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Sometimes you forget that it's not necessarily about the destination that we're getting to. It's actually about the journey and enjoying that, because if you didn't enjoy the journey, what was the point of getting to this impressive place In the end, You'll never be criticized by someone who is doing more than you. You will only ever be criticized by someone who is doing less.
Welcome to the Seize the Ya Podcast. Busy and happy are not the same thing. We too rarely question what makes the heart seeing. We work, then we rest, but rarely we play and often don't realize there's more than one way. So this is a platform to hear and explore the stories of.
Those who found lives. They adore the good, bad and ugly.
The best and worst day will bear all the facets of seizing your Yea. I'm Sarah Davidson or a spoonful of Sarah, a lawyer turned entrepreneur whos whapped the suits and heels to co found matcha Maiden and matcha Milkbar.
CZA is a series.
Of conversations on fire dading a life you love and exploring the self doubt, challenge, joy and fulfillment along the way.
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Neighborhood will already know today's guest quite well, but in case you don't, Victoria Divine is someone you must get acquainted with if you're interested in financial freedom without skimping on the fun stuff, so basically everyone ever. Victoria is a multi award winning financial advisor and creator of She's on the Money, Australia's number one finance podcast and seventh biggest of all podcasts in the country, who is revolutionizing
the way millennials think about money. If you're anything like me, you may have grown up thinking money, along with religion and politics, is a topic never to be discussed at the table. But you may have also found that quite disempowering and an obstacle to actually learning how to build wealth, invest and safeguard your future. Enter Victoria and her unique ability to demystify and translate otherwise intimidating financial concepts to make them accessible, non judgmental, and I know it sounds
crazy but fun. She's on the Money covers everything from game changing budgeting templates to changing your money story and from debt or insurance to even planning financially for children, from a Facebook group to a podcast to a brand new, comprehensive book published just this week under the same name. She's on the Money is the ultimate millennial money guide that I cannot recommend for the neighborhood more highly.
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I did make sure to grab some practical takeaways for the aighborhood in this episode while we had a multi award winning financial advisor with us. But the book is so comprehensive and quite life changing actually, and I know you all grab a copy, so, like you know, I love to do. I use most of this episode to
chat about things that aren't captured in its pages. I was actually lucky enough to meet Victoria a few chapters before She's on the Money or sees thea had begun, and her way to EA is such a valuable reminder that the pathway to passion and purpose is far from linear. So I love spending quite a lot of time there because, as she says, and you'll hear quite soon, Victoria shares a lot in this episode that she hasn't shared before. She in fact didn't even start out in finance at all.
With so many.
Steps in her staircase before finding her yeay with shees on the Money. I hope you guys learn as much from this one as I did. Victoria, Welcome to the show and.
Hi, Hello, how are you?
Oh my gosh, it's been so lovely to see your face. We've guys been chatting for about twenty minutes before we actually started chatting about actual podcast things.
Yeah, we're not very good at this whole get to the work thing Alie.
Well, as you know, before we kick off, I start every episode by asking what the most down to worth thing is about you to break the ice, particularly when we put our guests on a pedestal and you said it so well yourself in the new book, She's on the Money book that we often think of you as, you know, the elusive oracle of saving and you've made Forbes thirty under thirty this year. You're right up there
on a pedestal for me, so it's wild. Can you break the eyes and just remind us that you're a normal human?
I am so normal it is not funny. In fact, I wasn't even sure what to tell you, because I am a very big listener of your podcast obviously, But I knew you were going to ask this question, and I kept being like, what am I going to say? But in our conversation before you were like, oh my gosh, I wish we had been recording this. So I guess I'll just retell this story of how everybody thinks I'm this polished human because you know, she's on the money.
Profile definitely has some beautiful pictures. We've got a gorgeous photographer, Miranda, who always makes us look like our best selves. But me in real life, if you came into the office, it's very likely that there are at least six empty coffee cups that have arguably been sitting on my desk for a week, which is not a good thing. That is not a bragging right, Like my team literally always like Victoria, yeah that's disgusting, and I'm like, I don't
even care. And I don't wear shoes very often in the office, Like obviously, if I'm having a photo shooter, if I'm going on socials or I'm going to see a client, yeah, I'll definitely put on a nice pair of shoes. I adore shoes, but good luck trying to get me in them at my desk, so I feel like I genuinely would just say I am incredibly normal.
I am incredibly down to earth. My favorite things are my oat latte in the morning with my partner walking my dog, where I look like I've just rolled out of bed because I don't want to get ready first thing in the morning, and you know, maybe you wouldn't even notice me. You'd walk past me and be like, oh, she was a mess. I hope she's having a better day later. But yeah, I think I'm relatively down to earth.
And something that my team actually say very often is like, oh my gosh, Victoria, if only the internet knew the real you.
I love.
I love like revealing that side of you, the actual real you. That everyone would be like, you know that you would be mortified if it came out, but that makes us all.
It wouldn't be though, Like I've got nothing to hide, and you know, like, if you want to see more of that, go follow all my team members on Instagram because they actually film me half the time and put it on their Instagrams because they genuinely find it really amusing. I've got no shame, my friends.
What about something financially relatable about you? Because you are the elusive oracle of saving. I have it in my mind that you never make a bad financial decision or you never do anything that's you know, other people might seem I think is wasteful or like indulge in, but I love Oh my.
Gosh, are you very joking. I'm the pinnacle of do as I say, not as I do. Like I would be honestly embarrassed if you guys saw some of my spending habits and just I could absolutely tighten up. And you know, there's never a good excuse. You know, you always should be caring about future and putting it first. But given how busy I am, and that's again never an excuse. I am very good at uber Eat. It's very good at fast food, like not McDonald's and stuff,
but just take away. Like the amount of Assaye balls that I buy on uber Eats is wild, and I'm not mad about it because I know that that's the way that I'm still nourishing myself and still looking after my body and making sure that I'm not just eating junk all the time. But it's getting a little bit out of hand.
But that is the greatest thing about you, I reckon That's the greatest thing about the podcast and the book and your overall approach to you know, financial health and the way that we manage our life for future us is that it's so flexible and you make time for the things that make you happy, Like you're very much like you don't always have to make only sensible decisions. You know, you can do your oat late in the morning.
That makes you very happy. You know.
It's not like you have to be sensible all the time. It's just you have to work around the things that are priorities for you. I love that because then I feel less guilty when I'm like, oh, that fit's okay.
Then no.
And I think that that's a really common misconception maybe about us, because I know other financial advisors do follow or subscribe to this notion that you need to cut out all unnecessary spending. And you know, if you cut back your coffee, Sarah, oh my gosh, you could save nearly two thousand dollars in one year. That's ridiculous. Like that is what makes me happy. That is what sparks my joy. That is what you know, I really value,
and I don't want to change those things. I don't want somebody to pry away the joy from my life and the little things that we have. So I just don't subscribe to the notion that somebody else can dictate to you how you spend your money. What I want is people to just understand what their own values are
so that their money flows in relation to that. I don't want you to miss out, but I also want you to be really aware of where your money is going, because more often than not, let's use me as an example, more often than not, your money isn't actually flowing in line with your values unless you sit down and make a plan for it. Like do I value uber its?
Absolutely not. I wish I took my lunch to work every single day, But my money and my money story and my you know, my budget right now would tell you that I really do value uberts when that's not actually the reality, and I need to shift. That's not saying it's bad. There's no such thing as bad when it comes to money. It's just more do you want to do that or do you want to do something else? Like have you not got a bigger goal? And like, yes I do, but am I currently prioritizing it? No?
And that's silly by future me like, I'm not putting myself first by spending that way, and that's why I'm really aware of it. I'm not saying cut back on spending because that doesn't make anybody happy and it's not sustainable. No one wants that.
No one does want that.
Well, I think one of the reasons I'm so excited to dive into this episode in particular, And as you know, the first section that we.
Will go through is your Way to YEA.
So how you got to this position of knowing what your passion is and knowing what you want to teach people and the best way to do that, and you are doing it's so incredibly well to millions of Australians.
But what I'm excited about is that our friendship is one of those that really epitomizes the idea that life does unravel in chapters, given that we met a few chapters ago for both of us, and the things that we're passionate about and that we wake up full of purpose and drive for didn't exist when we first met each other. Yeah, so while you know she's on the money, makes so much sense. Now is your big mission and vision? You're a wonderful example that you didn't wake up like that.
You didn't even wake up in finance. You know, that wasn't even your first career. It takes a lot of little steps to build up to the thing that later is crystal clear, is like why you ended up there. The dots often only connect a lot, you know, further down the track. And as you always say on your podcast, you can do everything, but not all at once.
Yeah, so true, And I think it's so one of those things. Sometimes you go through things and you don't realize how beneficial it is for you until you've actually come through to the other side and you can see, oh my gosh, that taught me so much, even though it was a terrible experience at the time, or you
really weren't enjoying it. And you know, I talk to people all the time like, oh, I wish I was in your position where I get to do something that I love every single day, and I'm like, oh, yeah, But like I've been in the position where I didn't even know what I wanted to do as my next step, and I had, I would say, a crisis when I
realized I didn't want to be in psychology anymore. And you know, talking back on it, it sounds like a really beautiful story, right, it sounds like this, Oh, the flow of her career has been so dreamy and easy in you know, those logical steps exist, but at the time I felt like I'd wasted my university degrees and what was I doing? And why have I even gone down this path? And like this is so silly. I
don't fit here. And yeah, I think that that's the side of things that people don't talk about, which is really important to talk about, because we don't always see that clarity in the moment. We only see it looking back on it. And I don't know what's next. I
don't know what's coming up. But I think that my journey has taught me that it's actually okay to sometimes not know and okay to just dabble and test and see if it works and you know, have a good time along the way, because sometimes you forget that it's not necessarily about the destination that we're getting to. It's actually about the journey and enjoying that, because if you didn't enjoy the journey, what was the point of getting to this impressive place in the end.
Absolutely, and also that even though now, in this chapter of your life, this is the ultimate destination that all the dots so far have led you towards. I think it's also important that you acknowledge that this isn't the end destination.
This is just the.
Iteration of your joy and your passion and your skills and them all intersecting right now. But in two years, three years time, we could jump on a podcast again together and we both be doing completely different things, Which is why this section is I spend a lot of time on how you got here to remind everyone that if they're not where you are, that's okay, maybe they're not meant to be, Maybe they're ten steps beforehand, and that you too had to start right back at the
very beginning. So can you take us back to young Victoria, what it was like at Padua College in Mornington, You know, what was your first job and your first idea of what you thought you would want to be, and how did you choose psychology and kind of take us through. I think what's really interesting is when people start to agitate for change, how do you know the signs that
something maybe isn't working for you? When you have gone down a particular pathway for quite a while, and then it's hard to know what the signs are that maybe you need a shift. So yeah, take us through those early years in that first career.
Ah, it is such a long story, and you know, I think it's actually a really relatable one if you go back to school. I don't think I had a very good school experience. I was really bullied. I didn't enjoy it. I had, you know, I had some really good friends and I've still got those friends. So I wasn't completely on my own. But you know, as a
teenager it often feels that way. And you know I was good academically, and I guess that's what you know, didn't hold me back, but you know it makes you feel like you're not the cool kid, and you're always
trying to fit in. And you know, I was really good at maths, and I was really good at science, and I adored biology, and you know, I was often a teacher's favorite, just because I would ask lots of questions and always be really interested because learning has always been something that one I've been really good at, but two I'm just interested in like I don't want to know the answer, I actually want to know how we
got there. And I guess, you know, I had a maths teacher that really didn't like me and got really frustrated because in year eleven and twelve I did specialist and specialist maths is a lot more formula than it is times tables. I guess to summarize it, right, it's less simple maths and more complex formula. And I would not be able to understand the formula until I understood where I could apply it and how it would work.
And I remember this teacher being so frustrated with me because everybody else would just read the textbook and you know, understand it, and I just couldn't comprehend the formula until she said, okay, well this is how you'd apply it to a mini setting, or this is what that means, or this is where X actually comes from, and that would really help me. So for me, my learning needs to be really contextual. I need to understand it. So she didn't particularly like me, and in fact, I would
say that I was somewhat bullied by that teacher. My parents had to get involved and I got moved out of her class because of that, And I guess that really deflates you in a way because I didn't have somebody who had my back in you know, I would say that I do come across as quite intelligent now, but it made me feel really silly because she used to tell me like, oh, if you're going to keep doing this, seal amount to nothing and things like that,
which is really horrendous from a teacher when teachers are meant to support you. So I guess this isn't the experience people would assume I had, because they would be like, oh, she would have flown through school, and that's just not the case. In fact, in year eleven and twelve, I missed a lot of school. I was struggling with feeling really flat. But I also had a pretty serious eating disorder during school as well, one that I was hospitalized
for a number of times. And it's totally okay, and I'm so happy to talk about it because I think this context is really important for people, especially on a podcast like yours, to understand that I haven't come from a place where it's always just been really easy. It's
always been a bit of a struggle. And I think that the thing that I'm most proud of myself is is my tenacity, and I always get back up, and I go, no, I can absolutely do this, like I don't need somebody else's validation to make sure that happens. And I wasn't experiencing and eating disorder because I wanted to be skinny or pretty or any of those things.
It was actually an outcome of me wanting to feel more in control of a situation because you know, going through school, you just don't feel as in control as you can. And so mine ruminated into that, and you know, I'm absolutely well and truly recovered. In fact, I look back and go, who was that person? Like, I'm such a foodie now and I enjoy food and there's no issues there at all, which I'm really grateful for because I know a lot of people sometimes don't lose that.
So that experience really led me down a path of, you know, I guess, realizing things and enlightenment and being enlightened and wanting to learn more about psychology because I had a really good psychologist and I felt like in that moment I could do that for people too, So psychology was the next step. Because I've always been someone that wants to help others, like that would be the underlying thing for every career that I've ever had is can I help other people? Because that's where I get
my joy. Like I get joy out of teaching, I get joy out of, you know, knowing that you're in a better position having crossed my path. And you know, psychology was always something that really enabled me to do that. So I started studying that and just thought, wow, this is so interesting and there's lots of biology in that you get to, you know, do a lot of study
and understand how the brain functions. And then I remember getting to third year of psych and that's the life last year of your undergraduate degree, and I did a placement and I hated it.
I couldn't know.
I was such a good learner and adored university, but I could not get my head around the fact that what do you mean like this is going to be the job?
Like I took this is how it translates what this is awful?
And I took everything home. So I was definitely not very good at psychology. And I think that takes a really special Sorry, Lucy, that is not yours. Give me two seconds.
Sorry, Oh my god, don't be I'm definitely living this in just saying Lucy is the sheeperdoodle. Just fi to everyone because I'm not cutting that out because that was amazing.
Sorry. She just went into my bathroom and I've left one of the drawers open, and she had literally a mouthful of silk scrunchies and she was running out of my office with them, and I was like, no, Satan, not today today, Oh my god, and the silk.
It's like, can you just get my cotton shitty scrunchy one, my silk one?
You are told?
Yes, she had three of them, So thank you, Lucy. Where was I I was telling you about how psychology was not my cooling anyway. I would take everything home and I just felt like I wasn't the right person for that. And I genuinely believe it takes a really special person to work in psychology and be able to separate themselves. But I wasn't able to do that, and it really impacted me, like my emotional energy would be
so flat. At the end of the day. I'd go home and just ruminate on the stories that i'd heard. And you know, now, I'm much better at that, But as a twenty one, twenty two year old, I can't remember how old I was, but about then it's a lot to carry. I'm very lucky in that I've never experienced serious trauma, so I couldn't relate to a lot of these stories, especially at such a young age where
I didn't have a lot of life fixed. So I have beautiful parents who brought me up and obviously experienced some stuff, but none of it was seriously traumatic, and so hearing those stories, I was always like wow, Like I just wanted to pick these people up and take them out of those situations. But that's not what psychology
is about. It's helping them deal with those situations. Anyway, kind of hit a crisis point and realized that wasn't for me, and thankfully I was surrounded by a lot of really supportive people, and one of them said, I think you want to be in organizational psychology. I was like, what is that. I've literally never heard of it. I've been doing psych for three years. Anyway, did my research.
Organizational psychology is the science of people at work and it is all about culture and engagement and improving work life balance for people, and I was like, oh, I could totally get around that. So, without having any experience in it, I enrolled in an honors program at a different university, doing an organizational psyche thesis and doing my honors year in that because I was just like, yep,
that seems to be the only logical answer, obviously. And I went and I got an internship in the space and started to love that and culture is it's so important, obviously, That's what's going to help you enjoy a job, whether you like the actual job semantics or not. And I really liked having an impact and working in a space where I could help senior leaders, you know, go to
the next level. It was never about fixing things in the way that I felt psychology was, but it was more about, you know, empowering them to take the next step and talking about, you know, the next thing in their job, or you know, what do you want to achieve or you know, have you got imposter syndrome? And would always just I loved those conversations, and so did my honors year. And I went and I got a grad job in all psych and I was very lucky to get it because I was the youngest one on
the team. And I started being a consultant and I went out to organizations and you know, I worked in a team it wasn't just me being sent out as a grad A promise you.
Hi, I'm brand new. Let me change everything.
Yeah, Hi, I would love to measure the engagement of your community or your your business. I have no experience, but hi. Anyway, So it was kind of a grad role, kind of not a grad role. It was like the next step because they didn't have grad roles. And I loved it, but I kept coming into this situation where I'd only studied psychology, but I'd go and meet with a team of people in a business who worked in
accounting that'd be like, what's accounting? I don't get it, Or people who were from the marketing department, and I'd be like, I also don't get your work experience because I didn't know genuinely, I didn't know what work they did, and they kept coming up with questions for me that I just felt really stumped on. So when it came to culture and engagement, I'd be, you know, across it
because I'd studied it and fully comprehended it. But people would often say, oh, Victoria, it's not my work that's stressing me. It's that I don't have enough money. It's on my wife is pregnant and we just don't know how we're going to afford it because we hadn't planned for this, or oh, my mortgage repayments are getting us down.
Don't worry. My engagements not because of that. It's because I've got a lot going on at home and money at that point started to become this really big underlying theme in my life that I didn't feel like I understood or had control of. So during this time, also because I didn't understand the different segments of business in typical Victoria fashion, wanted to study more. So I enrolled in my MBA.
Is that when you started your MBA.
I started my MBA when I was twenty one and I finished it at twenty three.
Of course you didn't.
Yeah, absolutely, of course I did.
It's really normal, guys, so normal, And I love that with your other degree, you know, the one before that, You're like, I just want to step my toe into auxite. So I'm going to do like a full thesis. Yeah, I just kind of dip my toe in a little bit.
I'm definitely I go hard or go home by the person. So, yeah, I started my MBA and got to study finance, So I did my nagerial finance. I did managerial accounting and thrived, like, loved it. Could not understand why I hated times tables so much, could not you know what I mean? Like, I just was so suok. The impact of finance was so profound for me, And yeah, I started loving that
and dabbling in that. And at that point, at this job where I was working in orgsy, like, I had this client who was a financial advisor, and every day he used to say, like every day that I worked with him, he'd be like, you'd be a great advisor, Like consider it, Like You'd be so much better at that than this. And I'd always be like, that is literally the worst job I can think of, Like who would want to be a financial advisor? So obviously I pushed it off and pushed it off. I had no
interest in entertaining this. And you know, after studying it and really feeling like I understood it and becoming a bit disengaged myself in the role that I was in because I just felt like I wasn't having the impact I I wanted to have. I kind of just took the plunge and said, all right, I'm going to quit anyway, i'd actually just moved roles to a new job. I'd gone from consulting to being internal at was actually at a university, and I didn't like it at all. The
team were not good, the culture was awful. I realized that, you know, in this role, I was never going to have an impact because there was just too many hoops to jump through and you know, very much a culture of but this is the way it's always been done, and I just don't end here or you know, subscribe
to that notion at all. So I think I was in that job for just over six months when I said I can't do this, Like I wanted to meet probations so that I didn't look like i'd not met it, because I was definitely an achievement based person and I was like, oh, I don't want people to think that. So I think just over six months I said, you know what, anything would be better than this, And I started doing finance and started a role there, and obviously
you have to be certified to do that. So I went and i'd finished my MBA, so I jumped into doing financial advice and I did my Diploma of Financial Planning, and yeah, I guess I've never looked back. And from there I was really lucky because I worked in a space that was high net wealth. So I wasn't working in what people call mom and dad financial advice. And it's not meant to be an offensive term at all, it's just you know, everyday people. I wasn't working in
that space. It's actually the space I'm really passionate about. I ended up in ultra high netwealth people. So that was people who had a minimum of ten million dollars to invest on the regular, so all of us know, yeah, so all of us really relatable content Victoria. But that was the space I was working in, and so I learned a lot about investment really quickly. I got really great exposure to boards of people who would make decisions
for investment companies. I got to understand the private family office space and what that meant and how to invest and for me, then I wanted to do my own thing because I just felt like that wasn't me and I started Zella, and the financial advisor that I worked
with became my business partner in that. Because financial advice and becoming an advisor and having a practice is really expensive, so you definitely need someone behind you to be able to go out on your own, and I'm very grateful for that opportunity that was afforded to me to do that and establish this business. But the more I worked with ultra high net wealth people, the more I realized that I wasn't passionate about it, like I didn't want
to make rich people richer. It didn't serve me, it didn't have that level of impact that I wanted to have. And so on the side of you know, building up this business of clients that were pretty wealthy, I started doing these workshops for women in law firms because that was who I really wanted to talk to and I felt like I could have a really big impact with So I went to some pretty big law firms around
Melbourne and said, hey, got in contact with the HR departments. Thankfully, some of the clients were actually partners at these law firms, so I had a pretty smooth in and said, can I talk to your HL partner like, I'd love to have a chat with them. I've got this workshop idea. So they let me come in and run these workshops called She's on the Money, and I did that because I genuinely felt like every other workshop I'd run because that was something I often got asked to do. Because
I do love presenting and I do love teaching. The women in the room never put their hands up, and they never wanted to in front of men, say oh, I don't really understand super or why would I make additional contributions? Or what's you know this insurance? Or you know, how do I start investing? Because especially women in law, and maybe you'll understand this, Sarah, it's not a bad thing. You are smart women, but you just don't want to
seem silly in front of your male counterparts. And men, especially in law, often like, oh yeah, I inverst and I do this and I do that, and you're like, oh, I don't want to have these conversations. So I'd often find that after those sessions, women would loiter back and ask me these questions they weren't comfortable asking in front of other people, or they would email me and ask these questions post the presentation. And so I decided to do a female only one and I called it She's
on the money. And so for a few years I was doing these seminars and I loved them. I didn't do them for any other reason. I wasn't paid to do them, sadly, and I just adored it, like I loved the connections that I was creating, and the women that would say, Victoria, I didn't even know this, like it's so easy, and you know, I'm going to start investing or I'm going to do this or that, and it was just so beautiful that I wanted to carry
those conversations on outside of the workshop. So I created a Facebook group, and that Facebook group is She's on the money. And I remember it's starting to grow, and people that I didn't know were joining, and I was like, who are you. I didn't invite you, Like I don't know you.
This is all you.
And people would message me and say, oh, hey, Victoria, I hope you don't mind. I went to one of your workshops. But my sister didn't. But I think that she'd love your Facebook group.
Is it alright?
If it had her? And I'd be like, of course, Like they're more than Maria. And so I thought, oh, there's all these people that haven't been to my workshops and haven't understood, you know, what I'm about. So I'm
going to start doing some structured content. So every week I would cover a different topic and upload a little PDF for them to do their own thing, or you know, talk about a specific topic or I did this pretty consistently for about twelve weeks, and I was shook because I ended up having seventeen hundred people in the Facebook group like and at that time, I was like, seventeen hundred people, Like, what am I going to do with this? And I asked them, literally, I was like, how do
I do this? And I asked them who are you all come from?
Like?
Am I famous?
Like?
It literally was overwhelming, and I said to them, what do you want next? How can I help you learn more? Because I'm genuinely just passionate about sharing this information? And they said, can you create a YouTube channel? And I was like, ah, no, not a chance, not a chance, it's not happening. I'm not confident enough for that, says.
The now famous TikTok person. But whatever, Okay, so weird, right, so weird. Someone's got a little confidence that they didn't have before. And I might have a few tickets on myself now that I definitely didn't have before.
But that is okay, that is personal growth a.
So that's part of the GIT.
That is seizing your ya babe, that is getting rid of the NATA thank you, and.
It's so fun. But I was really afraid of judgment and I was really afraid of what people would think. And I felt like in video, I didn't have the flexibility to construct the conversation in the same way that I could and a Facebook post because you can profread it and think about it and you know, make sure your stats are right. I was just really nervous, right, So they wanted me to do a YouTube, and I
just wasn't comfortable with it. And at the time, Michelle and Zara from Shameless with people that I was having chatsko than friends of mine, and I said, how do I do a podcast? Like would they would they take
a podcast anyway? And they saw the vision that I saw for a podcast, and they helped me to bring to life the first season of the She's on the Money podcast with twelve episodes, And we originally thought it would just be those twelve episodes, like you know, I jam packed them full of value, and I genuinely felt like that was all we'd ever do, because who wants
a podcast on money? Right? Like, there weren't really any other podcasts on money, especially for women, and I felt like, okay, cool, Like if we put these twelve episodes out into the universe, like they will help people, and because they're up on a podcasting platform, people can come back to them time and time again. They could re listen or you know, be introduced like a year later, and that will be enough. Anyway, it kind of, and I say kind of blew up,
I don't mean kind of blew up. It genuinely did blow up. And you know, we finished season one and I decided that, you know, after quite a lot of demand to bring it back, after a couple of months of people going when's the next season? And I was okay, like, ah, there wasn't ever one planned. So I had to work out a way to actually get a second season and start producing it. And Michelle and Zara was so busy, and obviously they've gotten incredibly successful podcasts, so it wasn't
an option to continue it that way. And yeah, we found a way, and now she's on the money. From those seventeen hundred people that wanted a YouTube and didn't get one, we've grown to more than one hundred and seventy thousand people in that Facebook group, and a podcast that gets more than a million downloads every single month, and I think we're number seven still in the country for podcasts on the podcast Rancor and that's been since January,
which is which is crazy. And yeah, that's I guess, in a very long way, my journey and how I'm gone from being someone who you know, really didn't have confidence and really didn't you know, trust themselves or understand themselves or know what I wanted to do all the way through to a guess having this community and I
still don't know what I'm doing. We're making it up as we go and it's working well, and I'm grateful I have a team behind me that she's on the money team is I think we've got seven of us now. And you know, I've got a wealth business on the side, Zella. I had a business partner and a year and a half ago I bought him out. So now Zella is
one hundred percent mine and it's all me. And yeah, it's it's crazy to think that from and I say this quote all the time, but like from little things, big things really do grow.
And yeah, I need to get that song on now, Oh my gosh.
Yes, But it's so true, and you know, I look back on it, and you know, now you've heard that story, I feel like people go, oh, that made so much sense, like you can see how the logical steps happened. But at that point in time, like it did feel like a crisis when I'd done three years of study for psych and then realized I didn't want to be a psychologist.
And then, you know, even when I was in this role that I didn't like that, I just felt like I wasn't fitting into, Like I didn't know what I was going to do, and I just wanted to take a leap, but didn't know what was right, and it was scary and terrifying. And I guess, you know, even
starting She's on the Money was hard. And people think it's great now and I absolutely adore every thing about it and I always have, but I remember I got a lot of criticism at the start and people saying that it was lame, and you know, no one wants to talk about money. And I used to ask my girlfriends, like, oh, hey, so I just did this post in my Facebook group, can you go like it? It's because no one's liked
it yet, and it's one of those things. Yeah, but it's true, right like, and we all grow from places and we're all not confident in what we do at the beginning until you know, we seek some kind of validation. And it's silly because we should be validating ourselves and know that inherently if we're making the leave and we're making this decision, like, there's a reason we're bringing it
to the table. And I think the second you try to be everything to everybody, you really dilute the value that you bring to the table, and you really do yourself a disservice because you are so valuable and there are people out there who are going to adore you. But the more you're adored, the more people that don't resonate with your story and your journey. And it could just be because it highlights to them a deficiency they
have selt makes them feel really uncomfortable. But I guarantee you the people that aren't comfortable with you, they don't know you, They don't know anything about you, and it's never actually about you. It's always about them, like it's a reflection of their own feelings and their thought patterns,
has nothing to do with us. And I think that when you can genuinely start seeing that and see that you know it's actually never about me, It's actually about something that they're experiencing, and you know, maybe I could help them through that, or maybe they're not ready for that. That's okay, but it really helps you understand that you know, the world is a good place and there are just some eggs that make you feel a bit sad sometimes.
And also that any worthy journey where you're doing something a bit different, like I've spoken about it quite a few times with people who have been the first or among the first in an area or an industry where they're doing something quite different, is when you're the first person to do something, it's going to draw a lot of negativity at the beginning. It's going to feel really uncomfortable. But nothing is cool until.
It is right. Like finance is cool until you made it cool.
Like now it's so cool to be financially secure, like you've turned that into something that people want to be associated with financial savvy and financial literacy, Like it's not cool to not know your books. It's not cool to be winging it in and struggling and not having support and resources. But it's really uncool until someone makes it that way, and you just happen to be the person that's forged a really unique path, facing all these obstacles to get through to now take it to where it is.
And I love that because the quote I always say is someone out there is looking for exactly what you have. But people think that you found all those people overnight. But this chat reminded me that, actually, like you know, even the way that people sometimes refer to a jump from one industry to another as a leap, I think that detracts from the fact that it isn't one big
jump that happens overnight. You didn't just go, I'm going to leave from like a shit time one job to a really great time where I'm really popular in another.
No one gets to do that, and it's entitled to think that too, because there's so many factors in the background, right, Like, I had to work out whether I could afford to do that. And fortunately, at that point in time, I was young, I had housemates, I didn't have any commitments, they didn't have any responsibilities, so I could move and I could take a job that you know, didn't pay as much. But I kind of saw it as an opportunity, and to be honest, at that point in time, it
wasn't about pay. I was just miserable and was like, oh god, I'll do that, thank you, Like that'll be more than enough money for me to pay rent and still go out and buy bottles of prosecco with my girlfriends to hang out at Precinct on the weekend. I definitely like, wasn't the type of person that was like, okay, cool, like this is going to be my career. Like I'm very study driven. That's what I love and what I adore.
But I think that people think I'm just this person that sits at home and reads and you know, doesn't engage. And while I'm not that person anymore. I don't go to Precinct on the weekends. I'm sorry, I don't. Yeah, sorry, I don't even drink that much. I'm so borry. But past me, like obviously would be very proud of what I've achieved. She found out that I got excited over the fact that I got a new dishwasher yesterday.
Like oh babe, oh it's her dream.
Oh it's happened.
And wait, before your time, it not even in your thirties yet, Like yes, I literally.
Have like twenty days left of my thirties and this is how I'm spending Victoria.
But I love that so much because it really is like I was struggling a lot. You know how much research I do before these episodes, and I really wanted to use a big part of the episode. You are just such a fountain of practical knowledge that has really
made some really unsexy and sometimes stigmatized. Like you know, a lot of people grew up in a time where you didn't talk about money, religion, and politics, Like there is a lot of stigma around financial conversations, but it does hold us back in a lot of ways, and as you mentioned in the workplace, like it's very difficult to have these conversations if you don't have a support network.
But I love that you've not just made a very difficult, intimidating, complicated, multifaceted area, very approachable and non judgmental as well, like your book, your podcast, everything comes from such a place of it doesn't matter where you are, there's no bad, there's no wrong, it's just how can we improve you from here? I wanted to spend so much of the episode on the practical tips that you have.
I feel like that's exactly what we've done. So I do apologize, but I genuinely agree with you there, and I think that that's something that is really special about She's on the Money, right, Like it actually came from a place of love, and I think that that's why it has a different vibe and it has this community behind it, and it's not you know, obviously now it is a business, and I'm so grateful that it is because I can employ some really beautiful people to help
me educate even more people. But for me, the idea if She's on the money came from this place of love and from giving, and it was never something about making money because I had a business, I had something else on the side, And you know, I never thought in my wildest dreams that this is where we would be. And I guess that's what we always as a team come back to as well, is like are we serving our community? Are we putting them in the best possible position?
Are we giving them every single tool and resource they need to be savvy and financially literate and you know, educated and empowered. And I guess that comes from me, you know, if we distell it down having experienced this ultra high net wealth world where they can afford all the advice in the world, and I just saw such an unfair advantage that they could access awesome advice and my friends couldn't. And I guess that's where she's on the money came from, and I guess, and I hope
that it'll always feel that way to people. And you know, you're a quote person, and I love that about you. It makes me so But a quote that's really helped me, especially along this journey, because people aren't your greatest fans, Like some people just really don't like what I do, because you're right, it's money, religion, and politics, and if you talk about those you make a lot of people uncomfortable. But the quote is you'll never be criticized by someone
who is doing more than you. You will only ever be criticized by someone who is doing less. And that brings me a lot of joy because I just know that if ever someone says something that you know doesn't resonate. And I'm all about feedback, right, like if you tell me, like, hey, Victoria, just don't think that landed well enough or you didn't do you know enough here and you know, people slide into our dms all the time and give us different perspectives,
and I'm so grateful for that. I never want that to stop. But sometimes, as you would know, Sarah, in a place of I guess the social media world, like people are just mean and they are just rude, and that quote really helps me in that space.
I love it so much.
I haven't heard that one, and it's I think one of my new favorites because it's so true what I was saying before though about the fact that I really wanted to use a lot of this episode for you know, a lot of the practical tips, but because the book is the most comprehensive, covers literally everything from saving super homeloyns,
investment children, like estate planning. It is the most comprehensive, like approachable, really just beautifully worded in such a really demystifies quite intimidating areas because people can get it in the book. I'm so glad that we spent more of the time on the story because no, thank you, it doesn't get as much airtime, right like people come straight to you in interviews.
No, and it's not something I share either. It's not because she's on the money isn't me. It is not about me. It is about the people in my community. And I've really shied away in the book actually from talking about my personal experience because that doesn't help you.
I wanted to fill it full of value and things that could actually help you, and money stories from my community that I thought were really interesting or inspiring or just relatable, because I didn't want to give you a whole chapter on saving and then not have relatable examples of people who have done it to inspire you to
take the next steps. And you know, my publishers were really frustrated with me because when I started writing, they said, Hey, here's the word count that we're aiming towards, and how many chapters have you got that you think you'll write on And you know, you've written a book, so you would know that. You give them the skeleton and the outline of the book and you go, yep, this is
what I think I'll write. And I started writing, and then I'd call them and be like, hey, I just I want to do another chapter, is he I just I think that this is going to be really good. And then she would be like, yeah, no problems, And then I had this chapter that included saving, and so I started writing that and then I called her. I was like, ah, yeah, so I wanted Saving to be up it's own chapter and I want to call it this and she'd be like, okay, no problems. So now
we're up to like twenty two chapters. What are we
going to do next? And I was like, okay, so also in addition to this one, we have a plan and she'd just be like, this is not the book we agreed to, but okay, no. And it's one of those things that it really evolved over time, and it really, you know, grew, and I knew I wanted money stories to be a part of it, but I thought i'd have a couple, right, But every single chapter has like one or two because I just couldn't stop, Like I just the second I was there, I was like, oh,
this feels empty without another story in it. And yeah, I just feel like I'm so grateful to have been able to bring to life exactly what I wanted. She's on the money the book to be, but also that you know, it's to me a gift, like it is like not you know, buy for other people gift, but more just like a gift of financial literacy, Like hopefully it encompasses absolutely everything that young women need to feel
financially secure and know they're on the right path. I'm very acutely aware that it's not the only financial book you'll ever need, because I want you to learn more and absorb more, and I'm never going to pretend to be absolutely everything to everybody. But I hope that it is the right start for people. It is the right step in the right direction to give you the confident that you genuinely deserve to be financially successful, and you know,
a touch on everything. But it's not like this is your guide to ultimate investing, but it will teach you what you need to take into consideration and the next steps and where to start, and how to understand your risk profile and you know, will Sarah, how should you invest? I don't tell you what to invest in, though, because that's not my position. That's not my job. Only you
can decide that. So I think that it is one of those things where you know, people are like, oh, is this the be all end or finance book, And I'm like, of course not, Like I want people to read more and educate themselves and have lots of different opinions, and you know, even take what I say with a grain of salt, because you should be, you know, always cautious.
Like we're talking about finance here, that's really personal. So I can't be everything to everybody, But I hope that this book can be everything you need to know to start.
I think it absolutely is.
It's such a comprehensive framework, and I love that it does give it an overlay of really every area at all different stages of your life that you would need to think about and enough understanding to then know where you would want to look if you did need to go further into something. Yeah, just quickly jumping in before we continue with today's episode, because firstly, my lips have been getting so dry lately from recording and talking so
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What you said before is really interesting that you're like, I didn't include a lot of the backstory we've discussed today because it's not helpful, or as I've spent most of my time on that. Because you can get your actual financial knowledge and advice, which is immeasurably important and invaluable. You can get that in the book, and I think everyone should go and buy the book links in.
The show notes.
But I think it is helpful to have heard your personal story as well, because people will pick up this book now with some context and know that you didn't wake up like this. That She's on the Money has definitely not been an overnight success. It started as a Facebook group, and that's a thing with anyone who has big dreams and big visions and who does put you on a pedestal as this incredibly high achieving, intelligent warm author now honestly podcaster Forbes thirty under thirty that you
also started small. You started not knowing where She's on the Money would go.
You started through a.
Facebook group, a podcast with what just one season, a podcast with two seasons. Like before the book, there have been so many chapters before this one to get here, and I love that you've taken us through the fact that it's never too late. Really, you can have had so many careers before you stumble upon the thing that clearly you are now this was your God given purpose on this air.
Oh absolutely, And I'm really grateful for that. And you know it's not something that you think about, right you see it now when you go, wow, it's so polished and so professional, bit Sarah. The first logo I made
for my Facebook group. I didn't know how to use Photoshop or any kind of editing tools to create logos, and I sure as hell didn't have any money to pay for one, so I made it on power Point with a free font that I downloaded from the internet, and I made a hot pink, because what is better than a hot pink? And then I screenshot it and
that became our logo. And I just think that, you know, if you want to do something, it doesn't matter what it's going to not cost, like, it just matters that you start and that you know, the polished logo can come later. But find your community, find the people that you can love, and love them hard because they will
help you grow. And now, you know, I'm so grateful that, you know, I did get to work with a designer at one point to bring together our website and our logos and stuff, and they are so much better than they used to be. But I'm not embarrassed of the journey. I'm not embarrassed of what they used to be. And I think that you know, there's this saying and I'm
not going to get this right. But they say that if you're not embarrassed of the first thing you put to market, like oh, you didn't start soon enough or something along those lines, And I just look at it.
I always say that if you don't cringe, you're doing it wrong, Like it's meant to I.
Get that, And you know what, my logo is real cringey and like awful. But I wouldn't say ever that I'm embarrassed of it, because that's part of my journey. And like that girl that just wanted a Facebook group to talk to her friends and these people in our workshops about money, like she did those things for the right reason, and she's created this, and like we need
to be respectful of the journey as well. And that's something I say about finance all the time, is we are often too hard on ourselves for our past spending habits. We are often too hard on ourselves for what we've been through. Because you know, you might pick up this book and go, okay, great, and thankfully I do cover this in the book, so hopefully nobody experiences this. But you pick up a finance book and go, oh my gosh,
I've been doing it so wrong. I feel so bad I've wasted so much money, or I'm in so much debt, or I can't believe I did that. I'm so silly, I'm so stupid, And it's just not how we should be treating ourselves. Like past you did absolutely everything they could with the tools and resources they had at the time. Just because you have new tools and new resources and your new vision doesn't mean that you did the wrong thing at the time for you, and that person has
created today's person. So I think we need to genuinely honor them and care for them and really put them first, because if we look backwards, it doesn't serve us in any way, shape or form. So I think that the guilt that we feel over, you know, the debt we're in, it's just unnecessary and it doesn't serve us. There's no guilt, there's no shame, there's nothing in it. It just is part of your money story. And that's pretty cool because
it doesn't have to remain your money story. You get to change that, and that's awesome.
I actually applied so much of that and those chapters about your money story and neuroplasticity and rewiring the beliefs and approach you have to your financial health and freedom, and how you can at any time of your life change the pathway that you're on. I applied that so much to career and joy and fulfillment because again, like because we're so instant gratuity based, we want to get to the passion a job and dream life. I think
everyone wants to rush there. They want to have a book, they want to have a number one podcast, they want to have everything now, but they forget that if you had had the idea for She's on the Money as it is right now, but ten years ago and skipped the whole psychology chapter and you would have been too young, Like, it wouldn't have worked. So you're actually not meant to skip any of those chapters. Nothing is ever a waste if you learn something, and there's something about the passage
of time that actually makes the dream possible. If you tried any earlier, the world might not have been.
Ready for it.
It just wasn't going to work. Like you are exactly where you are supposed to be. And I think that I always get, you know, a lot of solace out of that because sometimes life is hard, and you know, like now that I've quote made it, which lots of people say, like Forbes thirty under thirty like, way to put more pressure on me, guys, Oh my gosh. People are like, well, where too next. I'm like, I don't know, Like I was in bed, I don't know what am I supposed to do now, Like you guys are putting
so much pressure on me to perform now. And I think that you don't see it from that aspect, But I think that the solace in knowing that I'm exactly where I need to be right now in this moment, and that I, you know, am serving my purpose and you know, I just want to live every day as me and that is you know, that's what I prioritize. And I think that you know, people always like, oh
my gosh, like you must hustle so hard. Yeah, Like, I guess I work a lot, but like I also really love a wine on the couch with my partner. And I've got two cats and a dog and I just love spending time with them. And you know, I love spending time with my parents and my sister. And you know, it's I'm not who people seem to think I am. And I think that that's a really important
thing to remember. That we've all got lives outside of what you see on social media and what you hear on a podcast, and you know, nothing happens overnight, Like I didn't just end up with this massive podcast where you know, millions of people listen and thankfully I'm really grateful for this week and put advertising on and you know, create a revenue stream from that so I can employ people like I had to pay for the first season. It was really expensive. It was really expensive, and I
didn't know that you could do podcast advertising. I remember when I first got approached and I was like, what you can do?
What I can make, I can break even you're very.
Joking, Like, I just remember that was never the intention. I didn't even know that was an opportunity. And to be honest, I think that in a space where we are talking about money, had I had that intention, it
just wouldn't have worked anyway. So I think that my naivity at that time actually served us really well, which is also a very very common theme in this podcast that actually naivity sometimes is better because otherwise you would overthink it with too much knowledge and awareness, Like maybe you wouldn't rip the band aid the same way that you.
Did literally well, I do actually want to ask you about that whole productivity pressure, and I have a tiny bit de into your identity outside if she's on the money, because I think it is really important that we all have a plata as you know. But six days out at the time of recording from this beautiful book actually coming into the world.
It's wild. It's less than really, I believe you feel like I'm having a baby.
You are actually Actually that is actually what you're doing, except that more people are going to touch it and feel it and have it in their homes than your actual child.
There's actually no pain, like I don't have to go through the birthing process.
You kind of don though you've had a long pregnancy.
Yeah, I cried a lot.
I think it is no shit, the book that we all need so much, like it is filling a gap you can safely say, which not many authors can say. That you're actually putting something out into the world that doesn't exist, and that speaks to a whole, huge portion of the world's population in a way that no one
else speaks to them, which is so exciting. If you had to distill just quickly for us, the three biggest tips you would say to a financial newbie, and the three biggest myths that you bust or the myth that you hear constantly, what would they be?
Just as a little taster, no crush.
I know, I know, because obviously people can go and get you know, do their own further research and listen to the pod and buy the book, which of course we want them to do.
But just a taster, okay. So I think the first thing is understanding your money story. It is the first chapter in my book. And if you don't understand who you are and where you want to go and where you're coming from, how on earth do you think you're going to get anywhere? Like you were going to fall off track if you start budgeting like somebody else because
that's their plan, is not your plan. And I think that understanding your money story and giving yourself time to process why your thoughts, values, beliefs, and behaviors around money are the way they are is really going to serve you well. And I think a lot of people would have just jumped into like here's a hot money tip in mind's like just to understand you like that thing
to do? So that would be hot to number one hot tip Number two is to understand your budget and cash flow and stop seeing your budget as restrictive and start seeing it as a way that you can personally make sure that your money is flowing in line with your values and your beliefs. Like how cool is it that we get to make sure that that comes to life,
Like we have an opportunity here. It's not about saying, oh, well, okay, next week, I'm only going to spend seventy dollars on groceries because I read that that was a pretty good number. Like sorry, if food spucks your joy, and that is the one thing that you adore, and you know, my partner and I love cooking and I love food. Like if you said I really had seventy dollars in a week, I'd be like, hi, Sarah, So you can just put that opinion right in the bin over there and put
that straight outside, because I couldn't do that. You might, because you might have other values and things that you're working towards, but I don't want you to take those things off me. And that's why in the book I never talk about percentages, and frustratingly, I'm sorry. I don't say things like oh, well, you need to save two
twenty percent of your income, because that's really unfair. What if you earn forty thousand dollars and you have a child, like you can't save twenty percent, and that's a really unfair expectation that I'd put on you. Whereas conversely, if someone reads this and they earn four hundred thousand dollars, you best believe I'd be expecting them to save a lot more than twenty percent because their cash flow is so high. So it is not fair to put percentages
on people. And that's why I want you to understand your budget. And a budget is not a spending plan. It is not a you know, a reflection of how much you're allocating to each area. It's actually understanding what's coming into your bank account and what's going out of your bank account and whether it flows in line with your values. And then the third thing is a bit of a pivot from there, and that's understanding your superannuation.
And your super is so powerful, like your super is literally you guys at this point in time, investing a minimum of nine point five percent each and every single month, like not many of us could that. We've been doing that since we started working when in reality, that's what we are doing. And it is your money, and you need to care about it, and you need to make sure that it is working in line with your values, but also that it is working as hard as you
do for it. Yeah, you can't touch it until you retire, but that's what's going to prop up your retirement. So we need to start caring about that now. Because you know, a good example, and I do use this in the book, is if you started investing five hundred dollars a month as a twenty year old, at the time you retire, you'd have an investment portfolio worth one point two million dollars. And that one point two million dollars if you had only saved five hundred dollars a month, you would have
two hundred and forty thousand dollars. But you could literally have essentially a million dollars more if it was invested instead of just saved. And the special thing about a one point two million dollar portfolio is that it will generate you a passive income or average of sixty thousand dollars. Like what you're going to have a passive income of sixty grand when you retire. You just start saving like
five hundred bucks a month, that's wild. But if I then said the same thing and said, hey, Sarah, do you want to retire with one point two million dollars? But you know you haven't really prioritized it and you're now fifty, great, Like, let's work towards that. Have you got seven and a half thousand dollars a month to save? Like, can you do that?
It's wild.
The difference between putting it first and really understanding it while we're young means we just make a few small changes, set up some really good habits, and keep consistent with those habits. Whereas if I get to you too late, well, we actually have to be really aggressive, and at that point we have to significantly compromise our lifestyles and sell assets that we might have, and you know, create a
way to make that work. And nobody has seven and a half thousand dollars of free cash flow to invest. So I think it is really important to start prioritizing souper now because that's what it can do for you. Like, that's pretty sexy if you ask me, Oh.
My god, you have Like that was my favorite chapter and I was reading it like shrinking into my a little bit because you do it in such a non judgmental way.
I wasn't feeling any shame, but I was like Jesus.
Christ, and like the example of doing it at twenty is it even makes me feel a little bit attacked because I definitely wasn't saving five hundred. I'm kind of like, hey, here's this missed opportunity that I missed that I hope you don't. But it's really important to understand why we're doing these things because so many times people are like, oh, retirement, I don't care about that, but yeah, sure, yeah, and we look at our parents and go that so far off.
But if you ask them, hey, do you remember when you were thirty, they'll be like, oh, like it was yesterday, Like time flies, and you know, future us need to be cared for, like it's it's crazy and yeah, And.
What about the myths that you hear or just more like the most common thing that people sort of Look.
I've got a good myth for you, and that is that you need a good credit score, and to get a good credit score, you need to have credit cards. And that is absolutely not true. So to get a good credit score, you just need to pay your debts and you know, make sure that you don't default on your phone plan and make sure that all the bills that you get are paid on time and consistently. I think it's really interesting and it's such an American idea that you need to have a credit card to develop
a credit score is absolutely not the case. And too many times do people fall down this slippery slope of getting it because they're like, oh, but one day, I want to buy a house and I want to have good credit, and it's actually putting you behind because having a credit card is actually a reflection of the fact that you're not that good at prioritizing your budget and saving for things, and that's actually not that sexy. And yeah, I think that that's something that a lot of us
still believe in. And the second about buy now, pay later. I know that there's a lot going around at the moment about how quote doesn't impact your credit score, and
they're running mythbusting. Literally it's doing me up the wall because they are running myth busting advertising campaigns where they're like, oh, it's a myth that this product actually impacts your credit score, and you're like, they're not wrong in that it only impacts your credit score if you default on a payment, which happens a lot, if you let it get out of hand, and it's only going to impact you negatively if you actually aren't using it properly, or you find
yourself not able to make that month's repayments and it's just a little irresponsible. So for me, that is a myth that does impact your credit score because too many times we miss a payment or forget to transfer money into the account that it's direct debited from, and most of the time we're not trying to do the wrong thing. You just slipped up, and that does get tracked. But when it comes to getting a mortgage, if that's aligned to your values getting a mortgage, they do look at
by now pay later schemes and platforms. They see it as you not being able to manage your cash flow. So it's as much as it might not impact your credit history, it is definitely on your banks statements and thanks when they are giving your mortgage review all of that. So for me, I think that those are probably two myths. I can't think of another one off the top of my head.
I've got a third statistic or what is that it's from that section, which I found really interesting along with that myth busting about that the American perception of needing a credit card was that I can't remember the exact statistic, but just the buying behavior when you have a credit card, that the average purchase on a credit card is like one hundred and four dollars something, yeah, but if you did it on an f POS card, it's like fourteen dollars.
So the mentality of having a credit card is that you spend, like, you just spend times as much, yeah, as money when it's your money that you have to have in that account.
And how bizarrely you think you're.
On an even playing field that you'll get you know, your points, but you'll pay it off from the cash that you've got, and it doesn't operate that way.
And that's crazy, right, Like I feel like it's actually crazy that, you know, so many times we just don't assume that, Like if you've got a credit card, you'd be like, I'm not spending more. But I guarantee you if I made you get one hundred dollars out of the bank, and that was how much you only had
in your hands to spend all groceries this week. You would be so much more conscious walking around to the supermarket picking up things and putting it in your trolley because you know that's all you've got, whereas when you have a credit card, you're like, oh whatever, like it's not a thing, Like I don't mind you, Like I've got this budget in my head and like hopefully it's about that. But you just have a different mentality and it is a different mindset, and yeah, it's really frustrating
because you just trust you feel a bit stooged. Yea.
Oh well, our very last section is playda as I mentioned before, where I would love to talk about all the things that all the sides of you that aren't
finance related. And it's hard when your job and your person is something that does touch kind of areas of everyday life, like literally everything could give you a new idea, and you have to live on the internet and on social media to you know, keep up with your job, which means it similar to me, like we're always looking for the idea in something because we we're a type
personalities that love to just deliver to our audience. And you mentioned before that productivity pressure as well as a book.
You've just started two more podcasts.
On top of that go Home that you already do for the one that you have, Like, we.
Literally have a podcast a day now. It is insane.
And you've just got a new platform that you developed.
You have one every day.
So between all three podcasts, we've got Monday, Wednesday, Friday where she's on the Money. You've got the Property Playbook on Tuesdays and the Business Bible on Thursdays.
Wow, So this section is redundant because it's like, wait, there are no minutes left for her to do anything the.
House, Oh my gosh.
No. And then we do bonus episodes because they just get too excited and like, oh my gosh, can we put this up? And my team are literally they are angels and they look after me so well. But I am absolutely certain that they don't like me because.
But this is a hard thing as well.
When you love what you do and you actually genuinely get excited about the content that you're creating, that gives you even less incentive to have space in your life outside of it.
Exactly, So how do you do that?
Like, especially when the momentum from your community, like there's actual demand you know, some people have trouble with productivity and rest and downtime even when there's not literal dms like when is the next.
Episode coming down?
Study?
Actually, how do.
You do things that are just for joy and that are separate from finance and separate from podcasting and that are.
Just for you.
Yeah, you have to plan it right, like you have to actually make it planned. And you know, I used to be that person that put a lot of pressure on myself and I got up at four thirty in the morning and I'd go to the gym and then I'd be at work by seven, and I would run my life very like clockwork. But I wasn't that happy. And now you best believe I do not show up to the office until at least ten thirty most mornings.
And ooh, that's amazing.
My partner and I prioritize making sure that we go for a walk every morning and get a coffee. And I was saying to you before we started recording that we've got a dog, Lucy, and we got her in December, and you know, we don't ask her if she wants to go for walks like everybody else's dog. We'll say, do you want to go for a walk, and she'll just look at you, like, what are you talking about? But if you say, Lucy, do you want to go for coffee? Like she loses it and runs to the
front door. Because that's stephen My thing. Like we go for a coffee and a walk every single morning, Like we do this five k walk together and it's always the same loop because we're really boring, but we also have it well timed and that's our time to have a chat in the mornings and set up our days well and just enjoy it. And I do work really late, and I think our community sees that, but it's not because I'm working twenty four to seven. It's because I've
come in late and enjoyed my morning. And you know, lockdown has definitely and COVID has definitely got in the way of me being able to seize the things that I love doing and being able to do them. But when COVID's not a thing, I want to go back to playing netball on Wednesday night. I play socially terribly, mind you, Like I play center and like there is no way, absolutely no way that anybody would ask me
to be on their team. But I'm small and I'm pretty good at running, so I feel like I make a pretty good center, Like I'm there.
I mean, they're just like the core of the team. You're like holding up the whole team.
I wouldn't call it the core. I'm like the little one that runs around and I'm definitely not tall enough to be a shooter or even a defender. So I think I just ended up with that position because they were like, oh, well, she needs to be on the team, but like we're not putting her in that ring, so but she could be the treasurer, so yeah, yeah, yeah we need her, So yeah, I do that. And speaking of treasurer, I'm the treasure out for a charity TLC for Key and I've done it for more than a
year now. And yeah, Tim is he's so special. He's one of those people you meet and you just are like are you a unicorn? Like how do you? How do you care? So much? Like he's just such a beautiful person and I'm so grateful to be able to do that. So I do that in my spare time as well. That's literally just a passion, Like TLC is a charity for sick children, and I'm just so passionate about everything they do and so proud of being, you know, a part of their team, and you know, just to
be young as well and on. That feels really special because I don't think that that's an opportunity that you know, I ever thought would be extended to me, like to sit on a board, Like what who am I?
You're so fancy.
I talked about the pedestal at the start, You're literally like getting even higher.
Yeah, but it's not the case.
It is not the case. Like I do that, you know on the weekends, Like I love hanging out with my family, I love cooking. I am terrible at reforma pilates, but religiously go. I'm that person that they're like, oh, if you could just fix this, And I'm always like stop it, Like I suck. I know I suck, like and I know you know I suck because I've been coming here forever. But this is my joy, So just leave me alone. Yeah, if you could just leave me alone. I'm just trying to be helpy.
Oh I love it.
I genuinely don't have as much time as I would like to have free. But as my team grows, you know, I'm finding that I'm able to take my hands off things as much as I could. Like twelve months ago, I never ever could have, you know, come into the office at ten thirty in the morning. But now I'm, yeah, creating the life that I want to live. And you know,
I'm grateful that I get to do that. But I also get to extend that to my team, and you know, knowing that they get to I just want them to do their work, so like they get to come and go. I feel like we've got this little team of people who are passionate about Sheese on the Money but also have lives outside of Sheese on the Money. I don't want everything to revolve around that.
Except you've created such a beautiful environment when you know that they probably do want everything in their life to revolve around that.
I'm so kind to honestly, I am so grateful for all of them. And yeah, like being in lockdown, especially for the fourth time, it just reminds us. We always like we're itching to get back to the office to be together, to just hang out together because we're more creative together. We you know, vibe off each other and just enjoy it. And the office dog Lucy, she comes in every day and she's got her own like basket and hangs out and yeah, everyone just gets along and
it's definitely not a high pressure environment at all. And I think it keeps you humble and keeps you really down to worth because like when something fancy happens, and I'm very grateful it's happened a lot recently, like with Forbes, and there's been a lot of news articles that have featured us. My team always like, oh, you're a whanker, like this article, like if only they knew the real you. And to be honest, I wouldn't change it for the world, Like I don't want people to think that I'm some
fancy person, Like I'm normal. I'm down to earth and like yeah, like I'm just trying to pay my mortgage.
Guys, congratulations on having one. By the way, we saw that, or just to finish out, what are three interesting things about you that don't normally come up in conversation And I'm going to have to say that they cannot be finance related.
Well, there's nothing interesting when it comes to finance. Who would do that as a job?
You shit to talk about money?
What have we got? I don't know what makes me interesting.
So many things, so many things, And can I also just say, as a little aside, having met when we were both at very different stages, I have always had this sense that you are going places and you have such a passionate energy about what you do, and it's
so satisfying. And I don't know quite how to describe the feeling though, to see that all that energy and bars and passion and intellect and potential that when we first met us like, oh man, this woman like you are taking over the world, that you're doing it.
Like it has just been such a privilege.
To what you know, what you know what I mean though, when you meet someone before the thing that you know them in now to have watched it is such a great privilege because this is what you were destined to do.
That is so kind and I feel like I was destined to do it, and it's it's crazy to think we're doing it and it, you know, reiter eats when people say stuff like that to me, it just reminds me that I am doing the right thing, and I am in the right place. And you know, like all of these achievements over the last few months or years or whatever, we want to call it like just to reminds me that whatever we are doing, we're doing it right, and we're in the right space, and we're making the
right steps forward and we're having these impacts. And you know, my favorite thing in the entire world is you know, I guess that's an interesting fact. It's not about finance, but it is about she's on the money. Is that when it comes to dms and it comes to you know, managing the socials, like I don't want to let go
of that. Like my favorite thing is talking to our community and talking to the people in our DMS who vestage us to be like, hey, I know you might not read this, we do definitely read it, just defoy, but I just want to tell you that I've paid off all my debt because I listened to your podcast or you know, a really special one the other day was that she'd gotten out of a financially abusive relationship and it was because of our episodes on that and she'd you know, saved up and it was a plan
that she'd created over the last eight months and that you know, we were integral to that. And that's crazy to think that we're impacting people without even knowing it and they just tell us later they're like, oh, yeah, by the way you did this, Like what I helped you get out of a financially abusive relationship. That's wild. Like, I'm so proud of that, and I don't want us to ever lose that as our driving force and as our priority, because you know, you're right, it's really fancy
to be a Forbes thirty under thirty. I don't want that, though. I want the people in my DMS. I want to talk to people about saving I want to talk to people about you know, a savings hack that I made and I made it on PowerPoint, but I made it and you can download. It's on your bridge. Like that's
who I am and what I want to do. And I think that, yeah, that's I guess something that people assume I have handed over because we do have a content manager now and a content producer, but I'm pretty controlling when it comes to that.
I love that though. It's because you're so in touch with your audience still. Because of that, well you.
Have to be, because that's why I'm here, Like, they're the reason I get to do what I love every single day, and I'm so grateful for all of them to be here, because not many people can say I wake up every day so proud of what I do and like that's so cool, and yeah, I guess that's one thing people don't know and assume it's not me.
What about one that Steve would know but no one else would know, like weird things that you do?
Oh that I am obsessed and have an uncontrollable desire for frozen ice cream chocolate mochiese. Oh oh so specific, so specific, but like if ever I'm sad and he comes home with a box of chocolate ice cream mo chiese, there are six in a box. You best believe I will not be saving you any I will eat the whole thing and like he can change my day with
the boss of mo cheese, like I promise you. And that would be such a bad spending havoc because I think full price, they're like seven dollars a box, but they are a good deal, even not on sale, like.
My friend, your budget pie chart is like mostly like seven dollar mortgage groceries is like tiny health insurance? You know, much is more important?
Yeah, yeah, I think he would absolutely say that, and I think he would also want to tell people that my personality is also in my pets personalities. And we talk about this all the time because we've got three pets. I have two cats and a dog. I've got Bailey who's ten and he's a tong Canese. I've got Henry, who's one and he's a chocolate Tonguenese. And I've got Lucy, who is a sheeperdoodle and she is nine months. And yeah,
they're all as crazy as I am. And sometimes he just looks at them and is like, you are actually like your pets, Like you know, Lucy's very snugly and cuddly and just wants to be on the couch in her blanket, and that is me. And Bailey can be really sassy and that is also me. And he always tells people that I get my attitude from my cats, and my cats get their attitude from me. So maybe that's maybe that's something people would definitely not talk about because people just don't care.
But people definitely care. I have followed your pet journey and your little menagerie at home with a keen interest, a keen interest it's going to.
Turn into a farm. We bought our house in December, like at the start of December. It was absolutely well wind like we found it. It was like a two week settlement, like it was yay and a like so quick. And my partner had always said, we can't have a dog until we own a property, and that was my motivation for getting a property. I was always like, all right, well I didn't want property until now, Well, we're going to have to buy a house.
I guess.
Good priorities, and so I reached out to this breeder and one thing led to another and we ended up with Lucy two days before we moved into the property. And I was just like, all right, cool, so I've organized a puppy. And he was like, were we not going to move in and maybe talk about it? And I was like, ah ah, like we are, we have a dog, We have a puppy, we are moving in.
And I remember bringing her home because we'd secured her and she had to be She's from New South Wales and I live in Victoria, so she had to be driven down for us.
Baby.
Yeah. We went to pick her up and I didn't want to take her to our rental property, but we'd just been given the keys to our actual property and so Steve and I slept on a blow up bed in our new house with no other furniture in it because we wanted to have the dog in the new property. And I remember bringing her home and not having any furniture and just sitting on a dog bed in the middle of our new lounge room with this puppy, and I was just so happy. I cried because I was like,
oh my god, all my dreams are coming true. Living this is slipping like I've got this dog and I adore it, and like, I guess, yeah, like my life goals have never been around Korea. They're always around, you know, I guess, love and family and you know, hopefully one day creating a family of our own, but for now, our pet family. And yeah, I guess that's central to
who I am and what I do. When you start to get to know me, you're really like, oh cool, So she actually doesn't care about any of these achievements. She's just proud that her dog can shake force.
Like I love that about you so much. Well, final question, lovely, what is your favorite quote?
Oh my gosh, I already told you. Why did I Why did I ruin that so early?
Because it was such a good one.
Oh my gosh. Yeah, I'm actually going to reiterate that for you, because I do think it's really important and it's helped me, and I feel like it's one that we don't talk about enough, and that is that you will never be criticized by someone who is doing more than you. You will only ever be criticized by someone who is doing less. And I think that that is, I guess, a really good place to leave it, right,
Like any one can adhere to that. Like if anyone ever says anything bad about you and my friends, like, I bet you it's because they are not, you know, following in your footsteps or you know, being the person that you are. And it's hard in Australia because I feel like tall poppy syndrome is such a prevalent thing, and i'd heard about it, you know, and i'd spoken about it before, and obviously studying psychology, i'd been told about it, and I just was like, no, that's not
a thing. I've never been held back and I absolutely haven't been held back. But my gosh, now I have what you definitely could call a profile in this space. The people that don't want you to be successful, they're loud. They're loud, and they can make you feel like crap so easily, And I think that a quote like that just really helps you remember what's important. Absolutely.
Unfortunately, you have a community, a very engaged and increasingly expanding all over the world community who absolutely adore you, and I have only the best thing to say about you. And She's on the Money and the new book and everything you do. It's just been a privilege to be alongside.
And to be able to be so kind.
I can't oh my god, I don't even have words like, I have no language. It's just you are really shaking up a really really important part of our lives that is obviously having such a huge impact for everyone.
So congratulations, Well, thank you, Sarah. That is honestly, I should come on your podcast more often because parts like I just need someone to be as complimentary as you are.
Anytime.
Honestly, you are just such a wonderful, wonderful romodef all of us.
Well, thank you for having me. I'm genuinely so grateful.
I don't think anyone could need any convincing to go and listen to and or buy She's on the.
Money for yourself.
After hearing Victoria's eloquence and passion for what she does. It's increasingly difficult to really do something different in this day and age where so much has already been discovered.
But I truly believe.
That Victoria and her She's on the Money team is bringing some to the market that wasn't there before, helping millions of women and men to build better financial futures for themselves. I never knew finance could actually be fun before I met Victoria, And if you had a similar aha moment during this episode, please don't forget to share tagging at Victoria Underscore Divine or She's on the Money
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