SexTalk - Black Kink in SA
How widely spread is kink across different groups in South Africa, and how do traditional beliefs and attitudes influence this? The team speak to a black dominatrix and submissive.

How widely spread is kink across different groups in South Africa, and how do traditional beliefs and attitudes influence this? The team speak to a black dominatrix and submissive.
Why do we call it naughty, when it’s beautiful and fun and a celebration of our vitality? This week we’re having fun with sexuality, sex positions, tips, adventures, what’s new in the world of sexuality and more! Jaco, Lisa and Erika join the show… plus Chris Tokalon does sound effects.
In Tantra, sex is not just about our genitals, it’s the interplay of energies, the dance of love. The entire cosmos is making love all the time in this movement. Chris Tokalon is one of the most talented musicians in South Africa. He joins us as we look at sound healing, the juxtaposition of sound and silence, what a sound journey is, and some of the most amazing and fun things you can do with sound and voice.
Marie Stopes is working on a digital storytelling project which aims to address abortion stigma as the root of all the challenges faced in delivering safe, accessible abortion care. Jonti chats to Whitney Chinogwenya and Elna McIntosh about this important issue.
What happens at a sexual workshop? Jonti chats to Erika and Courtney, who were at the Waves of Pleasure retreat in Mozambique. Also, grab a mirror and learn how to get in touch with your genitals, and listen to their stories.
Sexual Choice - what does that really mean? Where are we making choices from, fear or love, consciousness or pattern, what are we choosing, and what do those choices say about us?
Jonti and team delve into 'Sex in the Arts' as they chat to Lerato Bereng from the Stevenson Gallery about their sex exhibition.
"Jessica" shares her healing journey, the impact it’s had on her life, what sexual healing means, the experiences she’s had, and how she’s come to see herself and relationships differently.
On this edition, the Sextalk team speak all things masturbation. Where did it come from, how did it start? How can you have more pleasure with your own body, masturbation for meditation and healing, and can masturbation be sacred?
What is Tantra and Conscious Sexuality? Where does it come from and what are the different streams of Tantra? Sexual energy is a force that can be used for healing, creativity, meditation, being present... as well as it being a spiritual connection. Jonti Searll and special guest Valentina Love share some simple ideas on how to have a Tantric experience.
Jonti Searll gives you a mini-master class in the art of making love to a woman. Together we discover exactly what love making is, where sensuality comes into play, the different aspects of sex and most importantly, we find out what it is that women really want!
South Africa’s premier improv. group Jittery Citizens along with comedian Dusty Rich join Jonti Searll and his team for some comedy, rap, slam poetry and sexy fun. The sexy panel of personalities are also joined by some people from “down under”.
Is swinging better than having an affair? Listen in to get viewpoints from both sides!
Let’s have some fun with sex toys! Candace from Bella Rouge brings lots of interesting contraptions to spice up your sex life...
Does romance keep a relationship alive more than sex? Has technology somehow played a role in this? Have we become lazy and complacent? So many questions! Get the answers on this edition...
Regular show contributor Claudine Ullman and her fiance Dan Herman join Jonti and Tamar to discuss the Power of Curiosity and Vulnerability in Relationships, Sex and Life.
Did you know that there is no correlation between penis size and shoe size? Did you also know that circumcision has zero influence on sexual satisfaction? This edition of SexTalk is all about dispelling sexual myths that have held us back for generations.
It’s all about body retreats for women as Jonti Searll and the team chat with Pamela Madsen from America. Pamela is a veteran advocate, activist and educator who has worked with hundreds of women from age 22 to 75 to transform their relationship with their bodies and their understanding of sexuality.
Described as relational meditation, “circling” is a deep and powerful practice that brings the essence of meditation to interpersonal communication and contact. The team talks to Amy Silverman who’s here from New York to teach the practice of circling.
It's fingering Friday! Learn to do it right and make her squeal with delight… And if you want more nookie, make sure you know how to play with her cookie.
Talking about anal stimulation, anal penetration, anal toys, meditation through anal massage and more! Also don’t miss the regular Dirty Dictionary and Real Sex Story features.
Inspired by the current openness of racial conversations and looking at our own beliefs and prejudices, Jonti Searll asks – “Why are we not having the same discussions about sexual and gender issues?” He and the team look at how important these conversations are to have, how all of this is linked to social transformation and what issues arise from not having these conversations. Joining them for this discussion is Christopher Smith.
The sexuality of dolphins can be as interesting and complex as that of humans. Courtney Ward joins the team and tells you all about it, along with Claudine Ullman from Jittery Citizens Improv. It’s definitely an interesting edition!
Male underwear is a billion Dollar business, with new styles and fabric constantly emerging. We pay so much attention to lingerie, why is male underwear not sexy? Can men buy underwear to turn women on? Find out!
The sex talk team explores Self-Pleasuring and why it's so important. They share tips on how to expand the way you pleasure yourself and have more intense orgasms.
Looking at the medical aspects, women coming into wisdom, the sexual power, the role of the G-Spot etc. Joining Jonti Searll for this discussion is Dr Tlaleng Mofokeng, a GP working in sexual and reproductive health.
It's the first edition of SexTalk for 2016! Join the team as they share tips and advice on how you can have more sex and pleasure in 2016? They also touch on sex in reality versus sex in porn, as well as the realities of dating sites.
This edition of SexTalk is an extended holiday special. Expect some comedy with Claudine Ullman from Jittery Citizens Improv, a chat with Paige Nick, an interview with a swinging couple and so much more...
What does sexual healing mean, what does it involve, how does it connect to the rest of our lives? Jonti Searll and the rest of the SexTalk team discuss these issues and so much more...
The team chats about exploring and appreciating your partner's body. Find out which toys for sexy time are easy to pack for your next holiday. They also share tips, advice and adventures to make your holiday hot, exciting and sexy.