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So, We Met Online…

Erika and Chrissowemetonline.com
This is a podcast about the world online dating — love, sex, and everything in between. Dating and relationship coach Erika Ettin and tech guru Chris share stories and discuss the horrors and joys of today’s dating culture, from both the male and female perspective, every other Sunday. From Tinder to eHarmony, first dates to marriage, kissing to sex… they leave no stone unturned. More at sowemetonline.com.
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Episodes

The End of an Era

Over the past almost four years, Chris and Erika have shared their trials, tribulations, successes, heartaches, and plenty of advice. And can’t forget the laughs. They can’t thank you enough for being loyal listeners each...

Nov 15, 202019 minSeason 5Ep. 100

The Penultimate Episode: The Crazier, The Better

In this week’s episode, which leaves one left to get to episode 100, Erika and Chris re-share what is quite possibly the most epic dating story ever — the one that started this whole journey....

Nov 09, 202035 minSeason 5Ep. 99

How Far to Go on a First Date

Holding hands, kissing, warm hugs, masked socially distant walks… in this day and age, it’s almost impossible to know how far to go physically on a first date. This week, Erika and Chris re-share some...

Nov 02, 202030 minSeason 5Ep. 98

Don’t Assume… Ask Instead

Isn’t it annoying when someone makes an untrue assumption about you? And isn’t it even worse if this happens on a first date? Today, Erika shares a story of one of her own dates gone...

Oct 18, 202022 minSeason 5Ep. 86

Ghosting + Standing Someone Up = Bad News Bears

Ghosting, standing someone up, ignoring someone… all bad habits. This week, Erika and Chris discuss a few stories — some new, some old — and talk about not just ghosting but also how the person...

Oct 04, 202030 minSeason 5Ep. 95

Politics in the Profile: Yay or Nay?

“If you’re a fan of 45, swipe left.” “If you call yourself liberal, move along.” “If you don’t vote, then you won’t get a date with me.” We see things like this all the time...

Sep 27, 202026 minSeason 5Ep. 94

Long-Distance Relationships: Can They Work?

If you’re thinking about having a long-distance relationship, there are many factors that come into play, but the most important by far is each participant’s willingness to try. In this week’s episode, we re-share one of...

Sep 20, 202026 minSeason 5Ep. 93

Everything short of finding your partner is not a failure!

Oh, that pesky thing we call expectations. Many people go online to find “the one,” or at least a long-term partner. That goal is fine, of course. But what’s not fine is measuring “success” to...

Sep 13, 202025 minSeason 5Ep. 92

First Step: Read the Profile

Have you ever been on a date, and it seems like the person you’re out with has no idea who you are? Maybe they ask you questions that were already answered in your profile, or maybe...

Sep 06, 202021 minSeason 5Ep. 91

Q&A with Erika and Chris

Today, Erika and Chris answer three burning questions from clients/listeners: 1) How to let someone down gently, 2) Whether meeting someone will always require “fishing,” and 3) Whether to overlook someone’s lackluster communication because of COVID....

Aug 30, 2020

On the Basis of Race

On today’s episode, Chris and Erika address the hard topics — race and religion as it relates to dating. If you exclude one whole group, is it a preference or a bias… or something in between?...

Aug 23, 202023 minSeason 5Ep. 89

Dating in the Time of Coronavirus: Part 2

Back in April, when COVID was new to us, Erika and Chris shared their insights on dating and how the pandemic might impact things. Now, over four months later — and still very much in...

Aug 16, 2020

I’m Obsessed!

Whether it’s a hobby, a habit, or an obsession — or a little of each — in every relationship, there has to be a compromise. Do you love Taco Bell but your partner hates it?...

Aug 09, 202022 minSeason 5Ep. 87

Breaking up is hard to do

This week, Chris and Erika each share stories from their own lives and lives of their friends that revolve around breaking up and getting back together. Some people are in relationships for the right reasons,...

Aug 02, 2020

First Date Fails

In this week’s throwback episode, Erika and Chris revisit two epic stories — one of an uncomfortably short first date and one of a crazy drunk and sexual first date. Totally different experiences but equally...

Jul 26, 202031 minSeason 5Ep. 85

Manners Maketh the Man

In today’s episode, guest “Superfan Ann” shares a story that, after hearing last week’s episode, she couldn’t hold in. It includes bad manners, soup, and… an exterminator? Then, Erika and Chris delve into manners in...

Jul 19, 2020

Is Subway Appropriate for Dinner?

This week, Erika and Chris revisit two stories from their past — one about a date that didn’t get off on the right foot and another about what might constitute an appropriate dinner date. They...

Jul 12, 2020

Is it cheating if it’s not a “date”?

This week, Erika shares a never-before-told story about her time on jury duty. There was mystery, intrigue, drama… and a love interest.Erika and Chris then dissect each part of the story, from the infatuation at first...

Jul 05, 2020

Tough Love

On today’s episode, Erika and Chris answer some tough dating questions… often with tough love. Whether it’s about keeping your dating options open, overcoming perceived red flags, or anything else, sometimes the truth hurts, but it’s...

Jun 28, 2020

Up for Interpretation

Why can’t things just be easy? When it comes to texting, or really anything in life, so much is left up to interpretation. In this week’s episode, Erika shares a story about one of her...

Jun 21, 2020

20 Dating Faux Pas NOT to Do in 2020

This week, Erika and Chris discussed the article, “20 Things to Stop Doing on Dating Apps in 2020” from Insidehook.com. These range from lying about your age (a no-no) to posting group photos (don’t do...

May 31, 2020

The Men Ask: Erika and Chris Answer

In this week’s episode, Erika and Chris tackle three men’s dating questions… one about a woman lying about her age in her online dating profile, one about women writing from all over the country on...

May 24, 2020

Should I Recycle My Date?

Sometimes you go on a date with someone. It’s not a 1, but it’s also not at 10. And you never see each other again. If the situation arises at a later date, should you...

May 17, 2020

Ask me out already!

We live in a time when no one knows what to do — ask someone out or not, compliment someone or not, make the first move or not? Is it kosher for a salesperson to...

May 10, 2020

Don’t Stand Me Up

Standing someone up is not okay, but unfortunately, it does happen on occasion. So, Erika and Chris, after each sharing stories about getting stood up, share their top five tips on how to cope with...

May 03, 2020

Hiding Behind Technology

Technology can be amazing — we can set our thermostat from afar, connect with family across the world, and, as you know, find dates. But with everything amazing there come a few drawbacks. This week,...

Apr 26, 2020

Dating in the Time of Coronavirus

It’s a strange and unsettling time in the world for everyone in all aspects of their lives. Chris and Erika are here to talk about how to navigate the dating scene now that in-person dates...

Apr 08, 2020

When You Know, You Know

When you started dating someone, did you “just know” that it was right? Maybe you married this person. Or maybe you broke up. When people say they “know,” what does it really mean? Chris and Erika...

Feb 02, 2020
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