In this episode Amanda discusses how a self pleasure session she experienced unlocked a new level of self confidence, self worth, & vulnerability within herself. She shares her experience and discusses why she is such an advocate for self pleasure. Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Read SMEX ED Magazine: Read it Here Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bottom) Follow me on Facebook If you like what you heard don't forget to tag us on Instagram @the.amandaking ...
Sep 27, 2023•38 min
In this episode, Amanda discusses the most frequently asked question by her male followers "does size matter?" She discusses why men tie their self worth & masculinity to the size of their penis, how penis size isn't the determining factor of whether or not your partner is satisfied, and she address why she rarely speaks about this topic. Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Read SMEX ED Magazine: Read it Here Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bottom) Follow me...
Sep 20, 2023•33 min•Ep. 219
In this episode Amanda answers one of her Instagram DMS "I've been struggling with feeling shame with my sexuality, and I just wanted to know if there was any pointers or things that helped you get past the feeling of shame." Amanda discusses why women struggle to express themselves sexually in this world, her own personal journey of embracing her sexuality, and tips to help strip away the shame society has put on women owning their sexuality. Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Rea...
Sep 13, 2023•39 min•Ep. 218
In this episode, Amanda answers a question in her DM "Good morning I am a 47 yrs single mom that works like an animal just to survive. You are a true inspiration to myself and many other women. As you know it is extremely difficult to find the time for self care never mind self love. So many of us don't feel the worth that we actually do have, how did you find yours? I would love to know how you have turned yourself into this powerhouse of a woman that we all get to see. Have you always been so ...
Sep 06, 2023•29 min•Ep. 217
In this episode, Amanda gives you a sneak peak into her SMEX ED Class of the Month training, The Types of Orgasms, from the July issue. Listen to the first 15 minutes of the training and grab the rest of it at www.smexed.com ! Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Read SMEX ED Magazine: Read it Here Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bottom) Follow me on Facebook If you like what you heard don't forget to tag us on Instagram @the.amandaking For tips & tricks on h...
Aug 30, 2023•20 min•Ep. 216
In this episode, Amanda discusses the capabilities of orgasms within the female AND male body. She discusses the 12 Types of Orgasms, Female Ejaculation, Squirting, Prostate Orgasms and so much more. Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Read SMEX ED Magazine: Read it Here Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bottom) Follow me on Facebook If you like what you heard don't forget to tag us on Instagram @the.amandaking For tips & tricks on how to gain control of your ...
Aug 23, 2023•30 min
Answering questions in the DMs on this episode "You have a podcast about when your partner shuts down intimately and in that episode you mention recoonecting with your body. I am having trouble finding that episode on Spotify, is there a direct link by chance" In this episode, Amanda discusses how to step out of surival mode, more spefically freeze mode, and reconnect with your body intimately again. Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Read SMEX ED Magazine: Read it Here Sign up for...
Aug 16, 2023•31 min•Ep. 214
There is a massive misconception when it comes to the idea of "seduction" and that is, that it needs to look a certain way. Society has created this notion of what is considered sexy and when individuals don't really vibe with that box like construct, they struggle feeling like they can tap into their sexual side, that they can express themselves authentically when it comes to their sexuality, their wants, their desires. In this episode, Amanda gives you tips on how to tap into your natural sedu...
Aug 09, 2023•40 min•Ep. 213
In this episode, Amanda disucsses why Anal Sex is considered such a taboo subject for both men and women. She discusses how society villianizes anal sex and tips on how to have anal sex the safe way. Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Read SMEX ED Magazine: Read it Here Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bottom) Follow me on Facebook If you like what you heard don't forget to tag us on Instagram @the.amandaking For tips & tricks on how to gain control of your ...
Aug 02, 2023•27 min•Ep. 212
In this episode, Amanda answers an Instagram DM "How do I get out of my head during the act? I try so hard to enjoy but I keep thinking about how I look, how I should sound, etc" Amanda discusses why women feel the need to perform during sex and how modern media glorfies the act of sex itself giving both men and women unrealistic expecations when it comes to sex. Amanda also discusses ways to minimize disruptive thoughts during sex. Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for ou...
Jul 26, 2023•20 min•Ep. 211
In this epiosde, Amanda answers a question she received in her Snapchat DMS, "Just curious if you have any advice on teaching our daughters about their bodies. I know it's not right to tell them not to touch themselves. But I am lost because as a 30 year old, you are more or less introducing me to masturbation. It just isnt something that has ever been talked about. My girls are years from that stage but I found myself wondering how I can guide them and make them comfortable in their bodies in g...
Jul 19, 2023•31 min•Ep. 210
In this episode, Amanda responds to a question she received in her Facebook DM's. The question states "Long story short I'm having a hard time climaxing with my partner. I can get there myself, but not with him (or anyone else.) We communicate well, I have been close and he will listen to what I need and it will disappear rather than build. I don't want to introduce toys, I have gotten rid of my own to crave his body more. I don't watch porn anymore (neither does he.) I'm not sure what to do at ...
Jul 12, 2023•24 min•Ep. 209
In this episode, Amanda answers the question "how do I become more vulnerable?" The truth is, vulnerability is learned and isn't easy for anyone to express. Amanda discusses how from a young age we are taught to fear our emotions and this leads to so many adults fearing communicating their wants, needs, and desires to others. Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bottom) Follow me on Facebook If you like what you heard don't forget ...
Jul 06, 2023•32 min•Ep. 208
In this episode, Amanda discusses dirty talk and why women don't generally like it. Spoiler alert - it's because most men approach dirty talk from the male gaze. They get too graphic and it becomes cringe for the woman. So let's discuss the difference between dirty talk from the male gaze and dirty talk from the female gaze..a few small changes and it will be better experience for everyone! Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bott...
May 24, 2023•29 min•Ep. 207
In this episode, Amanda discusses the unrealistic expectations that modern media (TV shows & movies) put on sex and the pressures put on men to reach these expectations and make the sex 'last longer'. Did you know that statistically the average sex session (including foreplay) lasts 20-30 mins max ? Yet modern media puts pressure on men to make it last all night in order to satisfy their partner? Let's dive in and discuss how damaging this is and also how it can take the pleasure & fun o...
May 17, 2023•23 min•Ep. 206
In this episode, we're getting down and dirty and discussing pussies! Yes, this is a 'taboo' subject for some, but Amanda is here to break the stigma and help women to find their own pleasure and step into their sexual empowerment. Book mentioned Pussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bottom) Follow me on Facebook If you like what you heard don't forget to tag us on Instagram @the.amandaking...
May 11, 2023•31 min
In this podcast takeover episode, Jessica Aycock, discusses her article in this month's issue of SMEX ED Magazine. Jessica is a liscenced therapist and a Kink & Sex Personality Coach who helps couples communicate their wants, desires, & kinks to each other. In this episode she will be discussing the 5 Love Languages..but with a twist! Each love language has a specific kink that needs to be fed, and she is here to help you learn which is yours, as well as your partners! READ SMEX ED MAGAZ...
Apr 27, 2023•41 min•Ep. 204
In this episode, Amanda discusses the difference between dirty talk for foreplay vs talking dirty during sex. She gives tips and tricks on how to make dirty talk appeal to the female gaze and gives examples of what to say in and out of the bedroom to make your partner come undone. SMEX ED Digital Magazine: www.smexedcom Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bottom) Follow me on Facebook If you like what you heard don't forget to tag...
Apr 05, 2023•26 min•Ep. 203
In this episode, Amanda discusses the idea of bringing in a 3rd party to a sexual situation: aka threesomes. She discusses the taboo ideology behind threesomes, how to communicate to your partner your desire to participate in one, and the boundaries that need to be discussed before the session. SMEX ED Digital Magazine: www.smexedcom Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bottom) Follow me on Facebook If you like what you heard don't...
Mar 29, 2023•21 min
In this episode, Amanda discusses the three c's of the female body: climaxing, cumming, & creaming. She discusses the studies behind each, the "how to" of each, and the societal conditioning that comes with female pleasure in general. SMEX ED Digital Magazine: www.smexedcom Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bottom) Follow me on Facebook If you like what you heard don't forget to tag us on Instagram @the.amandaking For tips &...
Mar 22, 2023•33 min•Ep. 201
In this episode, Amanda discuss why women tend to have disruptive thoughts during sex. A woman's brain is on hyperdrive 24/7 and it can be very difficult for her to slow her brain down and be present in the moment during sex. Amanda discusses ways that both partners can help decrease disruptive thoughts and enjoy sex the way it should be: filled with pleasure. SMEX ED Digital Magazine: www.smexedcom Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to...
Mar 15, 2023•38 min•Ep. 200
In this episode, Amanda discusses the unrealistic expectations that modern media (TV shows & movies) put on sex and the pressures put on men to reach these expectations and make the sex 'last longer'. Did you know that statistically the average sex session (including foreplay) lasts 20-30 mins max ? Yet modern media puts pressure on men to make it last all night in order to satisfy their partner? Let's dive in and discuss how damaging this is and also how it can take the pleasure & fun o...
Mar 08, 2023•23 min•Ep. 199
In this episode, Amanda discusses her newest passion project, SMEX ED: a digital magazine dedicated to teaching you the shit you should have learned in school. Amanda discusses how she came up with the idea, the reason why she created it, and speaks about what to expect with the upcoming March 2023 Issue. I would also like to thank all of the writers of the first issue of SMEX ED Magazine. This wouldn't be possible without y'all. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. SMEX ED MAGAZINE: www.smexe...
Mar 01, 2023•26 min•Ep. 198
In this episode, Amanda discusses dirty talk and why women don't generally like it. Spoiler alert - it's because most men approach dirty talk from the male gaze. They get too graphic and it becomes cringe for the woman. So let's discuss the difference between dirty talk from the male gaze and dirty talk from the female gaze..a few small changes and it will be better experience for everyone! Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bott...
Feb 23, 2023•29 min•Ep. 197
In this episode, Amanda discusses some self love practices for beginners to help you reconnect with your body. She got a lot of traction on a recent Instagram story push where she suggested recording yourself masturbating to reconnect with your body. So many women were uncomfortable with the concept but wanted to learn more tips for less drastic measures on how to reconnect with their bodies. So in this episode, Amanda dives into her top 5 tips for beginners to start reconnecting with your body....
Feb 15, 2023•32 min•Ep. 195
In this episode, Amanda discusses why it is so hard for women to take on the dominate role in the bedroom. How societial conditioning makes women believe that the only role they serve during sex is the submissive role. She also discusses tips to help you step into your dominance in the bedroom & express your wants, needs, and desires. Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bottom) Follow me on Facebook If you like what you heard ...
Feb 08, 2023•34 min•Ep. 194
In this episode, Amanda invited Jessica Aycock,a licensed therapist to discuss the proper way to open up communication when expressing a kink or fetish to your partner. Jessica is a therapist and coach who focuses on all things taboo - including sexuality and kinks. Her passion is helping women take the shame out of pleasure and own their unique sexual personality. She is an ally for sex workers, the kink-curious, and those with non-traditional relationships. Find Jess Link to Kink List: https:/...
Feb 01, 2023•54 min•Ep. 193
In this episode, Amanda shares a training from her monthly membership, Audacious AF, so that her listeners can get a preview of the information that is provided in her membership. She discusses delayed ejaculation, the symptoms (medical, physical, psychological) and how to help your partner through their struggle with DE. Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bottom) Follow me on Facebook If you like what you heard don't forget to t...
Jan 25, 2023•33 min•Ep. 192
In this episode, Amanda discusses the most commonly asked questions about anal sex: "How do I begin to explore anal play?" "What toys do you recommened?" "What is the prep work that needs to be done for anal sex?" "How do I communicate to my partner I want to experiment with anal?" She answers all these questions and more! Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bottom) Follow me on Facebook If you like what you heard don't forget to ...
Jan 18, 2023•37 min•Ep. 191
In this episode, Amanda discusses the cause of when a person shuts down their intimacy. She discusees how your partner goes into survival mode and gets stuck in the "freeze" stage. She breaks down what that means, how to communicate to your partner about it, and steps to take in order to support your partner during the "thawing" phase of freeze mode. Follow Amanda on Snapchat Follow me on Snapachat Sign up for our email list My Website (scroll to the bottom) Follow me on Facebook If you like wha...
Jan 11, 2023•35 min•Ep. 190
