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Sips & Smacks

Adalia & Rexwww.sipsandsmacks.com
Welcome to Sips & Smacks, a podcast about two besties with beverages discussing domestic discipline. Join us as we talk about life, love, and kink! Bottoms up!
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Episodes

Sips & Smacks - Ep 34: The Shame Game

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Let those who have not felt shame cast the first stone... I think we've all felt shame for some reason or another, and for those of us with this kink, we tend to feel it a lot. How do you deal with shame? Do you feel you overcame it or is it something that you still live with in your daily life? Episode References: Brene Brown - Listening to shame (TED Talk) Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy -...

Jul 16, 202344 minEp. 34

Sips & Smacks - Minisode 3: A Late Holiday

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Despite our best efforts, we weren't able to find a time to record together (damn these timezones! Why can't we live in the same place??) so we found a small window of time where we were able to record a short message. Regular episodes resume next week! Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - Carrie - Charley - ...

Jul 09, 20232 min

Sips & Smacks - Ep 33: Making "Squirmy" Sexy

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) What is it about humiliation that makes it so enticing? Why is squirming in your seat so good? Hell if we know, but we've got some ideas for you! Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - Carrie - Charley - Chloe - Cool Pseudonym - DD Lifestyle - Dells - Diane - DME - Elsa - Em - Eva - Icse - Jack A - Jared - John...

Jul 02, 202341 minEp. 33

Sips & Smacks - Ep 32: Self-Topping

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Join us as we talk about some ways to top yourself with special shoutout to David for bringing up the topic! Episode References: Supergoop Sunscreen r/audiogonewild Sweepy Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - Carrie - Charley - Chloe - Cool Pseudonym - DD Lifestyle - Dells - Diane - DME - Elsa - Em - Eva - Ic...

Jun 25, 202340 minEp. 32

Sips & Smacks - Ep 31: A Little Conversation w/ Karole

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Before we start, sorry about the audio, everyone! It's a little (lol) quiet in some areas and loud in others! Join us as we talk to Karole! A switch, a little, and an all around lovely person. We talk about her journey coming out as a switch and coming out as a person who identifies as a Little! Episode References: Karole's Fics (cheeky.pub) Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - A...

Jun 18, 202340 minEp. 31

Sips & Smacks - Ep 30: Real Life Punishments

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Join us as we talk about punishments and how we navigate being punished with spankings when we are spanking fetishists... 🤔 TW: Brief mention of the new Duggar docuseries "Shiny Happy People" and Christian Domestic Discipline Alex's Pluggables: @dilfdarthvader Egeria Ao3 Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - ...

Jun 11, 202335 minEp. 30

Sips & Smacks - Ep 29: Twilight Of Spanking Self-Discovery w/ Alex

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Join us as we welcome friend of the pod Alex as we discuss our relationship with fan fiction and how it helped us discover ourselves! Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - Carrie - Charley - Chloe - Cool Pseudonym - DD Lifestyle - Dells - Diane - DME - Elsa - Em - Eva - Icse - Jack A - Jared - John - Jonathon ...

Jun 04, 202344 minEp. 29

Sips & Smacks - Ep 28: Assume The Position

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) That's right, folks! We're talking about spanking positions! From OTK to St. Andrew's Cross. What's your favorite? Episode References: Butt Bruiser (etsy) Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - Carrie - Charley - Chloe - Cool Pseudonym - DD Lifestyle - Dells - Diane - DME - Elsa - Em - Eva - Icse - Jack A - Jar...

May 28, 202333 min

Sips & Smacks - Ep 27: Types Of Spankings

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) All by ourselves this episode and we talk types of spankings! From punishments to funishments and everything in between! Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - Carrie - Charley - Chloe - Cool Pseudonym - DD Lifestyle - Dells - Diane - DME - Elsa - Em - Eva - Icse - Jack A - Jared - John - Jonathon - js4n6 - Kat...

May 21, 202337 minEp. 27

Sips & Smacks - Ep 26: The Invasion Of The Tops

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Join us in our horror as we welcome our Tops to the podcast! This week, we are joined by Adalia's Daddy, C, and Rex's partner, Dan, as we talk about what Domestic Discipline looks like in our relationships. Episode References: Hank's Belts Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - Carrie - Charley - Chloe - Cool P...

May 14, 202350 minEp. 26

Sips & Smacks - Ep 25: We Deserve A Timeout

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Why? Because we forgot the poll for our patrons on MAY 1... AGAIN!! And we even talk about it here!! But... we also talk about other corrections we wanted to address. Join us as we make an episode of correction time! Episode References: Spreader Bar (NSFW) Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - Carrie - Charley...

May 07, 202340 minEp. 25

Sips & Smacks - Minisode 2: Spring Break

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Guys....... We're so tired. We need a vacation and we're taking one! They just happen to be separate and we clearly did not coordinate because they overlap in inconvenient ways. Anyway, there is no new episode this week, but there will be one next week! Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - Carrie - Charley - ...

Apr 30, 20237 min

Sips & Smacks - Ep 24: Spanking In Media w/ Filmmaker Melanie Zoey

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Join us as we talk to Melanie Zoey about her short film SPANKO and how spanking in media influenced us through our lives! Show References: SPANKO Trailer Instagram: @spankomovie Facebook: facebook.com/spankomovie Twitter: @melaniezoey SPANKO UPCOMING APRIL/MAY SCREENINGS: LIVE IN CHICAGO: At the legendary Music Box Theater, ,in-Person: 9:30 PM + Q&A | Wednesday, May 3, 2023 (Melanie will be there!) LIVE TIX: https://musicboxtheatre.com/films-an...

Apr 23, 202341 minEp. 24

Sips & Smacks - Ep 23: Consent

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Let's talk about Rex's absolute favorite subject: consent. There's a lot to think about when finding a play partner, finding a new partner, or even just going to a party! We're here to break it down. If you want a lines notebook, send us an email at sipsandsmacks@gmail.com! Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster ...

Apr 16, 202353 min

Sips & Smacks - Ep 22: Kink Aware Therapy

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Join us as we talk to Michal, a kink aware therapist! We talk about what it's like to be in therapy, how therapy works, and what kink aware therapy is! Episode References: @michalrogersmsw (TikTok) Shameless by Nadia Bolz-Weber (Amazon) Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski (Amazon) Mental Health Match Kink Aware Professionals American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between!...

Apr 09, 202345 minEp. 22

Sips & Smacks - Ep 21: Finding Community

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Join us as we talk about the importance of finding community. Whether you're in an established domestic discipline relationship, figuring yourself out as a spanko, or anything in between, we think finding community is an important part of feeling like our true selves. Episode References: Adalia's Punishment Strap (Etsy) Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - B...

Apr 02, 202343 minEp. 21

Sips & Smacks - Ep 20: Relationship Alphabet Soup - LDDDR

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) We're back with an episode about DD in LDRs! Let's talk about Long Distance Domestic Discipline Relationships or LDDDR as I (Rex) have now termed it. How do people in long distance relationships also manage the domestic discipline aspect? Join us as we discuss punishments, aftercare, and playing even though we might be miles apart. Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Av...

Mar 26, 202330 minEp. 20

Sips & Smacks - Ep 19: The Scold Standard (Pt. 2)

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Chaos reigns once again! Join us as we continue our discussion on scolding (and go slightly off track)! Episode References: The Art of Scolding by Jillian Keenan Truants & Trains by Adaliak and Peachy Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - Carrie - Charley - Chloe - Cool Pseudonym - DD Lifestyle - Dells - D...

Mar 19, 202344 minEp. 19

Sips & Smacks - Ep 18: The Scold Standard (Pt. 1)

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) We couldn't decide on a name for this episode, so enjoy some of the alternatives: Pot o’ Scold; The Scold-en Rule; All that glitters is not Scold; Scoldfinger; Heart of Scold; Scolddigger; Hot & (S)cold Join us as we talk about the gold standard of scolding! Episode References: Spanko Duck Lamp (Amazon) arrogance diminishes wisdom (B-side) Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie -...

Mar 12, 202336 minEp. 18

Sips & Smacks - Ep 17: Bottom Balms, Switches, And Female Tops

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) On this episode we welcome Adalia's and Rex's friend, Maura! She tells us about her experience finding herself, her partner, and her favorite implement along with her experience being a top in the spanko world. Maura's Twitter: @drpepperyllis Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - Carrie - Charley - Chloe - Coo...

Mar 05, 202338 minEp. 17

Sips & Smacks - Ep 16: The Trifecta

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) We here at Sips & Smacks believe in the trifecta of Domestic Discipline: Smacks, Snacks, & Snuggles. Of course, what you think is the trifecta for DD and aftercare is going to be different than ours! In this episode, we talk about aftercare and what that looks like for each of us. Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - ...

Feb 26, 202335 minEp. 16

Sips & Smacks - Ep 15: So You Wanna Be In A DD Relationship

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) We're not perfect and neither is this guide, but we've put together a "How To Get Started" guide to Domestic Discipline. How did you get started in your DD relationship? We'd love to hear it! References: Heart Paddle Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - Carrie - Charley - Chloe - Cool Pseudonym - DD Lifestyle...

Feb 19, 202347 minEp. 15

Sips & Smacks - Ep 14: The Elephant (CW: Abuse)

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) That Thing We Do has an elephant in the room and as practicers of DD we feel responsible to acknowledge it. This episode contains discussion of domestic abuse and Christian Domestic Discipline. Sources: An Inside Look at Domestic Discipline and Its Abuse of Power Bad Fantasies by Jillian Keenan Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Caro...

Feb 12, 202343 minEp. 14

Sips & Smacks - Ep 13: The Sweet Life Of Adalia And Rex

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Join us as we talk about what it feels like to be in a domestic discipline relationship with a romantic partner! Well, we try anyway... we had a few technical difficulties as well as too much silliness coursing through us to truly stay on topic. ** Disclaimer ** We experienced some issues recording and as such, sometimes the audio was out of sync or simply not there. Rex did her best to fix it, but it was not always the easiest to fix (says the per...

Feb 05, 202343 minEp. 13

Sips & Smacks - Ep 12: Life Is Beautiful (And Noisy)

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) That Thing We Do (TTWD) is undeniably loud! How do we navigate that when we have young kids in the house? Where do we hide the implements? What does a domestic discipline relationship look like with a family? In this episode we welcome the wonderful Sam who shares her experience with raising a family, being a wife and mom, and practicing DD with her husband. References from the episode: Little Red Spanking on Etsy Patreon Good Girls & Boys &amp...

Jan 29, 202339 minEp. 12

Sips & Smacks - Ep 11: We Have A Secret...

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) ... we like spanking... 😰 Join us as we talk about coming out and finding community with new friends and old friends! Jillian Keenan's "Something To Tell You" on YouTube Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - Carrie - Charley - Chloe - Cool Pseudonym - DD Lifestyle - Dells - Diane - DME - Elsa - Em - Eva - Ics...

Jan 22, 202337 minEp. 11

Sips & Smacks - Ep 10: Play It Safe

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Join us as we get serious about safewords and scenes gone wrong. You may have experienced it yourself or you may be worried about what to do if it happens to you! You are not alone! What safewords do you use? Do you like the traffic light system or do you use something else? Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster...

Jan 14, 202331 minEp. 10

Sips & Smacks - Ep 9: Fetch The Bathbrush!

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Or maybe... not so fast. On today's episode, we're all in agreement that the bathbrush hurts! Join us as we welcome a very special guest (Dan!) and we talk about our favorite and least favorite implements! Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - Carrie - Charley - Chloe - Cool Pseudonym - DD Lifestyle - Dells - ...

Jan 08, 202338 minEp. 9

Sips & Smacks - Ep 8: Come And Play With Us (Danny)

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Surprise! I know we told you that we weren't going to have a new episode until January 8, but what kind of bottoms would we be if we had self-control? Join us as we discuss ethical non-monogamy and playing with others! Jillian Keenan's "Are Spankos Asexual?" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=73C3NhzlGu0 Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Bacon - Em - MNPanda9 Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's ...

Jan 01, 202340 minEp. 8

Sips & Smacks - Minisode 1: Happy Holidays!

Send us some fan mail! (but we can't reply :( ) Just a brief message to say happy holidays to you all! There won't be a new episode this week or next, but we wanted to say a quick hello to you all! Patreon Good Girls & Boys & Everyone in between! - Adalia's Daddy - Alanah - Andy - Anne - Annie - Autumn - Avi - Axel - Bacon - BerkeleyGirl - Carolyn - CatNamedEaster - Carrie - Charley - Chloe - Cool Pseudonym - DD Lifestyle - Dells - Diane - DME - Elsa - Em - Eva - Icse - Jack A - Jared - ...

Dec 23, 20225 min
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