In this episode I am joined by Wiley Wolfe. Wiley Wolfe is a Professional Dominant, Human Animal Handler, Fetish Performer, Kink Educator, and Primal Daddy based in Los Angeles. She is the Co-Founder of SoCal Creatures, an inclusive pet play group; Instinct LA, a virtual primal support group; and Observation Room, an extreme kink immersive theatre production.We talk about what pet play is/ isn't and how to get in touch with our primal, animalistic selves. Woof! Wiley: https://www.worshipwileywol...
Sep 28, 2023•39 min
This episode features Mike Stabile. Mike Stabile is an activist, journalist and documentary filmmaker who has written about and advocated for the rights of sex workers and sexual speech for over a decade. His firm, Polari Media, has developed press and media strategies for some of the adult industry's most well-known brands. Mike currently serves as the Director of Public Affairs at Free Speech Coalition, the trade and advocacy group for the adult industry. Today we talk about age verification l...
Sep 21, 2023•50 min
Sam Sharman is a NeoDigital artist, musician, and event producer operating from a perspective of conscious embodiment. In this episode, we talk about sacred sexuality and how pleasure can be a spiritual, religious, or transcendent experience. We also chat about finding your orgasm, sensitizing your body, energetic sex, expanding your pleasure, and different types of orgasms. Ads: - The Pleasure Connection Retreat http://thepleasureconnection.eventbrite.com - Dipsea: Dipsea is offering an extende...
Sep 14, 2023•50 min
This episode is a little different! Tune in to hear about the third Pleasure Connection Retreat, which is happening on October 14th and 15th in Malibu, California. I am co-hosting alongside internationally renowned yoga, meditation, and breathwork teacher, integrative behavioral therapist, and multi-modality healer Lisa Reider (Genius Loci). Are you ready to make pleasure and connection a priority? Do you want to transform and elevate your sex life? This retreat is an intimate opportunity for in...
Sep 11, 2023•25 min
Welcome back to a new season of S & S! We ended with rope, so let's start with more rope! I am joined today by Toni, aka submissivetiger. Submissivetiger is a rope artist, performer, educator, community event organizer, and founder of The Rope Collective. Her focus is on modifications in rope for every body, creating liberating experiences and connection with rope, informed consent, negotiation, and aftercare. We talk about her journey into rope play, why folks are into rope bondage and susp...
Sep 08, 2023•45 min
Today, we’re sharing a preview of one of our favorite podcasts: Private Parts Unknown. Private Parts Unknown is a Bourdain-style podcast exploring sex, love, relationships, gender, and seductive subcultures around the world. Join host Courtney Kocak and expert guests for hilarious, sex-positive conversations — destigmatizing everything from abortion to Ashley Madison, polyamory to PMDD, sex work to Shibari, and more. Travel series include Helsinki, Finland; Mexico City, Mexico; and Tokyo, Japan....
Jul 02, 2023•16 min
In this episode, I interview the world renowned Midori. Midori is a trailblazing educator, artist, teacher, coach and consultant on alternative sexuality, BDSM, Shibari cultural competency, and joyful empowerment through D/s and thoughtful kink. We talk about how to create amazing, engaging, and pleasurable BDSM scenes. Midori has ONE more spot at her upcoming Forte Femme!!! Find out how to join here: https://www.fortefemme.com/ Midori: https://planetmidori.com/ Ads: Dipsea: Dipsea is offering a...
Jun 22, 2023•1 hr 11 min
In this episode, I welcome back Liz Goldwyn who is an author, filmmaker, and founder of The Sex Ed, an educational platform and podcast dedicated to sex, health, and consciousness in the digital age. We talk about how consciousness, spirituality, and energetics can enhance your sex life. We also discuss Liz's new book called Sex, Health, and Consciousness: How to Reclaim Your Pleasure Potential as well as transcendent sex, sacred sexuality, menstrual blood, and how to use your eroticism for crea...
Jun 16, 2023•51 min
In this episode I interview adult industry performer Riley Nixon. We talk about her return to mainstream porn, solo content, online work versus set life, death fetishism, body image, and more! Play Date Event: https://pleasureismedicine.eventbrite.com/ Riley: www.Riley-Nixon.com FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media. Loving disclaimer: Sluts and Scholars is a podc...
Jun 08, 2023•45 min
This episode features Pam Shaffer. Pam is a Licensed Marriage and Family psychotherapist and the founder of Best Self Psych. She also hosts the Why Not Both Podcast and the newly launched NeuroProvocateurs podcast. We talk about how ADHD and neurodiversity can show up in sex and relationships as well as offer tools, tips, and education on things like Dopamine’s role in the body, sensory differences, what actually is neurotypical? Is anyone actually neurotypical? This is a super honest conversati...
Jun 01, 2023•1 hr 5 min
In this episode, I talk with Dedeker, Emily, and Jase of the Multiamory Podcast! We talk about some top tools and tips for relationship communication, relationship check-ins, going from non-monogamy back to monogamy, triads, and how to repair ruptures in partnerships. We also tease their new amazing book- Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships. Ads: - Unlock your radical path to holistic wellness with Back to the Body and their Sexual Wellness Quiz for Women at backtothebody.org . ...
May 25, 2023•1 hr 1 min
You slutty scholars deserve more stuttiness! This episode welcomes back columnist, sex expert, and activist Zachary Zane. We talk about how to handle rejection from both sides, face sitting, and Zachary teases us with an excerpt from his newly released book Boyslut! Don’t miss his book tour and order your copy today! https://www.zacharyzane.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts...
May 21, 2023•47 min
Eva Clay is an acclaimed sexologist, psychotherapist, and founder of The Institute for Intimacy Arts. We talk about the brain’s capacity for change (neuroplasticity), the brain-body connection for pleasure, the benefits of pleasure, as well as hormones, menopause, and sexuality across the lifespan. Ad: Unlock your radical path to holistic wellness with Back to the Body and their Sexual Wellness Quiz for Women at backtothebody.org . Plus use SandS for $500 off selected retreats. Eva: https://www....
May 18, 2023•43 min
I wanted to give y'all a special treat this week- a bonus episode! This chat was recorded for the Double Teamed Podcast with Cami and Niki! This episode is all about fantasies and exploring why we fantasize about a variety of things and experiences that we wouldn't perhaps normally want in the real world. We each share our own fantasies and they range from blood and vampires, to pregnancies and harems, and even sex with ghosts! Check out more of Double teamed Podcast at https://www.doubleteamedp...
May 13, 2023•1 hr 14 min
Have you heard of Swallowology? Ianessa Humbert, Ph.D. is an accomplished scientist, professor, and highly sought-after speaker with expertise in swallowing and swallowing disorders. We talk about the field of swallowology, the gag reflex, deep throating, throat pleasure, sexuality in medicine, and misogynoir in science and academia. Ads: Unlock your radical path to holistic wellness with Back to the Body and their Sexual Wellness Quiz for Women at backtothebody.org . Plus use SandS for $500 off...
May 12, 2023•56 min
Today, we’re sharing a preview of one of our favorite podcasts: American Sex. On a mission to change our dysfunctional relationship with shame & pleasure, hosts Sunny Megatron & Ken Melvoin-Berg tackle taboo topics with lighthearted humor & down-to-earth relatability. This clip is from episode 170 Taboo BDSM Play . In it, guest Mollena Williams-Haas discusses making sense of our darkest, deepest, most unspeakable kinky fantasies. Check out American Sex at americansexpodcast.com FOLLO...
May 08, 2023•14 min
Tricia Wise aka Safe Slut is a NYC based writer, reiki master, herbalist, esthetician, content creator, sexual health advocate, witch, and meme lord. Tricia was diagnosed with genital herpes in November 2019. After noticing the stigma and shame surrounding being herpes positive, she created her Instagram account @safe.slut to help people take their power back while promoting sex positivity, helping to destigmatize STIs and slut shaming, and promoting safer sex practices. In this episode we talk ...
May 04, 2023•48 min
In this episode, I am joined by certified clinical sexologist, pleasure activist, and author Stefanie Iris Weiss. In celebration of Earth Day (April 22) we talk about eco-sexuality and how nature and sensuality intersect. We also cover some astrology (and how it can help your sex life). Stefanie: https://stefanieirisweiss.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, comments, stories, rants to: SlutsAndScholars@gmail.com Sluts And Scholars is a production of sluts and scholars media...
Apr 27, 2023•41 min
What is Surrogate Partner Therapy? Join me as I interview Arianna Fernandez- an IPSA Certified Surrogate Partner, a professional cuddler, sex educator, and intimacy coach. We talk about what Surrogate Partner Therapy is, who it can help, and how to access it. We also discuss demisexuality, sensate focus, cuddling, body confidence, circumcision, and the importance of touch. Ads: - Dipsea: 30 days of full access for free when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands - Green Chef: Go to GreenChef.com/scho...
Apr 20, 2023•54 min
Destin Gerek is a globally recognized leading voice in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment . A Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International, he is the founder and CEO of The Evolved Masculine, a pioneering coaching and training company for men, and author of the best-selling book “ The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and The One She Craves.” We talk about “spiritual f*ckboys,” masculine and feminine energies, teaching men to do better...
Apr 13, 2023•53 min
Keeley is a sex and relationship coach. She works with individuals and partners who want to embrace their innate desires, build sexual confidence, and fully realize their sexual potential. In this episode, we talk about how to prepare for sex clubs, sex parties, and sexy events. We cover how to find the right event as well as emotional, physical, and relational considerations for before, during, and after your adventure. Keeley: https://www.keeleyrankin.com/ Double Teamed: https://www.doubleteam...
Apr 06, 2023•46 min
In this episode, I interview Kevin Patterson, author of Love’s Not Color Blind and Educator with Unf*ck Your Polyamory. We talk about compassion, freedom, and control in non-monogamy, polyamorous weddings, race and non-monogamous spaces, pitfalls in long-term polyamory, communication skills, and more! Ads: - Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands - Enjoy porn you can learn from. Use code XOSCHOLARS and get a seven-day free trial at https://aftergl...
Mar 30, 2023•47 min
In this episode, I talk with Somatic Sex Therapist Tallulah Sulis about sexological bodywork and somatic sex therapy/ education. We discuss what it is, who it is for, and how it helps. We also discuss Tantra, female ejaculation, and provide some ways to prepare the whole body for more pleasure. Ads: Manscaped: Get 20% off and free shipping with our code SCHOLARS at Manscaped.com Featured trailer: https://www.hollyrandallunfiltered.com/ Loving disclaimer: Sluts and Scholars is a podcast produced ...
Mar 23, 2023•50 min
Today, we’re sharing a preview of one of my favorite podcasts: The Slutrepreneur Podcast. Join Ana Dee on her journey to financial freedom being a professional goddess in the adult industry, sharing the success and struggle of unconventional ways to make money from home. Today’s clip features her tips and tricks into the field of selling your dirty underwear. Listen and learn how to start a side hustle selling your worn items, safely and discreetly, with the help of The Slutrepreneur’s rulebook....
Mar 21, 2023•12 min
From the champagne room to the board room, meet Ana Dee, the stripper turned CEO. Also known as her viral alter ego, Rebekka Blue, she displays the uncensored story of being a self-made Professional Goddess. She is a serial entrepreneur, author, podcast host, YouTuber, and a social media icon. Now 29, living on a farm with her dogs in North Carolina, she continues to run her adult toy store and provides beginner Slutrepreneurs with the resources and confidence they need to build their own empire...
Mar 16, 2023•48 min
This episode features professional Dominatrix Colette Pervette. We talk about her spiritual approach to the art of kink, what kink and psychedelics have in common, how to find your inner Dom, electroplay, heartache, pain, power, and of course- pleasure! Ads: - Dipsea: For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands - Stop throwing your money away. Cancel unwanted subscriptions – and manage your expenses the easy way – by going to...
Mar 09, 2023•47 min
Is everyone a little bit trans? Can gender change over time? Guest Jacob Tobia (they/them) is an actor, writer, producer, and author of the national bestselling memoir Sissy: A Coming-of-Gender Story . In this episode, we talk all about the nuances of gender from sissy play to Harry Styles. Ads: - Enjoy porn you can learn from. Use XOSCHOLARS and get a seven-day free trial at https://afterglow.ubpages.com/xoscholars/ - Check out Cocktales Dirty Discussions: Another show from The Pleasure Podcast...
Mar 02, 2023•54 min
Guest Ginger Banks has been involved in the adult entertainment industry for the past 14 years. This episode covers a lot of ground… and space! We talk about how to challenge systemic issues in the adult industry while destigmatizing sex work, sex worker rights, empathy, Ron Jeremy, redefining “normal,” and even some fun with psychedelics and aliens! Ads: Green Chef: Go to GreenChef.com/scholars60 and use code scholars60 to get 60% off plus free shipping FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send...
Feb 24, 2023•52 min
This week I am joined by the hosts of the podcast CockTales: Dirty Discussions. We talk about airport sex, Valentine's Day, self love, cheating, and more! Ads: - Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/sands. - Enjoy porn you can learn from. Use code XOSCHOLARS and get a seven-day free trial at https://afterglow.ubpages.com/xoscholars/ Check out CockTales and their tour: https://linktr.ee/cocktalespodcast FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questio...
Feb 16, 2023•50 min
Welcome back to a new season of the podcast! This first episode features Lila; she is an intimacy specialist, writer, actress, public speaker, curator, and host of the hit podcasts Horizontal with Lila and Positively Sex! We talk about intimacy, loneliness, keeping desire alive, and what to do if you get distracted during sex. Ads: - Get 20% off with promo code Scholars at whatdoyoumeme.com/letsgetdeep Lila: https://horizontalwithlila.com/ FOLLOW US Twitter Instagram Facebook Send questions, com...
Feb 09, 2023•40 min
