Why does passion fade in marriage, and what can you actually do about it? 💔 In this episode of the Sex & Bacon Podcast, host Sarah sits down with Dr. Diane Mueller, a leading sexologist, educator, and doctor, to break down why sex often dwindles in long-term relationships and how couples can reignite desire, intimacy, and connection. You'll learn: ✅ The difference between "normal" vs. "common" sex patterns in marriage ✅ How male vs. female arousal cycles really work (and why that matters) ✅...
Sep 09, 2025•55 min
What if the very thing you've been taught to cover up… is the medicine you've been searching for? In this intimate and eye-opening episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Sarah sits down with Kerry Kott, licensed physician of Chinese medicine, herbalist, and host of the Naked to Human podcast, for a raw conversation about nudity as healing. Together, they unpack how the simple act of being naked can transform shame, trauma, and body image into self-acceptance, confidence, and liberation. From expl...
Aug 26, 2025•57 min
What if the relationship model you've been taught your whole life… isn't the only way to love? In this eye-opening and deeply educational episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Sarah sits down with sexuality educator, researcher, and author Jim Fleckenstein for a no-BS conversation about polyamory, swinging, open relationships, and the many forms of consensual non-monogamy. With over 20 years in the field, Jim shares the research, real-life experiences, and hard truths that challenge everything y...
Aug 12, 2025•1 hr 23 min
What if the thing you're most afraid of… is the very key to your healing? In this powerful, raw, and eye-opening episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Sarah sits down with Mistress Mia Payne—owner of Pain With Purpose—for a deep dive into the healing side of BDSM. Together, they explore how kink can be a therapeutic tool for trauma recovery, emotional release, empowerment, and reconnecting with the body after pain. From confronting abuse triggers in a collar to understanding the difference betwe...
Jul 22, 2025•56 min
What if your biggest heartbreaks, failures, and messy breakdowns weren't the end of your story—but the beginning of your magic? In this bold, beautiful, and brutally honest episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Sarah sits down with Michelle Burke—author of Hot Mess Magic—for a heart-opening conversation about owning your chaos, finding power in your pain, and learning how to rise without needing to be "put together" first. From losing her dad and grandma within weeks to screaming grief into the ...
Jul 08, 2025•37 min
What if everything you believed about love, sex, and marriage was built on shame—and it nearly destroyed you? In this raw, rebellious, and soul-awakening episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Sarah sits down with Carolee and Britton—former devout Mormons turned sexual freedom seekers—for an unfiltered conversation about unlearning religious programming, healing from infidelity, and discovering the power of sex magic. They dive into how growing up Mormon created deep repression, guilt, and silenc...
Jun 24, 2025•1 hr 26 min
What if the person you trusted most turned out to be living a double life? In this gripping, raw, and deeply courageous episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Sarah sits down with Amanda Quick—author of The Sex Trafficker's Wife—to unravel the unthinkable: what happens when the man you married, the father of your children, is arrested for trying to purchase underage girls. Amanda shares her story with jaw-dropping honesty, walking us through the emotional rollercoaster of betrayal, trauma bonding...
May 27, 2025•1 hr 20 min
Is reading smut mental cheating? Or is it the secret weapon to a more empowered, pleasure-filled life? In this juicy, no-holds-barred episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Sarah sits down with erotica author and podcaster Ruan Willow to explore the world of erotic romance, female desire, and why stories that turn women on are about so much more than sex. From reclaiming "dirty" words to using fiction as foreplay, Ruan breaks down how smut, sensual stories, and sex-positive conversations can actu...
May 20, 2025•43 min
Most men think they've got sex all figured out… but what if that confidence is exactly what's keeping them from mind-blowing connection? In this candid and wildly eye-opening episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Sarah is joined by Dallas Bluth, founder of Black Box Dating, to explore why so many men misunderstand what truly turns women on—and how they can flip the script for good. From porn culture and rushed foreplay to emotional unavailability and outdated masculinity myths, this convo dives ...
May 13, 2025•1 hr 32 min
In this episode of Sex & Bacon, I'm joined by the vibrant and soulfully wise Shay Moore—a licensed marriage and family therapist with a love for all things messy, magical, and real when it comes to relationships. Together, we dive deep into the labyrinth of modern love, friendships, dating dilemmas, and the wild ride of being a woman who's trying to figure it all out without losing herself in the process. Shay brings raw honesty and therapeutic insight as we unpack the complexities of love, ...
Apr 08, 2025•50 min
In this episode of Sex&Bacon, I'm joined by the incredibly brave Katey Rickert for a raw, unfiltered conversation about healing after sexual assault, reclaiming power, and the long, winding road of recovery. Katey opens up about her personal story—one that is heart-wrenching, courageous, and deeply human. Together, we unpack the dark aftermath of trauma, the complexities of consent, and how writing, movement, and connection helped her return home to herself. 🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways: Su...
Mar 25, 2025•51 min
In this episode of Sex and Bacon, Sarah Davis joins me for a no-holds-barred conversation about dating today—from navigating the wild world of dating apps to uncovering what we truly want in a partner. We get real about expectations, self-sabotage, and why so many of us keep attracting the same type of relationships. 🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways: 💥 Dating Over 40: Navigating the Chaos – Why dating later in life comes with new challenges, and how to embrace it with confidence and clarity. 🛑 Br...
Mar 11, 2025•55 min
In this episode of Sex and Bacon, Sarah sits down with executive coach and self-sabotage expert Minh-Thu Lam from Higher Alignment Consulting to uncover the sneaky ways we sabotage our own happiness—especially in relationships. From unspoken needs and toxic patterns to the role of the nervous system in love, this deep and raw conversation reveals why we keep making the same mistakes and, more importantly, how to break free. 🔑 Key Themes & Takeaways: 💥 Why We Self-Sabotage: Minh-Thu breaks ...
Feb 25, 2025•1 hr 5 min
In this episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, we're kicking off a brand-new series—The Dating Circle! Host Sarah introduces us to two incredible women, Jess and Tina, as they embark on their dating journeys, sharing all the juicy details, awkward encounters, and hard-earned lessons along the way. From navigating dating apps and ghosting to defining what they're really looking for in a partner, this candid conversation is filled with laughs, surprises, and some hard truths about modern dating. 🔑...
Feb 11, 2025•52 min
In this episode of the Sex & Bacon podcast, I'm joined by Corey Ossum, an addiction recovery coach, emcee, and construction professional, who shares his journey of transformation. Corey opens up about his struggles with addiction, the pivotal moments that inspired change, and how he's now helping others navigate their recovery paths. From the importance of redefining one's legacy to finding joy and purpose after addiction, Corey's story is both raw and inspiring. 🔑 Key Themes & Takeaway...
Jan 28, 2025•57 min
Have you ever wondered how a change in persona could reignite the spark in your relationship? In this episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, I'm joined by Katie Runyan, founder of Faithful Fling and a roleplay sex expert. Katie shares her journey into roleplay, starting with a bold experiment in her own marriage that evolved into a successful venture helping couples reignite their connection through creative roleplay scenarios. Katie explains how roleplay can break monotonous routines, enhance in...
Jan 14, 2025•1 hr 1 min
In this episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, Andrew Daniel joins me to talk about sexual polarity, holistic sex, and emotional vulnerability from a man's perspective. Andrew helps us navigate important issues on men's perceptions of masculinity, societal expectations of gender roles, and the influence of these elements on personal relationships. He highlights the significance of emotional maturity and self-awareness as key to creating genuine intimacy and having a fulfilling sex life. Andrew su...
Jan 09, 2024•1 hr 8 min
In this episode of the Sex and Bacon podcast, we talk all about the taboo subject of talking about money in relationships. My guest, Marci Grossman, highlights how financial stress is a significant contributor to a couple's sex life disruption. Marci discusses the importance of being financially literate to avoid money-related issues in relationships. The conversation also focuses on the impact of financial responsibility in relationships, addressing key factors like communication about earnings...
Dec 19, 2023•43 min
In this episode, we return from a brief break and introduce Ava, a Tantric expert, who was previously on the podcast, and who I've been working with over the last six months. We talk all about the various types of female orgasms including clitoral, G-spot, cervical, U-spot, A-spot, P-spot, and anal orgasms. We also talk about how expecting a specific outcome, such as a particular type of orgasm, can limit one's ability to fully experience pleasure, emphasizing that tantric practices are more abo...
Nov 14, 2023•1 hr 13 min
In this episode, we explore the profound impact of relationship trauma on Alyssen's journey and how it has shaped her work. Join us as she candidly shares personal stories, shedding light on the transformative power of addressing past wounds to create healthier relationships. Continuing the conversation, we delve into the fascinating realm of hormonal fluctuations and the effects of birth control on our sex drives. Uncovering the scientific and psychological aspects, we examine how birth control...
Jun 27, 2023•52 min
In this episode, we explore the world of women's health and fibroids with LaToya Dwight. Through her personal journey and experiences, LaToya shares valuable insights on topics such as the impact of diet, advocating for oneself, managing intimacy, and addressing bias in the medical industry, while also shedding light on her non-profit organization dedicated to supporting women affected by fibroids. Discover the challenges women face when dealing with fibroids and gain a deeper understanding of t...
Jun 20, 2023•48 min
In this episode, Kerin shares her inspiring background and triumph over eating disorders, challenging deeply ingrained belief systems formed at a young age. Explore the power of nourishing your body with foods that make you feel good and delve into the impact of weight on your dating life. Discover the mindset of a confident woman who knows her worth and unravel the toxic patterns that hinder meaningful connections. Gain insights into cultivating a balanced approach to working out, eating, and l...
Jun 13, 2023•38 min
In this episode, Noah Evan joins me to talk candidly about sex, the gay sex scene, and everything in between. Noah is a queer podcaster of the "Severely Personal" podcast, who loves to discuss all things intimate through comedy and stories. He loves to find connections and community and is always looking to learn. We get into: [0:00] Intro [0:50] Noah's podcast, Severely Personal [2:40] Bringing humor to hard conversations [5:00] The prep work that goes into anal [10:30] Is it hard dating and fi...
May 30, 2023•41 min
In this episode, Mangala Holland joins me to explore the transformative power of unleashing your orgasms, diving into the importance of sexual liberation and self-discovery. We also tackle the concept of toxic masculinity and its effects on relationships, shedding light on the connection between toxic chemistry and a dysregulated nervous system. Join us as we discuss the awakening experienced by women in their 40s and 50s, delving into the challenges and opportunities this phase brings. Addition...
May 23, 2023•46 min
In this episode, we dive deep into the world of relationships, pleasure, and intimacy with renowned Love Educator & Relationship Coach, Railey Molinario. From overcoming abandonment at birth to becoming a six-figure boss, Railey shares her inspiring journey of transforming pain into a mission of empowering individuals to break free from generational trauma and ignorance. Her teachings on relationship intelligence have been featured on esteemed platforms like the BBC, Medium, and Brainz magaz...
May 09, 2023•1 hr 3 min
In this episode, Tara Galeano joins me to talk about psychedelic orgasms and reclaiming your sexuality. She talks about her journey into the space of sexuality, and emphasizes the importance of exploring sexuality and embracing freedom, despite the shame that still surrounds sex and pleasure in society. Tara further dives into the concept of psychedelic orgasms and how they are experienced, shedding light on the link between desire and arousal. She talks about the issue of shaming one's own sexu...
May 02, 2023•53 min
Get ready to uncover the secrets of female desire and pleasure with Danielle Savory. In this episode, we explore the psychology behind the shame that women often feel when it comes to casual sex, and the healing work required to connect with our bodies. Danielle dishes out some serious insights on how to create an erotic vessel and how to be your own pleasure advocate. We also delve into the burden of emotional responsibility, communication struggles, and the power of working with Danielle as yo...
Apr 25, 2023•1 hr 9 min
In a world where sexual trauma and a lack of education on our desires are all too common, my guest Katie Rudland shares her insights on sexual liberation and healing. From location-based stigmas to utilizing human design for transformation, she emphasizes the importance of cultivating a relationship with oneself, learning to communicate needs, and healing without being in a relationship. Join her on the journey of sexual transformation and liberation, where healing and true alignment with onesel...
Apr 18, 2023•40 min
Have you ever considered a non-monogamous relationship? Are you curious about the difference between this and cheating? How do you get your spouse on board? And is it truly what you want in your life and relationship? This is what we're talking about in this episode with Jess Lynn. Jess is a licensed therapist and ethical non-monogamy relationship coach. After opening her previously monogamous relationship of six years, Jess quickly learned just how little information there was out there from pr...
Apr 11, 2023•44 min
What are the juicy details behind Tantra? Are you looking to explore your sexuality even deeper? Or maybe you're curious about the world of Tantra and how it can benefit you? Well, look no further because in this episode, we dive deep into the fascinating world of Tantra and sexuality with Ava Pikul. Ava is a Transformational Therapist and Tantra Healer certified by the only government accredited institute of tantra in the entire world - The Institute of Authentic Tantra! She has over 1,700+ hou...
Apr 04, 2023•1 hr 11 min
