The iconic Porn Star Nina Hartley talks about making porn, feminism, non-monogamy, and how to give a woman the perfect hand job (there is some light pulling and pinching involved). Nina Hartley also talks boldly about the butt. Nina says, “Butts are like cats. They have to be coaxed and seduced every time. They are moody and you can’t fool a butt into liking you, or feeling relaxed. Butts know when the thing touching them is paying attention, or being a jerk.” In other words, if you want to get ...
Sep 19, 2013•1 hr 5 min
Things that I don’t tolerate and you shouldn’t either: cheaters, selfish lovers, and fake orgasms. Don’t fake orgasms! Don’t try to put on a sexy face and give a porn star moan when you don’t mean it. Instead of faking orgasms, find out how you can really enjoy sex. It helps if you have a tall, dark, and handsome companion, but you need to do the work on yourself to find out what feels good. Show him what you like, instead of putting on a show to satisfy his ego.How do you know if your boyfriend...
Sep 13, 2013•34 min
According to Loveline Host Mike Catherwood, real men give oral sex (if only all men shared Mike Catherwood's definition of a real men *sigh*). If you don't genuinely want to please women and you don't want to give them multiple orgasms, listen to another podcast! Real men: Don't become irrationally angry about their girlfriend's sexual history. Instead of obsessing about your partner's past sexual experiences, focus on making your present relationship pleasurable. Just like you've desired other ...
Sep 09, 2013•47 min
Female Ejaculation- it is intense and it is real. With your finger on her G-spot and your thumb on her clitoris, give her a crazy, squirting orgasm. I’ll tell you how to warm her up, find her G-spot, massage her G-spot, and pleasure her clitoris until she gets to the point of female ejaculation. Before I bequeath you with the secrets of female ejaculation, I give listeners advice on how to have the sex and relationships they want. I help: The guy who needs a new sex position. The husband who won...
Sep 05, 2013•44 min
Swingers Holli and Michael from Playboy Radio’s SWING share everything about living sexy— The swingers parties, dealing with jealousy, and of course the sex. Almost everyday someone asks me, "so what's the deal with swingers?" No, they don't all have ponytails, and they aren't all "crazy." Unless your definition of crazy is having open communication with your partner, and admitting that monogamy doesn't always work for you. Swingers put everything out in the open— they share their fantasies with...
Aug 31, 2013•1 hr 4 min
I'm answering Sex With Emily listener's relationship questions, with a few sex questions sprinkled in for good measure. In this show, Menace and I debate the male and female perspective on people's most common relationship issues. We tell you when to move on from an unhealthy relationship and when to stop licking your wounds in a bad breakup. We also teach how to have courage to change, and have better relationships. Sex with Emily listener's Relationship Questions: When should you let down your...
Aug 28, 2013•41 min
How does a porn star have sex when he's not on a porn set? Does he pump away for hours with his chiseled abs glistening with sweat? According to porn star Joey Ray, porn star sex isn't all it's cracked up to be. No one wants it to last that long, that hard. Porn focuses on performance, not pleasure. You might learn some fancy moves from porn, but you're not going to learn how to truly pleasure a woman. So, how do you please a woman? Ray is all about female pleasure. He talks about how to last th...
Aug 24, 2013•23 min
I get tons of sex questions in my inbox everyday. Trust me, everyone has their sex issues, from orgasming too soon to not orgasming at all. And let's be honest, you don't want to ask all your Facebook friends how you can go about losing your virginity (unless you get some takers). That's why I'm here to answer your biggest, most embarrassing, sex questions on my podcast. Sex Questions Answered Does penis size really matter? Is a big penis too much of a good thing? How do I brave his gargantuan p...
Aug 22, 2013•45 min
Anal Sex Month is here and I'm celebrating with a bunch of anal sex tips. If you're new to anal pleasure, this show will help you get comfortable with the idea of having something up your bum. Don't worry, it's not that scary. It's actually quite pleasurable if done correctly. Relaxation, lubrication, and communication are the three most important elements of anal sex. Although anal sex might not be the most peaceful activity, it will go a lot smoother if you move slowly and do it with someone y...
Aug 16, 2013•48 min
Let's talk about how to please a man in bed, because I'm always talking about how to give women orgasms. I know that making a man orgasm isn't exactly Rocket Science, but women could be a lot more creative with his penis. I interviewed the author of Tickle His Pickle, Sadie Allison, on how to please his pickle AKA his penis. Allison was the girl in her friend group that taught all her girlfriends how to have their first orgasm. Then she showed them the ropes on how to please a man in bed. Alliso...
Aug 11, 2013•48 min
Are you spanking, hair pulling, and nibbling your partner as much as you want? Or are you playing it safe, scared to reveal your true desires? Well, they probably don’t want to do it in the missionary position every single time either. Get some balls and talk to your partner about your sex life. Instead of proclaiming, “you don’t slap my butt enough” over tea and crumpets, have a casual conversation about sex. Calm down, take a deep breath, and share your desires with your partner. I’ll tell you...
Aug 03, 2013•41 min
I interviewed sex coaches Celeste and Danielle on how to have multiple orgasms. Because seriously who doesn't want to have multiple orgasms? If you want to give and receive multiple orgasms you have to work on your moves and your mental state. You can’t have one without the other, unless you’re one of those lucky women who orgasm while riding a bicycle. Many sexual problems stem from not telling your partner what you want. Sometimes you want to be cuddly and cute and other times you want to be t...
Jul 27, 2013•56 min
Signs you need to spice up your sex life: Your idea of a great night is watching TV and then doing it in missionary position, you haven’t had oral sex since your birthday, you don’t remember the last time you had sex, and you’re pretty sure the best sex of your life happened a long, long time ago. Well, don't despair, sex can get better over time. You can reignite the spark in your relationship if you’re proactive about your sex life. Your relationship isn’t going to magically transform overnigh...
Jul 26, 2013•37 min
A show on foreplay tips and getting married. Because nothing says commitment more than waiting a whole half hour before trying to take their clothes off. Emily interviews Alex Wellen, the author of LoveSick. Alex addresses the question, why don’t men want to tie the knot? Is it the daunting divorce rates or are they just scared of commitment? Emily and Alex discuss whether monogamy is even compatible with human nature. Do we really just want to get it on with everyone? People call into the show ...
Jul 18, 2013•1 hr
Emily gets up close and personal with The Vagina Lady. What’s the Vagina Lady's mission? To help women overcome any shame they experience for having a vagina. Women are extremely self-conscious about their, um, lady parts. They're so ashamed they don't even want to say the word vagina! But vaginas are awesome for so many reasons. I mean, they have about twice as many nerve endings as the penis. So the next time you feel like vaginas are the inferior genitals, just think about that! This podcast ...
Jul 15, 2013•23 min
Emily shows you how to tell his or her endearing flaws from dating deal breakers. It's easy to ignore the red flags and dating deal breakers when you're sipping on a Margarita and someone sexy is telling you about their summer villa. But the fact that they just got out and/or prison or keep staring at that bosom of the woman in the corner, is probably not a good sign for your future together. You're not going to be able to change anyone. People have to want to change on their own first. The only...
Jul 09, 2013•48 min
Emily explains how to navigate through all the online dating lies out there! If he seems too good to be true, he just might be. He's probably not as rich, handsome, tall and dapper as his profile suggests. Here's how to tell the online dating lies from the truth. Also, how to create your own amazing online profile without telling any online dating lies. Can men and women really be friends? Should you ever talk about your ex? Should you send a naked photo to someone? Do men care about lingerie? O...
Jul 02, 2013•44 min
The time has come to stop ignoring the balls! Emily shows you how to gently and lovingly caress him. Here's what you should and shouldn't do with the family jewels. Also, how to expand your sexual boundaries by pleasuring his taint! If you are interested in the family jewels and you want to change your love life, check out my good friends at: Crazy Girl , Masque , and Good Vibrations . Here's a special offer for you today: Emily25 at checkout for 25% off your purchase at Crazy Girl . And, even m...
Jun 23, 2013•16 min
Almost everyone is orgasm obsessed. But it's hard to enjoy everything else when all you're thinking about is getting to that wonderful feeling at the end. It's all about the journey! Stop obsessing about orgasms! Calm down, slow down and listen to these tips on how to enjoy sex more and yes, learn how to experience orgasms all around. Also, how long do you have to make out with her before you can touch her vagina? If you want to change your love life and are interested in how to give a woman an ...
Jun 21, 2013•48 min
You have about 30 seconds to get a woman's attention. Don't blow it! Have an amazing sense of humor and complete confidence. Or you can use Jason Capital's methods to attract women.... Dating coach Jason Capital shares how to be a combination of fun and challenging to attract women. If you don't spark an emotion in her she'll make up an excuse to get away from you as fast as possible. But if you become a playful naturally attractive man, women will want to be around you. You can learn how to be ...
Jun 17, 2013•48 min
The sun is shining, the flowers are blooming, and you’re getting it on in the backyard. Emily talks about having sex outside, whether you want to get down in the public bathroom or at the beach. Good luck not getting sand or dirt in your junk once you get off the beaten path! Emily talks about women who want sex more than men, because that actually happens all the time! Forget all the stereotypes about women not wanting sex. Also, how to keep an erection and how to get rid of your crazy ex. If y...
Jun 15, 2013•55 min
It might have happened once, but how do you have sex again? Emily asnwers the question: Why isn't she having sex with you anymore? Is it the teddy bear collection? Or is the sex just boring? Find out on today’s show. Emily also talks about how to keep the fire alive while living together and how to fight the urge to cheat. If you want to change your love life and are interested in how to have sex again, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl , Masque , and Good Vibrations . Use coupon code Emily25 at...
Jun 10, 2013•1 hr 1 min
Forget gluttony, sloth, and lust, if there’s seven things to avoid, it’s the seven deadly dating personalities. Emily shows you how to avoid cringeworthy dates. Also, why Emily goes stag to weddings, how women set the price of sex, sperm facts, and if sexting can make you a sex offender. Emily discusses why it’s riskier to send your man to a wedding than a bachelor party, fun tips for sex during pregnancy, the basics of tantric sex, and why we date people like our parents. Finally, as a big gift...
Jun 08, 2013•1 hr 2 min
It's time to play with breasts like a grown up (motor-boating being an often fun exception). Emily breaks down the do's and don'ts of playing with the breasts. Don't twist her nipples, slap her breasts, or jiggle them, unless that's what she wants. Why does this matter? If you do touch them the right way she could have a breast orgasm.Emily also analyzes emotionally detached men and gives advice to a virgin in need of some loving. Emily talks about how to get out of your shell and start meeting ...
Jun 03, 2013•1 hr 3 min
How do you know if someone wants your babies or if they just want to do it? Emily talks about casual relationships and the resurfacing guy or girl. You know, that one elusive guy/girl that texts you "Hey" out of the blue. How to change your expectations and come out on top in all your relationships. Then there's the guy who doesn't understand why his girlfriend doesn't explode with orgasms after a couple of thrusts. Women need clitoral stimulation and this podcast will show you how to give her w...
May 31, 2013•1 hr 2 min
It doesn't matter how big your penis is or how long you can last, if you don't know how to move those hips during sex! Emily shows you how to shallow thrust, swivel, and screw. Next, Emily explores some common questions from listeners: Is sex with a virgin hot? Does masturbation inhibit your ability to orgasm with your partner? Is 69ing too much work? And is paying for sex ever okay? Also, Emily reveals the “chin trick” for giving women amazing oral sex. If you're interested in learning how to m...
May 30, 2013•1 hr 2 min
Ease into teasing. Make sex a hundred times more satisfying by building up the tension until you can't stand it anymore. Emily shows you how to tease and please your partner. It's not a bad thing if they're begging you to do them already! Also, a criminal way to dispose of penises, erectile dysfunction drugs, Hitler’s connection to sex dolls, and Mormon soaking sex. If you're interested in learning how to tease and please and want to change your love life, check out my sponsors: Crazy Girl , Mas...
May 27, 2013•1 hr 3 min
In this "best of" episode, Emily navigates you through your love life from first date to the post-orgasm experience. She talks about the most popular dating ideas, a mathematical equation for good sex, and why some people black out from orgasms. Emily also shares the best and worst things to do right after sex. Why do women want to cuddle and guys just want to sleep post-orgasm? Emily asks everyone she knows the best sex tips they've ever given or received. Then she offers her own two cents on t...
May 23, 2013•1 hr 2 min
People are always asking Emily, “how do I get my wife to have sex with me?” Emily shares how to reignite the spark in your relationship (I hope you’re good at poll dancing!)... Emily and her cohost Menace discuss Facebook etiquette after a breakup and why self-love is the most important thing for your life (masturbation and loving yourself). Emily ends the show by breaking down the biggest dating mistakes people make, from talking about your past sexual partners to hooking up with a sibling of s...
May 22, 2013•1 hr 2 min
Missionary position is anything but mundane when her legs are flailing in the air and his penis is hitting all the right places. Emily breaks down variations of missionary to turn the ordinary position into an orgasmic position.Emily also shares secrets for picking up women in bars (none of them include buying her a drink right off the bat).Also, penis rings with spikes, glow in the dark condoms, and the Viagra condom.If you're interested in good clean sex and improving your sex life, check out ...
May 13, 2013•58 min
