As three millennial married men who grew up with our fathers, we talk about how what we saw and how we saw our fathers support our families shaped what we "thought" being a husband and a father was and what we learned or had to un-learn to support our own. Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode! Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls...
Sep 17, 2022•11 min
I don’t think any man plans the day he has children but rather would like it to be on his terms. Fatherhood not only changes a man but it teaches him invaluable lessons that he can’t get anywhere else. Are men ever ready? Do they want their son to be just like them? Or would they rather raise a girl instead ? We unpack it all in this weeks episode clip. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy...
Sep 15, 2022•14 min
Now this episode is definitely more raunchy, raw and entertaining but INFORMATIVE to ppl who want to learn how men think and how they are feeling within relationships. More conversation around family dynamics, intimacy, sex and marital peaks and valleys are all apart of the dialogue. So take the journey while 3 millennial men express what really happens in barbershop conversation ! Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer ...
Sep 13, 2022•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 16
In this clip we talk about what marriage truly means and the importance of the Vows each couple has made under God. Do we really know what all this is about? Are ppl marrying for love or for convenience? Either way we dissect it in this episode clip… Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Sep 08, 2022•3 min
We’ve all heard about how men do not express themselves, and sometimes that’s true. Women always ask questions like, “what is he THINKING”. However, there’s never been a true space for men to feel comfortable enough expressing themselves… not until we create the space ourselves. So we did just that, we brought our brothers Alex and Cory on the show to talk about it! Take the ride with us on this conversation where we discuss mental health, marriage, finances, relationships and more. Have questio...
Sep 06, 2022•1 hr 6 min•Season 2Ep. 15
As we talk about change, identifying new layers of purpose, patience through changes and sometimes grieving the way things were, we thought it was important to give some tips on how to deal with and get through change. In our episode research, we came across these tips and they were so relevant and they've helped us with the navigation through change. Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode! Become ...
Sep 03, 2022•8 min
Because WHO knew your purpose changed?! In this clip of episode 14, we discuss an excerpt from “The Way of the Superior Man” by David Deida (Chapter 12) where he talks about the fulfillment of multiple purposes. In our season of pivoting, change and understanding that change, this gave us so much perspective and understanding to learn that when desires for certain things change, it could simply be that you’ve fulfilled that assignment, you’ve fulfilled that purpose and NOT that you’ve failed. Pl...
Sep 01, 2022•8 min
This episode will take us through a journey of us unpacking a very necessary discussion about PIVOTing in life... should I start OVER? Can I start OVER? Last year we felt an energy that was in the atmosphere of people wanting to SHIFT and as 2022 has unfolded, turns out, we were definitely right. This is the episode where we have put into words what we feel and what we feel like most people might be going through. So sit tight and join us in a discussion about the reasons one should consider piv...
Aug 30, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 14
In this clip we unpack the idea of discovering your self worth. Why are we programmed to downplay what we want in order to appease other people or is it something deeper? Sometimes we know what we want in life but we do not know who to become in order to receive it. Either way the conversation has to be had. Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode! Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early acc...
Aug 27, 2022•5 min
In this clip from episode 13, we chat about how we found a way to start figuring out where we were headed, what we wanted to do and most importantly how to IDENTIFY WHO WE ARE throughout all of our transitioning and self discovery. Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode! Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connection calls and more member exclusiv...
Aug 25, 2022•3 min
We're BACK for Season 2 of the Podcast and we're opening up about IDENTITY. When it comes to identity, are we in an identity crisis, is it an identity shift, are we every shifting? In this episode, we break down our thoughts on finding ourselves as individuals after finding our identities within each other, within our titles, and within fulfilling our work and being left with the same question, WHO AM I? Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail...
Aug 23, 2022•57 min•Season 2Ep. 13
We unpacked a lot in part one of this episode! We shared about a multitude of topics and taboo truths about momming from pregnancy terminations to maternal fears, infertility, sisterly support. Our first guest feature is our sisters, Alontá and Tunisa, two moms, one a mom of two, and the other a mom of a now 9 month old. In part two, we talk birth stories, sex after baby, work after baby, finding yourself after baby, and so much more! You're going to want to grab your wine for this one, I promis...
Jul 19, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 12
So... It's LADIES NIGHT! Our first guest feature is our sisters, Alonté and Tunisa, two moms, one a mom of two, and the other a mom of an 8 month old. In part one, we share about a multitude of topics and taboo truths about momming from pregnancy terminations to maternal fears, infertility, sisterly support, pre and post partum, birth stories and more. You're going to want to grab your wine for this one, I promise. Follow Alonté -- @alonte.zakia | Follow Tunisia -- @mrs_dani.gad Have questions o...
Jul 12, 2022•56 min•Season 1Ep. 11
Let's talk about MONEY AGAIN !! We've already acknowledged that there are three MAJOR things that are destroying relationships: Money, Sex, & Communication. This week we talk about MONEY based on a book that we've been reading and studying called: "8 Money Decisions for Every Couple" by Russ Crosson. In this book, they break down the BREAKDOWN and reasoning most people have difficulty talking about, communicating about and dealing with MONEY and the different ways we see it. This week we tac...
Jul 05, 2022•1 hr 19 min•Season 1Ep. 10
Let's talk about MONEY! We've already acknowledged that there are three MAJOR things that are destroying relationships: Money, Sex, & Communication. This week we talk about MONEY based on a book that we've been reading and studying called: " In this book, they break down the BREAKDOWN and reasoning most people have difficulty talking about, communicating about and dealing with MONEY and the different ways we see it. Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalk...
Jun 28, 2022•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 9
After being together since 2013, we've had our fair share of changes and adjustments but the biggest one would come when we found out that we'd be expecting our first child after celebrating our 2nd wedding anniversary. Our greatest joy in life has been our son but this week we chat about if we were actually ready for all the things that parenthood came with and how we've adjusted to our new roles and how parenthood had changed all of our current roles too.. Have questions or want to comment? Le...
Jun 21, 2022•54 min•Season 1Ep. 8
Let's be honest, we have all had those moments where we feel like "THEY don't support me" ... whether in business, an idea, a new venture, college, relationships, etc., they don't support me, but have we ever stopped to think about what our actual support needs are? Like WHAT does "SUPPORT" actually look like for me? Is it a shared post, showing up, or a pat on the back? Is the problem that our expectation is a reflection of how we show up for others? Is it that we have a want but don't actually...
Jun 14, 2022•59 min•Season 1Ep. 7
Of all the things to call us, spoiled, entitled, but BROKE? Millennials have been called many things but recent studies have shown that our generation has become the brokest generation living but somehow, at the same time, the richest? There's a wealth gap to be discussed but it's not just a racial gap, is there a millennial wealth gap? Being "broke" might be the biggest underlying issue facing us if this statement deems true. In this episode we unpack the narrative surrounding millennial financ...
Jun 07, 2022•52 min•Season 1Ep. 6
Compatible or Nah? Compatibility has so many different connotations & in this episode we talk about our views on compatibility and the importance of having the right conversations about the things you need from relationships to determine if you’re in the right relationships, friendships, business partnerships, etc. In this episode we reference some compatibility topics to discuss and a few quizzes to take in order to dig deeper into your personality type for self clarity and a opportunity to...
May 31, 2022•1 hr 13 min•Season 1Ep. 5
So remember we were college sweethearts right? But was the actual college experience really necessary for us? If you could, would you go back and choose another route? In this episode we break down the good and the bad of our collegiate experience. We discuss the flaws of the system, the things we wish happened for us as well as the benefits and some of our favorite moments during our college years -- of course the best one being, BECOMING, The Garrisons. Have questions or want to comment? Leave...
May 24, 2022•49 min•Season 1Ep. 4
As Millennials, we've been around for the entire social media development, from MySpace and Blackplanet to IG and TikTok. In this episode we discuss both the benefits and the dangers social media offers and how we've personally navigated through them. As individuals who've built a business utilizing connections made through social media, we truly value it, but has it become TOXIC AF? Does social media create pressure to succeed or motivation? Does it make you compare yourself to the people you l...
May 17, 2022•49 min•Season 1Ep. 3
Has something ever happened to you in your adult life and you felt triggered and didn't know why you were so upset, anxious, sad, annoyed, etc.? In this episode, we talk about how significant moments in our lives shape the person we become over time, who we are, how we are, and most importantly, HOW WE LOVE! We talked about the love styles we uncovered in the book, "How We Love" by Milan and Kay Yerkovich -- take the Love Style Quiz ! We want to hear who you are! Have questions or want to commen...
May 10, 2022•51 min•Season 1Ep. 2
In the first episode, we're bringing you up to speed on who we are and how we became -- the Garrisons, how we met in college and became best friends and now married 4 years, business partners and brand new parents and how we've survived a few major life transitions! Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode! Become a We Talk member on Patreon to get early access, member input on topics, monthly connec...
May 03, 2022•1 hr 3 min•Season 1Ep. 1
It's OFFICIAL OFFICIAL! The Garrisons? A Podcast? Absolutely! Join Malcolm and Brittany Garrison as they unpack their life transitions and the effects they have on millennials, creating open dialogue and challenging perspectives on topics like relationships, entrepreneurship, parenthood, communication, finances, and so much more! Have questions or want to comment? Leave us a message via email @ soletstalkaboutitpod@gmail.com and we may answer in an upcoming episode! FOLLOW US on Instagram -- @br...
May 01, 2022•4 min
