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Should We Get Married

Kyle Jacobson, Kiley Simmonsshouldwegetmarried.simplecast.com
What is marriage? What is a relationship? Hosts Kiley & Kyle enjoy talking about the human connection. Listen along to VERY open conversations of love and humor, shortcomings and growth as we make our way through the the nooks and crannies of day-to-day relationshipping.
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Episodes

E34 - YES

In a surprising plot twist, Kyle & Kiley share the detailed story of their engagement, how the answer to this podcast came to be "yes", and what's next on this journey. Watch on YouTube to see the proposal video, photos and more goodies. Is this the Finale or do you want more Episodes? Let us know on Instagram @SWGMpod Continue the Journey: @tamekyle @motorcyclesandfilm @kileybs...

Jun 16, 20211 hr 8 minSeason 1Ep. 34

E33 - Ask These Questions Before You Get Married

Ask These Questions Before You Get Married: What is the meaning of life? What happens when we die? Do you believe in ghosts or spirits? How religious are you? Does religion show up at our wedding? The list goes on... Now on YouTube: Watch This Episode Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask Us Anything: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? Leave a Review!...

Feb 23, 20211 hr 4 minSeason 1Ep. 33

E32 - Are We Monogamous?

It may be an easy questions on the surface, but how about when we dissect it as a societal construct in a world of ever-evolving human relationships? Kiley & Kyle watched "Monogamy, explained" by Vox on Netflix and waited for this episode to discuss it. Now on YouTube: Watch This Episode Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask Us Anything: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? Leave a Review!...

Feb 09, 20211 hrSeason 1Ep. 32

E31 - Are You Me Or Am I Me?

Kyle & Kiley talk about checking other people out on social media and who they're attracted to, what they need from one another during rough times since they have different love languages, and answer some listener questions. Now on YouTube: Watch This Episode Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask Us Anything: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? Leave a Review!...

Jan 26, 20211 hr 5 minSeason 1Ep. 31

E30 - A Midnight Piss

Kyle & Kiley tell the story of what happened at midnight on New Year's Eve - the most magical moment followed by horror. After story time, they each share Top 5 Relationship Moments of 2020, and personal goals for 2021. Happy New Year! Now on YouTube: Watch This Episode Behind the scenes: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? Leave a review!...

Jan 05, 20211 hr 11 minSeason 1Ep. 30

E29 - A Very Married Christmas

This Covid Christmas looked a bit different than others. Kiley & Kyle reflect on what they learned about each other during the first few years of meeting family and attending holiday functions, and how that's changed. They get into the nitty gritty about some current disagreements and how to laugh them off. Enjoy the last episode of 2020! Now on YouTube: Watch This Episode Behind the scenes: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? Leave a review!...

Dec 29, 20201 hr 21 minSeason 1Ep. 29

E28 - Is This Thing On?

What's been going on? Kiley & Kyle are here to talk about it. In a new location! Now on YouTube: Watch This Episode Behind the scenes: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? Leave a review!...

Dec 15, 20201 hr 27 minSeason 1Ep. 28

Episode 27 - Repairing Relationships During Isolation

Kiley & Kyle are isolating together during the Covid19 pandemic, which is full of sex, video games & working from home. But when your lockdown buddy gets on your nerves, it's a good time to review Gottman's Repair Checklist! Episode credit: Gottman's Repair Checklist Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? A review would be cool ....

Apr 08, 20201 hr 14 minSeason 1Ep. 27

Episode 26 - Coronavirus Family Time

Coming at ya from a Coronavirus HOT SPOT, Kiley & Kyle end up talking sex, birth control, PMS, recent (poorly timed) travels, plans and ideas for social distancing during the looming Washington shutdown. Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? A review would be cool ....

Mar 17, 20201 hr 11 minSeason 1Ep. 26

Episode 25 - What Happens When You Cheat

Kiley & Kyle discuss their unplanned 3 month hiatus from the podcast. Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? A review would be cool .

Mar 02, 20201 hr 13 minSeason 1Ep. 25

Episode 24 - Inevitable Blessing Slams

Kiley & Kyle tune in POST-Thanksgiving and PRE-vacation with gratitude talks and favorite traditions, ending with Kyle playing Blackbird on the Ukulele! Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? A review would be cool .

Nov 30, 20191 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 24

Episode 23 - Binge-Watch the Universe

Kiley & Kyle talk about 25 things to do together instead of binge-watching Netflix, and then talk about all the sweet shows & movies they've been watching lately. Also in this episode: Most embarrassing childhood halloween costumes. Episode Credits: 25 Things to Do as a Couple instead of Binge-Watching Netflix Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? A review would be cool ....

Nov 07, 20191 hr 4 minSeason 1Ep. 23

Episode 22 - Zip on your Winkle

Kiley talks about her trip to London & Birthday abroad. Kyle takes us on a stroll through Reddit of why different couples decided to divorce after 20+ years of marriage. Can you find the impromptu Me No Likey in this episode? Episode Credits: Butt-wiping giff & Reddit Feed Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? A review would be cool ....

Oct 30, 20191 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 22

Episode 21 - We're All Flawed & It's Ok

Why Fleabag is everything, Kyle's very specific (hilarious) dating fear, how to walk through anxiety & be there for others, internet "tips" on traveling away from your SO, a "Question of Questions" segment on losing virginity, and more. Check us out on the Live In Everett Podcast! Sharing Secrets with Should We Get Married Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? A review would be cool ....

Oct 11, 201957 minSeason 1Ep. 21

Episode 20 - Word Association Test Gone Wrong

Word Ass Tests have been used in therapy for years, but can be a good dating tool to sift through weirdos or gain insight into your current partner's psyche in surprisingly few words. See what happens when Kiley & Kyle try it out. More from this episode: relationship challenges of home remodeling and the Emmy's! Credits: All about Carl Jung's Word Association Test and his full word list . Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? A review would be co...

Sep 20, 20191 hr 5 minSeason 1Ep. 20

Episode 19 - Snack Wipe Ball Hit

Me Likey Me No Likey is back for another segment with confessions of things that irritate and satisfy each other. Kiley & Kyle get into the weeds about making the bed (it's important) and other bedroom habits. They talk about seeing Bon Iver & Sharon Van Etten at the Gorge, chasing a thunderstorm, and answer some thoughtful listener questions. Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? A review would be cool ....

Sep 11, 20191 hr 2 minSeason 1Ep. 19

Episode 18 - Non-pubis Hairomie

Kiley & Kyle sit down this week to decipher the newest dating lingo. They share plenty tales of "first times", like first (awkward) I Love You's, first time shaving, first bra (and bully), etc. Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? A review would be cool . Episode Credits: WTF Is Roaching?......

Sep 04, 201953 minSeason 1Ep. 18

Episode 17 - 7 "Signs" It Won't Last

The Pod is back on track! In this episode, Kiley & Kyle take a "Should we get married?" temperature check, set half-way expectations for those New Year resolutions, and talk through another helpful (or not) internet article about 7 subtle signs that a marriage/relationship won't last. Complete with a violent edition of the returning segment: Question of Questions. Instagram: @SWGMpod Ask a Question or Tell a secret: It's anonymous . Do you Likey? A review would be cool . Episode Credit: Expe...

Aug 27, 201948 minSeason 1Ep. 17

Episode 16 - F*** Wholesome

If you want wholesome, you'll have to go to Reddit. Instead, we're here to answer all of our listener questions. Find out who has faked an orgasm, our astrological compatibility, how we feel about the 4 relationship pillars, and more. Thanks for writing in! ASK MORE QUESTIONS! Tell us your secrets. It's anonymous: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Do you Likey? Let us know !...

Aug 12, 201945 minSeason 1Ep. 16

Episode 15 - 6 Years Later

So much time has passed. 6 Years as a couple, and 6 weeks since the last episode. Kiley & Kyle are back to chat about road trips, fights, and motorcycle meltdowns. Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know !...

Jun 30, 201956 minSeason 1Ep. 15

Episode 14 - The first rule of fight club...

...is don't talk about fight club. But Kiley & Kyle want to share some humble learnings on conflict resolution, because we're all different and emotions are complicated, man. Credit: Conflict Resolution Skills Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know !...

May 22, 20191 hr 4 minSeason 1Ep. 14

Episode 13 - SEXUALS

Real Talk: Kiley & Kyle on sex & intimacy. They ask each other questions and share some personal views & experiences. This is most likely 1 of many "SEXUALS". Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know !...

May 10, 201953 minSeason 1Ep. 13

Bonus Episode - 15 "Facts"

15 "Facts" the internet wants you to consider before marriage, some backed up by studies and/or experts, with a few obvious ones thrown in. Credit: 15 Relationship Facts Everybody Should Know Before Getting Married Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know !...

May 07, 201942 min

Episode 12 - When Reality Sets In

Kiley & Kyle walk through the "5 Stages of a Relationship" - Attraction & Romance, Reality Sets In, Disappointment, Stability, Commitment - and share tidbits from their time in each stage. Episode Notes & Credits: 11:00 Relationship Timeline animation 16:29 The 5 Stages of a Relationship 53:57 Me Likey Me No Likey 1:07:00 Cliff Hanger: Sex Episode Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know !...

Apr 26, 20191 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 12

Episode 11 - Kyle's Getting Fat

Kyle talks about his bad habits and wants to know if Kiley is still attracted to him. Can you get "too" comfortable in a relationship? Also, the debut of a new segment: "The Question of Questions" Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know !...

Apr 11, 201956 minSeason 1Ep. 11

Episode 10 - Common-law Marriage is a LIE

How do you get common-law married? What does KNT stand for? What are the top 3 reasons couples get divorced? What new segment do Kiley & Kyle announce? Common-law marriage article by NPR . Top 3 Reasons Article . 12 Minute attitude adjustment . Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know !...

Apr 02, 20191 hr 1 minSeason 1Ep. 10

Episode 9 - Too Much Information

Kiley & Kyle talk openly about how to wipe your butt, and share a positive conversation about PMS. Kyle tells his journey of finding his lost & beloved Uncle Gary. Also, "Me Likey, Me No Likey" is back with new gripes & compliments. 00:00 How to wipe your butt 13:43 We should talk about Periods more 33:10 Finding Uncle Gary 55:56 Me Likey, Me No Likey Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know !...

Mar 29, 20191 hr 13 minSeason 1Ep. 9

Bonus Episode: A Search for Love & Power

29 Ideas, big and small, to consider on your journey to finding "wholeness as a person". You can find this list on Kiley & Kyle's fridge, taken from addiction, codependency and empowerment expert: Charlotte Kasl. Ideas are credited to Charlotte Kasl . Follow our journey on Instagram @SWGMpod Ask us anything: shouldwegetmarriedpod.com Do you Likey? Let us know !...

Mar 29, 201935 min

Episode 8 - Kyle Takes Kiley's Last Name

This week, Kiley & Kyle discuss last name options if they were to get married, and share the results of the @SWGMpod Instagram Poll. Stay tuned while they talk actual wedding what-ifs. Ask us anything at shouldwegetmarriedpod.com, Follow along @SWGMpod on Instagram, Rate & Review on iTunes. We appreciate you.

Mar 21, 201949 minSeason 1Ep. 8

Episode 7 - We've Been Fighting

Hang on to your butts, because Kiley & Kyle get off to an awkward start, catch their footing to talk pet peeves & shortcomings, and then dip back into weirdness. Thanks for joining us on this journey. Follow along on Instagram @SWGMpod or ask us anything on shouldwegetmarriedpod.com. If you likey, we'd appreciate a rate and/or review on iTunes!

Mar 14, 201958 minSeason 1Ep. 7
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