In this episode... Ever felt ignored and instantly spun into overthinking, worry, or self-doubt? In this minisode, Seb shares 3 powerful self-inquiry questions that help stop that downward spiral, plus how EFT tapping helps you release the emotional charge underneath. It’s a relatable and practical tool for moments when your brain starts jumping to painful conclusions. These are the exact questions Seb teaches inside the Social Confidence Club to help clients find emotional freedom fast. 🎧 In t...
Jul 03, 2025•15 min
Do you panic at the thought of blushing in public? That rising heat in your chest… the burning in your ears… the shame of knowing people see it? I used to live in fear of that exact moment. In this episode... I share my personal story of dealing with chronic, uncontrollable blushing in social situations, where it started, how it became tied to my social anxiety, and what I tried (unsuccessfully) for years to stop it. Eventually, I discovered a way to release the shame, the fear, and the obsessiv...
Jun 20, 2025•12 min
In this episode... Most people think they’ll accept themselves after they overcome social anxiety. But what if that mindset is exactly what’s keeping you stuck? In this episode, Sebastiaan and psychologist Steve Wells reveal why self-acceptance is the starting point for true social ease, and how tapping can help you get there gently and effectively. To start reducing your anxiety today and feel more at ease socially, get my free mini-course: The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence bit.ly/socialconfid...
Jun 13, 2025•55 min
In this episode... If you grew up hearing “don’t be so sensitive” or “man up,” this might forever change how you see yourself. In this short minisode, Seb and ex-MMA fighter Tom Woodfin get real about what it’s like to grow up hiding your sensitivity—especially in a world that sees it as pathetic or weak. They share how years of inner work helped them shift that shame, own their sensitivity, and transform it into deep confidence and connection. 🎧 In this minisode: • Why sensitive people are mor...
Jun 05, 2025•10 min
In this episode... "Can you be shy… and still feel confident in social situations?" In this live EFT tapping session, Sebastiaan helps a volunteer release shame and anxiety around being labeled “shy.” Together, they explore how childhood messages shaped her identity—and how tapping can shift self-perception fast. 🎧 You’ll discover: The difference between shyness and social anxiety Why you don’t have to choose between shy or confident How EFT tapping creates emotional freedom Tap along to feel m...
May 30, 2025•16 min
In this episode... If rejection terrifies you, you’re not alone, and you’re not broken. In this episode, Social Confidence Coach, Sebastiaan van der Schrier, and EFT expert, Rick Wilkes, reveal what’s really behind your fear of rejection… and why it lingers, even after therapy or exposure. You’ll discover how to gently dissolve the emotional charge behind past rejections, and why tapping (EFT) helps you feel safe being yourself, without needing approval from everyone. Get the free “7 Secrets to ...
May 23, 2025•55 min
Carol Look has a distinguished background in traditional psychotherapy, was trained as a Clinical Social Worker and earned her Doctoral Degree in Clinical Hypnotherapy. This was before she became one of the only 29 EFT Masters in the world. Carol is known for combining her background in traditional psychotherapy with “energy medicine” and she appears as a practitioner and energy therapy expert in the DVD documentary “The Tapping Solution” as well as in the documentary focusing on helping veteran...
May 23, 2025•32 min
Have you ever been teased, humiliated, or bullied... and felt like you should be over it by now, but it still haunts you? In this episode, Seb shares how bullying in his own past triggered years of social anxiety, and why those early experiences can quietly shape how safe you feel in the world today. You’ll hear a short but powerful conversation with EFT Master Tania Prince. She explains how bullying memories get stuck in your nervous system, why they still affect you today, and what you can do ...
May 22, 2025•10 min
In this episode... Tiffany shares her powerful journey of healing social anxiety after decades of sadness, isolation, and self-judgment. She talks openly about the trauma that shaped her, how she discovered what was really driving her anxiety, and how she gently found freedom through deep inner work. We worked together for 17 sessions using the best of psychology, EFT tapping, and energy psychology. And what unfolded was a quiet but profound transformation. 🎯 In this conversation, you’ll hear: ...
May 08, 2025•39 min
In this episode... “If I feel confident… I’ll be humiliated.” This is a fear many people with social anxiety carry, but almost no one talks about. In this live coaching session, you’ll hear a Social Confidence Club member gently unpack that exact fear. What unfolds in under 15 minutes is a calm, respectful release of what’s been blocking her from feeling confident. No pressure. No pushing through fear. Just a powerful example of what happens when your system feels safe enough to let go. This is ...
May 01, 2025•17 min
In this episode... Do you feel like you have to be perfect just to be accepted? Or to avoid criticism or rejection? This unconscious belief can quietly fuel social anxiety, burnout, and relentless self-pressure In this short minisode, EFT Founding Master and psychotherapist Carol Look shares a powerful insight to help uncover where this pressure really comes from and how to begin letting it go 🎧 In this minisode: • The surprising childhood fear behind the need to be perfect • How perfectionism ...
Apr 24, 2025•5 min
Always trying to be cool... but just end up feeling anxious? 😓 If you've ever felt the pressure to impress or be seen as “cool,” this video is for you. Discover why trying to be cool actually creates social anxiety, and how letting go of that need unlocks real confidence. 🙌 In this episode , you’ll: ✅ Learn how the pressure to be cool fuels anxiety ✅ See a real story of a client who broke free from it ✅ Do a short EFT tapping exercise to start releasing that inner pressure ✅ Discover how to fe...
Apr 18, 2025•15 min
In this episode... You’ll hear a live EFT coaching session where a Club member opens up about a deep fear: sounding dumb in social situations. He shares how he constantly overthinks what to say, feels pressure to sound smart, and worries he’ll be judged if he messes up — a pattern Seb calls social perfectionism . As they tap through it, the pressure eases — and something powerful clicks: “I realized… it’s not others judging me. It’s me.” Social anxiety doesn’t disappear overnight. But every emot...
Apr 10, 2025•14 min
Shame is at the core of social anxiety. Yet, most people don’t realize it. Emma Roberts does. She’s lived it. Once held back by deep embarrassment and fear of being seen, Emma now trains therapists around the world. In this episode, she shares: How shame manifests and why it often goes unrecognized Her raw, personal story (including hiding in a bathroom before a training!) Why EFT Tapping is uniquely powerful for releasing shame and anxiety A simple Heart Anchor technique you can use immediately...
Apr 03, 2025•51 min
In this episode... You'll hear a live EFT coaching session where James' social anxiety spiked to an 8 out of 10, but within minutes of tapping, his intensity dropped. By the end, he felt totally calm. We’ll break down the insights he gained, including this powerful realization: “Rather than others judging me, it’s really me judging myself.” Social anxiety doesn’t disappear overnight, but every small shift brings you closer to ease. Listen, tap along, and experience relief for yourself!...
Mar 13, 2025•24 min
In this episode... Struggling with social anxiety and looking for an effective way to build confidence and feel at ease? In this powerful interview, Sebastiaan Van Der Schrier sits down with Tapas Fleming, the creator of the Tapas Acupressure Technique (TAT), to explore how combining TAT with Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT Tapping) can support your journey toward social confidence. 👉 What You'll Learn in This Podcast: *❓ What is TAT and how does it work? * 🔗 How TAT complements EFT for deep...
Feb 07, 2025•48 min
In this episode... What if your anxiety wasn’t the enemy but an ally? I sit down with EFT specialist Gene Monterastelli from the Tapping Q&A podcast to explore the power of acceptance in overcoming social anxiety. We dive into why anxiety exists, how our system is actually trying to protect us, and how embracing acceptance can ease social discomfort. Plus, Gene guides you through a simple yet powerful tapping exercise to help shift your mindset and bring more ease into your life. 👉 Learn mo...
Jan 31, 2025•23 min
In this episode... I’m sharing my personal journey of overcoming social anxiety and how EFT tapping played a major role in my transformation. I’ll explain why the 7-Day Social Confidence Challenge is such a powerful tool for breaking through the barriers that hold you back from social ease, even if nothing has worked for you before. You’ll hear about my first life-changing shift with tapping and why it’s the key to unlocking lasting results. Plus, I’ll share a powerful client breakthrough story ...
Jan 23, 2025•19 min
In this episode... Does social anxiety hold you back? Seb shares a guided EFT tapping session to help you reduce social anxiety and boost self-acceptance. Whether you’ve been struggling for years or are just starting to address it, this powerful tap-along exercise is for you. You’ll Learn: ✅Why social anxiety is something you experience—not who you are. ✅How to release shame and self-judgment through EFT tapping. ✅A simple routine to gently expand your comfort zone and feel more confident. 💡 BO...
Jan 16, 2025•19 min
In this episode... Seb shares an inspiring story from Martin, a member of the Social Confidence Club, who experienced both a setback and a breakthrough in his journey to social confidence. After feeling ignored at a meeting, Martin used EFT tapping to address his emotional trigger—and the very next day, he won the best improv speech award at Toastmasters, feeling calm and confident. He discusses how setbacks in the journey to social confidence aren't failures, but opportunities to heal unresolve...
Jan 14, 2025•6 min
In this episode... A comprehensive study involving 5,000 patients across 11 clinics over 5.5 years compared the effectiveness of Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) in treating anxiety. The findings revealed that 90% of patients receiving EFT showed improvement, compared to 63% in the CBT group. Notably, only three EFT sessions were needed to reduce anxiety, whereas an average of 15 sessions were required for CBT. Complete relief of symptoms was observed in ...
Jan 11, 2025•5 min
In this episode... I’m sharing some inspiring success stories from members of the Social Confidence Club who have made incredible progress on their journey from social anxiety to effortless social confidence. Here are a couple of highlights: Graham’s Big Win : He went to a concert of his favorite artist fully sober—something he never thought he could do. And not only that, but he danced the night away! Alexander’s Breakthrough : After struggling for years with a lump in his throat that made it h...
Jan 07, 2025•5 min
In this episode... I’m sharing powerful stories from participants of the FREE 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge, starting in just a few hours! Listen to inspiring feedback from people who’ve experienced real change—feeling more relaxed, less anxious, and socially confident. These incredible milestones prove that real change is possible. Whether you're just starting your journey or want to see what’s achievable, this episode shows how the 30-Day Challenge helps people break free from social anxi...
Dec 31, 2024•3 min
In this episode... Seb answers the most common questions about the 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge. Wondering how it works or if it’s right for you? This video covers it all. Here’s a sneak peek of what’s inside: 1. What Is the 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge? Seb explains what the challenge is and how it’s designed to help you overcome social anxiety. 2. Does EFT Really Work? Discover the science behind Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) and why it’s proven to reduce anxiety. 3. Do I Have...
Dec 28, 2024•12 min
In this episode... Are you tired of being stuck in a cycle of worry? In this video, I’ll show you a quick and powerful technique to release your worries and feel better fast. Worrying often happens when our minds try to control uncertainty. But what if there was a way to break free from the endless cycle of "what ifs"? I’ll guide you through a simple method to help you let go of those fears and find calm, with the added power of EFT tapping. Whether it’s social anxiety, stress, or daily worries,...
Dec 26, 2024•20 min
In this episode... We dive into what you can expect from the free 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge and the progress you'll make. Hear real stories of participants who have found hope, relief, and excitement for change. You too can experience this progress—sign up for the challenge at bit.ly/socialconfidencechallenge and start your journey toward social confidence now! "I looked forward to each email and video every day of the challenge, and it was a breeze." - Benny "Knowing there's something ...
Dec 24, 2024•6 min
In this episode... Seb walks you through a life-changing free 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge program. It is specifically designed to help you build lasting social confidence—without doing any terrifying exposures. Here’s a sneak peek of what’s inside: 1. Program Overview: Seb takes you through the structure of the FREE 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge, showing you exactly how it’s tailored to help you succeed. 2. Seb’s Personal Story: Discover the driving force behind the creation of this ...
Dec 19, 2024•35 min
In this episode... We’re diving into real stories and real results from participants of our 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge. These powerful testimonials from day six of the challenge show how even small shifts can make a huge difference in overcoming social anxiety. Hear from Henrik, Jean, and Maddy as they share their progress, moments of relief, and newfound optimism in just six days. The challenge is designed to bring you little shifts each day, offering practical tools and insights that h...
Dec 17, 2024•8 min
In this episode... Seb shares how you can transform your social anxiety in just 10 minutes a day with his free 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge , starting January 1st. By joining, you'll experience: ✅ A noticeable reduction in social anxiety suffering ✅ Less fear of getting anxious or being seen anxious ✅ Feeling less awkward and self-conscious in social situations —all from the comfort of your home! With daily emails and easy-to-follow EFT Tapping exercises, you'll feel more empowered, lighte...
Dec 13, 2024•6 min
In this episode... I share a powerful testimonial from Deborah, a participant in last year's free 30-Day Social Confidence Challenge, who found relief and clarity through tapping. After struggling with social anxiety for 10 years, Deborah felt isolated and disconnected. However, tapping gradually helped her become less anxious, more confident, and better equipped to interact with others. Participating in the 30-Day Challenge was a turning point, providing her with motivation, new insights, and a...
Dec 10, 2024•2 min
