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Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education

Danielle Bezalel, MPH: Sex Educator | Pleasure Expertwww.sexedwithdb.com
How do I stay in the moment and truly enjoy sex? What’s stopping me from orgasming with my partner? I’m ready to explore my kinks and fantasies in the bedroom; where do I start? You and your fantasies aren’t broken -- but your sex ed probably was. I’m DB, sex educator with a Masters of Public Health and host of Sex Ed with DB -- your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education, featuring trusted insights from conversations with top experts about everything you’ve been too scared to ask about sex. And this season? We're going ALL IN ON PLEASURE. Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies—you name it. We’re here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex. -- Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education—delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it’s the sex ed you’ve always wanted. ABOUT SEX ED WITH DB: Take a second and think back to the sex education you had in school. Did it prepare you to have a healthy and happy relationship with sex and identity? If it was anything like DB’s, it was stigmatizing, judgmental, and totally unhelpful. But not to worry, the experts are here to offer the sex ed you wish you had. We cover an array of sex education topics like orgasms, abortion, pornography, fetishes and kinks, pleasure, consent and boundaries, healthy relationships, LGBTQIA+ mental health and sexual health, LGBTQIA+ relationships, coming out, sexual dysfunction and pain during sex, birth control, sex in the media, Queer stories, and so much more. We believe that everyone deserves comprehensive, inclusive, pleasure-centered, feminist, medically-accurate sex education. On the show, DB and sexual health expert guests break down your most curious sex questions like “Am I pregnant?” or “How can I have a stronger orgasm?” or “How do I keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship?” or “How often should I be having sex?” or “What are common sexual fetishes?” or “What are the benefits of masturbation?” Tune in for expert insights and candid conversations redefining sexual health and empowerment! -- ABOUT DB: Danielle Bezalel (she/her), aka DB, has a Master of Public Health from Columbia University with expertise in sexuality, sexual, and reproductive health. DB is a leading voice in inclusive and medically accurate sex education. She tackles taboo topics with humor and expertise because no question is TMI when it comes to learning more about your body and pleasure. With 10 years of sex ed experience and features in Netflix, Mashable, Bustle, SELF, and more, DB empowers listeners to challenge taboos, rethink outdated narratives, and embrace sexual health and pleasure with confidence. Learn more at www.sexedwithdb.com and email DB at [email protected].
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Episodes

Birthing Liberation with Sabia Wade (Re-Release)

Please enjoy one of DB's favorite episodes from the archives as we gear up for Season 9! In this episode, DB speaks with Sabia Wade, the founder of Birthing Advocacy Doula Trainings, For the Village, Inc, Loads of Pride, Logistics, as well as a soon-to-be-published author of their book, Birthing Liberation: How Reproductive Justice Will Set Us Free. They discuss birthing liberation, the future of abortion access, and how Sabia is executing change in reproductive justice to set birthing people fr...

Sep 27, 20231 hr

"Every Body" with Intersex Film Star, Activist, and Scholar Sean Saifa Wall

In the Season 8 Finale, DB chats with the brilliant Sean Saifa Wall, an intersex activist, scholar, and star of the new documentary "Every Body." They explore identity, breaking free from binary, and the importance of broadening our understanding of gender and sex. They also touch on intersex joy as a way to counterbalance trauma. Join for this insightful wrap-up to Season 8! (0:16:20) - Intersex liberation and new perspectives with age (0:21:20) - Discussing the documentary "Every Body" (0:44:0...

Sep 06, 20231 hr

DONATE NOW! Help Keep An Independent Florida Abortion Clinic Open with Winnie from SWAN

DB sits down with Winnie, Community Outreach and Training Chair for Stand With Abortion Now ( SWAN) , to talk revolutionary optimism, punk rock-style activism, TikTok fundraising, and unorthodox strategies to outwit anti-abortion protestors in Orlando, Florida. They dive into SWAN's extremely successful Tiktok presence, why it's resonating, and how to use social media as an effective tool in activist work. Winnie shares more about the ongoing struggle for abortion access in Florida, as the clini...

Aug 30, 202332 min

Maintaining Long-Term Relationships and Keeping The Spark Alive with Therapist, Dr. Lexx Brown-James

DB sits down with Dr. Lexx Brown-James, therapist and sexologist, to shed light on maintaining healthy conflict resolution, intimacy, and communication in a long-term relationship. They also dive into Dr. Lexx's work in the world of sex-positive parenting, unraveling what it means and how to address personal trauma and therapy's role in the journey towards becoming a sex-positive parent. In a world where sex education is often shrouded in fear, Dr. Lexx guides breaks down how provide shame-free ...

Aug 23, 202357 min

Intersex Joy, Activism Burnout, and Being Your Authentic Self with Intersex Educator and Creator Pidgeon Pagonis

We're thrilled to welcome back Pidgeon Pagonis, a powerhouse in intersex education and advocacy! From their #EndIntersexSurgeries campaign to their continual focus on prioritizing intersex joy, their recent endeavors are nothing short of inspiring. Pidgeon shares more about their activist journey, highlighting the need for self-care to avoid burnout in this work. DB and Pidgeon also discuss the healing power of psychedelics, and Pidgeon's transition from a trauma-focused narrative to one of joy ...

Aug 16, 20231 hr 2 min

Coming Out As Bisexual with "Boyslut" Author, Zachary Zane

Calling all bi babes! Join us for an amazing conversation with Zachary Zane, author of "Boy Slut." DB and Zach discuss her bisexual awakening, the challenges and privileges that come with being bisexual, and the power of vulnerability in sharing personal stories. Zachary generously shares his journey of understanding his sexuality and the impact of his public persona on his decision to be open about it. The conversation extends to the intricacies of bisexuality and pansexuality, the nuances of n...

Aug 09, 202358 min

The Most Common Vaginal Infections and Conditions with Dr. Rebecca Levy-Gantt

Join us we welcome our favorite guest back to the pod, DB’s mom Dr. Rebecca Levy-Gantt, to talk about all things vaginal health. This episode takes a close look at the prevalence and importance of diagnosing vaginal infections and conditions, which Dr. Levy-Gantt has experienced firsthand through her patients' stories. She emphasizes the importance of in-person diagnosis and enlightens us about the wide age range of her patients and the unique challenges they face. —— (0:14:34) - Importance of P...

Aug 02, 20231 hr 2 min

Late Bloomer Lesbianism with YouTuber Alayna Joy

On this episode we welcome the delightful Alayna Joy, lesbian and LGBTQ+ YouTuber and content creator who speaks candidly about her “late bloomer” queer experience. Alayna opens up about the evolution of her queer identity, pandemic-induced gay awakenings, and the importance of centering mental health while embracing your queerness for the first time. It's a conversation that will enlighten, inspire, and hopefully, provide comfort to those who may need it. —— (0:10:31) - Discovering your sexuali...

Jul 26, 202351 min

Curious Sex Ed: Orgasms

Enjoy a BONUS episode of Curious Sex Ed! In this episode, DB and Mariah tackle the age-old question... how do I reach orgasm? They cover the many factors that can impact one's ability to reach climax, sharing personal anecdotes and discussing various factors that contribute to pleasure. Gain valuable insights and practical advice to help you attain the elusive "big O." For more Curious Sex Ed, check out our show and join the Bestie Crew on Buy Me a Coffee Rep your favorite sex ed podcast with ou...

Jul 21, 202333 min

Sex Research with Psychologist and Researcher Dr. Candice Nicole

Listen in as we welcome the award-winning psychologist, sexologist, and professor, Dr. Candice Nicole, for a riveting discussion on her groundbreaking sex research. DB and Dr. Candice explore the fascinating world of sex and pleasure, examining the impact of different partnerships on sexual function. Dr. Candice shares intriguing insights from her research, emphasizing the importance of centering Black people in scientific research for a more inclusive understanding of our sexual selves. Join us...

Jul 19, 202355 min

BONUS EPISODE: DB's Magic Wand Masturbation Experiment

You don't wanna miss this bonus episode! Listen in as DB reads aloud her personal journey of self-discovery and self-pleasure through her Magic Wand masturbation experiment. Listen in to hear about the profound impact that daily Magic Wand use had on her health, wellness, and sexual experience. Prepare to challenge societal norms and embrace the transformative power of pleasure. Don't miss out on the electrifying revelations that await! Rep your favorite sex ed podcast with our brand new merch !...

Jul 12, 202315 min

Kink and Pleasure with "Superfreaks" Author Arielle Greenberg

Join DB for an enlightening exploration into the wonderful world of kink and fetishes with the brilliant Arielle Greenberg, a seasoned kinkster and author of the upcoming book Super Freaks. They cover a range of topics from positive representations of kink in media, to the intersection of queerness and kink. Arielle even gives DB a kink quiz! Arielle also shares her insights on the most common and least common fetishes, the psychology behind kink, and the magical allure they hold. Don't miss out...

Jul 05, 20231 hr 3 min

The Abortion Landscape One Year Post-Roe with Journalist and Podcast Host Garnet Henderson

What happens when Roe v. Wade is overturned, and how does it impact the abortion landscape in the US? Join us for a riveting discussion with Garnet Henderson, senior multi-platform reporter for Rewire News Group and host of ACCESS: A Podcast about Abortion. DB and Garnet delve into the history of the medical system's relationship with abortion, and the rise of anti-abortion violence, and how folks can still access abortion even in a post-Roe America. They also discuss the criminalization of self...

Jun 28, 202354 min

Friends to Lovers and Fighting for Trans Rights with Activists Elle Deran and Ezra Michel

Join us for a fantastic conversation with the incredible couple, Elle and Ezra! They discuss their journey from friends to lovers and how that impacted their friend group and their own lives. They also discuss trans joy, using comedy to combat haters, and the importance of advocating for trans rights in today's political and media landscape. Elle and Ezra share their unique perspective on the power of humor and reclaiming narratives. Don’t miss this! —— How Elle and Ezra made the jump from frien...

Jun 21, 20231 hr 10 min

Decolonizing Therapy with Founder and Movement Leader Dr. Jennifer Mullan

In this episode, DB interviews the brilliant Dr. Jennifer Mullan, founder of Decolonizing Therapy. Dr. Mullan shares her professional journey and how her experiences in therapy have shaped her current work. She explains the concept of Decolonizing Therapy and discusses the impacts of historical and intergenerational trauma on our lives. Dr. Mullan also explores the importance of centering rage and how she came to be known as the Rage Doctor! Tune in for an insightful conversation on healing, emp...

Jun 14, 202355 min

AI and its place in sex ed with the National Director of Innovation at Planned Parenthood Federation of America, Ambreen Molitor

In this episode, DB interviews Ambreen Molitor, the National Director of Innovation at Planned Parenthood Federation of America. They discuss the role of AI in sex education, cutting-edge tech initiatives by Planned Parenthood, and the growing importance of data privacy in sex tech. Tune in for a captivating conversation on the future of sex education and the innovative strides being made in the field! —— Ambreen explains the concept of human-centered design [00:14:42] DB and Ambreen discuss the...

Jun 07, 202358 min

Blow jobs are performance art with Pleasure Professional, Goody Howard, MSW, MPH

DB dives headfirst into a hilarious and informative conversation with sexologist Goody Howard, MSW, MPH about oral sex, confidence inside and outside of the bedroom, and the 18 different types of orgasms! Plus, they discuss how to build a small business as a sexual health educator and how science can help us understand pleasure. She’ll have you laughing, blushing, and taking notes. —— How Goody uses her academic background to build sexual confidence courses [00:15:45] Goody breaks down how sexua...

May 31, 202357 min

Everyone Can Bottom with The Bottom's Digest Founder, Alex Hall

In this episode, DB interviews Alex Hall from The Bottom’s Digest to discuss all things bottoming! Alex shares insights from his personal experiences with bottoming and debunks some of the common misconceptions associated with it. The two dive into the topic of food and its impact on sexual play, revealing some surprising connections between diet and sexual performance. Who knew that what you eat could have such an impact on your sex life?! Whether you're a seasoned bottom or just curious about ...

May 24, 20231 hr

What wellness for moms actually looks like with Be Well, Sis Podcast Host, Dr. Cassandre Dunbar

Listen in as DB interviews Dr. Cassandre Dunbar, host of the podcast Be Well, Sis, about the realities of motherhood and wellness. They dive deep into what it means to truly be well as a mother and the importance of prioritizing true self-care. Dr. Dunbar shares her expertise on recovering from childbirth, the benefits of taking time for oneself, and the impact that self-care can have on a mother's mental health. This conversation is a must-listen for any mother looking to prioritize their well-...

May 17, 202347 min

Curious Sex Ed: Sex and Religion

In this bonus episode of Curious Sex Ed, DB and Mariah tackle a topic that many people struggle with: the intersection of sex and religion. A listener writes in to ask about their experience growing up super religious and feeling guilty about masturbation and sex. DB and Mariah share their own backgrounds and religious upbringings, and offer insight and advice on how to combat shame and guilt when it comes to pleasure and sex. They also share personal anecdotes and offer practical tips for refra...

May 12, 202322 min

Swingers vacations and fetishes with Come Curious Hosts, Reed Amber and Florence Bark

Join DB as she explores the world of sex positivity and self-discovery with the fearless hosts of Come Curious and Fucks Given, Florence Barkway and Reed Amber! Listen in as they spill the beans on how they met on a porn set, the birth of their YouTube channel, what it’s like to have a fetish, and their saucy adventures at a young Swingers Week in Jamaica. Even with their self-confidence and self-awareness, they reveal their ongoing journey in figuring out their sexuality, identity, and relation...

May 10, 202358 min

Curious Sex Ed: BDSM & Sexual Kink

Get ready to explore the wild and wonderful world of BDSM and sexual kink with hosts DB and Mariah in this episode of Curious Sex Ed! Join them as they share their first impressions of the taboo topic and delve into the intricacies of consensual kink in partnered sex. From bondage to role-playing, they'll break down the various types of sexual kinks. Whether you're a seasoned player or just curious about the scene, this episode is sure to satisfy your thirst for knowledge and leave you craving m...

May 05, 202318 min

What you don't know about astrology and sex with Astrologist and Author Nadine Jane

Get ready to have your mind blown in this week's episode! Our guest is the incredible astrologer and author Nadine Jane, and she's here to give us a crash course on how astrology can impact our sex lives. From the basics of birth charts to the impact of planets like Mars and Venus on our libidos, Nadine has the scoop. Plus, she shares some juicy stories about how astrology has helped her clients spice up their love lives. Don't miss out on this episode full of cosmic revelations! —— Nadine spill...

May 03, 202355 min

Curious Sex Ed: Porn Addiction

Welcome to the first episode of Curious Sex Ed! In this episode, DB and Mariah explore the steamy world of porn, sharing their first experiences learning about porn, and discuss how porn can help us understand our sexualities. They also tackle the question of whether someone can be addicted to porn and what a healthy relationship with porn might look like. Are you worried that you're watching too much porn? DB and Mariah share a listener's question and provide their expert insights [00:02:52]. I...

Apr 28, 202318 min

Pleasure Beyond Orgasm with Sexuality Doula Ev'Yan Whitney

In this week’s episode, DB explores the world of pleasure and sensuality with Ev'Yan Whitney, Sexuality Doula and author of the book “Sensual Self.” They discuss purity culture, how society's limited views on sex and pleasure can impact an individual’s relationship with sensuality, and how we can shift our mindset to embrace a more expansive view of pleasure. Ev'Yan also shares tips on how to cultivate a more mindful and pleasurable relationship with the body, both inside and outside of the bedr...

Apr 26, 20231 hr 2 min

What are 3 fun facts about nipples?

What are 3 fun facts about nipples? In this last bonus episode between the seasons, DB offers some trivia on the nipples -- probably some trivia you've never heard of! What are fun facts about nipples that you know that you want to share with DB? Email her at [email protected]. Tune into Season 8 starting Wednesday, April 26th! --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! ---...

Apr 21, 20237 min

How can I fight back against Crisis Pregnancy Centers?

How can I fight back against Crisis Pregnancy Centers? DB teaches all about what a Crisis Pregnancy Center is, how they trick people into visiting their non-medical facilities, and how we can fight back against these harmful institutions. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed ...

Apr 14, 20238 min

Is squirt pee?

Is squirt pee? DB dives into the ins and outs of what squirt is, how people squirt, the very limited science behind it, and how to try to squirt if that's your thing. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb Facebook: @edwithdb Rep your favorite sex ...

Apr 07, 202312 min

How do I know which birth control method is best for me?

How do I know which birth control method is best for me? DB laments over her birth control experience and empowers listeners to figure out which birth control method might be best for them by answering three important questions. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Tw...

Mar 31, 202310 min

What is the current state of sex ed in the US?

What is the current state of sex ed in the US? DB learns from The Guttmacher Institute about requirements certain US states have when it comes to teaching about sex ed and HIV education. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb Facebook: @edwithdb Re...

Mar 24, 202312 min
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