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Small Things Often

The Gottman Institutewww.gottman.com
Give your relationships a boost in 5 minutes or less with Small Things Often from The Gottman Institute. We provide simple, proven, quick tips to help you deepen and enhance your relationships!
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Episodes

How to Support Your Partner When You’re Hurting Too

When life gets overwhelming, it can be hard to support your partner when you’re hurting too. On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll explain how you can help each other when you’re both struggling with your own feelings. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 16, 20213 min

How to stay connected during life’s transitions

Are you going through a life transition? Like a new job, an illness in the family, or financial crisis? On this episode of Small Things Often, learn how to weather the storm by intentionally maintaining a strong, healthy relationship with your partner. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 14, 20214 min

Finding Ways to Accept Influence

Accepting your partner’s influence doesn’t mean saying “yes” to everything. On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll explain why it’s all about acknowledging that your partner has a valid perspective and how you can find ways to accept their influence. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 09, 20213 min

Do you Look at your partner through Rose-colored glasses

How do you view your partner? The answer to this question can be the difference between a successful relationship — or one at risk. On this episode of Small Things Often, learn why your perspective can change your relationship for the better. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 07, 20214 min

Ways to Invest in Your Relationship

When it comes to relationships, the grass is greener where you water it. On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll explain the ways that you can invest in your relationship so you can recognize and appreciate what you have. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 02, 20213 min

6 Ideas for the Perfect Playdate

Has your sense of playfulness gotten lost in the busyness of daily life? If so, it’s time to make a playdate with your partner. On this episode of Small Things Often, discover six ideas to reconnect and have fun! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 31, 20213 min

Rituals to Reconnect in Your Relationship

How much time have you actually spent with your partner lately? Have you been starting to take each other for granted? Or drifting apart? On this episode of Small Things Often, learn how to create daily rituals to turn towards each other daily, reconnect, and get your relationship back on track. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 26, 20214 min

Ways to Stop Taking Each Other for Granted

Are you and your partner taking each other for granted? On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll explain 3 daily rituals to keep romance, affection, appreciation, and communication strong in your relationship. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 24, 20213 min

Mindful Listening Tips During Conflict

Are you really listening to your partner during conflicts? On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll explain how you can listen mindfully so that you can move through whatever conflicts you face in your relationship. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 19, 20213 min

How to Become a Really Great Listener

How are your listening skills? It’s more important than you may realize. In this episode of Small Things Often, learn tips to become an “active” listener — and watch how your relationship improves and strengthens. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 17, 20213 min

How to Invest in Your Emotional Bank Account

What’s the state of your Emotional Bank Account? Have no idea? On this episode of Small Things Often, find out why your Emotional Bank Account is so important to the health of your relationship — and discover tips to get it back on track. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 12, 20214 min

Why Core Needs Aren't Negotiable

Are you and your partner fulfilling each other’s core needs? On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll explain why core needs aren’t negotiable and a crucial part of making your relationship thrive. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 10, 20213 min

A Guide to Complaining

Do you know how to effectively complain? On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll explain a 3-part formula to help you complain without criticizing. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 05, 20212 min

How To Turn Towards Instead of Away

Every day is filled with small moments when you could turn towards your partner or away from them. On this episode of Small Things Often, learn how and why these small moments can make or break a relationship. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

May 03, 20213 min

Ways to Make Your Love Last

Are you committed to making your love last? On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll explain how you can maintain and strengthen your emotional bonds so you can stay in love with your partner. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 28, 20213 min

How to Get Your Relationship Back on Track

Feel as if you and your partner are drifting apart? Almost feel like strangers? On this episode of Small Things Often, we share an exercise that can get your relationship back on track! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 26, 20213 min

How to Support Your Partner’s Life Dream

Does your partner have a life dream, but you don't know how to support helping them make it a reality? On this episode of Small Things Often, we offer some ideas of what you can do to help their dream come true. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 21, 20213 min

Do You and Your Partner Dream Together?

Have you shared your dreams for the future with your partner lately —or ever? On this episode of Small Things Often, discover why sharing individual and shared dreams is so important — and how to start a conversation about it! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 19, 20213 min

How to Build Trust In Your Relationship

Are you looking for ways to build trust in your relationship? On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll explain how you can build bridges of trust by doing things for your partner and doing things together. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 14, 20213 min

Here’s What Trust and Commitment Look Like in a Relationship

How can you show that you’re a committed partner worth trusting? On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll explain what trust and commitment look like in a relationship. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 12, 20212 min

What to Do if You Don’t Trust Each Other

Is your relationship lacking trust? Was it broken or never there to begin with? On this episode of Small Things Often, learn the steps to take and the questions to ask so you can begin to trust your partner. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 07, 20213 min

Learn to Create Shared Meaning in Your Relationship

Feel something is missing in your relationship? It may be “shared meaning.” In this episode of Small Things Often, discover why and how creating shared meaning can turn things around — and help your relationship grow deeper and stronger than ever before. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 05, 20213 min

How to Strengthen Your Relationship with State of the Union Meetings

Are you holding in feelings of anger or frustration with your partner that are impacting your relationship? On this episode of Small Things Often we explore the State of the Union Meeting — a powerful tool to repair conflict and strengthen your relationship. Visit gottman.com/afterafight for a new collection of exercises, conversations, and videos led by Doctors John and Julie Gottman. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 31, 20214 min

How to Use a Repair Remote Control

If you’re struggling with repair attempts, visualize a tv remote control! On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll explain how you can rewind, fast forward, and pause during conflict so you can get your relationship back on the right track. Visit gottman.com/afterafight for a new collection of exercises, conversations, and videos led by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 29, 20214 min

What to Do When You Disagree

It doesn’t have to be the end of the road if you and your partner disagree about important issues. On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll explain a “sandwich” approach for talking through difficult topics so you can both be seen, heard, and accepted. Visit gottman.com/afterafight for a new collection of exercises, conversations, and videos led by Doctors John and Julie Gottman. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 24, 20213 min

How to Process an Argument

You and your partner just had an argument… now what? On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll guide you through 3 steps to process the argument so you can repair it and move forward together. Visit gottman.com/afterafight for a new collection of exercises, conversations, and videos led by Doctors John and Julie Gottman. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 22, 20214 min

Rules for a Stress-Reducing Conversation

Feeling stressed at the end of your day, and not knowing how to deal with it? On this episode of Small Things Often, learn rules for having a stress-reducing conversation with your partner, to help you both connect, unwind and relax. Visit gottman.com/afterafight for a new collection of exercises, conversations, and videos led by Doctors John and Julie Gottman. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 17, 20214 min

How to Rescue your Relationship from Stress

How’s your stress level lately? Whether you realize it or not, the way you cope with it could be affecting your relationship. On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll give you tips on how to manage your stress in order to get back on track with your partner. Visit gottman.com/afterafight for a new collection of exercises, conversations, and videos led by Doctors John and Julie Gottman. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 15, 20214 min

Managing Physiological Flooding

Have you ever been in the middle of an argument with your partner, and suddenly you feel as if your mind and body have been caught in a riptide? That’s physiological flooding. On this episode of Small Things Often, learn how to manage these overwhelming feelings — and get back on track. Visit gottman.com/LOL for a new collection of exercises, conversations, and videos led by Doctors John and Julie Gottman. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 10, 20214 min

How to Practice Self-Soothing

Do you know how to self-soothe when you find yourself in the middle of a heated discussion with your partner? On this episode of Small Things Often, we’re guiding you through a meditative technique so you can find peace and work through conflicts as a team. Don’t forget to visit gottman.com/LOL for all-new research-based exercises, conversations, and videos. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mar 08, 20213 min
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