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Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast for millennials who want financial freedom. Today, guys is Friday, which means it is time to sit back with the girls with a bev in hand, to unpack our favorite moments of the week and to of course celebrate you our incredible She's on the Money community. As always, we're going to be sharing our favorite money wins. We're going to discuss what's making news in the finance world. But first it is time, as always, to recap the week
that was Miss Jessica DC. I called you Miss Jessica Ricky on Instagram the other day and I got rimmed, but they were like, what are you doing her? Jessica Ricky?
Potato Potato the richie is just a little extra finesse. You know.
She has a little bit of spice and I like to add it. But I was just calling it as it was on an Instagram story. I will never do that again, just so you know, Jessicatorychi, but without further ado, could you please tell us what happened on Monday's Money Diary.
It was a goodie, it sure was.
We spoke to gorgeous gal who is just killing the property game. I was very ex as someone who's just starting that process. She was younger than I am and absolutely killing it. She started her story off she went through a breakup and then got a house or by herself. We love to see it. She then went on to get a property with her partner, which they now own together. It's an investment and they're looking at buying another one at the end.
Of the Surgeon twenty five and owning three properties, I mean owning three mortgages, so she doesn't own them outright, but this woman incredible it all.
By herself, no parental help, know nothing, and it was just really really impressive to hear.
And it was beyond inspiring to hear as well, because this is going to sound, you know, as stereotypical as it comes and like it's not in she's on the money form to say something like this, but it absolutely I think needs to be addressed. Like Jess, you will
agree here, this girl got on zoom. She was stunning, like she was one of the most beautiful humans I have ever laid eyes on, like blue eyes, blonde hair, like stereotypically gorgeous, so much so that I would assume that in her industries it is very hard to be taken seriously because of how beautiful she is, and that's
a very common thing in the corporate world. But when she was like, oh yeah, and I've just been promoted to lawyer, I was like, yes you boss, Like I was so proud of her because she was like, not only gorgeous, but clearly wildly intelligent. I was just like this woman. And then I was real perby and I was like, did you do it without a Garran talk? Because we all want to know She's like, yep, I
say for my first home was a stepping stone. I did, Like, guys, if you haven't listened to this eisode, go and listen to it, because she is breaking down the myth that millennials aren't going to have properties because she's got three of her own already.
Did she have lots of tips and tricks in there. Yeah, she had a few moose of us who aren't they yet?
Yeah, she shared with us a lot of really good insight in her initial message. Trust she actually said and made sure to highlight that part of getting into her first home was taking advantage of all of the government schemes and stuff that are available first home buyers. And I did ask her a little bit about how she did that.
Did sheoose broker?
And she did it all by herself, So she gave her tips on where to look for that information, how to figure it out, which I think is going to be really helpful to anyone who's in the same position.
It was really inspiring because she'd made the most of her situation and been like, all right, well, no one's going to give me a leg up. I'm going to find a way to give myself a leg up. And she actually, from what I understand, Jess really built out how she was going to buy a property with how many resources she could lean on. And I found that super impressive because Georgia she ended up purchasing in twenty twenty and got forty five thousand dollars ish in grants.
Like what really?
Yeah, so she like timed it with all of that stuff. Obviously she'd done some work on her own to save her deposit, but yeah, really smart to take advantage of those things. So definitely, well work the lesson if you are interesting property.
And absolutely love Cooky, We'll get her on the property playbook when that fire's back up, because I reckon, she can teach us a lot. And George, she was a queen at op shopping as well, Like I reckon, you too would have gone along like a house on fire.
All right, look forward to it.
George moving away from property and what happened on money? Does talk us through what happened on our Wednesday deep Dive episode.
I can certainly do that. So on Wednesday we discussed the ins and out of managing money in a blended family, so specifically we kind of honed in on how you would manage money if your partner has a child and you don't, or vice versa perhaps, which was really interesting because it's not something we've ever spoken about on the pod before. It's not something I've ever thought about because it doesn't apply to me personally, and I'm a selfish person.
No you're not. You're just not dating someone with a child.
Exactly, but so many of us are. But we all know people in these kinds of situations, and it is at a surface level it might not seem that complex, but when you kind of drill down into it, it really was interesting hearing how people do manage this and what the expectations are and how important having that open line of communication is between you and your partner ex'es
are involved. Yeah, it was a really interesting chat, and you also discussed with us be how to actually have that conversation with your partner to set those boundaries and parameters. So yeah, it was really interesting, Chash. I enjoyed it.
I mean, at the end of the day, I think the summary there whereas it's better to be honest and open and have the conversation. Yeah, there's no right or wrong way to have that conversation because everybody's relationship is so wildly different, But in twenty twenty two, it's a really big conversation to be having because I believe that there are a lot of people in our community that are single parents or at some point in the back of their mind they're like probably going to be a single parent.
Like this isn't going the way I wanted.
It to, And I just feel like the idea of getting into a relationship when you are a parent can be quite overwhelming. I'm not saying that from experience. I'm saying that having spoken to a lot of clients who are single parents who just go I don't even know how to approach that, like what do you do? How does it work? But open honest communication for the entirety of the relationship I think is the best policy.
I also feel like it's a good conversation to have because the traditional quote unquote familial structure that existed, you know, a couple of decades go, actually isn't really the norm anymore. Like so many families approach things differently now that your stock standard mom and dad have you know, one income because dad goes to work and mom stays at home with the kids. Like it's actually just not a thing.
We have all of these different shapes and forms of relationships, and that means that the way we have these conversations and the way that we manage our finances is going to look so different now nowadays.
As well, George, Jess, I feel like the three of us are actually in a very similar position when it comes to families. And you might agree with me here,
it's not, from my perspective, the norm. So Jess and George, I believe your parents are still together, and from my perspective, growing up, all my friends had divorced parents, like I think I had one other friend that's parents were still married, and to me, it was very normal to have friends with divorced parents and seeing their parents, you know, get new partners and go through all of that that Sometimes I was like, and I would never, you know, want
that for my parents, but I was like, oh, it's not that normal to stay married. What like, Did you have similar experiences?
I think I definitely had quite a few friends that went through this experience, you know, throughout the years. I don't know that I ever questioned my own, like I guess, situation, but I definitely think that it was really obvious to me from a really young age that there were all these different ways to do things. And I think, if anything, it really just made me aware that if something's not working,
there's nothing wrong with changing that situation. You know, back in the day it was maybe not the best, you know, or there might have been shame or things like that tied to it, but I see, yeah, whereas now I kind of just go okay, great, like that relationship works purpose and that's fine and it was a great season of your life hopefully, but there's nothing wrong with going okay, like, actually that doesn't work, and if anything, it's better for
everyone involved to go your separate ways, make sure it's amicable, and then open yourself up to new relationships, new financial conversations, just a whole new way of doing things.
Totally, and I really like what you just said. There was a season of a relationship, and not all relationships are going to last. But it doesn't I guess downplay how impactsful they were like that relationship, you know, unless it was a terrible relationship, in which case I wish you were never in it, my friends, but sometimes relationships help us form who we are, and that might not be the same person that entered that relationship. And that's totally okay. But we are not a relation podcast. So
let's talk more about money. Georgia King, let's loop back to you what if you got when it comes to money wins from the Shees on the Money community this.
Week, let's loop back. I loved that from you. Some caucers as per ladies.
Let's see what a surprise guys, The She's on the Money community does it again, they've delivered.
The first win is from Victoria.
Oh, I thought you said you weren't going to call me out like this again.
I don't think you did. Post this one girl. No, I'm just really kids I'm not aware of. So Victoria was in desperate need of some new pants because after two kids in two years, her old ones just didn't fit the same. She then got four pairs of pants and a pair of sandals she's had her eye on for a while. And here comes the money win. I felt no guilt for having quay money, which hasn't happened in years. A little bit.
That I want to know more about Victoria's mindset, Like how did you come into that mindset, because that's such a hard mindset to battle that you do deserve new clothes, especially after having two kids. You bat us like that is so cool to know that she's like not guilty about something that so many people are gonna still feel guilt about.
Which they absolutely shouldn't. No, absolutely you shouldn't.
Have We done a potty on spending and guilt yet, I don't know if we have.
I believe we've covered the topic. We haven't done a full podcast on it, but geez, I think you're onto something that's.
A good pod topic. Jess added to the least done.
And done all right.
The next one here is from Anna. She bought a laptop from work for thirty dollars or sold it for four hundred dollars.
Now you buy a thirty dollars laptop. I don't know.
There is so much missing context here, but let's not look into it.
We're not. That's a very good money win.
The next one is from merin money. When I picked up four pieces of canine furniture off the side of the road a year ago for free, and I sold it all this week for one hundred and sixty dollars.
Yeah you did. That's so cool. Would My mom would have had a field day with that.
She loves some caine lounge lates.
I remember that. I thought of your mum as well. Did you actually used to have some canes?
Yeah?
She was like, mum sorted me out.
Alex loves some caine in her bedroom and my mummy is I guess the queen of finding cain on the side of the road and re sprang it wyatt and using it like our house is basically Kane.
Yes, stunning. I was always jealous of Devo's BedHead.
Oh she did have you know? For those of you who know, it's the big peacock rattan bedheads gorge was very fancy, very she very jealous.
The next win here is from Jess Gosh, the whole team's getting involved. My car service was quoted at fourteen hundred dollars but came in at seven hundred and eighty will.
That's a win.
It's a win. The next one is from Allen not a super relatable one, but I bought a house at the start of last year for four hundred and seventy five thousand dollars, and I spent thirty thousand dollars on Reno's. I've just had it revalued at six hundred and centy thousand dollars a year later, which makes me feel like all of that bargain hunting, hard work and long days were worth it.
Oh my god, imagine that is such a big increase in price.
How stoked would you be? Kah my god.
Think out the equity they were having their property and their ability to leverage into another property if they're in that financial situation, like the financial freedom that affords.
I love it.
Bravo, Well done Alan. Our sixth and final win of the week. I actually chose this one for you, Victoria Define. It is from Vienna Money Win My Woolworths had the ten pack Cotties spark Boys Drinks some Special for eight dollars seventy five, down from thirteen seventy five Happy Dance.
She wrote, look happy dance, but I got it for seven dollars a couple of weeks ago. So stuff that in your pipe and smoke it.
I wonder if you influenced Vienna to purchase those feeds. You were a fan of those during your COVID days, Am I right?
And it's not just COVID like I'm obsessed, like is full of the sparkling Cottis. I think the flavor is called Cooler, whatever the green one is.
I'm obsessed.
I have no regrets. I will die on that hill. It is the best drink that.
Has ever existed.
Heaven. Well, that is all I have for you at my girls.
Let's go on a break.
I'm going to grab a Cotty's cooler, not sponsored, just good, and we'll come back and talk about what's happening in the finance world.
Stay right there.
Already, anyone who listened to Friday Drinks last week would know that we pushed it out because there's something obviously pretty hectic going on in the world. Right now, and I think we do need to talk about it, especially because I've seen it impact and kind of overflow onto our platforms, which is why I want to bring it up. Obviously, last week Russia went to war with Ukraine, which I
can't even believe I am saying those words. It is really really hard to wrap your head around the devastation that's going on, and so we chose on our platforms to pause everything for a couple of days to really allow the news to sync in for our team, because I'll be honest when I say I was definitely struggling with it a little bit, and I know that it's impacted the rest of us as well, but then also to just allow the more important voices to shine through
the news coverage, the charity where all of those things, and if you are looking for ways you can support, we do have a link in our bio on our Instagram and we'll pop something in the show and it's as well with some resources and links where you can donate. But I guess the flow on effect of this news beyond mental health, beyond all of that, and before I jump into it, I'm going to acknowledge that this is
coming from a place of privilege. You know, we're sitting at home in our safe country where right now, thankfully we're not feeling the impacts of this too directly outside of the mental stress and toll. But that being said, it's raising a lot of questions for people because global events like war impact the stock market, impact the property market, impact all of these things that a lot of us impact.
Fuel prices, Well, it's going to impact everything, and.
It impacts I guess this community is all about working towards financial freedom and thinking about our financial futures. And I've seen a few questions being placed into our groups around this, and there's been a lot of discourse in response.
And that's why I wanted to open this conversation because I want to start by saying completely respectfully, what's going on overseas is absolutely imporrent, Like there is no question that if I could snap my fingers and stop it in a second, I would give anything to be able to do that. But with that being said, we need to remember that the people who are asking these questions, and the ones that I sawt were respectful. People are going to have questions because where I think we're all
a little bit anxious. We're concerned about our future, We're concerned about our finances and the broader impacts that this might have on us. And while I completely can see the one side of it, people going this is really insensitive.
People have it much worse than us. Completely understand that, but let's take a step back and not let our fear cause us to react with anger, because I think that's a little bit of what I was seeing was people being really stressed and being really anxious and saying, oh my god, how can you possibly think about that when people are dying, And again fully recognizing that we're living in a lot of privilege and I'm never being
more grateful to be where I am. But I understand people's concern and I think that in uncertain times, people turn to community and turn to their safe space to try and find more information. And I really encourage people in our communities and outside of our communities to not react so quickly and out of anger. Let's try and understand where people are coming from, because these are important conversations. If you have an investing strategy in place, yeah, how
is that impacted a one thousand percent? And you're right, Jess, like she's on the money from our perspective, should always be a safe place, and you should be safe and comfortable to ask those questions without people, I guess, jumping
down your throat and saying they're disrespectful. Something that you and I had a conversation about last week, and I was incredibly frustrated with was how trivial it was being made out to be by a lot of other finance could you say, like podcasts and content creators and platforms, where they were you know, posting memes about, oh my gosh, the share markets crashing like I should buy some shares, or posting pictures of cats saying like, oh my gosh,
like the share markets on sale. And I just think that there is space to have these conversations. There is absolutely not space in our community to to realize this or make it some kind of comedic piece of content, But we should be having a conversation about the impacts of this and what this means. I don't think it means that we're comparing what's going on over in Ukraine and Russia to what's going on here When we say, well,
how does this impact my share portfolio? I do think it's a very valid question that we need to address.
But you're right, Jess, we need to go all right, we can see what's going on, but we still do need to have these conversations because the more people that have financial security in our community and in the world in general, means there are more people to contribute to things like this when they do happen, so that we can financially support ourselves or our family members and you know, people around us.
And I'm acutely.
Aware that there is quite and I didn't realize this, and I'm very grateful, but I've had a lot of messages over the weekend from people, you know, saying thank you, which you shouldn't have to do. We just did the right thing, and we shouldn't be thanked for doing the right thing saying I'm from Ukraine or my family are Ukrainian or I'm Russian, and this is not who we are. And I just am so grateful that people like this
are reaching out. But we don't want to downplay how horrendous this is by talking about what does it mean for share prices, or hey, Jess and George, let's talk about how this actually impacts fuel price, because it does, and I want you guys to be educated, and this is actually a piece of that education. I don't want to skimp out and not share that information for fear
of being seen as insensitive. My job is to educate you and keep you across issues when it comes to financial literacy, and you know your financial wellness, and this is one of them. Whether you are impacted because you live in Ukraine or you are impacted because your share portfolio went through the floor, both of those are very valid,
one obviously far more significant than the other. But that doesn't downplay the fact that some people in our community might be going, oh my god, that's all my life savings. I'm so stressed. You deserve an explanation. You deserve to have that explained to you properly.
Really well said that by both of you.
And there are also so many other amazing news podcasts where you can get all of this information about what's happening in Ukraine and Russia. So we're a finance podcast, and I think it is really important that we talk about how this is going to impact all of us, even though we are on the other side of the world. I feel like probably the easiest place to start is by chatting about fuel prices, because we've all probably noticed that that has.
Not all of us have share portfolios, but most of us have to pay for fuel, and over the last few years it's gotten expensive. But a few of you might have noticed it has just tipped over the two dollar mark. Jess, you were having a soorco. I don't know if this is the right thing to say, but it absolutely was. Yeah, before we started recording, you were like, oh my god, fuel was a two dollars when I
was driving home, and it is. It's crazy. But the thing that is really interesting about fuel prices is I think a lot of us are going, oh my gosh, it must be because of the Ukrainian and Russian war, right, like that must be it. But did you know that hardly any oil or fuel products that are purchased by Australia and imported to Australia are in fact imported from Russia. It's like less than zero point zero one percent of our imports are from Russia.
Really, yeah, I know that one of them exports really heavily to Europe because I've seen that. There's been a lot of talk about, you know, one of the ways that countries are kind of putting their foot down without directly involving themselves is like kind of putting a freeze on trade and purchase of certain items. Is So, is it the flow on effect of just going, well, there's about to be scarcity in Europe, so pump up the prices or is it something different?
Yeah, very similar to that. So when it comes to Australian imports, we obviously manufacture some of our own, but about two thirds of the oil that we have in Australia actually comes from overseas and we mainly get that from Singapore, Korea and Japan. However, Russia is actually the second biggest oil exporter in the world after the UAE, so after Saudia Arabia, and it sells a lot of
it's oil to China and Europe. But the most interesting thing here is that international oil sales are usually conducted in US dollars, so it's not usually conducted in Australian dollars, and there's obviously a level of currency exchange there, and it doesn't matter who's involved, whether China is selling it to the UAE, it is still like that transaction is made in US dollars, which is kind of wild to think about. But that's just how the oil industry works.
But because the USA has actually cut off two of Russia's largest banks as kind of like a would you say, like retaliation from Russia's actions against Ukraine, it's much harder for Russia to sell oil. So what's happening. Everybody is getting their oil from different locations and it's stopping massive global oil sellers from selling oil to Russia and vice versa.
So they're churning to the suppliers that we have, but they have much less of a supply than the two biggest places, right, So that's why our prices are going up because of supply and demand. There's far more demand on our supply and because of that they can increase prices.
But also there seems to be this like as it happened with toilet paper stockpiling, and people wanting to make sure that they have enough for their countries, which is totally fair, and like I would want to think that Australia is thinking about that too, Like if the world's going to war, which is that's what it looks like, I would want to make sure that they are thinking and our government is thinking about us and making sure that we are okay, And that's one way to make
sure we are okay, because that's a massive commodity that helps provide for our country, like oil is the thing that transports our food around the country to make sure that we are still having our shelves in woolies and safeways stocked. Right, So I think that we go, oh well, driving cars isn't the worst in Australia. It's actually our main source of transportation for food and supplies.
It also factors into electricity and stuff in some way as well, right, because I've been seeing a lot of reports. Obviously half of the world is currently in winter. We're in summer, but you know, there's a lot of concern around access to resources to power your houses and your heating, and obviously here where we are it's not as significant, but a lot of countries it's negative degrees celsius, literally freezing. So it also needs to be considered and allocated for that purposes. Wow.
Absolutely absolutely, And it would be a bit amiss of me to not mention that fuel prices across the board over the last nearly three years terrifyingly have been impacted relatively significantly by COVID, so that's still at play, but
I feel like recently COVID's kind of been canceled. I'm not saying it's not as big of an issue, but there are obviously far more pressing things than the virus because people are at war like that is definitely what is taking up a lot of the airspace when it comes to media now one hundred percent.
And so I guess we're going to We said we're going to explore these topics. What does this potentially mean for the share market? And again, you know, it's not the be all and end or as you said, but there will be people who are close to perhaps retirement age or things of that nature, who are going to see their super and other investment portfolios that they were
potentially relying on take a hit. You know, Can we expect to see the ramifications of this war applying to us, even though as of right now we're not necessarily directly involved.
Look, yes and no, Like I think that a lot of people are terrified because the stock market has obviously been really shook by the war in Ukraine, But I don't believe that should change the way we are investing. It shouldn't change your investment strategy or why you're investing unless you are investing in Russian Russian shares and stocks, which most of us in Australia won't actually have a
whole heap of exposure to. And if we do, it's very likely that we either have that inner managed fund or we have that in an ETF or an exchange traded fund, and it's a small component of I guess, the larger portfolio at play. And in that case it's
actually not your decision. I mean, you can change your ETF if you would like, but your fund managers are probably looking at that and trying to make sure that they are mitigating risk and making decisions that are in line with the investment strategy that they have and what keeps their investors safe, because that's their job. But the
share market is a very interesting place to be right now. Obviously, on the day that it was announced last week, Jess, we were in the office together, George went around for this and it got announced and I was on a video call with our investment team for my financial advice business at the time, and the entire call got completely railroaded with a bunch of financial advisors, compliance and investment specialists watching what was going on in the market, and
by close of business that day, and Jess I think it was like after lunch, like we spent probably two and a half hours on that zoom it had dropped three percent, which is a massive drop for the share market across the board. So the S and P five hundred, which is like the top five hundred companies in the US on average, had dropped three percent, which when you kind of look at it and you go, we'll be
three percents not that much for across the board. The average drop in a share market across five hundred different businesses to be three percent, that's massive. Like that change is very, very significant, and it makes sense as to why people are genuinely shook by this and really scared. But it's really important to remember why we are investing. I think a lot of people are probably questioning their portfolios and going, should I just take my money out?
Like should I just like sell down? Because if I sell down, then I can't lose any more. And that's where I need to remind you that, yeah, your share portfolio might be valued at less, but it's only actually going to turn into that amount of money if you say I want to put my money out, and you
crystallize that loss. As we've spoken about before, and from what I'm understanding, and I'm doing a lot more reading on the stock market over the last week, understandably is all of the experts I'm either listening to or reading about, or you know, having discussions with. There's been lots of I guess, roundtable discussions happening in the financial services industry recently.
All of the advice, guys is, do not pull your money out, don't stop investing, and any reaction you have to the situation is much more likely to hurt you than help you. And that has come straight from Jeremy Snyder, who is a personal finance expert at the Personal Finance Club, which I think is important to recognize because he's a pretty big name in the US. But he's also doing
a whole heap of research. And as you guys know, that's exactly what I would have said, Like I would not have said, oh, yes, sell your stocks, take a loss. Most of us are in a period of our lives where we're not necessarily needing to sell our stocks. It might be a little bit frustrating for you if you're in a situation where you're like, oh my god, Victoria, I've been saving and investing for the last eight years. I wanted to pull on my money out of stocks
this year to buy my first home. It's probably going to railroad that decision. I am sorry. That is the case. That is the nature of the investing world. But the beauty of the investing world is you can wait a little bit longer until the sher market has been unced back a little bit to make that decision, and that
would be a part of your investing strategy. So that's also why guys, I never want you to invest for a short period of time, because imagine, Jess, if I had been speaking to you and you've been saving for your first home for the last few years, and you
and I have known each other for a while. Now, imagine if I'd sat you down and said, yeah, Jess, like, why don't you put all your money in the share market and let it grow and then when you want to purchase a home, I a right now, you can pull that money out and we'll use that money to buy Would that have been, in this situation a good idea?
Yeah, obviously not.
That would have been really detrimental.
No, but lots of people are like, oh, but I'm missing out on the returns in the short term. It's like, no,
you don't have the grace of writing it out. But Jess, if you'd said, yeah, well, if I buy now or if I buy in five years, I don't really mind, I would have been like, all right, well, investing might be an option for you because you don't seem so set on that timeframe and you're not too worried if I say, as an advisor, don't pull your money out, not worth it yet, and you are, yeah, right, I'll just wait another year. Oras you're not in that position.
You don't want to wait another year. You want to buy now. Like there's a sense of urgency about that, and that's okay, and lots of people have that sense of urgency. But that's why we really need to you know, obviously invest in line with our values and our goals, but also respect that the stock market is a stock market, like we don't have that much control over it, or we have is historical data to go across and a risk and reward chart, and how we can actually invest
in that is not necessarily personal preference. It's actually what is right to do.
And I mean, no one could have made a prediction, right. I don't think anybody would have been sitting at home this time last year and gone, you know what I reckon is going to happen in twelve months. I think there's going to be another war. And I think that that sudden change, or that volatility is what's really scary
for me personally. It's giving me and I mean for me personally, it's giving me a lot of anxiety around when I think back to wars, I think about to like World War One or World War two and the huge impact that that had. Obviously we're definitely not there right now, but there's a lot of talk about where this could potentially go, and obviously you would hope that that's absolutely not the case. But I think that's why people are having these questions and why it was important
for us to have this conversation. And I just wanted to touch on as well the mental health aspect. And you know, we were having this conversation off air, the three of us, and you know, I was talking about how anxious I'm feeling about it and how people are reacting to these conversations that we've been seeing and I guess you said it's important to not downplay what I'm feeling, and you know, it's important for our community to not downplay what you're feeling, because I think what I said
was I'm so afraid. I'm genuinely so scared for the people that are in Ukraine, the people that are in Russia that are having to be involved in something they don't want to be involved in, all of these people who are being swept up in this violence, this unnecessary violence, and that really truly shakes me to my core. But at the same time, I'm so lucky, Like I'm sitting at home in my house on the floor with my cats and my microphone and just living my best life.
And it feels almost wrong to have these feelings and to feel this fear, and I feel guilty because I'm not doing enough, you know, like I've given money, but it's not enough, Like I'm not doing or being or seeing enough, and I don't know what to do. And it's so overwhelming, Like it's really really heavy, and I'm sure that I'm not the only person feeling that.
You know, where a community, this is common, Jess, Yeah, like it is so common, But I feel like you particularly, and this probably happens to a lot of people in our community, really downplay your experiences because quote, somebody else has it worse. Please don't get me wrong, someone right now absolutely does. But that does not mean that you're not experiencing anxiety, doesn't mean that you're not experiencing depression or that feeling of being completely lost and helpless.
That is very real.
And do you know what that is a reflection of the empathy you have as human Like, how beautiful is it that you care so much about people you've never met? And I feel like the best thing we can do in this situation is acknowledged that because do you know what, if my country was going through that and I was in their shoes, I would be genuinely grateful that the people on the other side of the world were feeling
anxious for me. Like the fact that you have other people who you've never met and you're in their thoughts, to me, that's a really beautiful reflection of the type of person you are. Jes right, And there's lots of people in our community that are exactly the same. But I think it's actually our job to keep our eyes and our ears open. It is our job to keep educated and understand what's going on and understand how this works,
not go oh, it's all too hard. I think it's our job to make sure that we're looking looking after our own mental health. And when we're reading media and it's getting too much, I think being able to step back and say, do you know what I just I can't deal with this right now, and that's okay. But I think consistently it's our job as a community to stay educated on how we can have the best impact. And right now, because it is so new, we don't
know what that is yet. But you best believe we will be sharing exactly how you can help and what can happen and how it's going to impact us as soon as we know. Because at the same time as us, you know, being on this podcast, sharing it with all the view this month, it is overwhelming at the same time because we don't know any more than you do, we are feeling the same way that you do. And that's okay, and we are all.
In it together.
But I don't want for one minute people to feel like their contributions aren't enough, because even if you can't afford to donate money or time.
Or resources.
The fact that everybody over there is in your thoughts is so overwhelmingly beautiful.
I think one hundred percent. We can't underestimate the impact this is having on all of our mental health. Even though we're not over there, we're not finding in the war like you can't compare it to that. But you also can't diminish your own struggles, especially after we've just gone through the weirdest two years of all time, and that was hard enough, and now you know, the masks have gone on Friday. On Friday afternoon, a war was declared.
So it's been a lot for us to take on just in terms of resources, both for our own mental health and to contribute and help out in any way we can to Ukraine.
What's out there for.
Us definitely, So we put a link in our Instagram bio and we can probably plug it into the show notes as well with a really great article that has some direct Ukrainian resources of all different kinds. There's you know, fund for healthcare, fund for I think housing, and a few different options or alternatively. UNISEF have actually just launched a funder as well. They're obviously a very legitimate, above
board nonprofit and I think it's important. As horrible as this is to say, times like these really bring out of the woodwork. Unfortunately, some people who do want to take advantage of the situations. So anyone who is donating money, which is incredibly generous.
Please make sure it's going to the right places. We saw this during COVID, people taking the absolute mickey by setting up fake gofund me pages and things that you know, weren't for the best, or potentially people thought they were for the best, but then they found out that they were donating to a group that actually, you know, didn't support gay rights or didn't support you know, parts of our community that are really important to us, because they
were just too quick to donate because they were like, oh great, like this is how I can contribute, So please do your research or rely on the fact that we've done a little bit for you. Obviously, only donate if you are financially able to do so, but that is a really great way of supporting the people over there that you know, we can't do a lot for in this moment.
And I think recognizing as well that every dollar in this kind of situation helps. If every person listening to this podcast chapter dollar in that is a lot of money that would be going their way.
Imagine if all one point two million listeners had donated a dollar, that would be like more than a quarter of what Australia has sent over in age.
Absolutely, so don't diminish your contributions. If you can't contribute, that is also very very okay. It's more just an option to put on the table that I wanted to say. It's there if you do feel like that's something that you really want to contribute to, but if you can't,
that's fine. And then in terms of mental health resources, all of the usual we've got, you know, obviously the National Helpline, beyond Blue Black Dog, heaps of different online call centers that you can call and talk through your feelings. If you're having a hard time, please please reach out because, as you said, VI, we diminish what we're feeling and then we're no good to anybody because we're carrying a load by ourselves. It is just too much to hold.
Like you can't pour from an empty cup. And at the end of the day, if the best thing for your mental health right now is turning off your social media and tuning out of any type of news. I think that's a really fair thing to do. I know that the world is heavy right now, but it isn't all your burden to carry, and I think a lot of us tend to take a lot of that weight onto our shoulders and carry that even though it's not our burden, if that makes sense. It's not on you solely,
and it can be really hard. But as you're saying, Jess, you can't pull from an empty cup, so make sure your cup is full and then you can help.
More So, basically in some guys, if you do need help or you want to support Ukraine, head to all of the links in our show notes. They'll all be there for you. But that is probably all we have time for today, ladies.
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