DM your Host Directly The life I have today didn’t come from following the rules... it came from breaking them. In this video, I’m sharing the exact beliefs, traditions, and “shoulds” I had to let go of to create a life and family fully on my own terms. As a single mom by choice, I’ve navigated judgment, pushback, and the pressure to follow a traditional path. But choosing to become the matriarch of my own story, and lead my life without waiting for permission...changed everything. If you’ve eve...
Aug 13, 2025•14 min
DM your Host Directly Are you secretly dreaming about becoming a single mom by choice... but keep putting it off? Maybe you’re waiting for the right time, more clarity, or even outside validation. But what if you didn’t need permission? This episode is your wake-up call... a rally cry for women who know they’re meant to be mothers and are done waiting. We’re diving deep into what it means to choose solo motherhood with intention, confidence, and power. Whether you’re just starting to explore SMB...
Jul 29, 2025•23 min
DM your Host Directly The biggest shift in my life didn’t come from a relationship. It came from the moment I stopped centering men... and started choosing me . This video is for the woman who’s tired of waiting. Tired of shrinking. Tired of organizing her life around someone who hasn’t even arrived yet (or isn’t showing up how she deserves). I talk about: 💥 The moment I realized I was still living for male validation 💫 What happened when I chose myself, my healing, and my kids 💡 The unexpect...
Jun 28, 2025•20 min
DM your Host Directly JOIN US THIS WEDNESDAY for a LIVE webinar discussing all things SMBC: https://candicekatherine.teachable.com/p/smbc-webinar I didn’t choose this life because it was easy. I chose it because I knew you were worth everything. This video is for my kids...one day, when they ask why I did it alone, or wonder if they were ever “missing” something. They weren’t. They were the reason . I became a single mom by choice because I knew deep in my bones that love doesn’t have to follow ...
Jun 15, 2025•20 min
DM your Host Directly People love asking how I explain the absence of a father to my kids… So here it is: what I say, why I say it, and how I handle the questions (from strangers and from my children) with honesty, confidence, and love. This is the part no one prepares you for when you choose to become a single mom by choice, but I wouldn’t trade this journey for anything. If you’re navigating these conversations (or thinking about becoming an SMBC) this one’s for you. 💛 👇 Ready for support? F...
Jun 07, 2025•20 min
DM your Host Directly Thinking about becoming a single mom by choice but feeling overwhelmed by all the unknowns? I’ve been there. In this video, I’m sharing the raw truth about what I’d do differently if I could go back to the very beginning of my SMBC journey... from mindset shifts and emotional prep to practical decisions around sperm banks, finances, and support systems. This isn’t just about regret, it’s about empowering you with the insight I wish I had. Whether you’re still deciding or al...
Jun 02, 2025•21 min
DM your Host Directly Let’s talk about that Justin Bieber + Hailey story... and what it reveals about the toxic messaging women have been fed for generations . In this video, I break down how women are taught to shrink themselves, accept bare-minimum treatment from men, and ignore their own intuition. All while being shamed for choosing an empowered path like becoming a single mom by choice (SMBC). Why is it that this kind of male behavior gets normalized, but deciding to have a baby on your own...
May 26, 2025•21 min
DM your Host Directly Thinking about becoming a single mom by choice? I’ve been there. Twice. In this video, I’m sharing the real talk I wish someone gave me: the things no one tells you, the parts I wasn’t ready for, and the stuff I wouldn’t trade for the world. If you're even thinking about going this route, watch this first. 👇 Ready for support? FREE RESOURCE: Grab my Step-by-Step Guide to Becoming an SMBC! https://candicekatherine.teachable.com/p/5-things-you-need-to-know-before-taking-the-...
May 19, 2025•41 min
DM your Host Directly This isn't your typical picture-perfect motherhood story. In today’s girl talk, I'm pulling back the curtain on what it actually looks like raising my kids as a single mom by choice. The messy moments. The real choices. The parenting style that definitely isn't for everyone, and why I've stopped apologizing for it. ✨ If you're navigating solo motherhood, tough decisions, or just trying to trust yourself more, this one’s for you. Inside this episode: Why I had to unlearn tra...
Apr 26, 2025•20 min
DM your Host Directly This one's for the woman who's waiting . For results. For answers. For a sign. Whether you're just starting to explore solo motherhood or already deep in the process, the in-between can feel like the hardest part. In this episode, I’m sharing: Why this phase is so emotional and how to stay grounded What you can do while you're waiting (and what to stop forcing) The quiet prep that actually moves you forward My personal update + how I’m moving through my own waiting season Y...
Apr 21, 2025•15 min
DM your Host Directly Ready to Become a SMBC This Year? Here’s Where to Start You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need your next step, and that’s what this episode gives you. If you’ve been circling the idea of becoming a single mom by choice but keep putting it off because it feels “too big” or you’re waiting for the perfect moment… this is for you. I’m walking you through the 4 key things you can do right now to move from stuck to starting, without overwhelm, spreadsheets, or p...
Apr 11, 2025•14 min
DM your Host Directly The journey to baby #3 as a Single Mom by Choice has officially started! 💕 In this episode, I’m breaking down my baseline fertility testing updates , what they mean for my conception plans, and how I’m preparing my body for pregnancy. If you’re considering solo motherhood or thinking about when to start your own fertility journey , this episode is packed with insights on: ✨ Baseline fertility testing ✨ Solo pregnancy prep ✨ How you can start your own SMBC journey with conf...
Mar 28, 2025•16 min
DM your Host Directly I’m officially starting my journey to baby #3 as a Single Mom by Choice ! In this episode, I’m sharing exactly how I’m preparing to conceive, everything from fertility testing, finding a sperm donor, reviewing baby essentials, and planning financially for another baby . If you’re considering trying to conceive (TTC) as a solo mom , or just curious about what goes into this journey, this episode is for you! 💡 In This Episode, I Cover: ✨ My baseline fertility tests & hea...
Mar 21, 2025•18 min
DM your Host Directly Thinking about becoming a Single Mom by Choice (SMBC) but don’t know where to start? In this video, I’m answering YOUR DMs about all things solo motherhood, from choosing a sperm donor to affording life as an SMBC, handling pregnancy alone, and dealing with judgment. 💖 Want more support on your SMBC journey? Get a sneak peek and early bird access (with $100 off) to my brand new program that is officially launching in March 👀 https://candicekatherine.teachable.com/p/the-sm...
Feb 28, 2025•31 min
DM your Host Directly So… I just got an update from my gynecologist, and it was a bit of a wake-up call! 😳 If I’m serious about having baby #3, I have less time than I thought. And honestly? It just reinforced what I always say, there is NO perfect time to have a baby. In this video, I’m sharing: ✨ My personal update and what my doctor told me ✨ The reality of fertility timelines (especially as a single mom by choice) ✨ Why waiting for the “right” moment is a trap, and how to make it work anywa...
Feb 21, 2025•16 min
DM your Host Directly Being a single mom comes with a lot of responsibilities, but that doesn’t mean your days have to feel overwhelming. In this video, I’m sharing my top single mom life hacks to help you simplify your routine, save time, and reduce stress, because you deserve an easier, more enjoyable day! From morning hacks that set the tone for a smoother day to meal planning shortcuts, time-saving parenting tricks, and self-care musts , these tips will help you feel more in control and less...
Feb 14, 2025•32 min
DM your Host Directly Becoming a single mom by choice has been the most empowering decision of my life, but that doesn’t mean it’s been easy. In this video, I’m sharing common struggles and hard truths about this journey so you can go into it with your eyes wide open. There’s a lot of romanticizing around the idea of doing it all on your own, but the reality? It comes with challenges that aren’t always talked about. If you’re considering this path or already on it, I want to give you an honest, ...
Feb 07, 2025•25 min
DM your Host Directly Thinking about becoming a Single Mom by Choice (SMBC)? Or maybe you’re already on this journey and want to know what life really looks like as an SMBC? In this video, I’m sharing the realities of solo motherhood, the challenges, the joys, and why I wouldn’t trade it for anything. From choosing to have a baby on my own to raising my kids without a partner, I’ll walk you through what this life is really like emotionally, financially, and practically. If you’re considering thi...
Jan 31, 2025•26 min
DM your Host Directly Thinking about becoming a single mom by choice using donor sperm? In this episode, I’m diving into how to know if you're truly ready to take this empowering step. We'll talk about the emotional, financial, and practical aspects of solo motherhood, everything from feeling a deep desire to be a mom to building a strong support system and embracing the unknown. If you're wondering whether now is the right time for you, this episode will help you gain clarity and confidence in ...
Jan 24, 2025•20 min
DM your Host Directly Are you curious about my journey as a single mom by choice and whether a third baby might be on the horizon? In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing my current fertility updates, the pros and cons I’ve been weighing, and what’s been on my heart as I navigate this next chapter. From the logistics of adding another child to the emotional and practical considerations, I’m diving deep into the decision-making process and what it’s really like to explore growin...
Jan 17, 2025•21 min
DM your Host Directly Welcome to Single Mom Mindset , the podcast for choice moms, donor-conceived people, and non-traditional families 🌟 In this episode, I’m diving into some of the biggest misconceptions about becoming a single mom by choice (SMBC), including: ✨ Fertility concerns and age-related worries. ✨ The cost of procedures like IUI and IVF. ✨ Navigating judgment from family, friends, and society. I share insights from my journey, practical tips, and mindset shifts to help you feel empo...
Jan 10, 2025•14 min
DM your Host Directly In this episode, I’m sharing an exciting announcement: My brand-new program, Unstoppable Single Mom Starter Kit , is officially HERE! 🎉 This program is designed to help you take control of your life, build unstoppable confidence, and start thriving in every area. Plus, we’re diving into why 2025 is the year we’re building a powerhouse single mom army 💪 This is the year to step into your strength, and we collectively show the world what single moms aren't playing 👯♀️ If ...
Jan 02, 2025•15 min
DM your Host Directly Wishing you and yours a magical holiday season! Nothing but love, positivity, abundance, health, and joy in the new year 🫶🏻 FBF Episode gets into all the outdated non-sense narratives and beliefs about single motherhood. FREE resources to help you thrive as an single mom & all my other life-changing resources at the link: https://candicekatherine.teachable.com/courses & don't forget to follow me @candicekatherine Hit that subscribe button, share this with a friend...
Dec 27, 2024•23 min
DM your Host Directly 72 hours, countless memories 🎄 Riley (my nine year old daughter) and I, spill all the tea on our magical getaway to Quebec City in this week’s podcast episode! From scenic views to spontaneous laughs, this trip was one for the books. Grab your favorite drink and join us for a heart-to-heart about traveling as a little smbc family ♥️ ✨ Let’s make this holiday season magical—without burning out! ✨ 💬 Question for you : What’s one way you create special holiday memories with ...
Dec 20, 2024•33 min
DM your Host Directly The holidays as a single mom can feel like a lot—but they don’t have to be stressful! In this episode, I’m sharing my best tips for creating holiday magic for your kids while keeping things simple and meaningful 🎄💖 Tune in for mindset shifts, easy traditions, and advice on prioritizing connection over perfection. Whether it’s your first holiday season as a single mom or you’re a seasoned pro, this episode will leave you feeling empowered and ready to embrace the joy of th...
Dec 13, 2024•28 min
DM your Host Directly Single moms, this one’s for you. 💪✨ In this empowering TED Talk-style video, I’m sharing the raw truth about thriving as a single mom by choice (or circumstance). From breaking free of societal expectations to embracing the beauty of independence, this is a powerful message of encouragement, mindset shifts, and real talk that every single mom deserves to hear. You’ll walk away feeling: ✅ Uplifted and inspired to create a life YOU love ✅ Confident in your ability to thrive,...
Dec 06, 2024•21 min
DM your Host Directly Are you considering becoming a Single Mom By Choice (SMBC)? In this episode, I’m sharing why choosing this path can be the most empowering decision of your life. From gaining independence and confidence to creating a life you absolutely love, becoming an SMBC means taking control of your future on your terms. I’ll dive into the benefits of embracing this journey, how it can transform your mindset, and why now might be the perfect time to make this life-changing choice. Whet...
Nov 29, 2024•28 min
DM your Host Directly Are you stuck in survival mode as a single mom or single mom by choice (SMBC), constantly sacrificing your dreams and happiness for your kids? In this episode, I’m sharing the one mindset shift that completely transformed my life—and can change yours too. Discover how to move from surviving to thriving, realign your priorities without guilt, and create a life you love while being the best mom you can be. This powerful shift will empower you to embrace abundance, make confid...
Nov 25, 2024•28 min
DM your Host Directly In this bonus episode, I’m sharing my exciting challenge to change more lives and hit a bold $10K goal before Black Friday! 💰✨ As a single mom by choice, I know how important it is to step into your power and take massive action. This is your chance to see how I'm pushing boundaries, inspiring other single moms to thrive, and how YOU can join me on this journey to success. If you’ve been waiting for the perfect moment to level up, now is it! Listen in as I discuss the powe...
Nov 20, 2024•14 min
DM your Host Directly In this episode, I’m diving deep into why I’m so passionate about supporting the single mom by choice (SMBC) community. If you’ve ever wondered about the driving force behind my work, this is for you! I’ll be sharing the core reasons I do what I do, how I’m committed to helping women like you live abundantly, and why I believe in the power of single moms to create thriving lives. Plus, stick around for a bonus segment where I answer the many questions I’ve received about my...
Nov 15, 2024•30 min
