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So Here's The Thing...

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Based out of Brooklyn, NY, 2 Gunz and Stizzy come together to share their personal journeys, reflect on life’s highs and lows, and have open, unfiltered discussions about the experiences that have shaped them. From relationships and growth to culture and community, nothing is off limits. These are real conversations about real topics, told from their perspective—raw, honest, and unapologetically authentic. We may offend some people, some may laugh, some may cry, but we're going to tell the truth...Check u out.
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Episodes

Episode 70: The Episode About Nothing

Yerrrrrr... Back from a 2 week Hiatus celebrating birthdays and shit, Stizzy and 2 discussed absolutely nothing. This podcast is for those who ever ate that school lunch pizza and realized that it was just a half of hero bread with tomato sauce and mozzarella cheese. See? absolutely nothing As always the music from today's episode has been curated and is available on Apple music and Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 70 (links below) https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/so-heres-the-t...

Jul 26, 202254 min

Episode 69: Triggers

On this episode the fellas discuss how triggering it can be when people weaponize certain events or behaviors in their favor to either win an argument or to prove a point. We reference a few examples stemming from the Amber Heard vs. Johnny Depp case, Blac Chyna VS. the Kardashians and many more. We also discussed how the accusation is never as loud as the apology especially if the accusation it self is false. Special Shoutout to the homie Saint P on his new single "NYC BULLY" with Deniro Bossa ...

Jun 28, 20221 hr

Episode 68: What The Cuck?

On this episode the fellas are back with another banging ass episode. We start off talking about what to do if you see someone's partner out with someone else. Then we somehow took a turn and got into being invited to watching couples have sex. We also briefly discuss the instances on when to risk going through a lobby full of random guys to get to a female you intend on sleeping with. Special Shoutout to the homie Saint P on his new single "NYC BULLY" with Deniro Bossa & Paygz go check that...

Jun 14, 202250 min

Episode 67: Life's A Movie

On this episode the gang is back together and this time we're talking movies. We discussed our favorite movies from our childhood and which ones we watch up to this day. We also stumbled into a conversation about how trash some of our cultural iconic movies are, like " Love and Basketball ," " Love Jones " etc... Special Shoutout to the homie Saint P on his new single "NYC BULLY" with Deniro Bossa & Paygz go check that out on all Streaming platforms. As always music from today's episode has ...

Jun 01, 202255 min

Episode 66: Perspective

On this episode the gang is back in full affect and we brought another great conversation with the homie Ace Helena. We discuss the intricate nature of having various friend groups and how to remain true to yourself while navigating those different friendships. We also discuss the perspective on how you view friends and friendships as well as if you in fact "owe" your friends respect. As always the music from today's episode has been curated by us and is available on Apple Music & Tidal keyw...

May 17, 202252 min

Episode 65: Home Court

On this episode the fellas dive into their past and shared some stories about their sexual exploits. We start off by discussing the fine skills that each of us developed over the years in the pursuit of courting females and the various tactics we'e used just to get the number and more. We also discuss going through your partner's phone and shared some stories of times when we fell victim to that horrible urge of invading your significant other's privacy. ENJOY!!! As always the music from today's...

Apr 19, 202257 min

Episode 64: Watch Your Mouth

On this episode the gang start off by talking about the decision Marty Byrde had to make in season 1 of Ozark where he had a choice to have his cheating wife killed or spared from the Cartel he was in business with. Then shit goes haywire from ranging from big fires and fires and little fires all the way to how do you treat your significant other’s family after they’ve died. On this weeks “So Here’s What’s Going on…with Dre” we discuss the Will Smith Chris Rock slap that kept the internet buzzin...

Apr 05, 20221 hr 4 min

Episode 63: Dre Wouldn't Pick Up The Phone

On this episode the fellas discuss an array of topics around dating. Is chivalry really dead, how often does guys actually put "thought" when dating, and what happens when you're on what seems to be the perfect date and your friend doesn't answer the phone which could potentially secure your spot in her heart. Whats going on with Dre segment: we discuss the importance of keeping business and pleasure separate stemming from what’s happening with Latto, and we discuss the Deshaun Watson contract a...

Mar 22, 20221 hr 6 min

Episode 62: I'm Not Your Ex

On this episode the fellas discuss the internal struggle that you may face when in a new relationship and you feel as if you're constantly placed in positions where you compare yourself to their ex or you may feel as if they are doing it themselves. We are also joined by rapper Saint P and he shares his stories about his upcoming and his journey and goals in the music game. you As always the music from today's episode has been curated and is available on Apple music and Tidal keyword search: So ...

Mar 08, 20221 hr 11 min

Episode 61: Talking To My Ex

On this episode the fellas are back and this time we brought a special guest. We tried to peak behind the curtain into how Stizzy is in a relationship by talking to one of his "Exes" and it did not disappoint. She shares stories about him lying and catching him red handed etc... Hope you enjoy! As always the music from today's episode has been curated and available on Apple music and Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 61 (links below) https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/so-heres-the-...

Feb 22, 202257 min

Episode 60: Don't Say That To Me

On this episode the fellas didn't have the full squad together so we wanted to just kick back and have a chill convo. The first thing we addressed was the fact that men should NOT be saying "its the ___ for me." IDK why but we got this habit of blurring the lines of what seems to be acceptable behavior and that ain't it. We're also joined by a friend to the show SO SO in 2's absence and we chop it about friendships, fashion, and culture. As always the music from today's episode has been curated ...

Feb 08, 202258 min

Episode 59: What is Art?

On this episode, the fellas start off the conversation with our thoughts on "Trend culture vs. d**k riding culture." What it means to be a follower/leader in this environment and how to properly distinguish your position. We also discuss various Art forms that might've been interested in before and some that we may experiment in the near future. ENJOY!!!!!! As always the music from today's episode has been curated and available on Apple music and Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 59...

Jan 25, 202249 min

Episode 58: PLEASE don't say his name

On this 1st episode of 2022, the fellas are back to start off year 3 of the podcast with a Bang. We are joined by 2 lovely young ladies (Katrina and Alana) who discuss their school experiences both on and off campus, as well as their relationships that they've dealt with. Some stories got so wild that we had to ensure no names were mentioned. Enjoy!!! As always the music from today's episode has been curated and available on Apple music and Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 58 (link...

Jan 12, 20221 hr 33 min

Episode 57: The Best Of 2021

On this episode we have a compilation of clips and conversations from our most streamed episodes from this crazy ass year. We went through good times, bad times, break ups and make ups and you stuck with us the whole way and we appreciate it dawg. For our first time visitors take this time to catch up on old episodes and to our long time listeners stay tuned for another good year of content, conversations and stories. This is the "So Here's The Thing Podcast..."

Dec 28, 202148 min

Episode 56: This Sh*t Crazy

On this episode the fellas are joined by a friend to the show and fellow podcaster JJ, and we discuss how they deal and cope with heading from relationship to relationship with not enough time in between to actually heal. JJ also gives insight into the dating apps and how he've used them to look for love. As always check out the @nameabetterpod podcast to keep up with JJ & AK. Enjoy!!! As always the music from today's episode has been curated and available on Apple music and Tidal keyword se...

Dec 14, 20211 hr 4 min

Episode 55: Unmatched

On this episode the fellas get into how we can better describe the ways in which we provide and protect in relationships and how it differs from the generations before us and what we can see from the generations after us. We also touch base on what to do when women put you in a situation where protecting yourself can also be considered protecting them and what to do if your ex is flaunting the new lover in your face. As always the music from today's episode has been curated and available on Appl...

Nov 30, 20211 hr 8 min

Episode 54: The Green Period

On this episode we had our home boy from the Name a better plug podcast AK pull up to kick it with the guys. We start off the convo with our usual scenario question and then we get straight into the random slew of thought provoking conversations you know us for. We discuss dating again but this time adding in the dating app experience as well as a few nuances we have encountered along the process... Enjoy As always the music from today's episode has been curated and available on Apple music and ...

Nov 23, 20211 hr 2 min

Episode 53: Happy Hour

On this episode we brought the guys Loso and Jay on to discuss the ins and outs of after work happy hours. We shared the origins of how we all got into happy hours and took you through a play by play of a typical happy hour night with us. Enjoy! As always the music from today's episode has been curated and available on Apple music and Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 53(links below) https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/so-heres-the-thing-ep-53/pl.u-xlyNqGVsJeBj0Lm https://tidal.com/...

Nov 02, 20211 hr 4 min

Episode 52: White walkers

On this episode the fellas discuss a wide variety of topics and hypotheticals ranging from the youngest and oldest girls we would date to how we feel about corporations taking a stand against social issues As always the music from today's episode has been curated and available on Apple music and Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 52 (links below) https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/so-heres-the-thing-ep-52/pl.u-kv9lbKaTJ6lxdZG https://tidal.com/playlist/128df942-1de3-4bd9-a2bc-ffc917...

Oct 19, 202143 min

Episode 51: The Cow Disease?

On this episode the fellas are joined by our homeboy Khalid. We discussed various physical insecurities we may have had to deal with whether it was personally or having to talk someone off the ledge about theirs. We also celebrated Khalid's recent signing to his modeling agency and how he intends to navigate his new found career. As always the music from today's episode has been curated and available on Apple music and Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 50 (links below) https://tidal...

Oct 05, 20211 hr 10 min

Episode 50: Would You Rather?

On this episode the guys get up with a long time friend to the show, and now one of the most toxic and mixist men in the eastern hemisphere @kingloonthe1st. We discuss a bunch of weird scenario questions and some of the answers get a little dicey. We also discuss the ongoing battle of who had the best album between Kanye West's "Donda" and Drake's "Certified Lover Boy" Enjoy!!! As always the music from today's episode has been curated and available on Apple music and Tidal keyword search: So Her...

Sep 21, 20211 hr 5 min

Episode 49: Life Lessons

In this episode the fellas are back with a deep reflective conversation about certain life lessons that we’ve learned so far. We touch base of the dynamics of family and relationships as well as a message to anyone who maybe struggling with life decisions needed to make. We’re also joined by the super creative Anthony Jamari Thomas and he discussed his thoughts on the current space of entrepreneurship and how his new platform will help bridge the gap between hedge fund companies and TALENTED art...

Sep 07, 20211 hr 21 min

Episode 48: Why Do Women...?

On this episode the fellas are joined by 2 lovely ladies and friends to the podcast, Frenchy and Raven. Although Dre wasn't here for this episode the fellas stayed true to form and got straight to the deep unexpected questions from the beginning. We start off by asking what would they do to the age old saying" never leave someone you love for someone you like" but with a twist. Throughout the episode we asked for their opinions and perspective on why some women do some of the things that they do...

Aug 24, 202159 min

Episode 47: Just Talking

In the episode the fellas are back together finally after like a 2 week hiatus. In the past 2 weeks a whole bunch of stuff happened from the homophobic remarks and backlash that da baby is facing all the way to Rihanna becoming a billionaire. We didn’t want to come in with a full serious topic that we’re used to because A. We’re not at full strength B. We didn’t feel like doing it because it been like 2 weeks since the last POD C. Fuck it lol Enjoy!!! As always the music today has been curated a...

Aug 10, 202156 min

Episode 46: Read The Room

On this episode the guys discussed knowing when and how to read the room. A lot of times people are oblivious of how other people are feeling so they tend to miss a lot of the signs, or sometimes they just don't care. We also discussed how important it is to reading body language and how it can possibly affect you in your relationships. As always the music today has been curated and available to listen on Apple music and Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 46 (link below) https://musi...

Jul 13, 20211 hr 5 min

Episode 45: Gang Way

On this episode the guys discuss some of our first street experiences and our first examples of when we realized the streets played by different rules. From brawls in elementary school to adulthood fist to cuffs altercations, we've pretty much been through it all. We even briefly discussed gang culture and how its glorification may have impacted the youth and why some are urged to join one...ENJOY!!! As always the music from today's episode can be found on Tidal and Apple music keyword search: S...

Jun 15, 202157 min

Episode 44: Talking to the People

On this episode the guys are finally answering the questions that have been sent in from you guys the listeners. We are joined by some familiar faces and friends to the show, Toxic T and Mel from the Relayshons podcast. We tackle a little bit of everything stemming from sex smells and colorism. Enjoy!!!! As always today's playlist can be found on either Tidal or Apple music keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 44 (Link below) https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/so-heres-the-thing-ep-44/pl.u-...

Jun 01, 20211 hr 21 min

Episode 43: Dirty Macking

Since we spoke about pillow talking on episode 42, we figure we start this episode discussing "Dirty Macking" and we are joined by friend to the show Zilla. According to the Urban Dictionary, Dirty macking is Attempting to mack on another person's significant other by talking bad about them behind their back . And we know some of you have either been the dirty macker or the person being dirty macked on. Feel free to hit us and up and share your stories. Enjoy As always today's playlist is availa...

May 18, 20211 hr 1 min

Episode 42: Pillow Talking

2 YEARS GANG!!...On this anniversary episode the guys start by extending our gratitude and appreciation to everyone who've supported us along this 2 year journey in the podcast game. Anyone who've been a guess or any fellow podcaster that we've collabed with we appreciate it all. All that aside the guys jump right into discussing pillow talking. We each have our own opinions about pillow talking and shared experiences about when it has been a pivotal part of our lives from both relationships and...

May 04, 202158 min

Episode 41: Just Talking

On this episode Dre and Stizzy discuss social media and its pros and cons towards relationships. Also how does a single man or woman maneuver and find strong love in today's era with all of this social media influence. We also discussed how the courting process is now compared to a time before everyone was so distracted by their cellular devices. ENJOY!!! As always the music for today's episode can be found on both apple music and Tidal keyword search: So Here's The Thing...EP 40 https://music.a...

Apr 06, 202149 min
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