Are They Avoidant or An Asshole? with Ken Reid

Counselor Ken Reid joins us for an insightful discussion on attachment styles, particularly focusing on avoidant attachment. Ken delves into the complexities of avoidant and fearful-avoidant attachment styles, explaining their origins and how they manifest in adult relationships. He shares his personal journey and professional expertise, highlighting the importance of self-awareness and the challenges of healing from developmental trauma. The episode offers practical advice for those struggling with attachment issues, emphasizing the value of therapy and the need for a supportive network. Work with Ken's team at kenreidcounselling.com.au 01:57 Personal Journey into Counseling 04:10 Experiences with Avoidant Partners 09:55 Attachment Styles Overview 19:08 Challenges in Relationships with Avoidant Partners 22:11 Communicating with Avoidant Partners 25:06 Doing the Inner Work 30:10 Understanding Avoidant Attachment 31:06 The Importance of an Accountability Team 33:01 Challenges in Therapy for Avoidant Attachments 34:22 Finding Problems with Partners 39:01 Attachment Styles and Adult Relationships 47:47 Self-Sabotage and Healing Attachment Wounds Want to hear more of our episodes with therapists? This playlist has them all! Give your brain a boost with Fungies functional mushroom gummies! Head to eatfungies.com and enjoy free shipping and 20% off with code SOP.  Treat yourself and grab Banza, my favorite pasta (and pizza, and more!) made from chickpeas and filled with protein and fiber! Available at Whole Foods, Target, Walmart and Costco.  Say goodbye to your anxiety and say hello to relaxation with Sunset Lake CBD. Head to https://sunsetlakecbd.com/coupon/sop and use code SOP for 20% off your order. Pro tip: try their sleep gummies!  Grow your business, no matter what stage you’re in. Sign up for a #1 per month trial period at shopify.com/seeingotherpeople! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices