When I said “We want a man, not a roommate,” the comments exploded. Men were offended, defensive, and downright disrespectful, all over one word: provider. In this episode, we explore the deeper meaning behind why men become so triggered when women discuss standards, financial leadership, and genuine partnership. We’re diving into 50/50 relationships, masculine energy, emotional maturity, and why a confident man doesn’t feel attacked by a woman who knows her worth. 💬 Drop your thoughts in the c...
Jun 27, 2025•18 min•Season 3Ep. 9
This topic is so relatable, and as I was editing, I realized how much more I wanted to say. Should I make a 2nd part?We've all been there and done the whole "cancel plans, skip the gym" for a guy. Let's break it down why doing that to ourselves is actually hurting us in the long run. MPORTANT INFO :United We Dream - “MigraWatch” AppCrowd-sourced alerts of "RICE" activity.Available on iOS and AndroidACLU “Know Your Rights” ToolkitVisit ACLU Guide: https://www.aclu.org/know-your-rights/immigrants-...
Jun 20, 2025•35 min•Season 3Ep. 8
In this episode of Single On the Rocks , we’re diving headfirst into a question that’s been heating up timelines and group chats everywhere: Is single life actually better than being in a relationship? Joining me is my anonymous guest — the sharp, mysterious, and opinionated Silent Allen — who brings the male perspective with zero filter. Together, we explore the real reasons so many people are choosing the single route and what that means for love, happiness, and fulfillment in 2025. We get int...
Jun 06, 2025•48 min•Season 3Ep. 7
He texted “good morning.” He listened to her vent. He paid for dinner. And still… she walked away. Why? In this episode of Single On the Rocks , we’re diving headfirst into the Nice Guy™ dilemma — where emotional manipulation wears politeness like a costume. 👀 ✨ We break down: The difference between a Nice Guy™ and a Genuinely Good Man Why kindness with an agenda isn’t attractive — it’s strategic The psychology behind people-pleasing, fear of rejection, and covert expectations Why modern women ...
May 30, 2025•28 min•Season 3Ep. 6
In this episode of Single On the Rocks, we’re diving deep into one of the most controversial dating behaviors of the modern era: ghosting. Is it a selfish move or a form of self-protection? Do we owe people closure, or are there times when silence really is golden? We share personal experiences, explore the psychology behind ghosting, and ask the hard questions: 👉 Why do people ghost? 👉 Is closure always necessary? 👉 How do you handle being ghosted — or being the ghoster? Whether you’ve been ...
May 22, 2025•1 hr 13 min•Season 3Ep. 5
Ever dated a man for who he could be… instead of who he actually was ? 😩 This episode of Single On the Rocks is your wake-up call. We’re unpacking the emotional rollercoaster of dating potential, the guilt we carry when we walk away, and how to choose peace without apology. 💔 Let’s stop seeing people as projects and start prioritizing our peace. Hosted by Lorin Castillo 🎙️ IG: @lorin.castillo | Show: @singleontherocks
May 16, 2025•29 min•Season 3Ep. 4
“We know he’s bad… but damn.” 👀 Let’s be real — we’ve all been there. In this episode of Single On The Rocks , I dive into why women keep falling for toxic men, the red flags we ignore, and how it can spiral into dangerous territory if we’re not careful. 🚩 Love bombing? 🚩 Emotional chaos? 🚩 Domestic violence? We’re unpacking all of it — the glamorized toxicity in pop culture and the reality behind it. 🎧 Listen now. Your healing era starts here. 📞 Need help? Call 800-799-7233 or text START ...
May 09, 2025•41 min•Season 3Ep. 3
Heyyyy guysss!Welcome back to Single On the Rocks, the podcast where the standards are higher, and being single? It’s a lifestyle, not a sentence. 💅🏽 In this episode, we’re diving headfirst into why more and more women are choosing to stay single in 2025 and loving every minute of it. From dodging red flags like it’s the Olympics to living their soft life era in peace, today’s modern woman is DONE settling for the bare minimum and DONE explaining why she doesn’t need a plus-one to feel complet...
May 02, 2025•42 min•Season 3Ep. 2
🎙️ In This Episode of Single On the Rocks… I sat down with a real-life polyamorous coach — and let me just say, this convo had me questioning EVERYTHING I thought I knew about love, relationships, and commitment. 😳We covered: 💥 What polyamory really means (beyond the stereotypes) 💥 How jealousy actually works in open relationships 💥 Setting boundaries, handling multiple partners, and building trust 💥 Her personal story: How she became a poly coach and found her truth 💥 The wildest myths a...
Apr 25, 2025•1 hr 8 min•Season 3Ep. 1
Heyyyy guysss!Are you ready to dive back into the dating pool, or are you still side eyeing the idea of downloading Hinge again? In this episode of Single On the Rocks, we’re breaking down the top dating apps in 2025 (Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, and more) and asking the real question: when should you get back on a dating app after a breakup?💔 Still thinking about your ex?💬 Wondering if you're swiping for love or for distraction?📱 Not sure which app fits your vibe?We’re talking healing, high standa...
Apr 11, 2025•36 min•Season 2Ep. 11
Heyyyy guysss! Are you stuck in a situationship, dealing with mixed signals, or wondering if it’s time to walk away? In this episode of Single On the Rocks, we’re keeping it real about when and how to cut someone off without guilt, second-guessing, or drama. 🚫We’ll dive into: ✅ Red flags that scream it’s time to move on ✅ Why cutting them off is necessary for your peace ✌️ ✅ How to let go and level up like a boss Don’t waste time on someone who isn’t consistent, communicative, or truly invested...
Apr 04, 2025•33 min•Season 2Ep. 10
Heyyyy guysss! He’s a podcast producer, music creator for local Texas artists, a meme connoisseur, AND works in healthcare. Yep, he’s out here saving lives by day and making beats (and memes) by night! We talk about: 🔥 How he got into producing podcasts & music 😂 The wildest things he’s seen in the healthcare field 📱 His obsession with memes & social media 🎵 His dream music collabs & funniest behind-the-scenes moments 🙃 A hilarious game of Would You Rather with music, memes, and...
Mar 22, 2025•1 hr 5 min•Season 2Ep. 6
Heyyyy guysss!In this episode, we’re getting REAL about one of the most debated dating topics: S*x on the first date. Does it ruin the chances of something serious? Does it depend on the vibe? Or is it just a fun night with no strings attached? 🤔I’m calling up my friends—both men and women—to ask them: 🔥 Have you ever had sex on the first date? 🔥 What made you comfortable enough to do it? 🔥 Did it change the way you saw the other person after? 🔥 Would you still take them seriously? And trus...
Mar 14, 2025•32 min•Season 2Ep. 8
Heyyyy guysss!💰 Are women dating for love, or is lifestyle the real motivation? 🧐 In this episode of Single On the Rocks, we’re diving into the sugar baby phenomenon, hypergamy, and the age-old debate: Are modern relationships built on genuine connection, or are women just securing the bag? 🔥 Expect spicy takes, brutally honest truths, and a few uncomfortable (but necessary) questions. Would you date a broke man if he had a heart of gold? Are men who complain about gold diggers just bitter be...
Mar 07, 2025•47 min•Season 2Ep. 7
Heyyyy guysss!In this episode of Single On the Rocks, I sit down with comedian Rudy Ventura for a raw, hilarious, and unfiltered conversation about his journey from overcoming past struggles to crushing it on stage. Rudy opens up the unexpected ways fatherhood shaped his career.We talk about dating as a comedian, all while keeping it real and ridiculously funny. And to turn up the heat, we wrap things up with a wild “Would You Rather” game. 🔥 Rudy's Upcoming Shows ✔️ March 1st- Frankies in Down...
Feb 28, 2025•36 min•Season 2Ep. 6
Heyyyy guysss! Are you dating with intention in 2025 or just wasting your time? In this episode of Single On the Rocks, I break down what intentional dating really means and why you need to stop giving men wife privileges when you’re not even their girlfriend. 👏 Plus, I get real about my journey as a podcaster what’s been amazing, what’s been challenging, and what’s next for Single On the Rocks! 🎧 Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, & SUBSCRIBE for more real and unfiltered dating convos! Social...
Feb 20, 2025•38 min•Season 2Ep. 5
Heyyyy Friends!! It’s Galentine’s, babes! 💕 Grab your wine, your besties, and your single girl confidence because this episode of Single On the Rocks serves up laughs, love, and a little chaos! 😏Annette and Jess are back! As we spill the tea on:💘 Wild & hilarious Valentine’s Day fun facts💘 What it’s REALLY like being single on V-Day 💘 A juicy game of Red Flag or Green Flag (because some Valentine's moves are 🚩🚩🚩)Don't forget to Like + Subscribe to be notified when a new episode drops...
Feb 14, 2025•43 min•Season 2Ep. 4
Heyyyy guysss! In today's episode, Valentine’s Day is around the corner, and if you’re single, you might be dodging the love fest, rolling your eyes at overpriced flowers, or treating it like any other day. We’re taking back V-Day and making it a celebration of self-love, empowerment, and maybe even a little mischief! 🍷✨ In this episode, we’re diving into: ❤️ Fun (and slightly ridiculous) Valentine’s Day facts 💌 The reality of being single on V-Day – is it a blessing or a curse? 🎁 Relationshi...
Feb 07, 2025•29 min•Season 2Ep. 3
Heyyyy Friends!! I am back with Emily! We discuss what is new with her—does she have a new man now? We also Discuss Hot topics in our feed, from Ash Trevino to Diddy. We are breaking it all down! Don't forget to Like + Subscribe to be notified when a new episode drops. Socials: IG: https://www.instagram.com/lorin.castillo Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lo.fo.sho YT: https://www.youtube.com/@LoCastillo Linktree : linktr.ee/locastillo Total Life Game System https://www.kerrioliver.com/game Guest...
Feb 01, 2025•57 min•Season 2Ep. 2
Heyyyy guysss! Welcome to Season 2 of Single on the Rocks! We are kicking it off with one of Dallas's hilarious local comedians! We are talking about sports, comedy, Jessica Alba, married life, and how he used to do magic tricks in strip clubs. Don't forget to Like + Subscribe to be notified when a new episode drops. Socials: IG: https://www.instagram.com/lorin.castillo Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lo.fo.sho YT: https://www.youtube.com/@LoCastillo Linktree : linktr.ee/locastillo Follow Vinni...
Jan 24, 2025•53 min•Season 2Ep. 1
Heyyyy guysss! Season 1 has finally come to an end. I close it out with my special guest, Ariel Delgado. We dive deep into his dating life and the misconceptions some women may have about him. We have some fun debating how we should navigate dating in today's era. Grab a snack and a drink, and join us for this week's episode! Don't forget to Like + Subscribe to be notified when a new episode drops. Socials: IG: https://www.instagram.com/lorin.castillo Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lo.fo.sho Y...
Jan 10, 2025•1 hr 11 min•Season 1Ep. 11
Heyyyy guysss! In today's episode, we dive into our 2025 goals. I touch on Season 2 of Single on the Rocks and address the elephant in the room. In 2025, we are not settling, ladies! Grab a drink, and let's chat. Don't forget to Like + Subscribe to be notified when a new episode drops. Socials: IG: https://www.instagram.com/lorin.castillo Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lo.fo.sho YT: https://www.youtube.com/@LoCastillo Linktree : linktr.ee/locastillo...
Jan 04, 2025•40 min•Season 1Ep. 10
Heyyyy!! The Christmas Special is here! We are spillin the TEA. I join a dating app. Jess and Annette are BACK! We present our Dating app Bio slideshow! Don't forget to Like + Subscribe to be notified when a new episode drops. Socials: IG: https://www.instagram.com/lorin.castillo Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lo.fo.sho YT: https://www.youtube.com/@LoCastillo Linktree : l inktr.ee/locastillo Guest: Annette IG: https://www.instagram.com/ayyvee Jessica IIG: https://www.instagram.co...
Dec 27, 2024•54 min•Season 1Ep. 8
Heyyyy guysss! I dive deep into today's episode we go over some dating dilemmas. How to find your confidence in them. Why do some men find us intimidating and, of course, calling some men's momma ah h%e. Don't forget to Like + Subscribe to be notified when a new episode drops. Socials: IG: https://www.instagram.com/lorin.castillo Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lo.fo.sho YT: https://www.youtube.com/@LoCastillo Linktree : linktr.ee/locastillo...
Dec 20, 2024•35 min•Season 1Ep. 7
Heyyyy Friends!! This week's episode was a fun one! I get candid with my special guests, Kimberly and Melinda. We are talking about situationships in today's dating era: guys spinning the block and dating with kids. You can catch me on Kimberly's Podcast on YouTube @OntheComeUpPodcast Go follow her and check out my journey on social media. If you are interested in Melinda's Makeup services if you are in the DFW area, check out her IG page listed below! Don't forget to Like + Subscribe to be noti...
Dec 15, 2024•36 min•Season 1Ep. 6
Heyyyy guysss! I dive deep into today's episode on how I discovered my confidence and journey to reach this point. I share some vulnerable moments in December, we will be having some fun episodes and getting our mindset right for 2025! I am finishing your juicy questions, all while having a cocktail in hand! Don't forget to Like + Subscribe to be notified when a new episode drops. Socials: IG: https://www.instagram.com/lorin.castillo Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lo.fo.sho YT: https://www.you...
Dec 06, 2024•48 min•Season 1Ep. 5
Heyyyy Friends!! This week's episode was a fun one! I get candid with my special guests, Annette and Jessica, about dating in our 30s. Is there hope of finding love on the Facebook Dating App? Enjoy some BTS aftershow activities Don't forget to Like + Subscribe to be notified when a new episode drops. Socials: IG: https://www.instagram.com/lorin.castillo Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lo.fo.sho YT: https://www.youtube.com/@LoCastillo Linktree : linktr.ee/locastillo Guest: Annette IG:...
Nov 29, 2024•1 hr 17 min•Season 1Ep. 4
Heyyyy Friends!! This week's episode was a fun one! I get candid with my special guests, Annett an Jessica, about dating in our 30s. Is there hope of finding love on the Facebook Dating App? Enjoy some BTS aftershow activities Don't forget to Like + Subscribe to be notified when a new episode drops. Socials: IG: https://www.instagram.com/lorin.castillo Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lo.fo.sho YT: https://www.youtube.com/@LoCastillo Linktree : linktr.ee/locastillo Guest: Annette IG: https://www...
Nov 27, 2024•1 min
Heyyyy Friends!! I get candid on this week's episode with a special guest...Answering your Anonymous questions and getting to the nitty gritty. Don't forget to Like + Subscribe to be notified when a new episode drops. Socials: IG: https://www.instagram.com/lorin.castillo Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lo.fo.sho YT: https://www.youtube.com/@LoCastillo Linktree : linktr.ee/locastillo...
Nov 22, 2024•56 min•Season 1Ep. 3
Heyyyy Friends!! I get candid on this week's episode with a special guest...Answering your Anonymous questions and getting to the nitty gritty. Don't forget to Like + Subscribe to be notified when a new episode drops. Socials: IG: https://www.instagram.com/lorin.castillo Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lo.fo.sho YT: https://www.youtube.com/@LoCastillo Linktree : linktr.ee/locastillo...
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