On this episode of Seeing Other people, Ilana is joined by Sarah Sasson, her best friend and the co-host of the It’s Fine, I’m Fine podcast. Ilana and Sarah discuss overcoming the loneliness that comes with singlehood, how to make the most of being the only single one in the friend group, and why the more you know yourself the harder (but more rewarding) dating can be. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jun 08, 2021•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 29
On this special episode of Seeing Other People, we’re parting ways with one of our beloved hosts. We’re bad at goodbyes, but we did our best. Plus, it’s not goodbye, it’s see you later (worldwide…on a big screen…or a small screen…lots of screens…ok just listen). Tune in to hear the breaking news. Follow along and keep in touch www.instagram.com/jonahfeingold and make sure to check out Jonah’s new film Dating and New York! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jun 03, 2021•14 min•Ep. 38
We’re diving into the ins and outs of being vulnerable in your dating life. When do you start opening up and being vulnerable? How can you be vulnerable without putting yourself at risk of oversharing? If someone’s not opening up to you, how can you encourage them to? What do you do if you feel closed off and afraid to be vulnerable after a heartbreak? Later in the episode, we practice vulnerability by playing the We’re Not Really Strangers card game and learn more about each other and ourselves...
Jun 01, 2021•42 min•Ep. 27
We’re back with another full Q&A episode! How can you close the door on someone once and for all? How many dates in should you delete your dating apps? How do you tell your ex you want to give it another chance? How should you handle a crush on a coworker? What if you don't feel physically attracted to someone? All of this and more. DM us your questions @seeingotherpeople on IG or email us seeingotherpeoplepodcast@gmail.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
May 25, 2021•42 min•Ep. 26
Jeremy Jacobowitz aka Brunch Boys chats with Jonah and Ilana about all things going out on dates. Who should pay? Should it be drinks or dinner? What food is okay to order on a first date? How to maintain the same drinking speed as your partner - and more in this hilarious episode that pokes fun and brings awareness to the nuances of modern dating. The episode wraps with some listener questions p.s. Jonah apologizes that his mic was turned off and his sound is a bit reverb-y. Learn more about yo...
May 18, 2021•57 min•Ep. 25
Jenna Langbaum, author of “Me in Search of You,” joins us on this episode of Seeing Other People. Jenna’s writing beautifully dissects the nuances of modern dating, ghosting, and dating apps and helps to remind us that we’re not alone in what we’re facing, as we’re all connected by shared dating struggles. We discuss how the concept of ghosting is actually insane and how painful and confusing getting ghosted can really be. We explore how dating apps have led us to consider potential partners bas...
May 11, 2021•52 min•Ep. 24
Situationships? More like situationshits. We’re diving into the ins and outs of situationships with Ali and Roark of Finding Mr. Height: The Podcast. What exactly is a situationship and how do you know if you’re in one? Can you turn a situationship into a relationship? How do you know when it’s time to leave? We’re discussing all of this, answering listener questions, and so much more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
May 04, 2021•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 23
We go on a date with Alexis Wolfe AKA @nycdatenite to talk all about post-pandemic dating. From getting back out there and going on that first in-person date in over a year, to determining what the best and worst types of places to go on a first date are, we’re covering all of the bases for you to shoot your shot at love (after getting that #vax shot). -How to choose a first date spot -What not to talk about on your date -Why you shouldn’t have a regular “first date spot” -What to do if you’re n...
Apr 28, 2021•52 min•Ep. 22
We chat with Sandro D’Abruzzo, author of “So You Think You Can Date?” We hear what led Sandro to write about how to find success in dating and his experiences dating around the world. We discuss the importance of being yourself from the start in any dating situation, and get into the nitty gritty of how to actually practice being yourself. Sandro shares what the process of writing his book was like, and we dive into topics like spontaneity, self perception, and whether or not guys are complicate...
Apr 22, 2021•33 min•Ep. 21
We love when you ask us questions, so we're taking up a whole episode to answer as many of them as we can! We're answering questions including: Do people deserve second chances? How soon is too soon to have sex? If we didn't kiss on the first date, is it doomed? How do I ask someone to put effort into planning dates? Why do people lose interest? Do guys still ask to be official? Plus long distance, pandemicships, DTR, and more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Apr 20, 2021•48 min•Ep. 20
Today's guest is Noa Porten who hosts the Spooning with Spoonies podcast where she chats about dating and relationships with experts, singles, and couples from the chronic illness community. We learn how chronic illness can impact someone’s dating life and daily life, and how tools like setting boundaries and practicing open communication are crucial in the search for a lasting romantic partnership. For those who are chronically ill, Noa shares advice on how and when to comfortably communicate i...
Apr 15, 2021•26 min•Ep. 19
The episode you probably knew you needed is finally here. Are your texting habits holding you back from finding what you’re looking for? Are they not into you if they don’t text you back right away? Can it work if you’re a “bad” texter? Are you rightfully stressing over your crush’s response time or are you expecting too much? Does lack of texting mean the relationship is doomed before it even started? We’re breaking down everything about texting when it comes to dating so you can have the tools...
Apr 13, 2021•55 min•Ep. 18
Nicole Pellegrino, cohost of the Betches Brides podcast joins us to prep you all for this year’s wedding season. Nicole spills the secrets to what has kept her eight-year relationship going strong, how we can work towards keeping that relationship (once we all find it). She shares the importance of enjoying your independence when you’re single and carrying that independence with you into a relationship. Nicole gives us the scoop on what brides and grooms are doing to help their single friends ou...
Apr 08, 2021•24 min•Ep. 17
Not having the best luck meeting people on dating apps? This episode is all about other ways you can put yourself out there and find love. Whether it be the comment section of a post on any platform, through TikTok (Jonah’s favorite dating app), sliding into the DMs, or finding love on Club Penguin (Ilana’s pick), it’s not all about dating apps. Our listeners chime in to tell us about their experiences meeting people via email, Instagram DM, and from a TikTok video. We discuss the right ways to ...
Apr 06, 2021•1 hr•Ep. 16
We’re kicking off our Thursday episode series by catching up with Bachelor Nation’s Ed Weisbrot. We hear about Ed’s dating life since his time on Clare/Tayshia’s season and he shares how being on the show reinforced the importance of authenticity, vulnerability and communication. Ed talks about why he has chosen to stay off of dating apps, how he’s been meeting people IRL, and why Whole Foods is the best spot to find your soulmate. We discuss whether or not all dates should end with a rose cerem...
Apr 01, 2021•26 min•Ep. 15
We're joined by comedian Rishi Mather who kicks off the episode by sharing how he’s been navigating his parents’ disapproval of his engagement. We discuss how some couples stay together even while being unhappy because of what society would think of them if they split up, especially in Indian culture. Rishi tells us how he met his now fiancé on Tinder (we love a dating app success story!) and spent four days building up the courage to send that opening message. What started out as a booty call e...
Mar 30, 2021•59 min•Ep. 14
New Yorker and friend of the show, Derek Lindsey, joins us today to share his experience coming out in his late twenties. Derek opens up about his fears about coming out and shares what finally pushed him to do so. We dive into the differences between straight and gay dating on dating apps as well as specific nuances of gay vs straight relationships. Derek gives his advice for anyone who might be struggling with their sexuality or debating whether or not to come out. Later, we discuss how Derek’...
Mar 23, 2021•59 min•Ep. 13
We’re hanging (socially distanced…of course) with Jared Freid on this episode of Seeing Other People! We kick things off with a friendly reminder that social media relationships aren’t what they seem. We chat about how communication is easier said than done, because we all have different definitions of what each step of the modern dating process means to us. Jared shares what he would do to fix modern dating if he was cupid. Later, we play a game of “Save The Date” where we dissect potential dat...
Mar 16, 2021•1 hr 23 min•Ep. 12
We’re sitting down (virtually) with Jon and Rene Shapiro, husband and wife and founders Mixology and Mindset Wellness CBD. The Shapiros open up about the highs and lows of building a life, a family and a business together. They share how Rene supported Jon through his battle with anxiety and depression, how they struggled to separate not bringing work home with them, and why they decided to leave the fashion industry behind to build a CBD company together. Finally, we answer listener questions a...
Mar 09, 2021•59 min•Ep. 11
We're traveling back in time with Francesca Beauman, writer, historian, and the world’s leading expert in Personal Ads, to learn about how people “dated” throughout history. We discuss how we got to where we are in dating culture, and how society transitioned from arranged marriages and courting to the casual hookup culture of today’s modern dating world. We learn how advancements like transportation and technology impacted the way people date, and finally we chat about what dating might look li...
Mar 02, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 10
"Get an abortion" was not on her college bucket list. She never thought she would have to call her parents and say, "I'm pregnant." Our guest opens up about her experience getting an abortion her senior year of college. She shares everything from moment she found out, to the aftermath and trauma she's dealt with as a result. We learn how her friends and family helped her get through it, and we hear about what was going through her mind as she made important decisions including not telling the gu...
Feb 23, 2021•37 min•Ep. 9
We’re joined by Amy Chan, Founder of Renew Breakup Bootcamp and author of Breakup Bootcamp -The Science of Rewiring Your Heart. In this episode, we learn how to navigate what happens in your brain and your body when you go through a breakup. We discuss what steps you should take if you’re struggling to get over someone, how to identify when you’re ready to get back out there, and why you shouldn’t spend your time in bed with chocolate, ice cream, wine and rom-coms. Finally, we chat about the imp...
Feb 16, 2021•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 8
Happy almost February 14th! AKA, the day that comes after February 13th and before February 15th. If this day makes you anxious, nervous, or sad, have no fear. We are here to walk you through being single AND happy on V****tine's Day. We chat about our past Feb 14th experiences, what to do and what not to do on the day, and we treat you to some hilarious listener-submitted date fails. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 11, 2021•46 min•Ep. 7
We’re going head to head with Lindsey Metselaar, host of We Met at Acme, to debate some of the most common "rules" of dating, including girls shouldn't text first and whether or not you should send a "thank you" text after a date. We discuss what went down when we first met and went on a date back in 2019, and Lindsey gives us the low down on whether or not we're are astrologically compatible. Finally, Lindsey spills the tea on the time she crafted all of her friend's texts to a guy...for three ...
Feb 09, 2021•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 6
Repeat after us: being thirty and single is OKAY. We're joined by Zahra Sahebzada who is here to discuss her experiences dating in New York City as an Afghan Muslim. Zahra breaks down what it's like to be the first in her family to not have an arranged marriage, how to not feel like there's something wrong with you if you haven't found your person by the age you hoped to, how stalking someone on social media before you get the chance to know them IRL can be misguiding, and more. We close out the...
Feb 02, 2021•54 min•Ep. 5
Why am I not getting any matches? Why are my conversations not turning into dates? What is the deal with all of the fish photos? If you've ever asked yourself any of these questions, we promise you're not alone. This episode is the ultimate guide to setting yourself up for success on dating apps starting with choosing the right photos and prompt answers, to having productive conversations, and getting out on dates. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 26, 2021•1 hr•Ep. 4
On this week's episode, we're sharing our listener's responses to what they wish the people they were dating knew. It's the tell-all that you didn't know you desperately needed to hear. Ladies, buckle up and get ready to find out what the guys out there are begging you to realize. Gentleman, tune in to hear what the ladies are really thinking and what "it's fine" actually means! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 19, 2021•1 hr•Ep. 3
We're breaking down what it really means to be a f**kperson with the help of @dfarella, everyone’s favorite internet boyfriend. What are a f******y's true intentions? What do you do if you start sending f******y behavior from someone you're interested in? Are f******y misunderstood? Is there a little f******y in all of us? We answer all of these questions, and more. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jan 12, 2021•55 min•Ep. 2
New year, new podcast! Hey guys, it’s Ilana and Jonah and we are back and better than ever! Today is Dating Sunday, the busiest online dating day of the year, and the perfect day to kick off Episode 1 of our brand new podcast, Seeing Other People. We’re catching up the status of our relationship, the current state of dating, what it’s been like to be single during quarantine, and SO MUCH MORE. Episodes will come out weekly on Tuesdays. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoic...
Jan 03, 2021•52 min•Ep. 1
