In this episode we interview author, therapist and overall amazing human Ian Kerner, PhD, all about the power of pleasing the pussy first. He tells us why he thinks this is important plus gives us some tips and tricks along the way. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 11. About our guest: Ian Kerner, PhD, LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist), is a nationally-recognized sex counselor and New York Times bestselling author of numerous books, including, She Comes First , w...
May 19, 2020•47 min
Poet and educator Rae Monet tells us her top tips on how to give head while staying in your power, plus she shares some of her erotic poetry. About our guest: PoetRaeMonet, a DC native, uses erotic poetry to combat the serious lack of sexual education in America. She began writing in childhood and has gone on to publish 5 books and 2 journals; including 'The Birds, the Bees, and the Boudoir,' which she'll be reading from later tonight. She is a hard-worker, who has developed hand-made candles, a...
May 15, 2020•44 min
In this episode we chat with somatic sexologist and sexological bodyworker Pyasa Neko Siff about circumcision, pelvic release and ways to heal from pelvic trauma. We also answer a sex question: Why are some women against foreskin? Is it it different than giving oral on an uncut cock? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 14. About our guest: Pyasa Neko Siff, certified somatic sexologist, sexological bodyworker and speaker is the author of the Intimacy Adventure Playbook . She has...
May 12, 2020•1 hr 1 min
What makes a really good phone sex operator? What are the tricks to the trade and how can we up our dirty talk game? We also answer a sex question: I want more sexting, sexy talk and words of affirmation from my partner. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: Best-selling author, sexpert/educator, phone sex operator, dominatrix, and marketing extraordinaire Amberly Rothfield is a 13-year veteran who’s been featured in Vice, Hustler, Input, Reason, AVN, XBIZ, a...
May 08, 2020•55 min
Tune in as we chat with Somatic Sex and Relationship Coach Kat Nantz about her journey as she learned how to heal chronic pain through pleasure. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 12. We also answer a sex question about working with back pain during sex. About our guest: Kat Nantz is a trauma informed Somatic Sex & Relationship Coach who believes you are your own greatest healer, and her job is to bring you home to the wisdom that lives in your body. After having 17 surger...
May 05, 2020•45 min
How can we discover our own sexual needs and desires and then lovingly speak up for them with lovers/partners? We also answer a sex question: I feel like a sex goddess inside but my partner views me as delicate and puts me on a pedestal. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 15. About our guest: Monica Jayne is a leader of unabashed self-expression, a mentor of true internal freedom, a coach of authentic communication and speaking up, and an educator of erotic liberation. She has...
May 01, 2020•57 min
Dr. Nan Wise returns to answer your sex questions about orgasm difficulties and blocks, cheating and non-ethical non-monogamy, and what sexuality might look like after COVID-19. About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, she became driven to understand how the brain creates moods and beh...
Apr 28, 2020•50 min
In this episode we interview adult performer and badass entrepreneur Larkin Love AKA everyone's favorite big tittied goth mama all about the ins and outs of her life in the porn industry. We also answer a sex question: Does excessive masturbation cause any harm? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20. About our guest: Known for her 32J breasts and fierce black hair, Larkin Love has gone from adult star to self-made entrepreneur running her own website and becoming the queen of ...
Apr 24, 2020•53 min
What is the “Minax Method” and how does it apply to kink and BDSM in relationships? We also answer a sex question: My partner is into S/M and my I'm not interested because of my sexual trauma. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: Professional Domina, Kink Educator and Pleasure Artist, Eve Minax delights in proliferating carnal knowledge. Learning and practicing BDSM from Chicago, to Paris, to Melbourne, and now local to San Francisco Minax has exercised her ...
Apr 21, 2020•1 hr 1 min
How does erotica get us into our ultimate turn on? And how can we write our own sexy stories? We also answer a sex question: I want more kissing with my wife. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: Rachel Kramer Bussel is a writer, editor, event organizer and writing instructor. She’s edited over 60 anthologies, including Come Again: Sex Toy Erotica, The Big Book of Orgasms, The Big Book of Submission, Tasting Him: Oral Sex Stories, Tasting Her: Oral Sex Stori...
Apr 17, 2020•56 min
How can men become the master of their sexual energy? Why is this helpful? And how can they learn to up their orgasm game both alone and with partners? We also answer a sex question about opening up the relationship as a means of satisfying differing sex drives. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guest: Matthew Ayriss is a Sacred Sexuality Guide, Shamanic-Somatic Healer, Transformational Life Coach, & Conscious Content Creator. He facilitates immersive experi...
Apr 14, 2020•1 hr 5 min
Tune in to learn the latest tips and tricks on seduction and foreplay. We also answer a sex question: I pleasure my partner but they rarely reciprocate. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 23. About our guest: Marla Renee Stewart, MA is a sexologist and a sex coach who runs her own sexuality education company, Velvet Lips. She is also a Co-Founder of the Sex Down South Conference and the Sexual Liberation Collective. She has studied human sexuality for more than 19 years and ha...
Apr 10, 2020•52 min
Award-winning adult film director and creator of Adulttime.com Bree Mills joins us to tell us all about the current state of the porn industry. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 16. We also answer a sex question about how to have a first-time threesome. About our guest: Bree Mills is an award-winning adult filmmaker and Chief Creative Officer of Adult Time, a streaming service for adults. Her work leverages art, sexuality, and cinematic narratives to trojan-horse powerful mes...
Apr 07, 2020•1 hr
What is anxiety and how does it affect the body? How can people work with it? And how does this apply to sex and relationships? We also answer a sex questions about a golden shower fetish. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 18. About our guest: NAN WISE, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice...
Apr 03, 2020•1 hr 8 min
Sex robots, virtual reality, realistic "love dolls"...what is Sex Tech and what does the future hold for new innovative sex toys? We also answer a sex question: I get air stuck inside of me during sex (AKA queefing). Am I tight enough down there? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 23. About our guest: Andrea Barrica is the CEO and founder of O.school , a judgment-free media platform to learn about sexuality and pleasure. As a queer woman of color, she’s been fighting to bring ...
Mar 31, 2020•57 min
What does embodiment mean and how does it enhance intimate connection? Where do my fantasies come from and how can I explore them for hot sex, or even for healing? Note: This episode was recorded pre COVID-19 About our guest: Finn Deerhart AKA the "Gay Rebel with a Heart-Centered Cause" is a sex and relationship coach living in San Francisco, who has followed a deep inquiry about how sex and spirit intersect in our lives. He believes that as gay and queer men, we have been divided in sex and spi...
Mar 27, 2020•46 min
What is Tantric sex all about and how does it lead to juicy orgasms and mind-blowing pleasure? And how can people incorporate this into the bedroom? All this and more with Tantrica Caroline Carrington. We also answer a sex question about how to find the best toy for couple's and g-spot play. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 25. About our guest: Caroline Carrington is a Certified NeoTantra Educator and pleasure & intimacy expert inspiring people to live empowered lives ac...
Mar 24, 2020•1 hr 12 min
In this episode we chat with our dear friend and fellow podcaster Kyle Thiermann all about love, sex, relationships, and all of the other quarantine-inspired conversations in the time of the COVID-19 virus. About our guest: Kyle is a professional surfer, podcaster, and filmmaker from California. He creates gonzo-style mini-documentaries about current social issues happening all over the world. These are conversations with fascinating people he meets along the way. To learn more about Kyle and hi...
Mar 20, 2020•1 hr 31 min
Why do so many women have performance anxiety around orgasm? What type of thoughts do women have that stop them from having orgasms, and what can they can do in and out of the bedroom to dissolve them? We also answer a sex question about finding confidence in dating women. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 24. About our guest: Kara Loewentheil is a Master Certified Coach with a B.A. from Yale and J.D. from Harvard Law. In the last three years after pivoting from a legal caree...
Mar 18, 2020•1 hr 8 min
In this episode we chat all about how to navigate group sex, sex parties and gang-bangs with Billy from The Manwhore Podcast. We also answer a sex question: My partner voices a desire to be with other women while drunk but denies it sober. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17. About our guest: Billy Procida is a professional stand-up comedian, podcaster, and accidental gangbang organizer. For over a decade, he's entertained audiences all over the country and can be seen at co...
Mar 11, 2020•1 hr 25 min
Author, Podcaster, and Sex Educator extraordinaire, Dr. Jess O’Reilly joins us to answer your sex questions: How do I initiate sex when I lack confidence in the bedroom? Is there something wrong with my labia? How do I talk to my partner about my sexual trauma, and how can I heal? What are your sex and dating tips for someone who is visually impaired? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: An award-winning speaker, Dr. Jess O’Reilly has worked with thousands o...
Mar 02, 2020•55 min
Aida Manduley teaches us all about long-distance relationships and how to keep them fresh, connected and spicy. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20. Aida Manduley, LCSW is an award-winning Latinx activist, trauma-focused therapist, and sexuality educator known for big earrings and tackling taboos. Their politics are radical, their life is ridiculous, and their penchant for irreverence as intimacy is notorious. Manduley's current focus areas include community accountability, ...
Feb 25, 2020•1 hr 6 min
Willow Brown is a Chinese Medicine Doctor and internationally recognized teacher of Taoist Sexology. Willow has studied the human body and it’s correspondence with nature extensively for over two decades. Her style is a blend of many modalities including Taoist Yoga, Qi Gong, acupuncture, nutrition, cranial sacral, and Sacred Sexuality. Her online programs and private practice focuses on women’s health, endocrine function, and sexuality. Willow guides women from low libido, emotional disharmony,...
Feb 21, 2020•51 min
Why is pleasure so important, both in and out of the bedroom? How does the brain and hormonal system affect this? And how can people have sustainable pleasure in longterm relationships? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: Nan Wise, Ph.D., is a cognitive neuroscientist, professor, licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, board-certified clinical hypnotherapist, and certified relationship specialist. After almost twenty years in clinical practice, s...
Feb 18, 2020•1 hr 12 min
In this episode we learn all about erotic touch techniques and how to be a phenomenal hands-on lover. Christina also shares about the mysterious A-Spot, a powerhouse for pleasure! Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 20 to dive right in. About our guest: Curiosity is Christina’s driving force. Being born during the Soviet Era in a conservative household that never spoke about sex unless it was telling adult jokes gave her an insatiable appetite to dive deep in the world of sexua...
Feb 11, 2020•1 hr 10 min
How does the pill affect sexual responsiveness, choice of partner, or even seemingly unrelated life choices like career or attainment of higher education? And what should we be doing to better educate and inform women about their choices, bodies, and options? We also answer a sex question: I want more kissing and intimacy in my relationship. Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: A leading researcher in the dynamic and rapidly expanding field of evolutionary p...
Feb 04, 2020•55 min
The intro of the episode is about some of our favorite sex toys, as well as some awesome Valentine's Day activity and gift recommendations including as few that won't cost you a thing. The interview of the podcast is all about navigating non-traditional relationships including non-monogamy and anything beyond the traditional "get married to one person forever" way of being. Our guest also helps us answer some of your sex questions about non-monogamy. To checkout the Clone-a-Willy and Clone-a-Pus...
Jan 28, 2020•1 hr 19 min
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Jan 24, 2020•19 min
Sex Educator and dear friend Kristen returns to answer your sex questions about cum and oral fetishes, menstrual cups, gender-bending and lingerie fetishes, demi-sexuality, virginity, and how to be a confident lover. Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of you...
Jan 21, 2020•1 hr 25 min
How does the body internalize sexual trauma and how can we heal it through pleasure? How does this apply sexual pain? And what about kink as a means for working with trauma? Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 19. About our guest: Melissa Fritchle, LMFT is a Holistic Sex Therapist & award-winning Sex Educator with a private practice in Santa Cruz, CA. She is also a Certified Mindfulness Meditation teacher and is working on a second book, The Body as Guru . She is the author...
Jan 14, 2020•1 hr 18 min
