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So, We Met Online…

Erika and Chrissowemetonline.com
This is a podcast about the world online dating — love, sex, and everything in between. Dating and relationship coach Erika Ettin and tech guru Chris share stories and discuss the horrors and joys of today’s dating culture, from both the male and female perspective, every other Sunday. From Tinder to eHarmony, first dates to marriage, kissing to sex… they leave no stone unturned. More at sowemetonline.com.
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Episodes

It’s True – Men and Women Date Differently

Have you ever wondered whether men and women really do think differently when it comes to dating? You don’t have to wonder anymore. Erika and Chris break down how truly different their brains are when...

Jul 22, 201821 minSeason 3Ep. 40

Is It Too Soon To Get Back Out There?

So many times, people get back out there before they are ready. Maybe it’s because they’re lonely, or maybe they think they should be ready based on some preconceived or arbitrary timeline. The reality is...

Jul 08, 201827 minSeason 3Ep. 39

I Got Stood Up!

In this day and age, with technology everywhere we look, it’s easy to forget that people are, well, people. When you set up a date with someone, there’s a real person at the other end...

Jun 24, 201832 minSeason 3Ep. 38

Gender Roles and Stereotypes in Dating

Dating is confusing. And in the #MeToo era, it’s even moreso. Not everyone has the same views on the gender roles, if there are any, in dating, yet many feel that someone should simply “know”...

Jun 10, 201834 minSeason 3Ep. 37

Q&A 1 – Pre-Date Questions

Sometimes even before the first date, things can get confusing. What if you’re not sure how attracted to someone’s profile you are? What if you can’t get over an ex? What if you just don’t...

May 27, 201824 minSeason 3Ep. 36

A Pet’s Place in Dating

Is Rover part of your dating life? How about little Whiskers? When it comes to dating, what role should your pet play? Guest Naomi shares her story, and then Erika And Chris each have some...

May 13, 201822 minSeason 3Ep. 35

Dating in the #MeToo Era

The #MeToo movement has gone beyond giving a voice to those who have incurred sexual harassment or misconduct. It has also brought about social change and consequences. But, where does that leave us when it...

Apr 29, 201824 minSeason 3Ep. 34

Money and Relationships

In any relationship, especially long-term, money can be a hot-button topic. What if one partner thinks an occasional splurge is appropriate, and the other doesn’t? Even the word “splurge” is subjective. It’s so important to...

Apr 15, 201828 minSeason 3Ep. 33

Valentine’s Day!

Happy Valentine’s Day to all of our listeners. This week, Erika shares one of her own more memorable Valentine’s Day experiences, and then Chris and Erika discuss how dating can be different — and more...

Feb 14, 201822 minSeason 2Ep. 32

Is There a Dating Lemon Law?

You’re on a date. It’s not good. You want out. Is there ever a polite way to extricate yourself from a less-than-ideal date? Or, is it best to see it through? With a story from...

Feb 04, 201837 minSeason 2Ep. 31

Politics, Religion, Equality… Oh My!

Are certain first date topics taboo? Should you get your deal-breakers out of the way early, or should you get to know someone a bit first? This week, we hear a story about religion, marriage...

Jan 21, 201826 minSeason 2Ep. 30

Q&A with Erika and Chris – Part III

What guidelines should we follow when sharing information about ourselves on a first date? Do you cover up your baggage or put it all on the table from the start? And how soon into a...

Jan 06, 201823 minSeason 2Ep. 29

Will I Meet the Old You or the New You?

Online dating is an interesting place where you promote yourself in any way you choose. We hope that people are being honest. Some are, and some aren’t. Today, Chris and Erika discuss what information to...

Dec 17, 201732 minSeason 2Ep. 28

How far should things go?

When you’re dating someone new, it’s hard to know how fast (or slow) things should move… sexually. One person might have one idea, and the other may have the opposite idea. Or, maybe one person...

Nov 12, 201725 minSeason 2Ep. 26

Q&A with Erika and Chris – Part II

Want to know how to move from the dating app to the first date? Or, maybe you’re texting with a potential date, but the planning of the date itself has stalled? Erika and Chris are...

Oct 29, 201722 minSeason 2Ep. 25

Dating After Divorce

Getting back out there after a divorce? Have anxiety and fears about it? This week, Erika and Chris discuss what it’s like when someone starts dating again after having been married. And our guest, Tony,...

Oct 15, 201736 minSeason 2Ep. 24

How’s Your Dating App-titude?

Tinder got you down? Not getting responses from your Bumble matches? Sick of all of the matches on Hinge who just write “hey there” to you? On this week’s episode, Erika and Chris do a...

Oct 01, 201729 minSeason 2Ep. 23

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?

Cheating. It’s never pleasant. There’s always more to the story. On today’s episode, Erika talks to Natalie about her experience, and then Erika and Chris discuss their takes on the nuances of cheating and relationships.

Sep 17, 201732 minSeason 2Ep. 22

Q&A with Erika and Chris

Want your burning (hopefully not literally!) dating questions answered? In this episode, Erika and Chris tackle some commonly asked dating questions, with both some timely advice and, of course, some crazy stories.

Sep 03, 201720 minSeason 2Ep. 21

Ghosting, Benching, and Kittenfishing… Oh My!

Ghosting — the act of ending a relationship without actually ending it — is bad, and our guest Becca shares her experience. Then, Erika and Chris delve into other modern dating behaviors (and their “interesting”...

Aug 20, 201727 minSeason 2Ep. 20

Oh, The Hair Down There

Manscaping, grooming, a landing strip or a Brazilian. There are so many ways to wear your hair… down there. For the Season 2 premier, Erika and Chris go a little deeper, discussing current trends in...

Aug 06, 201724 minSeason 2Ep. 19

Season 2: Here’s a Taste of What’s Coming

Are you looking for more dating stories? Got ’em! More sex? Got that too! More Crazy Cupcake Lady? Well, even we can’t outdo her. Erika and Chris are back for Season 2 of So, We...

Jul 30, 20172 min

Remember these stories? Part 2

While Erika and Chris start planning for a new season of the show, we thought you’d enjoy listening to some of the highlights from the last few months. This week, Erika shares some of her...

May 14, 201720 minSeason 1Ep. 18

Remember these stories? Part 1

While Erika and Chris start planning for a new season of the show, we thought you’d enjoy listening to some of the highlights from the last few months. This week, Chris shares some of his...

Apr 30, 201714 minSeason 1Ep. 17

I can’t believe you asked that!

No one likes to be interviewed on a date. So what questions should you ask and what questions should never be asked when you begin to date someone new? Chris and Erika take both sides...

Apr 23, 201728 minSeason 1Ep. 16

Didn’t you read my profile?

You sign up for a dating site. You write a profile. You message some people. You plan the date. You assume that your date has read the profile you wrote. This seems like a natural...

Apr 16, 201727 minSeason 1Ep. 15

Second Chances

How often have you considered giving someone a second chance? Does it work out the second time? When a relationship didn’t work out because of timing, distance or communication issues, we all seem to ponder...

Apr 09, 201726 minSeason 1Ep. 14

Is this a date?

Someone asks you to do something… maybe it’s a drink, maybe a coffee, or maybe a trip to Disneyland. But, it is a date? Erika and Chris discuss how to know whether something is a...

Apr 02, 2017Season 1Ep. 13

Is Chivalry Dead?

Ah, chivalry. Some people crave it. Some people hate it. Some people don’t even know what it is. Erika and Chris each share stories about chivalry… or lack thereof. Together they discuss if chivalry is...

Mar 26, 201730 minSeason 1Ep. 12
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