Unlock the Power of Your Emotional Brain with Dr. Nan Wise – certified sex therapist, relationship specialist, neuroscience researcher, and author of Why Good Sex Matters : Understanding the Neuroscience of Pleasure for a Smarter, Happier, and More Purpose-Filled Life . Get ready for a mind-blowing journey into the depths of your psyche as you listen to April get a real-time therapy session with Dr. Nan. In this episode, you'll discover: The fascinating role of brain systems in regulating you...
Dec 03, 2024•1 hr 19 min
Get ready for a raw and revealing episode of Shameless Sex recorded LIVE at our retreat amidst the lush beauty of Costa Rica. Join our brave retreat attendees as they strip away their inhibitions and dive deep into transformative conversations about relationships, sexual wellness, and personal growth. Our guests bare their souls through this powerful group discussion. You'll hear firsthand accounts of: Relationship breakthroughs and some yummy strategies to keep that fire burning Stories with un...
Nov 26, 2024•1 hr 6 min
What is ADHD, and how would someone know if they have it? How does ADHD show up in sex and relationships? What are the common struggles, challenges, and superpowers? What about kink and ADHD? Why is setting up an ideal environment so important for sexual and relational success? How can people with ADHD become more sexually empowered? And why is there very little research on ADHD and sex? About our guest: Leann Borneman is a sexologist and certified sex therapist who specializes in the intersecti...
Nov 19, 2024•58 min
Ready to explore the wonderful world of prostate health and pleasure? Shameless Sex welcomes back prostate expert Forrest Andrews for his fifth appearance, diving deep into the mysteries of the p-spot! Curious about what makes the prostate so special? Where is this magical gland, and why is everyone buzzing about it? In this episode, we'll uncover: The latest research on men's sexual health and prostate wellness Why choose an Aneros over fingers for p-spot stimulation? Step-by-step guide to usin...
Nov 12, 2024•58 min
Get ready for a testosterone-fueled adventure with the Shameless Sex duo and special guest Dr. Justin Dubin! We're diving deep into the world of the big T, and trust us, it's not just about bulging biceps and bedroom antics. Did you know testosterone isn't just a "man's hormone"? Dr. Dubin spills the tea on how this powerful little molecule affects all genders and why it might be the secret sauce to feeling fabulous at any age. From our personal "pellet party" experiences to cutting-edge treatme...
Nov 06, 2024•1 hr 16 min
Dr. Alison Ash aka Dr. Aly returns for her eighth time on our show to do the 2.0 version of How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ . Dr. Aly covers everything from anatomy 101 when it comes to munching the box, why some people don't like eating pussy and how they can become pussy lovers, how learning and practicing oral skills leads more confidence around performance, applicable tips and tools that might apply to most pussy pleasure, 2.0 intermediate tips and tools for the advanced pussy lover, as well a...
Oct 29, 2024•1 hr 3 min
Get ready to dive deep into the fascinating world of compersion with our latest Shameless Sex episode featuring the brilliant Dr. Marie Thouin! As a leading expert and scholar on compersion in consensual non-monogamy, Dr. Thouin brings a wealth of knowledge and groundbreaking research to our listeners. Stay tuned because this episode will have some gold for you, too! What's in store for you: Discover what compersion really is (and what it's not!) Explore the relationship between compersion and j...
Oct 22, 2024•55 min
Calling all penis owners and lovers! It's time to break free from shame and embrace your sexual confidence. In this eye-opening episode, we're joined by the incredible Keeley Rankin, MA, a seasoned sex and relationship coach based in San Francisco since 2010. Get ready to dive deep into the world of penis-related anxieties in this episode as we explore: The lowdown on erectile dysfunction (aka–erectile struggles–because it’s NOT dysfunction!), premature ejaculation (aka–ejaculatory control–becau...
Oct 15, 2024•1 hr 12 min
Get ready to unleash your inner kitten, Shameless listeners! This week, we're diving into the deliciously naughty world of Killing Kittens with the queen of female sexual empowerment herself, Emma Sayle. Buckle up for a wild ride as we explore how this badass entrepreneur turned her anger at sexual double standards into a global revolution of pleasure! From exclusive parties where women call the shots to the launch of the world's first sex-positive social dating app, WeAreX, Emma's spilling all ...
Oct 08, 2024•1 hr 3 min
Get ready to tantalize your senses and revolutionize your relationships, Shameless listeners! This week, we're diving deep into the world of tantra and body positivity with San Francisco's hottest power couple, Erwan and Alicia Davon. These relationship gurus have been spicing up love lives for 25 years with their game-changing Davon Method. Prepare to shed those pesky body hang-ups as we explore how shame impacts intimacy, debunk body myths, and learn to embrace our sexy selves. The Davons dish...
Oct 01, 2024•1 hr 7 min
Suzannah Weiss is a writer and sexologist based in Los Angeles. She is the author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject , which describes her search for sexual empowerment and her vision for a world where women are subjects, not just objects, of desire. She has written over 8800 articles , which have appeared in publications such as The New York Times and The Washington Post . As a sex educator certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, Suzanna...
Sep 28, 2024•31 min
Get ready to blush, giggle, and maybe learn a thing or two as we dive into the steamy world of legal sex work with the fabulous Madam Tara from Mustang Ranch! This saucy episode is all about breaking taboos, spilling tea on client encounters, and exploring the ins and outs (pun intended) of Nevada's oldest legal brothel. From courtesan confessions to behind-the-scenes brothel gossip, Madam Tara's got the lowdown on everything from wild client requests to the art of running a pleasure palace. Whe...
Sep 24, 2024•57 min
What is it like being the man with the world’s largest medically verified natural penis? What are the current myths about penis size? How does fetishization fit into the mix? Is bigger really better? What are the pros and cons of having a huge cock, and what are some tools to make it more enjoyable for all parties involved? How can people learn to focus on the whole person instead of their shape or size? About our guest: Matt Barr is a London-based Cambridge-educated marketing expert with a diff...
Sep 17, 2024•53 min
Is the newness or spark gone in your longterm relationship? Do you feel like your partner is more like a (best) friend as opposed to a lover? Maybe the communication has broken down, or perhaps it was never there to start. Or are you craving better, more connected hot sex? If so, guess what? Despite how frustrating this is, know that you are 100% normal! Also, we have plenty of episodes on how to reignite the fire ( episode 381 with Dolly Josette is a great option), AND also starting November 12...
Sep 12, 2024•21 min
What are the common problems women in particular face when it comes to orgasms, and what are some of the top tips for overcoming these challenges? What if someone has never had an orgasm? Why is masturbation a pivotal place to start and how can someone develop a helpful masturbation practice? And how do sex toys - both solo and partnered - fit into all of this? About our guest: Charlene Douglas is the author of Come Closer: Everything You Ever Wanted to Ask a Sex and Relationship Therapist and i...
Sep 10, 2024•56 min
In this episode we interview the revolutionary Anne Hodder-Shipp about her latest book Speaking from the Heart: 18 Languages of Modern Love . We discuss why the classic book 5 Love Languages is both limiting and dismissive of many people's experiences, the diversity of love languages can how they can evolve, the 18 and growing love languages for the modern world, and how you can apply them to your life here and now. Anne is also the founder of Everyone Deserves Sex Ed (EDSE) - a sex educator cer...
Sep 03, 2024•1 hr 13 min
Why is touch so important to all humans? What is platonic erotic touch? How does it differ from other touch? What are the benefits of giving or receiving platonic erotic touch? How is platonic erotic touch created, and how do I find people to share it with? What if feels happen? Can I prevent catching the feels in platonic erotic touch? About our guest: Despite how young she appears (thank goodness for all the GREAT orgasms), Monica Jayne comes with 25 years experience and many certifications to...
Aug 27, 2024•1 hr 6 min
In this bonus episode we interview Pretty Ink, the talented content creator behind College Craze - a hot interactive video game designed for the female gaze. Learn why this is Amy's preferred "porn", as well as what goes behind creating story-driven content with lots of arousing sex scenes. About our guest: Pretty Ink is a black, female, solo developer passionate about sex, immersive gaming, and good storytelling. Her current project under Pretty Ink Games is College Craze , an adult dating and ...
Aug 23, 2024•42 min
This episode is inspired by Hailey Magee's new book Stop People Pleasing and Find Your Power, as well as the "People Pleaser Support Group" skit on SNL. We discuss why people pleasing in the bedroom is different than other forms of people pleasing, why someone would say yes when they mean maybe or no, the common consequences of sexual people pleasing, as well as some tools to to stop people pleasing here and now. We also discuss why working on your relationship with rejection and disappointment ...
Aug 20, 2024•1 hr 8 min
Sexual Folklorist, podcaster and coach Dixie De La Tour joins Shameless Sex to teach us all about the magic behind erotic storytelling -just in time for Anal August! Learn about how developing your personal narrative can help you talk about difficult/intimate things (SEX!) + hear us share some of our own butt jam stories and witness the magic that is Bawdy Storytelling! Check out the Njoy plugs here and the Inflatable Plug here + get 20% off with code ANALAUGUST2024 Follow us on IG @shamelesssex...
Aug 13, 2024•1 hr 25 min
This episode is an inside look into the wonderful world of sex work! From everything from favorite client stories to myth busting to the variations of sex work (stripping, camming, etc) - the fabulous Marcela Alonso shamelessly shares all about a day in the life of being a loud and proud sex worker. About our guest: Marcela Alonso is a woman of many hats and talents—she’s a content creator, social media influencer, podcast host, comedienne, and SAG card-carrying mainstream actress. With over two...
Aug 06, 2024•1 hr 5 min
What are "sex parties" and why is The Play different from other play parties? What can anyone and everyone - regardless of their interest in sex parties or non-monogamy - learn from the way The Play beautifully orchestrates and curates their parties? Why is STI testing so important + unique to the way The Play operates? Also, can monogamous people go to sex parties? We known ENM isn't for everyone yet so many of you (yes you) are curious about threesomes and more-somes...and even sex parties! Tu...
Jul 30, 2024•1 hr 37 min
How can people find the right sex toy for them? What makes a sex toy a great toy or product? What are some of the top sex toys on the market? And what about lubes? Also, what the F is a praise kink? And why is having a sexual AHA moment so important? About our guest: Lisa Finn ("Finn" - she/her/they) is a Brooklyn-based Sex Educator. Since starting with Babeland in 2016, Finn has hosted countless interviews and workshops - both virtual to audiences of hundreds of attendees, and in-person from le...
Jul 24, 2024•58 min
When it comes to sex or relationships and wanting to find a therapist or coach, what should people know before they shop around? Are all sex therapists “created equal”? Why is it so important for therapists to be educated on how to support their client’s sexuality while not creating more shame? As a client, what are some of the signs my therapist or coach might not be a good fit for me? And how can I go about that? For people who want to become a sex educator or therapist, how can they start to ...
Jul 16, 2024•1 hr 6 min
In this episode we meet with ENM and relational expert Ally Iseman. We discuss everything from cheating and affairs to the how to's of non-monogamy, the many variations of non-monogamy, as well as how to become an expert communicator in your relationships. This episode is for monogamous and non-monogamous people who want to up their relational skills for more sexy success in and out of the bedroom. Bio: Ally Iseman is the Founder of Passport 2 Pleasure , through which she offers concierge guidan...
Jul 09, 2024•1 hr 18 min
What are some of the many reasons why people might not be interested in having sex with their partners? When it comes to mismatched libidos, what are are top tips for couples in working together to find ways to meet each other’s sexual wants or desires as best as they can? What about period sex? We know not everyone is into it and aren’t trying to convince people to change their minds about it, but what are the main hangups are about period sex? Are there any benefits? And how can people have mo...
Jul 02, 2024•1 hr 14 min
This mini episode features a 10 minute clip for a new mini series that we absolutely love called Making Magic , featuring some of the world's most renown sex educators and all about how the Magic Wand became the world's most famous vibrator. Porn is one of the most common ways people find out about the Magic Wand and get excited to try it themselves. In this episode, we hear from porn performers and directors about why the Magic Wand works so well in on-screen sex – and why filming with it can s...
Jun 28, 2024•18 min
In this episode we talk about how to pleasure all the dicks, cocks and penises in your life with fellatio expert and Sexologist Jody ProHOEvocative. And PS: Jody is going to perform in our live show in Chicago this Sunday, June 24th. Listen to this episode to understand why you don't want to miss it :) More details below. About our guest: Jody is a certified sexologist and fellatio instructor, unapologetically exploring the realms of sexuality, blending candid discussions on sexual health, perso...
Jun 25, 2024•1 hr 5 min
In this episode repeat guest and world renown Sexpert Tyomi Morgan teaches us all about how to become the master of pussy pleasure. From techniques for hands and mouths to toys and beyond, Tyomi will blow your mind (and maybe your lover's bits) with all of the gold she shares. About our guest: Certified Sexologist Tyomi Morgan is an international pleasure coach with 12+ years experience as a thought leader, writer and influencer in the field of Sexuality. Her talent for delivering relatable, dig...
Jun 18, 2024•1 hr 14 min
This episode is with the fabulous duo Florence and Reed from the Come Curious podcast. We talk about everything from awkward/uncomfortable sexual experiences to top super hot sexual experiences, why you should have your friend film you having sex, why sex on the beach isn't for everyone, sex in bathroom stalls, kink and fetishes, and how people move through/beyond body shame and discover their unique “sexy”. Be prepared to laugh and learn because these two women are absolutely shameless! About o...
Jun 11, 2024•1 hr 15 min
