Episode 65: A Conversation with a friend!

or their sponsors and associates. We would like to encourage you to do your own research and discover the subject matter for yourself. Hi, I'm Sander Champlain. For almost twenty five years, I've been on a journey to prove the existence of life after death. On each episode will discuss the reasons we now know that our loved ones have survived physical death and so will we. Welcome to Shades of the Afterlife. Two nights ago, I got a great honor of being asked to speak for Helping Parents Heal.

It's a global organization. You can find it at Helping Parents Heal dot org and as you can imagine, it is a group for parents who have children now living in the spirit world. So it was an opportunity to share my story, share the latest news with me and the afterlife, and it was really a wonderful reception. I invited the parents to join us for our Friday demonstration of trance mediumship, which just happened, and I was left really moved by the event, and I want to share

it with you today now. Just because I share about the afterlife doesn't mean I don't have any fear of certain things. Now, we all all have a skeptical mind, and I know when I got interested in studying the afterlife, there were some things that seemed okay, and then there's some things that seemed a little far out there. And I know I've played snippets from trans medium demonstrations before, but I want to play a little bit more today.

To the skeptical mind, you may feel that a trance medium is someone who just puts on a different voice, they have things practice, rehearse, and that it's not a legitimate And while all kinds of mediums there are legitimate and non legitimate, if that's a word. For the past almost two years, every Friday, I've been with medium Scott Milligan online doing one of these demonstrations of trans mediumship.

It starts out that people close their eyes and do what we call sitting for healing, and it's an opportunity to just be guided by his words, have the intention to send healing to those that need it and receive it. Scott also sits after he finishes speaking the meditation part, and out of the quiet you will hear a different voice arise. He allows his controls, his workers, his friends, his guides, whatever you wish to call them, and the

spirit world to use him and speak through him. Now, trans medium is someone who brings through a voice of someone who has previously lived. People that call themselves channel ers are bringing through their highest wisdom from their soul. Do I believe in all trans mediums and all channel ers? I don't. It takes years of practice and dedication learning how to quiet your mind, having good intention about serving humanity.

But anyways, long story short is a huge number of the parents from Helping Parents Heal came on to our demonstration today and some of the questions just really moved me and the answers that were given by our friend in the spirit world. So whether you believe in this form of mediumship or you don't, it doesn't matter what I want you to do is listen to the answers given about life, death, grief, suicide, the other side, there's so much Okay, So again, this is sort of the

mediumship of Scott Milligan. And if you'd like to join us on one of our fridays you can absolutely do so. The home basis we Don't Die dot Com. Click on the store button and you'll find it. It's called in the Arms of Eternity. You can leave a donation or you can use coupon code free and join us. So you'll hear me now asking Eric who is our friend in the unseen world? Different questions. Now, Eric is a gentleman who died late in the eighteen hundreds, and he's

pretty extraordinary. So let's listen. If it is so, you'll wish let us proceed in the usual world. Nena, Yes, thank you. Well. We have a number of new friends with us today from an organization called Helping Parents Heal. And their children have migrated into your world, and some this is the very first time that they've even thought about looking for evidence of the afterlife. And I'm wondering if you could speak to them. I know the words will help many, but also they're desperate to feel the

love from their child. Would you talk about this anyone who has are one who has stepped in front of them, Their hearts will always remain so sore. And it is hard for one to convince others that your children and those who you love and care for live on and never too far away. But because so many do not feel and miss the opportunities. And what I mean by miss opportunities by the signs that are shared and simply

fall like the drop of rain. For in your time, when you think of your child, if the thoughts are imbued with happiness, your children think with you, and through the silent fragrance of love that touches your senses, they give you a glimpse that death has not silenced them. I have spoken on numerous occasions to so many people by telling the story that within our world, children do not cry, for in our world there is no sickness. For in our world there are no one who will

hurt or affect or end someone else's existence. For your children will always no laughter, and that laughter they wish to give to all who have known them. For if they are to step across the stream, they will play within the mud, they will play within the sands. They will play within the shows of our world, and no harm will come to them. But when it is your time for your light to end within your world, they will be there to steady the path by taking you

by the hand and seeing you across the stream. And never again will your hands be separated. For what you fill the time has robbed, is here and is shared instantly back with you. We wish so much for your world to know through the senses of other gifted individuals that help others who have fallen to their knees to rise again. We do not take your children, but we will hold them close, and your families will surround them.

Your families will love them, and we will continue to try wherever we can to wipe away the tears so that you could feel, or see or hear them. For in your dreams, as your dream each night your children come the Some may be seen, some may be heard, but your children are there. For if this is your first step upon the path of investigate, m a another view that the seed is sown and now it starts

to grow. That your children's love will never die, Their memories will not fade, their voice will not be forgotten. If you think of the one you love. They are there within the stream of your thoughts. They are perfect, and in the reality of our world, they are perfect. Each of you who have assembled here, each of you have felt the pain what we do not wish for you, but comes from the shadows of falling in love. Grief

has gripped you. For When the sun sets upon your finest day and darkness seems to consume you, you look to the heavens and see the stars, stars that you cannot touch, cannot hear, that can only see. Your children can see you. Your children play with their fingers through your hair. They may not be felt, but does not mean they are not there. Anyone of the cloth says that your child has died speaks a lie, a cruel lie. The body may not be there, at your child is

much more. Your child brings show happiness. Your child may bring you tears of happiness and tears of sadness and stress. That a child should do as you, steady them through life, sharing your wisdom with them so that one day they will pass the knowledge to another. You're wanting to take a quick break and we'll be back. You're listening to shades of the Afterlife on the I Heart Radio and Coast to Coasting and Paranormal podcast network. The Coast to Coast a M mobile app is here and waiting for

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the best afterlife information you can get. Well, you're on Sheets of the Afterlife with Sandra Champlain. Welcome back to Shades of the Afterlife. I'm Sandra Champlain and we are listening to Eric through the mediumship of Scott Milligan. You, my friends, you are deeply loved, but we are aware the certain words that we share with you may be valueless to you. For I was a father that had children that stepped in front of me, and I have felt for pain and I feel it no more. For

when I crossed the stream to see my wife. Under her arms were my children, and every ends of pain that he grip my world was a distant memory. But my children told me. But every day that they passed, they walked with me. For every I spoke of them, they spoke with me. Live your life, my friends, in the knowledge those who stood firmly with you still do.

But the sadness of the story that many of you do not speak to one another, that you bury these thoughts deep within you, For there is a mother a father that on this very day has slipped into a hell and needs someone like you to tell them that it is okay and right to be angry. It is okay to scream as loud as one can to the voice is not her, no mall. So that through this experience, this devastating moment, you all biden together and no but

on your darkest day there is a shining star. But no hand can touch, but on need love can hold sad. My dear, I will never tire or lose my passion for a child is a gift. And we are o children? Are we not? We are? We have a mom that has a question that I'd like to read as well. Follow up to this, my friend, I trust that they are well. Yes, thank you, she writes. When we lose a loved one, especially a child, how do we find

the strength to carry on without them? We have lost our whole world, and life on earth now feels meaningless. Here is now a tortuous place to be trapped in. Well, my friend, as one slips into the darkest moment, you are not alone. It is to speak to others who have had similar experiences, that you will find the strength from each other to talk about your children, to talk about the experience, to allow the emotion to flow, not to be consumed in a pressure that wants to be released.

You have come from an organization where some have found strength by talking. There are still stories to be told, experiences to be shared. And you wish everything good for your child. Your child wishes everything good to be for you. We who are more seasoned in the understanding of communication can see your pain, but your child does not see it. Because, my friends, your child only wishes to give you love

and to remind you that they are there. As hard as it may be, Allow your mind just to be open. That your child will never give up trying to let you know that they love you. Love can never die, love will never let go, Love will never be lost. Is love that you felt then is stronger that you feel now. I cannot tell you how you face your day, but I will tell you that you can face this day. For as you rise, as your children stand with you, support one another, we will continue to support your world

and each of you. No matter how old or young your body may be. You are love and we will never lose you. We will always hold you, We will always love you. It will never be pleased, my dear. But if that is satisfactory, let us move alown. Thank you, Eric. Would you talk about babies that haven't been lost to miscarriage in a spiritual realm? Will the mothers recognize them

when their time comes to transition? Course, my friend. Of course, a child that comes to our side of life, that is known by mother or father, that may not be physically touched, will be loved and will continue to develop within our world. We must consider my friends. And for the purpose of my explanation, I ask you, when one is happy, time has passed so quickly. When one is said and feels the stress of life, time seems to slow down. Your world is in the grips of time.

Our world no no time, So for us a simple passing of an afternoon can be a lifetime to each of you. So your child will be met within our world. If a family member wishes, they will look after the child until the mother or father covers to our side of life. You may say to me, Eric, but I have not seen my child for many years, how will I recognize them? Quite simply, the child has been watching yourself, and therefore a child will then run to watch you,

and you instantly know one another. If it is a baby. A baby can grow like any child. It can attend schooling, it can attend experience arians. It will not feel pain as I have described this day, but your mind's work in time. We do not know time, we have forgotten it. So for us it is your brief breath and to join us. If, my friends, if we are to look upon this matter, if you desire to have children, but for circumstance or environment, you are not blessed by God.

How you see God to be, you can have children in our world, as many children have been unloved by your world, but are loved deeply by ours. He yearned from a family, The family will be there. We forget about pain and frustration. We only know happiness. So may fit if a child was not drawn breath, it draws breath within our world and will always claim you to be their mother and father. Is that pleasing for you?

It is thank you. I have a question from another mom that is with us here and we trust that you are well. Yes, thank you, she says. Is it true that if someone when they die, they carry the last emotion to their next life? And she goes on, If it is true, what can we do to relieve our child if he has died by suicide due to the feelings of hopelessness and distress. We do not want them to carry this burden into the next life. How can we help them? What a very kind question and

a very thoughtful question. And may I to all of you. What seems to hold them deeply today is forgotten tomorrow. What seems to be so hard and weary is nothing. When you come to our side of life as what way have played, the mind and the body is instantly wiped away. It is like, my friends, if you dream and you know you have dreamt, but when you wake, what seems so held you in that dream is forgotten. You know you have dreamt that you can't remember it.

So when the child comes to our side of life, or any person that may have come by the act of their own hand, be through circumstance or situation, that is wiped away, it is wiped away. My friends, well, seems to be the distraction then is no more, for when they come across the stream, there is someone there that they recognize that is giving them love and encouragement. If they are to turn and to face and say

where has everyone gone? There are others who will educate and share with them in the most sympathetic manner and say, your life on earth has come to its end, But you continue, do you not? And of course if a mother and father is in distress, we will try our best to then calm the mind, and the one you have loved and miss will draw close to you and try to calm the situation, but they themselves will not feel distressed. We're going to take a quick break. We'll

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of Scott Milligan. When you look upon this matter, that the situation that has caused such distress has led them to the path of taking their own existence. Their pain has ended, and they pass it to the family that is left behind. And these are the ones we try to give as much support and healing to as no

one wishes to receive that gift. If, my friends, that you are listening to these words and seems familiar on your journey, If you could master the strength to silence your mind and speak to those who have gone and say in your own way, I don't know why, but I love you. And to think of your children and those who have gone, not by the act of what took them, but to go back into happier times, to remember them when there was smiles and laughter, when their

memories are strong. It will be a breath of the fresh air. But all of you need as grief seems to smother and become statement, and we wish you to breathe deeply. The way of honoring is by sharing with others who may be fragile at this moment or walking through hell like you have done, to say that they are not alone. There is so many unanswered questions, and one we hear quite often, what if don't punish yourselves,

my friends, don't punish yourselves. There are acts that are done, situations that cannot be changed, but we can always support others. And once again I will say to all of you, if someone comes to our side of life through situations like I have described, whatever has led them to that point, like alment, is instantly forgotten when they find strength and when they are more robust, if they wish to ask questions.

There are many of my world who are seasoned and skilled in speaking back to them in a manner that causes no distress. What one feels they have missed in this world they find in ours. Is that pleasing for you? Yes, thank you, Eric. We have our friendlike here. Hello, Hello Sandra, hell my boy. I trust that you out there. I'm as well as can be expected. Thank you. Eric. And my daughter Beth, transitioned by suicide be two years in March.

Her nana and granddad are still with us at the moment, and they seem to be experiencing a lot of visitations at the moment. They're both in their eighties. They seem convinced at the moment they're feeling her presence. And when one of those things is they can smell her perfume. I just wondered, is there a reason do you think, asking Eric, that they seem to be more receptive at the moment. Is it is it their house? Is it their time of life that they can maybe feel better

around them? Well, my fame, they may say this to you. There any time that anyone becomes aware of our world is a time of celebration. It then allows someone to understand that death has not ended. It is only transform that may I say this to you that your daughter, I don't like shortened in name, should know my friend not but love everyone. And of course, my friend, you have the opportunity, as we have discussed on numerous occasions,

of speaking to our world. The extended part of her family may find this form of communication slightly different, and

therefore they may wish to experience the doctor, not the messenger. So, my friend, I say this to you, do not concern yourself at the moment that you think that certain members of your family may be drawing to the end of that journey or become a more sensitive true situation, concern yourself this my friend, but maybe more of your family should be aware that your dear child wants to love everyone, and when they speak of her, they speak of the

happiness that she brought into their lives. But is it not wonderful, my friend, that your daughter has found the strength to make others aware. We just need to then strengthen you, my boy, m so from your experiences, when you wish to write the story of how you have through this, you can write it with confidence to know that your doctor writes with you, so that any other person that may be experiencing the pain can read through your words and understand the death will not silence and

death is not the end of everyone. But there is more life, but in a different manner. Your words are so true, Eric, with the love of your dear daughter to every one of her family. She is there with you and with everyone. If that is pleasing for you, my boy, as always, thank you, Eric, you are indeed most welcome by then. Thank you, Mike, Thank you Eric. Eric. We have two ladies, Uh, I'd like to kind of combine the question because they're very similar. They're having a

tough time and both out well, yes, thank you. Okay, This one says I have been really down. I do not feel fulfilled with work or with my husband, and I have this extreme feeling to leave my family and to quit my job. How can I overcome this feeling of dread? I want to be happy, but I can't seem to overcome this. And the other fine lady is dealing with the fear of the future. Well, my friend, if one chooses to take that step, that is your choice.

But from an old dead man, I say, before you take that step, take a breath, and maybe honest stay is the tonic to this situation. For if you are an apt pit, then we must discuss why you are unhappy. Running away from situations may not be the wisest choice, but honesty can be painful, but it can also be healing that certain members of your family may be blissfully unaware that you feel such dread at this moment, but

a simple conversation may cause a reaction for healing. This time of year is often the thought of our world where we give the most deepest suppont that you have had the festival of light, and now you seem to slip back into darkness. So, my friend, a wiser person would say, you can run you can hide or having you not run and hid unto my your ready. If you hide, the world will miss you. Maybe we should have a conversation and say this is how I feel.

What would you wish for me to do? Then you hear their thoughts, and then you can say this is what I want to do. But take a breath before you react. Now you have made your thoughts audible to this gathering, and this gathering is here for healing, So healing will be shared to the one that fears what is to come. Fear will only create fear like fire, and fighting fire with fire only makes the greater fire. I have often said, and I will share it with you.

If we were to tell you what is to come, will you run towards it or run away from it? The situation that is facing you. It is only because you are as sensitive it seems to grip you more than others. To have time for contemplation, but also to give your love to the world in the form of the healing bond that you can offer will start to

dampen the fires, and peace will come. Your world is changing, Thank god, it is for if you are to look back, did your world not see war famine, disease, finance, corruption, segregation. This situation has brought all of you together. We just hope that should man, that Biden's together and chose to change your path to give love to the earth, respect to one another. Of course, you don't have to love them, You just have to respect them, to respect all life.

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Sandra Champagne. Welcome back to Shades of the Afterlife. I'm Sandra Champlain and we're listening to Eric through the trans mediumship of Scott Milligan. No one's born bad to know. It is something they grow into and we pray they grow out of. So let's not fear tomorrow sorrow. Let's

live for today. Then tomorrow won't seem so overbearing. But you can make yourself a promise that you will think of ten things that is positive, and then if you find the strength when you find your ten things at three more, then you can say what you're thankful for. The root of all unrest can be greed. I want more and I don't care who I stand on for it. That is not the way to live. It is to give everyone the opportunity for Was it not said to break bread with my brother to give love to each

of you. You may not receive it back, but your soul has given it. It is up to them how they take it. Is that pleasing for them? Thank you very much? Yes, Eric right starts to fade from me. Let us continue. All right, very good. Well, we have a friend here. I'm going to ask a question on her behalf, and I trust that they are well. Yes, thank you, she says. I often speak to the spiritual world, especially to my stepfather. Do they always hear us when

we are talking to them? Well, my friend, this brings amusement to me because I will ask you when you speak to each other in your well? Do you always listen to every world? Even though you may hear them? But do you accept them? Do you digest them? Do you respond to them? In our well, we hear your thoughts, We feel your love, so, my friend, I say, we do become receptive to it, but it's down to the

individual if they wish to respond to it. What I mean by that, my friend, if you think of myself, or indeed of a family member, no matter if they are your step or your birth they still have loved you. If you think of them strongly, there is a light that catches our attention. We know you're thinking of us. We may be inquisitive to find out why you're thinking of us. Oh, we just simply smile and continue our duty. But we respect that you have given us thought and

in return, we give you love. If you ask Young Daniel of his opinion, he often speaks that mother in laws seemed to be the ones that don't get spoken to so often, but they just simply wish to love and wish the best for all, as you are all children. You may then become a mother or a father, or you may become a husband and a wife, and then a mother, a father, father in law, and so on and so far. These other titles continue to get added to,

but the love is still there. It is funny now I speak of young Dan and he's chomping at the bit to speak, and I said no, he's trying to interrupt me. And I say this, I paid no attention to his faults. He thinks of me, I do not think of him at this moment. It is only when I relinquished control then we can have a proper conversation. I have often said I am the voice of many, but you say it is my thoughts, it is our faults.

Every thought is heard if it chooses. It seems to be my friends, that we are able to hear you more clearly then you can hear us. So you may not hear our words, but you may see our influence as you walk through your day. We may draw our attention to a sound, a vision, an experience which fan promotes a thought or a memory. It has a chain reaction. So, my friend, when you say, does he hear me? Of course he does. Do you become aware of him? I hope you do. Is that pleasing for our friend? Yes?

Thank you, Eric, I would take one more inquiry, Okay, I'll also read this question from a friend who's with us. I trust that they are well. Yes, thank you. The question is my older brother passed at three months old before I was born. I had told my mother of a specific memory that I had, and her reply was that happened when Michael was alive. You hadn't been born yet. Is it possible for me to have his memory? Oh? Of course, my friend, Remember, your prophet is within our world.

He wishes to share with his younger siblings of his life and experience. For when you come on Christmas morning, he would be there. Any experience of your world that brings your family together, he will be there. So he wishes to share with everyone. We must ask ourselves from that experience, did it then promote within Michael's mother's your mother's mind that Michael may live on, or has it convinced her saying, oh, my goodness, he must still be here,

instead of thinking he is not. Our world weaves thoughts through your reality continuously. Some of you are aware of it, some are not, and that is why many people sleep walk through their existence, not hearing the cause of our world. Do you think, my friends, when we are dead, we don't care, do you think? But when we are dead, we don't wish to be amongst you. Even though the

great vibrations that are wage are truly breath taken. We still love you, We still wish the best for you, and given the opportunities, we will still speak with you. Love will never die. The fire is too strong to be put out. Our love for you is the strongest wind that can blow. Our love for you is deeper than the ocean. It is older than the mountains. It is wiser than the sun. Our love for you know snow limits. Love you have for us and for each

other is truly breath taking. We will always share with you as often as we can, and your experience of your brother plants with the minds of those He must still be here, and here he is what a wonderful time you will have. You know, when you come to our side of life, I wonder what profolity is experiences you'll have. It will be truly an amazing experience when you are equal, when you can see one another, here one another, hold one another. No matter what age one was,

always be older. Some may say maybe a little wiser, But my friends, you are stronger together. Love, as I have said, is a threat that will never be severed. It will only bind you as we have started this day. Some of you may be strangers as we leave as friends. Some of you will still fill the pinch of what

has happened. But upon this promise we give all of you that our world will continue to give the rays of healing through others and through yourselves, as it is a promise that we have made, a promise that we keep for all life to fill the love and wisdom of a turn of day. Good day to you, my friends. Well, I sure do hope that his words made as big a difference with you as they do with me. Like I said, for almost the past two years we've been having a conversation with Eric. He never misses a beat.

He'll answer any question you give with dignity and respect and kindness and love. So join us any time. Also come to our Sunday gathering. It's free where you get to witness the mediumship demonstration right in our zoom meeting, and it's filled with inspiration and hope and to us all good things. So I'm really happy that I was brave and just shared this with you today. Our home

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