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Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education

Danielle Bezalel, MPH: Sex Educator | Pleasure Expertwww.sexedwithdb.com
How do I stay in the moment and truly enjoy sex? What’s stopping me from orgasming with my partner? I’m ready to explore my kinks and fantasies in the bedroom; where do I start? You and your fantasies aren’t broken -- but your sex ed probably was. I’m DB, sex educator with a Masters of Public Health and host of Sex Ed with DB -- your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education, featuring trusted insights from conversations with top experts about everything you’ve been too scared to ask about sex. And this season? We're going ALL IN ON PLEASURE. Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies—you name it. We’re here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex. -- Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education—delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it’s the sex ed you’ve always wanted. ABOUT SEX ED WITH DB: Take a second and think back to the sex education you had in school. Did it prepare you to have a healthy and happy relationship with sex and identity? If it was anything like DB’s, it was stigmatizing, judgmental, and totally unhelpful. But not to worry, the experts are here to offer the sex ed you wish you had. We cover an array of sex education topics like orgasms, abortion, pornography, fetishes and kinks, pleasure, consent and boundaries, healthy relationships, LGBTQIA+ mental health and sexual health, LGBTQIA+ relationships, coming out, sexual dysfunction and pain during sex, birth control, sex in the media, Queer stories, and so much more. We believe that everyone deserves comprehensive, inclusive, pleasure-centered, feminist, medically-accurate sex education. On the show, DB and sexual health expert guests break down your most curious sex questions like “Am I pregnant?” or “How can I have a stronger orgasm?” or “How do I keep the spark alive in a long-term relationship?” or “How often should I be having sex?” or “What are common sexual fetishes?” or “What are the benefits of masturbation?” Tune in for expert insights and candid conversations redefining sexual health and empowerment! -- ABOUT DB: Danielle Bezalel (she/her), aka DB, has a Master of Public Health from Columbia University with expertise in sexuality, sexual, and reproductive health. DB is a leading voice in inclusive and medically accurate sex education. She tackles taboo topics with humor and expertise because no question is TMI when it comes to learning more about your body and pleasure. With 10 years of sex ed experience and features in Netflix, Mashable, Bustle, SELF, and more, DB empowers listeners to challenge taboos, rethink outdated narratives, and embrace sexual health and pleasure with confidence. Learn more at www.sexedwithdb.com and email DB at [email protected].
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Episodes

What do I need to know about the morning after pill?

What do I need to know about the morning after pill? First and foremost: the morning after pill DOES NOT cause an abortion. DB educates on what emergency contraception is, how it works, the different emergency contraception options that exist, and how emergency contraception differs from medications that cause an abortion. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! --- Follow S...

Mar 17, 20239 min

Why am I not turned on easily?

Why am I not turned on easily? DB talks about cultivating positive mental health, engaging in masturbation, and understanding the asexuality spectrum as possible frameworks to address this listener question. Follow @zoestoller on Instagram and TikTok to learn more about asexuality education and identities. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on:...

Mar 10, 202312 min

Why is BMI a bad health indicator?

Why is BMI a bad health indicator? DB gets passionate about the fact that fatphobia is so pervasive it needs to be unlearned. She goes over the fact that you can't tell how healthy a person is just by looking at them and some of the structural and interpersonal ways that fatphobia is perpetuated. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram...

Mar 03, 202316 min

"How C*m?" with Remy Kassimir

In our final episode of the season, DB chats with Remy Kassimir, a stand-up comedian who created the How C*m podcast after years of never having an orgasm (alone or partnered). They chat about pleasure, sex toys, Remy's first orgasm, and also discuss consent, media, and Pamela Anderson. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwi...

Mar 01, 202348 min

Can you make your girl c**?

Can you make your girl c**? In this sex trivia episode, DB quizzes you with questions about anatomy, orgasms, pleasure, and communication in the bedroom. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! Rep your favorite sex ed podcast with our brand new merch ! Sign up for our newsletter with BTS content and exclusive giveaways here . --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedw...

Feb 24, 20239 min

How to Date Better with Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science Logan Ury

In this week's episode, DB speaks with Logan Ury, a behavioural scientist turned dating coach who is the Director of Relationship Science at the dating app Hinge and the author of How To Not Die Alone. They discuss Logan's research and how it has informed features in the app, as well as common limiting beliefs that people have around dating and how to overcome them to find a fulfilling relationship. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method ...

Feb 22, 202349 min

What are some things I should know about condoms?

What are some things I should know about condoms? Condoms do double duty in that they protect against STIs and unwanted pregnancy at the same time! DB offers insight as to some cool facts about condoms and even shares how long they've been around for. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb You...

Feb 17, 202310 min

"Good Luck to You, Leo Grande" with Director Sophie Hyde

In this episode, DB speaks with Sophie Hyde, an Australian film director, writer, producer and co-founder of Closer Productions about her most recent film "Good Luck to You, Leo Grande". They discuss Sophie's work, depictions of sex work, queerness, and sexual intimacy in film, what it's like to work with Emma Thompson, parents and parenting, and more. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favor...

Feb 15, 20231 hr 9 min

What are the best sex-positive TV shows?

What are the best sex-positive TV shows? There are seemingly millions of TV shows out there (and DB watches many of them). DB shares some of her fave TV shows that depict themes around sex positivity, mental health, LGBTQ+ identities, and more. --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb Facebook: @edwithdb Rep your favorite sex ed podcast with our brand new merch ! Sign up for our newsletter with BTS content and...

Feb 10, 20239 min

Sex Ed for Youth in Foster Care with Cindy Cruz

In this week's episode, DB chats with Cindy Cruz, the Director for the Reproductive Health Equity Project for Foster Youth (RHEP) at the National Center for Youth Law (NCYL). They discuss the family regulation system, the demographics and experiences of young people in foster care, and laws about sex ed for youth and specifically foster youth in California. Follow NCYL: Twitter: @NCYLHealth, IG: @fosteringparenthood, Podcast: https://fosteringparenthood.buzzsprout.com/ --- Sex Ed with DB, Season...

Feb 08, 202348 min

Is it possible I'm pregnant if I didn't have vaginal intercourse?

Is it possible I'm pregnant if I didn't have vaginal intercourse? DB gives some tools and information needed to be safe during sexual encounters (during penis/vagina sex and beyond). Just a note: In this More Sex Ed episode, DB does not cover the multitude of ways pregnant people can get pregnant (IVF, surrogate, etc); this episode only covers people getting pregnant through vaginal intercourse. --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed wit...

Feb 03, 20237 min

A Conversation about Down There with Your Favorite Urologist Dr. Fenwa Milhouse

In this episode, DB interviews Dr. Fenwa Milhouse, aka Your Favorite Urologist, a pelvic floor surgeon and sexual medicine specialist who uses social media to destigmatize pelvic floor and sexual conditions. They discuss the importance of representation in Dr. Milhouse's path to urology, the conditions and treatments of urology patients, and her new practice allowing for more patient interaction. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , a...

Feb 01, 202349 min

Why does it hurt when I have sex?

Why does it hurt when I have sex? While pain during sex is common for some women, it is not normal. DB offers some potential things to think about that may be impacting pain during sex. Contact your doctor and health care team to make an appointment if you are experiencing pain during sex. If you’re having sex that you are not consenting to, please know that is not your fault -- here are some resources to help: RAINN and NSVRC . To read more about the Mayo Clinic article mentioned in this episod...

Jan 27, 20238 min

A Health Home for Black Women with KIMBRITIVE Founders Kimberly Huggins and Brittany Brathwaite

In this week's episode, the founders of KIMBRITIVE, Kimberly Huggins and Brittany Brathwaite, join the podcast for the second time! (ICYMI, check them out on Season 4, Episode 6.) DB chats with them about their new projects and building a health home for Black women. They also discuss reproductive justice and how systems of oppression have shaped sexual and reproductive health. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get disc...

Jan 25, 202358 min

What is the most common STI in the US?

What is the most common STI in the US? Maybe you're thinking it's gonorrhea, HIV, or herpes? In this episode, DB probably surprises you with facts about the most common STI, how it has no symptoms for most people, and how you can work to prevent getting it. Learn more here: https://www.womenshealth.gov/a-z-topics/human-papillomavirus . --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb Facebook: @edwithdb Rep your favor...

Jan 20, 202310 min

Parenting and Sex Ed with The Puberty Podcast Hosts Vanessa Kroll-Bennett and Cara Natterson

In this episode, DB sits down with the hosts of The Puberty Podcast, Vanessa Kroll-Bennett and Cara Natterson. They discuss common questions and tips for parents to talk to their kids about bodies, puberty, and sex, including the importance of shame-free communication and regular conversations to break down stigma. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! --- Follow Sex Ed wi...

Jan 18, 20231 hr 1 min

What is ethical porn?

What is ethical porn? DB does a deep dive on what ethical porn is, ethical porn sites she recommends, and all the stuff the haters have said in her 2 viral videos about ethical porn this month (over 750K views across platforms!). --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb Facebook: @edwithdb Rep your favorite sex ed podcast with our brand new merch ! Sign up for our newsletter with BTS content and exclusive give...

Jan 13, 202314 min

Gender Affirming Care with Surgeon Dr. Blair Peters

In this episode, Danielle speaks with Dr. Blair Peters, a plastic surgeon who performs gender-affirming surgeries, including facial, chest and genital gender affirming surgery and complex peripheral nerve surgery; he is also an LGBTQ+ rights activist who is vocal online as @queersurgeon. They discuss what gender-affirming care and surgery entail, debunk myths and misunderstandings, and talk about how the media plays into anti-trans rhetoric. They also discuss Dr. Peters' surgical work and rearch...

Jan 11, 202356 min

Does body count matter?

Does body count matter? DB explains her thoughts on the matter and shares that a large or small "body count" is nothing to be ashamed of. She gives some context to this question and gives advice on the things to think about when deciding to have sex with a new partner. --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb Facebook: @edwithdb Rep your favorite sex ed podcast with our brand new merch ! Sign up for our newsle...

Jan 06, 202310 min

Making Sex Ed Funny with Melissa Strype

In this episode, DB laughs and goofs around with comedian and performer, Melissa Strype aka @thebiglissa. They chat about youth being the experts of their own experiences and how making people laugh can open the door to more taboo conversations around sexual health and identity. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodc...

Jan 04, 202352 min

Does the pull out method work?

Does the pull out method work? DB shares some stats and information about the pull out method and offers some surprising statistics you probably haven't heard before. While the pull out method is better than no method at all, DB gives some more effective alternatives to this finnicky option. --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb Facebook: @edwithdb Rep your favorite sex ed podcast with our brand new merch !...

Dec 30, 202210 min

Sex FAQs for an OBGYN Dr. Rebecca Levy-Gantt: Part 2

This week’s episode is part 2 of DB’s mom, Dr. Rebecca Levy-Gantt, OB/GYN, answering our listeners’ frequently asked sex questions. They discuss side effects from the pill and other birth controls, building trust between doctors and patients, the problems with pH balancing washes, and more. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sex...

Dec 28, 202259 min

How can I have sex while I'm home for the holidays?

I'm going home for the holidays and I want to get it on with myself and/or with my boo! Help! DB offers some sneaky tips and tricks as to how to get freaky without your family knowing (because you deserve alone time, pleasure, and a chance to de-stress!). --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb Facebook: @edwithdb Rep your favorite sex ed podcast with our brand new merch ! Sign up for our newsletter with BTS ...

Dec 23, 20229 min

Sex FAQs for an OBGYN with Dr. Rebecca Levy-Gantt: Part 1

This week is Part 1 of DB and her mom, OB/GYN Dr. Rebecca Levy-Gantt answering our listeners' sex ed questions! They discuss Rebecca's path to becoming a doctor, physician burnout, different forms of hysterectomy and what to expect after, the experience of childbirth, and more! Make sure to tune in next week for Part 2. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! --- Follow Sex ...

Dec 21, 20221 hr 1 min

Is it normal to watch gay porn if I'm straight?

Is it normal to watch gay porn if I'm straight. DB breaks down the concept of "normal" and shares that the porn we watch (and the fantasies we have) don't aways align perfectly with our sexual orientation. --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb Facebook: @edwithdb Rep your favorite sex ed podcast with our brand new merch ! Sign up for our newsletter with BTS content and exclusive giveaways here . --- Want to...

Dec 16, 20227 min

Desire and Pleasure with Whitni Miller

This week, Danielle chats with fellow sex educator and TikToker Whitni Miller, aka @BDE.moves. They discuss intimacy in relationships, desire, and about Whitni's work as a pleasure coach. They also talk about the difficulties of promoting sex positive content on TikTok and social media. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwi...

Dec 14, 202245 min

How can I get more in tune with my pleasure?

How do I get more in tune with my pleasure? It's easy for us to write off solo sex as unimportant or just something to do once in a while. DB offers some tips as to how to get more in tune with your body, mind, and environment to make room for amazing solo sex. Go to https://www.sexedwithdb.com/discounts to get all the discounts DB mentions in this episode. --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb Facebook: @e...

Dec 09, 202211 min

Erotica for All with Gina Gutierrez and Faye Keegan

In this episode, Danielle meets Gina Gutierrez and Faye Keegan, the creators of Dipsea, an app featuring hundreds of feminist, consensual, and sex-positive audio stories designed to get you in the mood, show you what you like, and open you up to self-discovery. They discuss Dipsea's founding, the difficulties of creating and funding a sexually-oriented business, ethical porn and erotica, and how they strive to create inclusive content for all audiences. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored ...

Dec 07, 20221 hr 6 min

Does penis size matter?

Does penis size matter? From porn to mass media, we learn from a young age that larger penises lead to a better sexual experience. DB challenges that concept and offers many reasons why penis size isn't the be all end all of good sex (and, spoiler alert, doesn't matter to most people). --- Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdb YouTube: Sex Ed with DB Twitter: @sexedwithdb Facebook: @edwithdb Rep your favorite sex ed podcast with our brand new merch ! Sign ...

Dec 02, 20227 min

Reading Romance with Helen Hoang

In this week's episode, DB speaks with Helen Hoang, the author of three romance novels including "The Kiss Quotient," in which the main character is a woman with Autism. They discuss the writing process, the recent increase in the popularity of the romance genre, and the importance of Autistic representation. --- Sex Ed with DB, Season 7 is Sponsored by: Lion's Den , Uberlube , Magic Wand , Future Method , and Freya . Get discounts on all of DB’s favorite things here ! --- Follow Sex Ed with DB ...

Nov 30, 202241 min
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