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Sex Chat for Christian Wives

Bonny Burns, J Parker, and Chris Taylorforchristianwives.com
Three Christian wives encourage other wives to enjoy God’s gift of sex in all of its awesomeness by presenting a biblical view, practical tips, and engaging discussion about godly sexual intimacy.

Episodes

Decorate Yourself (Quickie)

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about decorating yourself for sex. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! You can support this podcast by joining us on Patreon .

Jun 17, 20252 minEp. 229

What Makes for Great Sex?

On this podcast, we’re not focused on just having sex. We want wives to experience great sex. But how do we define that? Today, we’re diving into what makes for great sex in marriage and how to get there. Sponsor Get 25% off any Share the Soap lotion or hydrosol in the month of June with our coupon code: FCWSummer. Let soothing touch and scents for your sheets spark deeper connection. Turn bedtime into bonding time with Share the Soap massage lotions and hydrosols. And preorder our new Table Tal...

Jun 13, 202528 minEp. 228

Episode 227: Mindful Connection with Your Body After Trauma (Quickie)

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns with the last of her kegels series about connecting with your body after trauma. You can find the first two quickies of the series here: Episode 215: Kegels and Sexual Pleasure (Quickie) Episode 219: Kegels and Climax (Quickie) Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! You can support this podcast by joining us on Patreon ....

Jun 03, 20252 minEp. 227

Why Is Sex Awkward?

Sex can feel weird for many wives. We talk about why and how to get past the awkward to better sexual intimacy. Sponsor We’d love your support … and to give you perks! Check out our new page at Patreon and partner with our ministry. From the Bible Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 1:17 Resources A Shaded View of Romance | The Forgiven Wife Are Romance Novels Okay for Christian Women? | T...

May 29, 202525 minEp. 226

The Sexual Benefits of Exercise (Quickie)

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about the sexual benefits of exercise. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! You can support this podcast by joining us on Patreon .

May 20, 20253 minEp. 225

Integrating Body & Soul, with Francie Winslow

We welcome Francie Winslow of Heaven in Your Home to talk about why and how to integrate body and soul for better sexual pleasure and intimacy. Sponsor Calm your mind, reduce stress, and elevate your mood while nourishing your skin with Share the Soap's organic aloe and goat milk lotion scented with essential oils . Experience true body-soul integration as this luxurious lotion soothes your skin and harmonizes your emotional well-being. Aroma skincare at its best! AND buy any size lotion and get...

May 14, 202544 minEp. 224

Finding Allies (Quickie)

This week's quickie is from J Parker about how to find support and wisdom to help your sex life. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

May 06, 20253 minEp. 223

No Drive Postpartum, Facetime Sex, and Intimacy Despite Chronic Illness (Answering Listener Questions)

We tackle some tough listener questions today, with a biblical perspective and authenticity. Learn what we have to say about a lack of desire postpartum, a husband who wants to engage sexually through Facetime, and maintaining intimacy when chronic illness makes it difficult. Sponsor Healing from betrayal and sexual wounding is possible. Sexual Clarity for Christian Women: Reclaiming Your Sexual Identity After Betrayal , helps you know you’re not alone in wanting to have better understanding of ...

Apr 29, 202524 minEp. 222

Vibrators? (Quickie)

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about whether it's okay to use vibrators—and why it might be worth looking into. Click here for the Married Dance vibrator pilot program. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Apr 22, 20253 minEp. 221

Overcoming Sexual Abuse, with Jenn Schmidt

Jenn Schmidt from Intimate Covenant joins us to talk about overcoming sexual abuse and building a healthy, intimate sex life with your husband. NOTE: J totally got the episode number wrong! Not the first time she's been wrong. ~wink~ Sponsor Visit Better Help to get matched with a therapist who shares your values and can address your issues. Use code 4CW to get 10% off your first month. From the Bible Praise the Lord, my soul, and forget not all his benefits— who forgives all your sins and heals...

Apr 15, 202545 minEp. 220

Kegels and Climax (Quickie)

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about using kegel exercises to enhance your climax. Kegel exercises: A how-to guide for women, Mayo Clinic 1 Simple Thing to Turn on Sexual Arousal and Intensify Orgasm, OysterBed7 Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!...

Apr 08, 20252 minEp. 219

Taking Care of Your Sexual Self

It's the OG gang today talking about taking care of your sexual self—particularly the physical aspect of our female sexuality. Take a listen! Sponsor We still 🩷💜🩷 Share the Soap and know you will too! They're currently offering 25% off geranium hydrosol spray, plus get a FREE aloe & goat milk lotion premium sample when using code FCWA all thru the month of April. From the Bible Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not...

Apr 01, 202524 minEp. 218

Initiating Sex (Quickie)

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about how initiating sex. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Mar 27, 20252 minEp. 217

When She Wants Sex More

On her book's launch day, J. Parker hosts three fellow higher desire wives—Tara Buchanan, Julie Sibert, and Tammy Hopkins—for a special roundtable on when she wants sex more than he does. NOTE: Please forgive the not-so-great audio at times in this episode. We did our best without the usual professional equipment. Sponsor Check out J. Parker's new book, The Higher Desire Wife , now available wherever books are sold! From the Bible I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me. Song of Songs 7...

Mar 18, 202532 minEp. 216

Kegels and Sexual Pleasure

This week's quickie is from Bonny Burns about how kegel exercises help your sexual pleasure. Kegel exercises: A how-to guide for women, Mayo Clinic 1 Simple Thing to Turn on Sexual Arousal and Intensify Orgasm, OysterBed7 Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!...

Mar 12, 20252 minEp. 215

Developing a Theology of Sex, with Phylicia Masonheimer

Phylicia Masonheimer joins us to discuss what a theology of sex is, why we struggle with it, and how to develop a better theology. Sponsor We LOVE Share the Soap ! Check out their fabulous skin-care products made with from goat milk, essential oils, and other wholesome ingredients. From the Bible But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things! Galatians ...

Mar 05, 202535 minEp. 214

Use Baby Wipes

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about using baby wipes in the bedroom. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Feb 26, 20251 minEp. 213

What About Masturbation?

Today, we tackle the sensitive subject of masturbation. What does the Bible say about it? Why do Christians differ on their opinions? And how can we discern what's right for us? Sponsor Thanks, once again, to Married Dance for sponsoring this episode. Check them out for quality products displayed in a nudity-free and marriage-focused environment. Great customer service too! From the Bible But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of...

Feb 18, 202521 minEp. 212

Celebrating Valentine's Day (Quickie)

This week's quickie is from J Parker about celebrating Valentine's Day. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Feb 11, 20252 minEp. 211

Why Sex Matters

We've been talking about sexual experience for many years now, and we figured it was time to discuss why sex even matters in marriage? What's the point? Sponsor It's Choose Your Promo month at Share the Soap ! Pick either: Celebration box , a quarterly subscription box filled with uniquely curated items only available for that box as well as proven customer favorites. Get $10 off your first box with code FCWCELBOX1! The subscription is open now through February 21 and ships on February 28. It’s ...

Feb 05, 202525 minEp. 210

Pursuing Sexual Growth

As we embark on a new year, we talk about the goal of sexual growth, how to pursue it, and what you can expect along the way. Sponsors Get the insights and help you need with therapy from Better Help . Also sponsored by Married Dance , your go-to site for marital aids, lubricant, and more—all in a nudity-free, marriage-focused environment. From the Bible In the same way, you wives, be subject to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won over witho...

Jan 28, 202536 minEp. 209

Oral Sex Options

This week's quickie is from J Parker about the many ways you can give your husband oral sex. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Jan 14, 20252 minEp. 208

Planning for Celebration Sex

Subscribe to Our Upcoming Newsletter HERE . What is "celebration sex"? You might think of it as sex on a special occasion like a birthday, anniversary, Valentine's Day, or some other holiday. But we believe it can and should be a true celebration of marital intimacy, so today we tackle the what, why, and how of planning for celebration sex. Sponsor We love Share the Soap and know you will too. Check them out! From the Bible I belong to my beloved, and his desire is for me. Come, my beloved, let ...

Jan 08, 202524 minEp. 207

Holiday Tips (Quickie)

This week's quickie is from J Parker about focusing on intimacy during the holidays. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage! If you're looking for Christmas ideas for you and your sweetie, check out our 2025 Christmas gift episode !

Nov 26, 20242 minEp. 206

8th Annual Holiday Gift Guide: Home Sweet Home

It's our annual holiday gift guide for wives! We've got great gift ideas to enhance intimacy in every room of your house: kitchen, living room, bathroom, and bedroom. Sponsor Married Dance – a Christian sex toy store with discreet shipping, great customer service, and marriage-focused product information From the Bible Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows. James 1:17 Resources To Romance, With Lov...

Nov 21, 202421 min

Be Present During Sex (Quickie)

This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor with four ways to be fully present during sex. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Nov 13, 20243 minEp. 204

Best Holiday Sex Tips for Playfulness

When it comes to making time for sexual intimacy during the holiday rush, it can be wonderfully stressful or wonderfully playful or anything in between. We discuss how to navigate the busy-ness and stress of the holidays so that you can create a time of playfulness with your spouse and give you some ideas to build playfulness in your relationship and sex life. Sponsor Share the Soap provides skin care products with natural and carefully curated ingredients. With the Sensual Senses Set , Share th...

Nov 05, 202430 minEp. 203

What Women Ask Us (In Person)

What do women want to know about sex when we're face to faced with them? While we have regular listener question episodes, we wanted to address FAQs we get when speaking to a group or working with individuals or small groups. So get ready for six common questions and our answers. Sponsor Better Help can match you with a licensed, trained, experienced, and accredited therapist who shares your faith foundation. Access care through messaging, live chats, phone, and/or video conferencing. Check them...

Oct 30, 202437 minEp. 202

Sex Drive Conversation (Quickie)

This week's quickie is from Bonny Logsdon Burns about how to have a conversation about mismatched sex drives. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Oct 22, 20242 min

Mismatched Drives #1 (Quickie)

This week's quickie is from Bonny Logsdon Burns about things to consider when you and your spouse have mismatched sex drives. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!

Oct 16, 20242 minEp. 198
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