoning behind it . I can't remember my thinking . It's kind of went out my head now . But from this book it's really set a motion in place .

Becoming Unstoppable is going to be like this whole life that's taken over . Now I've created in the space of a month after putting the book out . It's also allowed me to create the affirmation cards . It's also allowed me to create an app that I'm working on at the moment . That's coming very soon .

It's also in my mind seeing this real revolution of women that are here to make a massive difference . And this is all stemmed from me just connecting in with the real me . Now , if somebody had said to me at the beginning of the year , there's going to be a different kind of branding , there's going to be a different kind of name , that's coming through .

That's like emotion and a momentum coming out of you , and I'd be like , well , no , I've got Soulful Badass , that's my brand , that's my empire , I wouldn't have thought of all of the things that are coming out the back of becoming unstoppable . But actually becoming unstoppable is taking on its own life force . That isn't me . It's taking on something else .

It's something else that was meant to be put out into the world , and I wasn't meant to know about all of that because I would have worried . I would have went well , how's that going to work with Soulful Badass ?

And how's that going to work with this , and how's it going to work with this and how's it going to work with that , and do I really want to do it this way ?

I would have got into all the hows and the whys and all of those things , rather than letting each step just unfold and unfold and unfold till it becomes the thing that it really is meant to be , the thing that I was meant to bring to the world . And I'm in the middle of that now . I'm letting it unfold .

So the app wasn't something I decided to do . I've wanted an app for years , but in that week I got the opportunity to look at an app interface . I then got the opportunity of the funds coming in to pay for that and I was like , right , I'm not going to second guess this , I'm just going to take the action .

So it was really about I don't need to know the reason why all of the time , I don't really need to know the reason of why something comes into my path at that time . I've just got to trust that it does . And once this motion is set in place , I see the next step . So writing the book was well . Doing the success challenge was the first step .

Writing the book was the second . The next thing that's come on to me designing affirmation cards within a month and now they're going to be available for you to get your hands on , which really support the book , which is amazing .

And now it's allowing me to create an app , which again support the affirmation cards and also is a membership that's going to be available to people . So it's really building this momentum .

But if I'd have started thinking right well , this membership is going to be huge and then it's going to become an app and it's going to be this and it's going to be that I would have got really stuck in there . How am I going from a seven-day success challenge to having an app with a membership ?

On my mind would have frazzled , but I didn't need to know those details . I didn't need to know the how of any of those details . What I just needed to do was do the next thing . I just needed to do the success challenge . I just needed to do the book . And when I stalled on the book I kept seeing the signs .

Write the book , write the book , write the book and you'll be seeing these same signs and you'll be allowing your ego self to come in and tell you it's not the right thing . But if you're seeing it over and over again or you're feeling it over and over again and , like I talk about , if you've got that niggle , that's the bit you need to act on .

You don't need to worry about the other things . The real you knows every single step it needs to take . The real you opens the next door for you . You don't need to worry about having the right key or unlocking that door . You just need to take the next step and then the door unlocks . It really is that simple .

It's like a video game Soon , as you get to the end of one level , the next level unlocks . Get to the end of that level , the next level unlocks . You do not need to know how to get through level five before you've started level one .

If you do that , you're going to spend all your time researching and not actually playing the game , and this is what we're doing . We're researching , we're theorizing in our minds , but it's all the wrong information .

You're never going to know how it feels until you pick up that control and face whatever it is you're going to face in level one or level five , until you're doing it . So you've really got to stop worrying about having this full-time plan and go what is my next thing ?

Because sometimes we want the perfect thing and we want it to be absolutely amazing , but when you do that , you're missing out your learning opportunity , the thing that you're meant to do next . The universe manifests everything for you that you need to give you the up level . So you are going to get the next best thing . That's going to up level .

You ready for the amazing thing that you've asked for . So at each stage , things get better and better and better . So often we get an opportunity and it's amazing opportunity , but then you want the bigger next thing . It's like sometimes you've got to do that in order to get the bigger next thing .

It's like when I started my business , I was talking about manifesting to everybody , and it took me talking about manifesting to everybody , to women at every level , before I could understand that actually I'm really passionate about helping women make their own money .

So what that led to was me helping entrepreneurs , because I'm passionate about women having money in their hands .

But when I was talking about manifesting and spirituality to everybody , I was getting lost in more of the spirituality and people wanting to know how to connect with their intuition or connect with guides and angels and those types of things , and I wasn't really delivering what I wanted to do .

But if I hadn't started there , I wouldn't have known that that was not really what I wanted to do . So I had to get started in order to figure these things out . Now I know that I'm here to help women have money on their terms , which means often having a business . So that's where the entrepreneurship really comes into its own .

So I needed to start my business . I needed to start trying things , start putting them on , and my real me was showing me the steps that I needed to do , and it showed me the steps to start talking about manifesting . It showed me the steps to start talking about spirituality .

It showed me the people to work with at that time so that I could figure out who I wanted to work with down the line . So if you're sat in the indecision phase . If you're sat in this place of I just don't know , you're probably looking too far ahead . You're looking too far in advance and getting lost in the anxiety of it .

Connect back in with the real you . Connect back in with you who knows ? Go to that place on your timeline , that the version of you that has everything you ever desired .

Sit with that energy and ask that person what your next step is , because that's the real you , that's you connecting to your inner voice , that's you connecting to your intuition , and you actually decided this is how I move forward .

Now , if you do want to work with me on this , I am bringing out a Becoming , unstoppable coaching package which we can work together one on one . We can tap into this energy and we can really explore what the real you is telling you and get her running your business . But there is so many ways you can start to do that .

You've just got to start tuning into this energy and trust that you know every step because you really do so . If you haven't got yet the book , I suggest you get a copy . Read it . Have a look at this chapter , which is all about making things easy .

It's one of the steps in the book and it is absolutely incredible to get out of the way of this conditioned mindset that you have adopted over the years . That is not the real you .

You might cling on to it like an identity like this is who I am , but it's not who you are the real you really wants to come out and showcase what you can do , so it's time to let her . It's time to let her out . It's time to let

her run the show . It's time to stop sitting in this ego mindset , sitting in your lack , sitting in your limitation , sitting in this ego mindset , sitting in your lack , sitting in your limitation , because you are here for so much more and you are here to create a legacy .

So please don't let the made up version of you tell you anything different , because the real you knows your power and that's the version you just need to start to step into . You need to become . You need to allow her to take over , because she's in there , she's in your heart . She's the one that keeps niggling you .

She's the one that keeps pushing you forward . She's the one that keeps making you feel uncomfortable because it's saying you're not on the right path . That's why she's making you feel uncomfortable . So let the real you talk and see how good life can be , because it's ready and waiting for you and you're just ready to become unstoppable yourself .

So please come and connect with me , share with me what this podcast has brought up for you , and have the most amazing week and I will catch you soon . Bye .