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So Nigerian

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Being young in Nigeria comes with its own struggles, wins, and wahala. So Nigerian is a bold social commentary podcast that unpacks pop culture, relationships, Japa struggles, social media, and everyday experiences that define young Nigerians.


Hosted by Dami Aros & Isaac, we keep it real, relatable, and unfiltered—sharing hot takes, personal stories, and deep conversations that feel just like gist with your friends. If you’ve ever thought,”This Naija life no balance” then this podcast is for you.


New episodes every Monday. Subscribe now and join the conversation!

Follow "So Nigerian" on Twitter (@sonigerian_), Instagram (@sonigerianpodcast), and via email at Sonigerianpodcast@gmail.com to stay up-to-date on their latest episodes and join in on the fun.

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Episodes

M.I Abaga on Life, Music, Marriage & Surviving Nigeria as a Creative

Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/SVBkFnnOtKk Dear So Nigerians, as we go on our very much needed break to relax from everything 2025 has thrown at us, we bring you a very special episode, leaving you in the hands of the greatest, the legend himself, M.I Abaga. This is one for the books, we go beyond the music and talk about everything from relationships and marriage to adulthood, money, and what it really takes to survive as a creative in Nigeria. We also dive into his work with Tasck, his jou...

Jul 29, 20252 hr 21 minSeason 6Ep. 27

Navigating your 20s Ft Isaac Kanye

Wish Dami Aros a Happy Birthday guys Hey guys! This week, we are joined by the freshly retired Isaac from Road to 30 Podcast, and by “retired,” we mean he just wrapped up his 20s! And also, as many of you may know, our sister-podcast has also come to an end, and we couldn’t think of a better way to honour that journey than to bring Isaac on for one final chat. We talk about navigating your 20s - the chaos, the clarity, the confusion, and the healing. From identity shifts to career drama, pressur...

Jul 14, 20251 hr 43 minSeason 6Ep. 26

The Nigerian Cameraman Story ft. STJ

So Nigerians! On this episode, we sit down with an incredible and talented photographer to talk about what it really takes to build a career behind the camera in a country like ours. We talk about what it’s like navigating clients, pricing your work, staying creative under pressure, and why photographers deserve way more respect than they get. Whether you’re a content creator, creative, or someone who just loves a good photo, this one’s for you. Listen, and share to your favorite creatives to le...

Jul 08, 20251 hr 8 minSeason 6Ep. 25

Religion and Nigerian Youths

Hey guys! On today’s episode, we get into something a little bit controversial, but necessary - religion to today’s Nigerian youth. We compare our religious practice between childhood and now, if religion has helped us as a society, inter-religious relationships, and many other “holy” stuff. If you’ve ever struggled to balance your belief system with your reality, this episode is definitely for you. So plug in, reflect, laugh, and don’t forget to share with your pastor, friends, families and ene...

Jun 30, 202551 minSeason 6Ep. 24

Once A Cheat, Always A Cheat

Watch here - https://youtu.be/JEFQXd4Hr8E Hey guys! On today’s episode, we have just one question for you. Should you take back a cheating partner? We talk about everything from “it was just a mistake” to “once a cheat, always a cheat” and whether love, marriage, or years of history should make forgiveness easier (or harder). Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating? Can trust ever be rebuilt? And most importantly - are you a clown or a lover for giving them another chance? If you’ve e...

Jun 25, 20251 hr 6 minSeason 6Ep. 23

Does Work-Life Balance Exist in Nigeria?

Hey guys! On today’s episode, we’re talking about something a lot of us are struggling with - Work-Life Balance. Is it even possible in this economy? From toxic hustle culture to Lagos traffic, pressure from family, and employers who think you should be available 24/7, we’re breaking it all down. Are we overworking because we have to or because we’re addicted to the grind? Can you really rest when the bills keep flying in? And why do we sometimes feel guilty for resting? If you’ve ever felt like...

Jun 16, 202536 minSeason 6Ep. 22

The Nigerian Fitness Journey ft. Fayokunmi

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we are joined by photographer, fitness enthusiast and content creator - Fayokunmi, to discuss the fitness culture in Nigeria, as well as some solid nutrition tips. This one is for the gym buddies and aspiring ones too. Our guest shares her journey, struggles, and hilarious encounters trying to stay fit in Naija. We talk about body goals vs. body reality, how diet culture affects young Nigerians, and whether fitness is becoming more accessible or still too expensiv...

Jun 02, 20251 hr 11 minSeason 6Ep. 21

Peer Pressure But Make It Nigerian

No Video Episode but you can Watch Dami Aros find love on Korty Love or Lies - https://youtu.be/TnGuSo2FSEQ?si=ZRo3Dp4m2THpS1GY Hey guys! Today we talked about that silent stress that comes for all of us, peer pressure. Whether it’s career, japa, marriage, or just flexing on social media, the pressure to “keep up” in today’s Nigeria is no joke. We unpack the funny, messy, and sometimes toxic ways we feel pushed to do things just because everyone else is doing them. From soft life envy to feeling...

May 26, 202534 minSeason 6Ep. 20

Michael’s Story: Life, Identity & Dwarfism in Nigeria

Watch on YouTube - https://youtu.be/X8UYgXV03Eo Hello guys! On today’s episode, we’re honoured to sit with the incredibly talented Michael, aka BMS Made It Know Jesus Know Peace, as he shares his unique story and experiences living with dwarfism in Nigeria. From growing up and navigating school life, to the challenges in friendships, family dynamics, and building a career in the creative space, Michael opens up about what it really means to take up space confidently, even when the world tries to...

May 19, 202551 minSeason 6Ep. 19

Are Nigerian Stereotypes Lowkey Beneficial?

Our guys! On today’s episode, we’re breaking down the wild world of Nigerian stereotypes. From the classic “Yoruba demons” to the “Igbo fraudster” slander, and the idea that every Calabar girl knows how to cook and steal your man! We talk about the tribal, gender, and class-based stereotypes we’ve heard (and maybe even believed), how they’ve shaped our friendships, dating lives, and job opportunities, and ask the ourselves important questions on the topic. We also share our hot takes, personal g...

May 12, 202540 minSeason 6Ep. 18

Is Micro-Cheating the New Normal?

So Nigerians!! On today’s episode, we’re talking about micro-cheating. Yeah, that sneaky little sibling of full-blown cheating. Is liking someone’s thirst trap at 1AM just being friendly, or are you emotionally unavailable and unserious? We’re unpacking the blurry lines: hidden DMs, “work wife/husbands,” and all those situationships that live rent-free in your notifications. Is it harmless fun or lowkey betrayal? We share our thoughts as usual. So grab your eba, text your partner(s) to listen to...

May 09, 20251 hr 2 minSeason 6Ep. 17

The Yapping episode

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we really didn’t talk about anything specific. Nigeria happened to us in many ways, so the energy to come up with a topic was low, so we really just yapped about everything that’s been happening. We also talked about the Nigerian habit of adjusting or like we say “we move”-ing when there are problems. It’s resilience, but sometimes we need to fight the mediocrity. Anyways, that’s all for now. See you guys next week, with a banger topic! Don’t forget to listen, sha...

Apr 28, 202536 minSeason 6Ep. 16

Why Male Friendships Often Lack Emotional Depth

Hey guys! On today’s episode, we’re getting real about male friendships, or the lack of them. Why is it so hard for men to open up to each other? Is everyone just vibing on surface level while struggling in silence? We talk about the unspoken loneliness many men carry, why checking in feels awkward, and how the whole “men don’t cry” thing is still messing things up. Whether you’ve got a solid brotherhood or you’re realizing you’ve been going through life solo, this convo is for you. Listen, shar...

Apr 21, 202551 minSeason 6Ep. 15

Social Media Made Me Feel Late to Life

Hey guys! On today’s episode, we’re diving into the pressure to “be somebody” online. From hustle culture to curated soft life aesthetics, we unpack how social media can make you feel like you’re not doing enough, even when you’re actually trying your best. We talk about the highs and lows of scrolling through everyone’s wins, the temptation to fake it for the algorithm, and the silent competition no one admits to. If you’ve ever felt behind in life because of your feed, this one’s for you. As a...

Apr 14, 202541 minSeason 6Ep. 14

Modern Dating in Nigeria: Are We Choosing Love or Lifestyle?

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we talkied about how being in Nigeria today has shaped our love lives, sometimes for better, but mostly for chaos! From financial stress to family expectations, and japa wahala. We break down the dating culture in Nigeria today. We also talk about the role social media has played, splitting bills in this economy, and whether love can really survive on vibes and inflation. If you’ve ever said “it’s not you, it’s this country”, this one’s for you. As always, listen,...

Apr 07, 202552 minSeason 6Ep. 13

Cyberbullying vs. Criticism: Knowing the Difference

Hello guys! Today, we’re diving into a serious but much-needed conversation - cyberbullying. From trolling and dragging to full-blown online harassment, we’re breaking down how cyberbullying happens, why people do it, and how it affects mental health, careers, and even businesses. We also talk about the Nigerian social media space, are we just “savage,” or have we normalized bullying in the name of banter? Where do we draw the line between criticism and harassment? And most importantly, how do w...

Mar 31, 202555 minSeason 6Ep. 12

Sexual Purity and Celibacy

So Nigerians! On today’s episode, we discuss something that’s not often talked about but super important—Sexual Purity vs. Celibacy. Are they the same thing? Is celibacy just about not having sex, and does sexual purity go deeper than that? We break it all down, from personal choices to religious beliefs, societal expectations, and the real struggles of maintaining either as a Nigerian youth. We also share personal takes, myths we’ve heard growing up, and whether these choices still make sense i...

Mar 24, 202548 minSeason 6Ep. 11

Cost of Living in Nigeria

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we’re taking a trip down memory lane, but not the fun kind. We’re comparing prices from not so long ago to now and asking, how did things get this bad? From fuel and food to rent and house bills, we’re breaking down how the cost of living has skyrocketed and what it means for the average Nigerian. If you’ve been feeling the heat in your pocket, you’re not alone! Listen in, share your thoughts, and let’s rant together. Don’t forget to subscribe and tell a friend. S...

Mar 17, 202547 minSeason 6Ep. 10

Age Gap in Relationships

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we’re asking the big question, is age really just a number when it comes to love and relationships? We talk about age-gap dating, why it’s still a hot topic, and whether love can truly conquer the years or decades between two people. We also get into the double standards: why it’s okay for men to date younger women but somehow strange when women date younger men. Plus, we’re talking power dynamics, maturity levels, family reactions, and whether people are dating f...

Mar 10, 202553 minSeason 6Ep. 9

Pocket-Watching: Why Are Nigerians So Invested in Other People’s Money?

Hello guys! If you’re fund of calculating other people’s finances, this episode is for you. On today’s episode, we discuss pocket-watching. From social media audits of luxury lifestyles to parents asking, “How much do you earn?”, why are Nigerians so obsessed with other people’s money? We also discuss the pressures of looking rich, the rise of online flex culture, and why many assume that young people with money must be into Yahoo or runs. Is pocket-watching just curiosity, or is it a deeper iss...

Mar 03, 202531 minSeason 6Ep. 8

Sexual Discipline in Nigeria

Hello So Nigerians! On today’s episode, we spotlight something that doesn’t get talked about enough - sexual discipline. In a world where temptation is everywhere, from social media to peer pressure, how do young Nigerians maintain self-control? Is abstinence still realistic, or is it all about balance? We discuss people’s expectations around sex, and the challenges of abstaining from sex. If you’ve ever struggled with self-control in this area or just want to understand the conversation better,...

Feb 24, 202554 minSeason 6Ep. 7

Stan Culture in Nigeria: When Fan Love Goes Too Far

So Nigerians! On today’s episode, we talk about celebrity worship and stan culture, because let’s be real, some people are way too invested in their faves. We break down the difference between being a regular fan and a full-blown stan, why people defend celebrities like their lives depend on it, and how social media has turned fandoms into digital battlegrounds. We also get into the psychology behind celebrity obsession, the good, the bad, and the straight-up toxic side of stanship, and whether ...

Feb 17, 202538 minSeason 6Ep. 6

How Money Conversations Can Save Your Nigerian Love Life

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we talk about one of the biggest relationship dealbreakers which is financial compatibility. We get into the real questions: Does money matter more than love? Can a spender and a saver truly make it work? And what happens when one person makes significantly more than the other? We also discuss bill-splitting, financial red flags, and whether combining finances is a good idea or a recipe for disaster. If you’ve ever wondered how money affects relationships or had t...

Feb 10, 202552 minSeason 6Ep. 5

Why Is It So Hard to Make Friends as an Adult?

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we get real about navigating friendships as adults, because let’s be honest, it’s not as easy as it used to be. We talk about why making new friends feels like a job interview, how life changes like work and even japa, affect friendships, and the struggle of keeping in touch when adulting is adulting. We also discuss friendship breakups, setting boundaries, and whether it’s better to have a few solid friends or a large circle. If you’ve ever felt like maintaining ...

Feb 03, 202557 minSeason 6Ep. 4

Ex Marks the Spot: Does Okafor’s Law Really Work?

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we discuss into the spicy theory of Okafor’s Law, you know, the one about always being able to rekindle old flames. We talk about what it really means, whether it’s just vibes or actually legit, and share hilarious scenarios where this “law” may or may not have worked. We also get into the psychology behind it, why nostalgia can be dangerous, and whether there’s such a thing as moving on for real. If you’ve ever wondered if Okafor’s Law is fact, fiction, or somewh...

Jan 27, 202547 minSeason 6Ep. 3

Detty December Almost Ended Me

Hello guys! On today’s episode, we discuss Detty December and our plans for the new year. We talk about our experiences during the holiday, our thoughts on the IJGB vs. Lagos babes situation and other events that happened during the holiday. If you couldn’t make it to Nigeria for the holiday, here’s an audio recap to fuel your FOMO once again! Ensure to listen, subscribe and share. See you guys next week!! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information....

Jan 20, 202541 minSeason 6Ep. 2

New Year/Liveshow Was A Banger

Hello guys!! Happy happy new year from us!!! We know you missed us, but we had to take a holiday after the time we had with y’all last month. Anyways, we’re back with new bangers this year, and we’re starting off with a review of the live show. We talk about how we put the show together, the good time we had and the support we had from you all. So hit the play button as we all relive that special moment once again. Don’t forget to subscribe and share to your loved ones and even your enemies. See...

Jan 17, 202530 minSeason 6Ep. 1

Living Soft Life In Nigeria

Live show Ticket link - https://tix.africa/snplive Live show Dilemma- https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeUu9Z4GNv27iVrAfv5spHem8WqX-ngtODWt8ngryEl3c3jtQ/viewform Hi guys! On this episode, we discuss the concepts of luxury and the soft life within the Nigerian context. We break down what these mean to Nigerians and how our culture, societal expectations, and even social media have influenced this lifestyle. Is the soft life truly about wealth, or is it more about prioritizing self-care an...

Nov 24, 202450 minSeason 5Ep. 27

Beyond Formal Work Ft Jobberman

In this episode,we are joined by award-winning actress Julianna Olayode , Eyimisan Abusomwan Chief Executive Officer, Runner and Glory Aiyegbeni MERL LEAD, Jobberman Nigeria. We dive deep into the untold stories of Nigeria's informal economy—a sector employing over 76.7% of the workforce. Why do so many Nigerians gravitate toward informal jobs, and what challenges and opportunities do they encounter? We explore the rise of educated individuals entering the sector, the financial struggles they fa...

Nov 22, 202454 minSeason 5Ep. 26

Sorry For Myself Ft AjeTheRealest

Link To Our First Live show - https://tix.africa/snplive 2 Tickets Giveaway Question - Which Month is So Nigerian Podcast anniversary? Hi guys! Today's episode is for the music lovers. We are joined by AjeTheRealest as we discuss life in Nigeria as an upcoming act in the music industry. He talks about the struggles, the hustle and also gives some inside gist about the industry. So if you've been considering quitting school or your 9-5 to pursue music, this episode is definitely for you. Don't fo...

Nov 12, 20241 hr 6 minSeason 5Ep. 25
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