Being HSV positive in the non monogamy community can come with a lot of fear, shame and stigma - and we want to change that! Normalizing this conversation within the Lifestyle needs to happen and we are happy to get the ball moving. If we had more knowledge on the topic and people felt safe, comfortable and accepted about sharing their positive diagnosis, it would be easier to discuss with partner(s) the proper precautions that can be taken to minimize the risks and relieve some concerns. This w...
Aug 29, 2019•1 hr 2 min
New relationships feel so good! You get those warm fuzzy feelings, butterflies in your stomach and you both want to bang each others brains out! Ahhh the feelings of new relationship energy! But what happens if you are in a non monogamous relationship? How does that work? New relationship energy is not immune to non monogamy - if anything, it is amplified! We were lucky enough to have the incredible Dr. Jess from Sex with Dr. Jess join us on today’s show to discuss the concept of new relationshi...
Aug 21, 2019•1 hr 6 min
Have you been thinking about attending Naughty in N’awlins? Wondering if it’s the right event for you? Then this show is for you! Two lovely first time couples to Naughty in N’awlins agreed to do interviews after the event and open up about what they experienced. Each share their sexy highlights, how they felt consent was communicated by the organizers and if NiN was worth attending. With an event of over 2000 attendees, it’s good to have a few different views about how their trip unfolded for t...
Aug 14, 2019•54 min
So the question for this show is: what do we not talk about!?! It’s 10:30 am on the Friday of Naughty in N’awlins and we invited these sexy podcasters into our room to discuss all things NiN! Of course we banter, laugh and tease but when you get six lovely people with long histories and tons of experience in non monogamy you also get a stellar show filled with loads of good advice. Finding a healthy balance at NiN (and other events), playing with others when you got shit going on and a reminder ...
Aug 07, 2019•55 min
We’ve all been told a great way to meet others in the Lifestyle community is to get out to the club scene. But what happens if you’re an introvert and they aren’t your thing? Or maybe you don’t drink - perhaps you’re a recovering alcoholic. Some people even experience anxiety attacks in atmosphere’s like clubs! Club aren’t exactly everyone scene - so what do you do if that’s the case for you? On the show today we discuss all the deets about Lifestyle clubs and the options for those who aren’t cr...
Jul 27, 2019•56 min
Ladies, have you ever been walking through a crowded bar and had your ass grabbed? Or maybe you were at a musical festival at the front row and someone kept groping you from behind? Consent doesn’t just happen in the bedroom. It’s in all the interactions you have with people every day! On today’s show we have a friend joining us to discuss all things consent. What consent means to us, our consent stories and advice and tips will all be included on this week’s show! Consent makes people feel safe...
Jul 20, 2019•56 min
Funds, moolah, dinerio...the lifestyle isn’t exactly a cheap thing to participate in - and we get it! Join us this week as we talk openly about being money conscious in the lifestyle and how we make our money work for us! To help us discuss the topic this week are two lovely guests who know a thing or two about money, budgeting and spending in the Lifestyle community. They both left their jobs over a year in order to travel and volunteer around the world AND they are a couple who has been explor...
Jul 12, 2019•57 min
It’s Taara’s turn to host the show and she is joined by three fabulous women to discuss what it’s like being a woman in an open relationship. Having kids and families is a life a lot of couples (and singles) in open relationships live. Each woman takes some time to discuss what their life is like when it comes to kids and swinging and what advice they have for mom’s in non monogamy. And in the segment: Advice for Women from Women the ladies open up about what life was like before non monogamy an...
Jul 05, 2019•59 min
If you are interested in knowing the male perspective of being in a non monogamous relationship then this episode is for you! James takes the reins for this week’s show and invites a panel of men to join him and discuss the in’s and out’s of being in a non monogamy relationship. They each share how playing alone has impacted their relationship and how they navigate that level of openness in their relationship. And in the segment: Advice for Men from Men we learn what their advice is when it come...
Jun 28, 2019•1 hr 6 min
Jealousy and open relationship stigmas are two HUGE reason why people decide against exploring a non monogamous relationship. Many don’t realize jealousy is completely normal in open relationships and that most of those stigmas are NOT true - at least for some of us! We are excited to have a fabulous guest, Whitney Miller, joining us to help dive into the topics of jealousy and open relationships stigmas. We open up about jealousy, how it has impacted us and the advice we have for those experien...
Jun 21, 2019•1 hr 7 min
Join us for our first ever live-aired radio show! First we bring it back to the basics when it comes to open relationships. What happens when one of us feel jealous? Do we even get jealous? How do we negotiate our boundaries and discuss our feelings? How do we let a couple know we are interested in getting down and dirty with them? We share all this and more! Next we open up and answer some listener questions we received. We reveal some of our not so desirable experiences in the Lifestyle and ta...
Jun 14, 2019•53 min
Steamy Swinger Stories 1.0 was one of our most popular shows to date and we just can’t figure out why (LOL)! After doing lots of sexy travelling this year our steamy swinger stories are piling up, so we decided it was time to release TWO POINT OHHHHH! This week we open up the vault and share some of our sexiest moments together while being in an open relationship. From our first time visiting a Lifestyle club to our sexy afternoon delight at Young Swingers Week we give you all the dirty deets yo...
Jun 07, 2019•1 hr
We leave no stone unturned in this special interview with our co-host Cate from Swinging Down Under Podcast! In our first co-hosted show we interview a lovely couple at the event Fusion in Las Vegas (May 2019). It was their very first Lifestyle event and we were lucky enough to have them share what it was like from their perspective. Afterwards, Torrid Souls joins us and we all open up about some key Lifestyle topics with lots of laughs along the way. We discuss what Fusion was like and how even...
May 31, 2019•1 hr 9 min
So you wanna get kinky? You want to attend that Fetish hotel takeover next month. You want to incorporate some power play dynamics into your relationship. You want to put that bondage fantasy you’ve had for years put into action. But where to start??? That’s where MarKus from House of MarKus comes in! With over ten years of experience in the D/s, M/s and leather community, MarKus is the perfect resource for those looking to explore this area of their sexuality. He is also the founder and Preside...
May 17, 2019•1 hr 5 min
This week we brought two of our favorite people onto our show, Charlie and Arienne from Sex Because! They join us to discuss some tough questions and issues that those in the Lifestyle can be faced with. We start by tackling the age old question of “how can I convince my partner to get into the Lifestyle?”. This is a question we get asked A LOT and between the four of us we share our best advice and practices. Current statistics in Canada state one in three women will experience some form of sex...
May 10, 2019•1 hr 23 min
When you get down to it, the lifestyle community is all about interacting with others. You talk, you flirt, you meet up and things progress from there. Or you may meet up, talk , flirt and… This week we share what we know about flirting and meeting others in the swinger lifestyle community. We discuss how flirting is different in the lifestyle compared to the muggle (vanilla) world, share tips for flirting online AND in real life and revel how to meet others so that you can put these skills to w...
May 03, 2019•1 hr 2 min
What do you think goes on at Young Swingers® Week? Who attends? What are the couples like and what are they doing!? We got you covered in this SPECIAL behind the scene episode of Young Swingers® Week live from Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica. We asked five wonderful couples into our room and got the down low on what they were doing, what they saw and what the energy was like at this lively event. We loved being hosts but realize it’s a lot different than being a couple in the mix and we wanted to...
Apr 28, 2019•1 hr 14 min
Well, we popped another first time cherry! We finally got to visit Desire Riviera Maya resort and we had an absolute blast! We returned with sun kissed skin, no tan lines and smiles on our faces. In this episode we have lots of fun excitement and stories to share. We start by detailing some of our favorite things about our recent trip and what made Desire so special to us. Then we are joined by another couple on our patio at Desire and host an exclusive interview about their first visit to the r...
Apr 26, 2019•1 hr 7 min
Happy 4/20 to all our listeners! Two days ago we celebrated the first LEGAL 4/20 in Canada and had a hoot! And in honor of “Weed Day”, we have a very special episode for you! We invited Kiana Reeves from Foria Wellness to join us on our show and share her knowledge about cannabis. So relax, sit back and spark one up for this week's’ show! We discover the difference between CBD & THC, how you can heal your sexuality using cannabis and learn why Foria is the pioneer of the cannabis wellness in...
Apr 19, 2019•59 min
Even though it’s called Sin City we often find this city is hard to sin in! Las Vegas is known as a party capital but finding Lifestyle and non monogamous fun isn’t as easy as you think. That is why we are excited to see FUSION is coming to Las Vegas and bringing something exciting to this sexy city! Set to be the largest event ever hosted in Las Vegas for open minded partners, Fusion is like nothing you've experienced in Vegas before! Bringing together three of the nation's most established and...
Apr 12, 2019•59 min
We did it! We attended our FIRST Young Swingers® Week! And now you can hear all about it! In the episode we sit down and talk about what it was like going to Young Swingers® Week for our first time. We both take turns sharing our favorite highlights from this mind-blowing event (hint - most of them involve nudity!) and answer listener questions we received about our trip. We also asked Brett, the owner and organizer of Young Swingers® Week, onto our show for a sexy segment where he shares the ne...
Apr 04, 2019•1 hr 2 min
What if you fall in love with someone else in the Lifestyle? What happens if you feel love for two people at once? Is polyamory an option? On this week’s show we ask two women who have experience in polyamorous relationships to join us and help answer these questions. Not only have they dated multiple people at one time, they are also part of the Lifestyle community and offer great insight into both worlds. So great ready for an awesome show where we discuss their experiences dating multiple peo...
Mar 22, 2019•1 hr
Almost every podcast and radio show we have ever recorded has started with The Smoke Show. We feel cannabis education is important and normalizing this topic is necessary. Legalization in Canada is over four months out and demand for knowledge is increasing. Cannabis is an amazing healer and people are starting to understand and see the benefits to consuming this miracle plant. This week are have asked a very special guest to join us in discussing this topic. Joining us on our show today is Carl...
Mar 15, 2019•1 hr
Do you play alone in your non-monogamous relationship? Is it something you are interested in? Recently on an Instagram poll we found out that 60% of our followers play alone in their non monogamous relationship. This week we want to talk all about this popular topic. Since we don’t have much experience with playing alone in our relationship, we invited a guest who has does. Lexi Slyver from SDC Presents: Seek, Discover Create radio show on The Sexy Lifestyle Network joins us and shares everythin...
Mar 04, 2019•1 hr
Astrology has been a huge part of my life. Since I was a little girl I would read & study it. As I grew older I took courses to understand more & continuously I am shocked with how accurate and comforting this practice is. This week we are excited to bring Julie from 8th House Astrology on our show to discuss just how practical this tool can be when it comes to relationships, sex and non-monogamy. We actually met her while we were at Naughty in N’awlins and love everything she is doing t...
Mar 01, 2019•59 min
You have the power to make your life what you desire! It takes some deprogramming, education of self and an open heart - but it is so worth living for you! This week we discuss all of this as we celebrate the launch of Spiritual Slut, an online program created to help women stop the internal slut shaming and experience the sex they crave. Our life and relationship didn’t magically end up like it is today. We had to evolve, level up and learn a great deal about ourselves before we could get here....
Feb 21, 2019•1 hr
Our guest today is a recognized woman to millions of television viewers across Africa from the hit reality show ‘Project Fame’. She has utilized her stardom to give back to the community and bring awareness to topics not commonly discussed in Africa. She hosts The Spread Podcast where she brings sex positive education to Kenya. Kaz, a polyamorous pansexual, is a voice to many in Africa when it comes to non-monogamy and redefining sexuality. In this episode Kaz shares her knowledge about living a...
Feb 15, 2019•1 hr 1 min
Are you curious about what it’s like to be part of an orgy? Are there rules to being in an orgy situation, or is group sex just a free-for-all? And with so many moving parts, how do you keep track of everyone’s pleasure while making sure you have an amazing experience? The incredible Lexi Sylver asked us these questions (and more!) after inviting us onto her show, SDC Presents: Seek, Discover, Create with Lexi Sylver on The Sexy Lifestyle Network. We get personal with you about our own orgy expe...
Feb 07, 2019•1 hr 6 min
This week we have a more serious topic and probably something that often is not talked about when it comes to the Lifestyle. It’s something that has happened to us more than once and something most couples and singles experience when exploring non-monogamy. We are talking about lifestyle burnout and the importance of taking breaks. Sometimes you are going through a sickness, sometimes you lose a loved one and sometimes you just need to take a step back to reconnect with yourself and your relatio...
Feb 01, 2019•57 min
The Erotic Blueprints are an incredible tool that you can use to understand how you are wired to receive pleasure. In western culture we are typically only shown one blueprint and many of us try to mold ourselves to fit that criteria. In reality, pleasure and sexuality comes in my forms and understanding what each are is so empowering! On this show we are honored to interview the mastermind behind the creation of the Erotic Blueprints, Jaiya Ma. Jaiya is internationally recognized, award-winning...
Jan 26, 2019•57 min
