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SOLACE: Soul + Grief

This podcast is sponsored by SOULPLUSGRACE serving the San José area, offering grief support and grief journeying with spirituality.  I hope to help you travel through grief with God at your side. 

"I am a trained Spiritual Director for those who seek to complete the 19th Annotation of St. Igantius’ spiritual exercises OR seek spiritual direction while grieving.  I have also worked as a hospital/cemetery chaplain and grief doula. I believe all paths lead to God and that all traditions are due respect and honour. I take my sacred inspiration from all of my patients and companions–past, present and future; the Dalai Lama, James Tissot, St. John of the Cross, the Buddha, Saint Teresa of Ávila, and, of course, Íñigo who became known as St. Ignatius. I utilize art, poetry, music, aromatherapy, yoga, lectio divina, prayer and meditation in my self-work and work with others. I believe in creating a sacred space for listening; even in the most incongruous of surroundings."

BACKGROUND

  • Jesuit Retreat Center, Los Altos, CA -- Pierre Favre Program, 3 year training to give the Spiritual Exercises of Saint Ignatius
  • Centro de Espiritualidad de Loyola, Spain -- The Spiritual Exercises of St Ignatius of Loyola -- 30 Day Silent Retreat/
  • Center for Loss & Life Transition – Comprehensive Bereavement Skills Training (30 hrs) Ft. Collins, CO
  • California State University Institute for Palliative Care--Palliative Care Chaplaincy Specialty Cert. (90 hrs)
  • Sequoia Hospital, Redwood City, CA -- Clinical Pastoral Education
  • 19th Annotation with Fumiaki Tosu, San Jose, CA, Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius
  • Santa Clara University, Santa Clara, CA M.A. – Pastoral Ministries

CONTACT ME:  [email protected] with questions to be answered in future episodes.

































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Episodes

Grief Surrounding Birthdays

Send us a text The passing of the years of our lives makes room for grief in our hearts. Kahlil Gibran and Ecclesiastes 3 help us contemplate this very real fact of growth in our lives. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose SPIRITUAL DIRECTION IS AVAILABLE FREE OF CHARGE You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "U...

Sep 01, 202213 minSeason 1Ep. 23

Light at the End of the Tunnel of Grief

Send us a text This week we travel again with Rilke to mine the tunnel of grief and look to God in Hosea 11 to answer us. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose SPIRITUAL DIRECTION IS AVAILABLE FREE OF CHARGE You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat" Additional music by GavinNellist and BluBonRelaXon from ...

Aug 26, 202213 minSeason 1Ep. 22

Mourning Lazarus

Send us a text Today we recall the story of Lazarus through the eyes of Mary and Martha. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose SPIRITUAL DIRECTION IS AVAILABLE FREE OF CHARGE You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat" Additional music by Ashot-Danielyan-Composer from Pixabay...

Aug 19, 202211 minSeason 1Ep. 21

Psalm Meditations

Send us a text This week we ask for God's support as we travel with Psalms of remembrance. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose SPIRITUAL DIRECTION IS AVAILABLE FREE OF CHARGE You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat" Additional music by SergeQuadrado from Pixabay...

Aug 12, 202216 minSeason 1Ep. 20

St. Ignatius' Examen for Grief

Send us a text St. Ignatius gave us a powerful prayer tool with the Examen. Today we take our grieving to God with that tool. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose SPIRITUAL DIRECTION IS AVAILABLE FREE OF CHARGE You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat" Additional music by GuilhermeBernardes from Pixabay...

Aug 05, 202213 minSeason 1Ep. 19

Death Before Life: Losing a Baby

Send us a text Today we ask God to accompany us in the unbearable grief of miscarriage. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat" Additional music: by Ashot-Danielyan-Composer from Pixabay ; and MADiRFAN from Pixabay...

Jul 31, 202222 minSeason 1Ep. 18

Grief Isn't Simple 2

Send us a text Once again a grief friend, Linda, and I discuss the ways that grief isn't simple. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat" Additional music by SergeQuadrado from Pixabay...

Jul 22, 202217 minSeason 1Ep. 17

Holding the Zen of Our Grief

Send us a text This week we travel with God and Thich Nhat Hanh the great Zen teacher who shows us how to hold our grief and not lose touch with the world. His books include: "How to Live when a Loved One Dies" and "No Mud, No Lotus". Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "...

Jul 15, 202211 minSeason 1Ep. 16

On the Beach with God and Grief

Send us a text This week we meet up with Jesus after his final appearance to the Disciples on the beach. After he has spoken his last words to them, we walk with him there. Prayers are from Rainer Maria Rilke's "Book of Hours" Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat"...

Jul 08, 202212 minSeason 1Ep. 15

Grief Isn't Simple

Send us a text Today the Outreach Team from Catholic Cemeteries joins in conversation to discuss the ways grief arrives. It's not simple. We contemplate with Deuteronomy 30. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat"...

Jun 29, 202214 minSeason 1Ep. 14

10 Common Questions About Grief, Part 2

Send us a text Today we continue to discuss and contrast the difference between a therapist's responses to common questions about grief with our more spiritually centered ones. Neither is better, and maybe both can help. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat". Addi...

Jun 24, 202213 minSeason 1Ep. 13

10 Common Questions About Grief, Part 1

Send us a text Today we discuss and contrast the difference between a therapist's responses to common questions about grief with our more spiritually centered ones. Neither is better, and maybe both can help. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat". Additional music...

Jun 17, 202216 minSeason 1Ep. 12

Loving After Death

Send us a text This week, God walks with us as we examine our close love relationships with those we've lost. How that love continues to endure with God's help. Prayers from: St. Thomas Aquinas and St. Teresa of Ávila Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat Additiona...

Jun 10, 202215 minSeason 1Ep. 11

Communal Grief and Mourning

Send us a text Join us this week to explore how we grieve together; especially when public events put us in that place. Find where God walks with us. Prayers from: "The Dream of a Poem" translated, edited and introduced by Peter Cole Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "U...

Jun 03, 202210 minSeason 1Ep. 10

In Memoriam: For Those Who Served

Send us a text Today we remember those we've lost in service to our country and honor their memory. Prayers collected by Anita Diamant. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat" Additional music: Far From Home by madIRFAN from Pixabay...

May 27, 202213 minSeason 1Ep. 9

Grieving within God's Embrace

Send us a text Today God accompanies those in their final moments. CAUTION; Some discussion of suicide. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat". Additional music: Autumn Rain by NaturesEye from Pixabay...

May 20, 202210 minSeason 1Ep. 8

Taking Time for Sadness

Send us a text This week God walks with us as we take time for sadness. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat". Additional music: Autumn Rain NaturesEye from Pixabay 'Parting Glass' Traditional Irish Folksong. -- vocals by Rhys McMenamin...

May 12, 202210 minSeason 1Ep. 7

Everyday Grief

Send us a text This week we consider the quality of small losses in our lives and how the pain of those are just as real. Let God walk with you as you are present for those. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat". Additional music: Autumn Rain NaturesEye from Pixab...

May 06, 202211 minSeason 1Ep. 6

When You Didn't Get to Say Goodbye

Send us a text This week we walk with God in the pain of not having the chance to say goodbye to a loved one as they died. Begin to heal that now. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat". Additional music: Autumn Rain NaturesEye from Pixabay...

Apr 29, 202211 minSeason 1Ep. 5

Tears in the Shower

Send us a text This week we remember our private grief. Expressing our grief in private can become a meaningful and Sacred experience. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Our theme music is: Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat". Additional music: Autumn Rain NaturesEye from Pixabay...

Apr 22, 202210 minSeason 1Ep. 4

God in Your Present Moment

Send us a text This week we walk with God in our present moment of Grief. Based on the writings of 18th century French Jesuit, Jean-Pierre de Caussade, he points the way to experience each moment as a sacrament. In grief or in mourning, we cultivate the Presence that brings us divine Solace. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] To arrange personal spiritual direction: 408-359-5542 Music ...

Apr 15, 202210 minSeason 1Ep. 3

Cherry Blossoms of Grief

Send us a text Join us the a garden full of cherry blossoms as we walk with God through our grief. Contemplation and reflection with Japanese haiku as our basis. Go with God. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] Music is Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat"....

Apr 08, 202214 minSeason 1Ep. 2

Wounded by Death

Send us a text In grief we walk with God in a place that is difficult because of fresh wounds of loss. Take 10 minutes to reflect on the movement and see what support it will offer to have Him there with you. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] Music is Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album "Uppbeat"....

Mar 31, 202210 minSeason 1Ep. 1

SOLACE: SOUL + GRIEF: Interview with Kathy Fanger

Send us a text An interview with Kathy Fanger about the death of her parents and how God continues to move with her in her grief journey. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries in San Jose, California. CONGRATULATIONS TO KATHY ON HER RETIREMENT; SHE WILL BE SORELY MISSED BY THE CEMETERY STAFF, AND ME. Brought to you by Catholic Cemeteries of San Jose/Gate of Heaven, Los Altos and Calvary Cemetery, San Jose You can reach us at: [email protected] Music is Gentle Breeze by Yeti Music from the album...

Feb 24, 202220 min
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