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Sexplanations Podcast

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Dr. Lindsey Doe, clinical sexologist and host of the YouTube show Sexplanations, chats with special guests about the fascinating and hilarious world of sex.
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Episode 34: IT’S LIKE BIRTH CONTROL FOR HIV with prevention educator Jennie Zundel

On the Sexplanations YouTube channel there are three episodes about HIV which I’m really proud of. As someone who served as the the HIV prevention coordinator of an AIDS council doing what I can to encourage that people get tested and protect themselves is important to me. To revisit those episodes on the podcast I invited Jennie who does a version now of what I did ten years. She walks us through the latest on prevention, discusses some of the misinformation still being passed around, and gives...

Feb 19, 201840 min

Episode 33: I REMEMBER WHEN SEXPLANATIONS STARTED introducing our sound engineer Callie

Callie does all the recording and editing of the Sexplanations Podcast and does it well. I'm pleased to sit down with her in the studio and record our getting to know each other, to have a none work conversation about allies, orientations, sex education, religion, love, and elevator Kegels. Turns out Callie is a sex-positive Ravenclaw with a great outlook on romantic relationships and a strong value for personal choice -- my kind of person. To support Callie and me in making this show possible p...

Feb 09, 201845 min

Episode 32: NEVER WORRIED ABOUT YOUR ETERNAL DAMNATION with my chosen sister Jamie

The fact is the audience of Sexplanations has consistently been amazing. When we started fundraising for the show, to create something sustainable, you were onboard right away to see that this never had to be a financial or professional burden for me. Jamie who is today's co-host and I witnessed from the beginning your outpour of support and generosity. We cheered for you as you cheered for us. We built care packages for you together and organized your messages and questions so we could show our...

Feb 03, 201847 min

Episode 31: IF IT'S COMING FROM ALL DIRECTIONS starring my long-time crush Jeff

Description: The topic is pulling out --withdrawing the penis before ejaculation -- but the take-home message Jeff wants you to have is "don't fuck Trump supporters!" We discuss our best and worst experiences, bukkake snorkeling, "getting caught", and responsible lessons on STI prevention. SEXTRA CREDIT: In the coming week help your partner get off or get yourself off as often as you can. Identify the point of no return and the length of time until climax.

Jan 30, 201844 min

Episode 30: JUST BE FUCKING HUMAN with erotica voice performer Lou Winkler

Louey first heard my voice orgasming in the apartment below his in 2002. We became friends. He asked me to perform in a sensual silent film he made for film school. I asked him to photograph a 1000 sex positions for an online course I was writing. We taught at the same university. We picked apples together for cider. We drove five hours with our partners to the hot springs. We took another road trip to swing dance. I was around when he took a job with Complexly to work on the SciShow team. He ch...

Jan 16, 201844 min

Episode 29: OUR FRIENDSHIP IS A BENEFIT OF SEX determined by Peter Musser

I invited sex geek, former Navy, soon-to-be librarian, and dear friend Peter to talk with me about the benefits of sex. It turns out there isn't just a health list of benefits, so much more of our lives have been beneficially impacted thank goodness! In this episode Peter and I talk about our meet cute. We discuss leftover sperm in the urethra and review a past episode of the Sexplanations YouTube channel. What's the drill metaphor? Do the benefits of sex outweigh the disadvantages? Are we going...

Jan 09, 201849 min

Episode 28: LEARNING ABOUT DILDOS BY SUSPENDING THEM IN JARS OF SCIENCE with Kenton of Funkit Toys

Kenton founded Sex Geekdom in the DC area, he revolutionized the sex toy industry, and when asked what his future goals are they mainly consist of supporting other creators. What a cool guy! In this conversation I get to learn about Kenton's manufacturing process, how to stimulate the A-spot, and whether or not silicone on silicone is problematic. It's sex geeky and I love it! To learn more about Kenton check out https://www.funkittoys.com/ and to get monthly toys sign up for his Patreon at http...

Jan 03, 201848 min

Episode 27: I'LL KEGEL THAT T-SHIRTS designed with Shande Wiest

In this episode we start talking about building sex toys and sex shows. Then we go into vibrators versus dildos, Kegels, rainbows, pornography, sexual ethics, a review of Dan Savage's Hump Fest, and our thoughts on sanitation and blood play. I'm grateful that Shande took time with me to explore my sexual curiosities and share her's with me. Sextra Credit: Unlock your clit, unlock your mind To support future episodes of Sexplanations: patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast To acquire the FunkitToys we ...

Dec 24, 201749 min

Episode 26: BEING SEXUALLY ORIENTED TOWARD CURIOSITY with my crush Lauren Marie Fleming

Lauren is an author and body positive activist. She's an educator and a powerhouse woman who knows how to motivate people to be their best selves. We met years ago at a sex conference and I wanted to check-in, how is she doing, what have we learned? We discuss sapiosexuality, love after death, journaling, self care, and the pronunciation of Kegels. And Lauren generously has a giveaway for you -- a copy of her book Bawdy Love: 10 Steps to Profoundly Loving Your Body and a spot in her course Journ...

Dec 18, 201747 min

Episode 25: ON CONSENT AND CUDDLING with my daughter Des

My 17 year old daughter generously sat down with me to talk about consent -- her personal experiences with it, humor of it, nonverbal versions, and how to respond to rejection. We talked about her thoughts on the Dear Boy Who Likes My Daughter episode, how she perceives my romantic relationships, what makes a good cuddle partner, and being resourceful after trauma. There's laughing and crying and lots of proud mama. To support Sexplanations podcast, please visit: https://www.patreon.com/sexplana...

Dec 08, 201747 min

Episode 24: PASSING AROUND THE ORGASM BALL with my friend of 17 years Erik Berke

Why not take two episodes of Ask Lindsey sex questions from the Sexplanations' YouTube show and ask my friend how he'd answer. Erik and I met in college and have been friends since our freshman year. He's a smoke jumper who lunges out of planes to fight fires. I'm a sexologist who tells people online about my orgasms. Our answers are practically the same. *wink* Actually, Erik's might be better. He brings a beautiful point of view to the conversations of attraction, consent, and romance. His pro...

Dec 01, 201742 min

Episode 23: ASEXUALITY, ZEDSEXUALITY, ZUCCHINIS, & AMATANORMATIVITY with sexicon expert Ash Hardell

Ash is one of my teachers, author of the book The ABCs of LGBT+, and incredibly thoughtful vlogger. I think the world of Ash and I'm so grateful to share their knowledgeable and caring mind with you. In this episode we 'ace' a trivia quiz on asexuality and talk about a least a dozen new terms related to identity and sexual expression. To follow Ash on YouTube check out: https://www.youtube.com/user/HeyThere005/videos

Nov 27, 201751 min

Episode 22: WHAT'S MY BODY DOING with the up-and-coming Eva

Eva has a sex education YouTube channel she's built from the ground up. No Green-Brothers golden ticket for her. She's doing it and she's doing it well! In this episode we talk about our favorite sex things, how we're both nerdy in our collection of sexual objects. It's a shout-out to this episode of the Sexplanations YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IpWn6Hf_5OI

Nov 20, 201738 min

Episode 21: SEX MANUALS & BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS with author and sex ed vlogger Hannah Witton

It's time to revisit sex book recommendations and I thought "Hannah Witton" of course! She recently published her book Doing It and heads up the Banging Book Club that group reads sex books and reports back via the internet. In many ways Hannah is the go-to person for sex book recommendations. In this episode of the Sexplanations Podcast she reads an excerpt from her book and gives us some ideas about what other helpful resources there are topic of sexuality, one of our favorite topics.

Nov 11, 201744 min

Episode 20: IS IT C-U-M or C-O-M-E with the ever so wonderful Dr. Aaron Carroll

I love hanging out with Aaron. He's smart and easy-going, he's a great conversationalist, and values not doing harm. In just shy of an hour I asked him some of your sex questions and tested his knowledge. He passed with flying colors, of course. What a great feeling to hear about sex positivity in the medical field and learn the doctor's thoughts on somewhat controversial topics such as aphrodisiacs, circumcision, and testing protocol.

Oct 30, 201738 min

Episode 19: WHAT'S THIS HUMP with Stevie Boebi

Stevie Boebi is a popular YouTuber based in Los Angeles. She came to visit me in Missoula, Montana and I asked her to talk with me about sexual injustices. In her words everything about her life is political because she identifies as a lesbian, and so there are a lot of injustices: sex education, relationships, advertising, and the media. Check out her channel youtube.com/stevie and keep learning.

Oct 23, 201749 min

Episode 18: WHAT ABOUT THE MYERS-BRIGGS OF SEXUALITY featuring Ashe

While re-visiting Sexplanations' discussion of Alfred Kinsey's scale of sexual orientation it becomes increasingly apparent how out-dated the model is. Join Ashe and Lindsey as they unpack the textbook charts of sexual orientation and flop around designs of their own ideas. A dot in space, a code, a name, nothing at all? What will become of the words homosexual and heterosexual? Are they presently accurate? What's a better replacement?

Oct 13, 201747 min

Episode 17: I REMEMBER WHEN MS. CAME OUT co-hosted by Anne Harris

Heterosexuals were by definition the original perverts which is why I invited poly-pan-trans-grandma Anne to share her thoughts on all things sexual and gender oriented. Are homosexuals really heterosexuals? Is it too much to change a person's pronouns? What does industry have to do with labels? Does anyone on the Sexplanations Podcast not do Kegels when I start talking about the Main Squeeze? My follow-up questions after talking with Anne: who determines which language is political correct? Wha...

Oct 06, 201752 min

Episode 16: WE ALL RUBBED IT ON THE FLOOR with the wicked smart and handsome Michael Beers

I asked Michael to hang out with me because he's quick-witted and endearing and all sorts of lovely qualities. My goal was to talk about dry humping, which we did, but we also got to delve into one of my deepest passions -- sex and disabilities. I learned about sex in the desert, how willing I am to divulge details about my personal life, and how orgasmic things can get if you really do the Main Squeeze every week.

Sep 30, 201738 min

Episode 15: IS MASTURBATION IN THE BIBLE??? with Dr. Doe's uncle Pastor Keith

If you're typically frustrated or even outraged by religion you might enjoy learning that there are clergy members out there with the same emotions. My uncle is a minister in rural Kansas. He believes in Jesus Christ, he believes in waiting until marriage to have sex, and he reads about religion as much as a I read about sexuality. In this episode I get to have a very loving and gentle conversation with him about masturbation, anal sex, homosexuality, sin, grace, and judgment. We laugh, he tears...

Sep 25, 201755 min

Episode 14: COINING "GOMORRAHY" with comic edutainer Charley Macorn

Charley identifies as non-binary. Lindsey loves words. Together the two of them go through sex terms they've heard of and ones that are new all the while making up their own language for the gaps in language. To follow along with the original Sexplanations video episode where Lindsey sings Red Rhapsody visit: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-54bcNJOIYc&t And to support our unscripted educational conversations, please become a sexpla(i)naut at patreon.com/sexplanationspodcast.

Sep 18, 201745 min

Episode 13: "SO THIS VENTRILOQUIST..." with delightfully curious co-host Sarah Aswell

Sarah Aswell is one of the leading ladies in our local comedy scene and a captivating freelance writer. She sat down with me and we got to talk about being orgasmic, whether or not vaginal orgasms are real, what suggestions we have for people with anorgasmia, our thoughts on vibrators, our thoughts on food, and how not all of orgasm's history is as good as they feel. Sextra Credit: Talk to others about orgasming nonchalantly and draw vulvas on the windshields of your car's dirt. Or not, we're al...

Sep 08, 201747 min

Episode 12: PURPLE VAGINAS with guest co-host Michael Aranda

Michael Aranda is curious. He wants to know why he has two testicles instead of one or three. He wants to know why biosex females are more likely to experience a sex flush than biosex males. Why does his erection look different than an Chinese heuristic? But Dr. Doe can't convince him to investigate the change in color of vaginas. Keep learning with us. Ancora imparo.

Sep 01, 201750 min

Episode 11: ETHICAL SLUTTERY with sex educator extraordinaire Reid Mihalko

This consensual conversation about sex includes correlations between sex and college, how throws play parties, what asking for what you want sexually can look like, and pubic muscle building. Sextra Credit: 1) Learn the Inverted Vulcan by going to reidaboutsex.com/vulcan and sign up for Reid's newsletter to get a free video about how to perform the Inverted Vulcan. 2) Share this episode of the podcast with a friend

Aug 25, 201748 min

Episode 8: PUT A FINGER ON IT featuring Matthew Gaydos

Clinical sexologist Dr. Doe gets the giggles listening to the producer of Sexplanations, Matthew Gaydos, answer your sex questions. Sextra Credit: Answer the questions yourself. Q: What does "sexually active" mean? Q: Who do you have sex with? Q: Is there something people do in their sex lives that they think is good but you think is dysfunctional? Q: How do I get my sex drive back? Q: How can I learn about sexuality without experimenting? Q: Can you explain asexuality? Q: Does anyone else think...

Aug 07, 201748 min

Episode 6: KAMA SUTRA OF SPACE featuring Hank Green

Would you put your sperm under a microscope? What are you thoughts on porn? How about masturbating in the Oval office? Hank Green of SciShow, CrashCourse, VidCon, and Vlogbrothers shares his answers with doctor of human sexuality and host of Sexplanations Lindsey Doe. Please leave your comments and questions for future episodes. Ancora imparo -- I'm still learning.

Jul 22, 201754 min
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