On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by Stephanie Keating from We-Vibe to talk about how you can add a little variety to your bedroom. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. The two talk about the ins and outs of app controlled sex toys – and why they’re a great pleasure investment. Plus, advice on what to do when you like a coworker, they like you back, but they’ve never had a same-sex relationship, how to be more romantic in the bedroom, and ways to find a partner that al...
May 05, 2020•37 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by Dr. Hernando Chaves to talk about sexual anxieties men have, and what to do about it! Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. The two discuss what to do when your penis isn’t performing how you want it to, and how to get on the same sex page as your partner, especially during quarantine. Then, Dr. Emily gives advice on different ways of looking at your partner’s foot fetish, what to do when you used to live a nudist lifestyle, but you ...
May 01, 2020•48 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is bringing you some more sex in the news updates because information is the name of the game right now. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. She gives you the lowdown on what researchers think being quarantined is going to do for higher or lower birth rates, affairs, if couples will make it through, and how stress is affecting other people’s sex lives. Plus, she gives advice on what to do when you started sleeping with your roommate and it was ...
Apr 29, 2020•41 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by sex educator and writer Gigi Engle to talk about her book, All the F*cking Mistakes – and how you can feel comfortable being the amazing, sexual being you are! Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. They discuss ways to get past the shame and stigma around sex that society, friends, and family may have put on you, with awesome some sexting tips that will have you tingling in your fingertips. Plus, advice on what to do when your partne...
Apr 28, 2020•56 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by certified dating coach and host of the “Dates & Mates” podcast Damona Hoffman to talk about dating in this new time we find ourselves in and how to do it right! They discuss where to start when it comes to dating online for the first time, how to keep a virtual relationship going once you’ve met someone you like, and ways to go deeper with your conversations, beyond the typical small talk. Plus, if you’re already in a relationship, how to “keep dating”...
Apr 24, 2020•52 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you some sex in the news updates that may just help you in your home – and your bedroom – during quarantine. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. She gives some tips on how not to hate your partner since being cooped up together, whether or not video dating will become the new norm – and what to do if your partner isn’t into the steamier side of Facetime. Plus, some steps to take to improve your overall confidence after a breakup. Foll...
Apr 22, 2020•48 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by certified urologist Dr. Edward Karpman and we are pertaining to all your penile needs – taking calls and giving you the hard facts – because most of us could use some penile focus. They discuss what may be causing your ED and what you can do about it, what the heck is a cock shocker, and how does it improve your sexual functioning, and a little insight on the foreskin debate. Plus, some of the most interesting things that have been requested in a urologist...
Apr 21, 2020•52 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by licensed therapist Vanessa Marin to talk about the different sex personality types and how you can use them to your advantage! They discuss what the most popular sex personality types are and what to do when you and your partner don’t match up, how body image affects men, women, and anyone in between – with some tools to gain confidence, and ways COVID-19 has been affecting relationships. Plus, how couples who lack compatibility can actually grow to be mor...
Apr 17, 2020•47 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about how to have vacation sex… at home! Especially if upcoming travel had to be delayed, we still deserve those breaks. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. She gives you some ways to turn your home and bedroom into a quaint little vacation spot – including ideas to keep your kids preoccupied! Plus, advice on what to do when Facetime isn’t your thing, but you have no choice but to date from home, and how to deal with quarantine takin...
Apr 15, 2020•49 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by marriage and sex therapist Jamye Waxman to talk about how partners can connect better while quarantining at home. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. The two practice some exercises you can do with your partner to help you feel more present and grounded, as well as some ways to lessen your porn usage if it’s become a problem in your relationship. Then, Emily gives advice on going from a BDSM relationship into a vanilla one, and wha...
Apr 14, 2020•49 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by psychological astrologer Dr. Jen Freed to talk about your astro sex forecast – masturbation edition! Because we all have a lot of time on your hands right now, literally. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. They discuss the masturbation techniques to add to your repertoire based on your sign – either way, it’s new ways to explore yourself. Then, Dr. Emily gives advice on the right kinds of lube for “easier access,” where to find po...
Apr 09, 2020•50 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by founder of Back to the Body sensuous retreats Pamela Madsen to talk about the retreat that she actually went on! The two discuss how to have one way touch and not feel guilty about it, give a little lesson in practicing “outercourse,” and a few fun and sexy games to do at home that will definitely spice things up in the bedroom as well as feeling some untapped pleasure. Plus, Dr. Emily shares her own personal experience doing the retreat! Follow Emily on a...
Apr 08, 2020•47 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by founder of Love, Amy – a dating concierge service – Amy Nobile to talk about ways we can continue to date and connect – even while doing it virtually! They give their best tips for your dating profile – down to the specific types of photos to use, ways you can learn to flirt and banter (with a little bit of sexting tips), and why FaceTime dates are great during quarantine, but are also a wonderful idea to vet your potential dates once we can stop social di...
Apr 07, 2020•44 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you a sexy dose of love in the time of coronavirus. Right now, things are very uncertain, but what we are certain about is the people who love us – our friends, family, and partners – so she’s here to give you some peace of mind on how to use this time to your advantage. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. She breaks down why there’s no better time than the present to get some self-love exploration on – or connect with your partner, t...
Apr 03, 2020•45 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by TV personality and host of the limited podcast series “ Dying for Sex ” Nikki Boyer – and they’re talking about how, even when things seem grim, it can actually spark a sexual awakening. Plus, the doc answers your sex & relationship questions. The two discuss why during times of uncertainty – a sexual awakening can do wonders for your self-esteem, and while you can’t really go out and date right now – hopefully some inspiration to open your mind to new...
Apr 01, 2020•42 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by one of America’s leading psychiatrists Dr. Daniel Amen to talk about how to keep our brains healthy and our relationships strong during this strange time of “sheltering in place.” The two give you a lesson in active listening – from talking to your kids to talking to your partner, ways to improve your executive functioning from home – your memory, motor skills, and everything that makes us go, and why the only organ where size matters is… the brain! Plus, ...
Mar 31, 2020•37 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is giving you a mash-up of interviews to give you some ways to de-stress, have more sex, and feel a little better mentally and physically. She wants all of you to have the tools to keep your mind strong so your body can stay strong. Among the discussions, why meditation can help you be a better partner and lover – in and out of the bedroom, how setting intentions for your sex life can help immensely when it comes to actually improving it, and ways being mindful and con...
Mar 27, 2020•57 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about how to take off the rose colored glasses and see the signs of toxic relationships – as well as answering your sex & relationship questions. Especially with the current climate, you want to really think about the people in your life and if they are serving a purpose for you. She dissects the TV Show “You” and how people can easily fall for manipulation in relationships, a thoughtful convo on getting out of a bad situation romantically, and what to d...
Mar 25, 2020•38 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by Dr. Lanae St. John – a sex educator & intimacy coach – to talk about her new book READ ME: The Parental Primer on “The Talk” – to help all of you parents out there have the right terminology and knowledge to talk to your kids about sex, intimacy, and relationships. They discuss the 5 Building Blocks of Healthy Sexuality and how to properly talk about all five – especially when your kids are at different ages – in ways they can understand. This show giv...
Mar 24, 2020•1 hr
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by master certified life coach Kara Loewentheil to talk about her podcast, Unf*ck Your Brain , and how women can be empowered without feeling completely anxious all the time. They discuss what thought work is and how it can help you have a better outlook on your mental health and how you see yourself, some healthier ways to connect our thoughts to our emotions, and how kink is actually a great way to practice thought work in the bedroom. Plus, why you can’t j...
Mar 20, 2020•55 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about “imposter syndrome,” what it is, and how that may be affecting your relationships. Plus, she answers your sex & relationship questions. She gives insight on why some of us feel we’re “imposters” when it comes to work, love, and friendship – when really, it’s just anxiety. Plus, advice on what to do when your partner has a touch of performance anxiety, how to bring up an open relationship to your partner, and whether or not there’s a magic sex numbe...
Mar 16, 2020•31 min
On today’s throwback podcast, Dr. Emily, along with Anderson, is giving you the tips you need for your sexual debuts! That’s right, this show from the SWE Vault is all about having sex for the first time. The two try to squash any qualms you first-timers may have around sex – from technique to what to expect to how to do it safely. Plus, innovations on period sex and an explanation of how “manspreading” might actually help you in the dating game. Who knew? Follow Emily on all social @sexwithemil...
Mar 16, 2020•48 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by NY Times best selling author and host of the Genius Life podcast Max Lugavere to talk about his new book, The Genius Life & becoming the better, healthier version of you. They discuss the hyper-palatability of food addiction and porn addiction – and how they’re somewhat similar, ways artificial light is affecting our health and our bedroom activities, why it’s important to get the D – vitamin D that is, and ways making small improvements in all areas o...
Mar 12, 2020•39 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by author and filmmaker Tiffany Shlain to talk about her book, 24/6: The Power of Unplugging One Day a Week , and why this is important – not just from electronics – but from work, relationships, and whatever other stresses life throws at you. They discuss how taking a break from technology for one day isn’t as hard as it seems, the benefits of truly unplugging and reconnecting with your partner and family, and tips on having your own “tech shabbat” whether y...
Mar 10, 2020•51 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by comedian Margaret Cho to talk about sexuality, BDSM, and they’re making it fun. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. The two discuss sexuality as a spectrum – and how you may have moments of feeling everywhere from a-romantic to bisexual, plus a small BDSM breakdown as to why pain can be pleasurable. Plus, Emily gives advice on what to do when your partner’s new smoking habit is a complete turn off, and when your partner won’t say t...
Mar 06, 2020•47 min
On today's show, Dr. Emily is talking about what happens to your body when you run into an ex and a few reasons why people sext. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. She reveals why running into an ex causes you to go into fight or flight mode, reasons why people sext – and it’s not just because they’re horny, and what to do when you’ve gotten out of a sexless marriage and you ready for your sexual awakening. Plus, how to handle it when your partner thinks masturbation is...
Mar 04, 2020•41 min
On today's show, Dr. Emily is joined by Alice Vaughn & Yvette d'Entremont from “Two Girls, One Mic: The Porncast” to talk about the funnier sides of porn and the true entertainment aspects of it all. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. They talk about why porn can be great, when it’s too much, what you should be bringing into the bedroom, and what should stay on the screen, as well as the plot holes from porn parodies. Plus, Emily gives advice on what to do when Inst...
Mar 03, 2020•37 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by bestselling author and one of America’s leading psychiatrists Dr. Daniel Amen to talk about his book, The End of Mental Illness, why mental health needs to be rebranded as brain health – and how that change can alter how we see relationships. They discuss why looking more closely at the brain can severely help people get a better understanding into their own psyche and actual tools to heal, how trauma work like EMDR therapy can reprogram our brains to rele...
Feb 28, 2020•1 hr 5 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is talking about orgasm denial – what that means, and how can you use it to focus on all your pleasure. Plus, she’s answering your sex & relationship questions. She discusses what orgasm denial is and how can you make it super hot, some workarounds to having sex in public to satisfy your partner’s kink, and how to make pegging more enjoyable for the receiving partner. Plus, how to help support and deal with a partner who has sexual trauma. Follow Emily on all socia...
Feb 26, 2020•33 min
On today’s show, Dr. Emily is joined by writer and journalist Peggy Orenstein to talk about her new book, Boys & Sex and how we need to change the way we talk to and treat young men. They discuss why young boys and men feel like they’re so emotionally stunted, how “locker room” talk truly affects other people beyond the locker room, and why porn is causing an immense issue in developing healthy views on sex in young minds. Plus, how parents can be better emotional role models for their sons....
Feb 25, 2020•1 hr 14 min
