The Reasons You Fight Each Other

In this powerful message from James 4:1–10, we confront a sobering question: Why do we fight? James answers with clarity—our quarrels come from passions at war within us, fueled by selfish ambition and worldly wisdom. Pastor Coston walks us through the root of our relational conflicts, from coveting and unhinged desires to prayerless pursuits and spiritual adultery. This isn’t just about conflict in marriage or families—it’s about the dangers of pride, the subtle pull of worldly systems, and the need for humble submission before God. Through deep reflection, personal stories, and biblical challenge, we are invited to resist the enemy, draw near to God, and allow His grace to shape how we live, respond, and relate.

Whether you're facing tension at home, at work, or in the church—this episode will help you recognize the source, respond with humility, and move toward spiritual wholeness.