Understanding That There are No Coincidences Can Shift Everything

I hope that this podcast inspires you to be more connected to your intuition. And I hope that by doing that, we make the world a better place. Thanks for coming on this journey with me

So thank you again for your time, Richard [inaudible] I got my , uh, my little spidey senses buzzing a little bit this morning when I was walking in the woods about wanting to share more about how you have put yourself out there to help people who are dealing with their own health challenges.

Last time we talked a little bit about your writing and photography, and I'd love to go back there too, but I do want to spend a little bit of time about how you support people with their health and how all that works and how they find you and how that process works for you to mentor people. So you can explain a little bit more about that. That would be lovely. I'd be glad to Heather [inaudible] it's not hard to find me.

Sometimes I'd like to distance myself from social media because it can become a little overwhelming on Facebook. I have an author page and it's my name, Richard D Roland with a common and author . And I do try to stay up with that as much as possible. [inaudible] a little overwhelming because there are a lot of people who need some help and some directions understanding and know that they're not alone.

And then of course, I , I have a website where I'm notified if I have any messages on the website and that is Richard Richard D. Roman books cover . I think it also lifts my email address. I generally try to do that on every story that I write, as far as getting in touch with me, those are the easiest ways.

So what do you see as a trend, as far as the people who are reaching out to you, to me because of their shoes, they know that I've been successful or 13 years now dealing with a cancer diagnosis. So a lot of that success is learned by going through a time where the catalyst for being somebody who had a science-based [inaudible] and just seeing all things that were in between. And then it just continued that continued , the team has been thrown my whole life, but I've had a lot of early on.

I broke that off to coincidentally and instead of giving me into it and credit for, I meet people, or when I talk to people it's still strong today , but that I had a little bit more where it's like a message to me , an image. I mean , writing that off, I embrace that thought and I chase it.

And a lot of times with, especially with friends who are struggling, that you wouldn't necessarily know that they were struggling, but for some reason I get feeling that they are and I'll reach out in a message and inquire and see if they're doing okay. And then they unload. They let you know when we're leaving. No, I'm not doing okay. But most of the wise I already do. I just waited for them to clarify that and to put a little more energy into it. And that space actually is powerful.

Absolutely [inaudible] be . And when I get a feeling that something happened that happened, I wouldn't say daily, but it does happen weekly with friends that I know on Facebook that, you know , and bereaved their votes or saved their own stuff. You wouldn't necessarily think anything went wrong. Everything was okay, but I get these feelings that they're struggling with something. And let me say by , so it's kind of a very nudge oriented and you just do the next thing, which is lovely. Yes, I do.

And they'd say it's not just health related , sometimes relating tip related. And sometimes I'll be talking to people and then there might still be something there. But for some reason the is not the one neighbor , but they know someone cared. Yeah . Right. I think it's important. Especially given the world we live in today, you know , um , people don't necessarily see that a lot of times we're being divided on purpose. And , um , and they struggle with that. Everybody needs somebody sometime .

Uh , it's true. This morning was walking and I was, I had an interaction with a person who was holding onto their dog. And honestly, this is a place where dogs can run free. I've had many dogs run free here. This is, this is the place not to hold that dog. And he's like, well, I'm just doing a respect. I don't know your , your space with dogs. And I'm like, fair enough. That's good. But know that I am good. If you see me again, like know that if you're a dog's good, I'm good.

And I left that interaction. And I thought to myself, God has given me dogs for a reason, because they're always there. Animals are always there. Like you don't realize until you have a moment where it's putting your face sometimes. And the impact of it being put in your face is just so powerful. It'll it ? It hit me. I'm like, oh my God, I'm so grateful for all the dogs I've ever had. And all the animals I'm a , her , I quit.

Then it was just such like there were tears of joy and I still feel them like it's well, there's combination tears of joy and tears of probably some loss. I still have a process that , that will come out as it's supposed to. But the connection that people are lacking because of our circumstances, if we just open ourselves up and realize how many ways connection comes, it's incredible. It's almost overwhelming. That's what I felt this morning. It was overwhelming. Absolutely.

And it brings in , brings to mind, free mind sending a video here , it's out of the lady. And she sent me a video of a program that a lady has developed with purchase, which we've known about this for years. We've known about the energy field around the second report and their understanding. So I don't read the focus on porches because all animals are painful.

But this lady in Texas, she had , she has developed a program where she uses or where she actually lay over the pond in the reader and relax. It's much like giving . And have you ever had Reiki? It's it's , it's like that . You just need to relax and eventually we'll walk up and it's so amazing to watch. And I'll send you a link here later on to see it actually moves down on the body at the chakras . Wow. So you , in some cases, every time they will definitely go to and they'll stay there.

It is just a Roper bag . And I said, I am such a believer in that and the different, not this one, but the different pain , energy modalities, healing, energy melodies that are out there that are being used because I've employed them. And I've seen them more than ever wrote about what these horses do that and to go to different shock or some of these people's body when they're laying on metal arena is the most amazing things I think I've ever seen.

Oh my gosh, it would be incredible because they have free will to go anywhere. Why would they go up to that human and do that? Right? It's just like a cat or a dog. Like if you think about how often the cat will lay on a person while they're trying to sleep, like where do they lay? Oh, they're laying on my head. Oh, they're laying on my chest on a belly. Oh, they're down by my feet.

All of those places actually are trying to do something with them just being, so they're not really doing they're being, yeah . They're being a conduit for something. I think one of the biggest things that we as humans too , or I used to do, and I don't do anymore is we write so many things off as coincidence. I've reached a point in my life where I no longer believe in anything like this . There's a purpose. It's need to find the purpose .

So we , we need to see underline, highlight, underline, highlight. I think you just named your podcast, Richard, some true. Cause you know, even my meeting this morning with that gentleman and the dog, it gave me the gift to release something and have the epiphany of gratitude. And it was just a two second exchange. It was a random quote unquote meeting of a gentlemen , his dog and doing his own walk.

And yet it was a healing for me that I intuitively knew I had to go to those woods, not other woods. And, and there it was, you know, so there's just even smaller gifts like that, that people, if they just listen to two , those tiny little lunches and clarify, well, I've stopped at this. Get , I could go to this woods . It's faster. And I have a meeting at 11. I might be late. Well, no, everything works out. Everything works out. So we need to embrace them when we see them.

And if we can do the first step is writing them off as something that's good. And look for the purpose behind it. When you really start studying the purpose , you're going to learn the power that's within all of us to connect with this part of the universe. I have seen things that you just cannot explain. It's just impossible to explain without talking about the power of the universe. Yeah. Would you want to share one of those stories?

Well, it actually, as such , when I write about there's , there's an answer in it down to what you believe. And I think if people can understand, that's the one thing that I try to keep , you have got to wrap your mind around the possibility you have, the ability you have the, for your word become person . And I always make sure I give him credit when I repeat that, but become things.

And do you realize that then you start showing more character , the things that you're thinking, and you try to stay away from negativity and you're going to positivity, but I think anything and everything is possible with the leap or fights, but you to arrive at a point where you have not one atom of doubt. And when you arrive at that point of knowing without that, this is going to happen, guess what, Heather, this is going to happen.

The universe is going to make sure that it happens, but you asked him a difficult place. All right . That is his total advanced leads invite it. Wouldn't be difficult to get there. Do you want to , why ? Why fear? Fear ? What if I'm wrong? What if my new direction in life? My new belief system life proves out to be incorrect. Well then it blows everything else out of the water. And you're harboring that fear.

So you have not arrived at a point of absolute that's where you have to get well, and that surrender goes with it. People have recently, we're talking about like, aren't you afraid of dying? And I'm like, no, I haven't begin date and end date. And if I listen to my intuition, I'll, I'll lead it by end date. And if I don't listen to my intuition, I may expire before my end date.

Or maybe I won't hard to say, but if we don't fear an outcome that is possible, that some people think is negative, then we can stay in alignment, easier with that faith. I find if I'm sick , sometimes we of course getting rid of the fear or people. And to be quite honest with you, if facing a new calendar or I'm going through something new with the disease and diagnosed with it , sometimes it's difficult for me to mentor other people. So I get back and it's on sale .

And because it came up anybody if remanence cloudy with, with my own challenge. Well, and I think that that's probably timed appropriately. Cause I think everybody needs self care in order to help somebody else. Like there has to be that balance. We can't save others when we need to save ourselves. Yeah . What I meant for people to think, what are the most important things that I do? And sometimes I'm successful is to teach them not to fear death, to see benefits and translation .

I give them a list of books they can read on near death experiences on reincarnation written by clearly intelligent, successful people in the world and show them that there's a possibility that as you were growing up, the people that taught you didn't really know. So you've got, you've got two brothers and their son and the most amazing things can happen when you can get somebody over in fear that they're carrying around is they live longer. They live happier. They, they no longer fear death.

They see death as lesion for every single human on this phone and it happened to his own . But if you see it for what it , what my beliefs are for what it really is, it is just the translation going on . Sorry about that. But anyway, the goal of mentoring or helping people is to, is to remove as much to the bears , eat them , how to go through life without that fear. And to recognize that fear when it , when you have negative feelings, immediately address them .

Because if you leave them, they're going to stay right here . And even if you don't think they're bothering you, they are bothering you to come. So it's something that needs to be addressed right away. As many years as I've been doing this , I have negative thoughts, but I've, I've trained myself to the point that I recognize that the habit I address.

So the addressing is that as simple as acknowledging it and being curious where it's origin is, or like, what is your process or any , I'm sure there are different for every single person, but is there a process to address it? Do you get them to go pound nails if they're angry? Like , well, I think it goes back to a quote. I heard one paraphrasing that quote, because I can't remember exactly, but basically 99% of what she's worried about worrying is a wasted emotion .

If you don't , if you add something that you're worried about, you need to recognize, urge , worry to wait . And secondly, that great, great majority of things that you worry about don't incur anyway . So true. I realized I inherited worry from somebody in my family and they inherited worry possibly because of life experience or somebody in their family. And I used to make a snowball of it and it genetically and throw it out anytime I threw anything up .

And it just seemed to over time , shift me from being like, I'm going to ask where's the next client coming from? Oh my gosh, what a bit of money? Oh my gosh, what about that thing? That's happening down the road. Now, there are still triggers that will get underneath that radar that are, I would say I'm in the process of repairing the co-dependence with those groups of beings. Just that awareness. Like you say, the fact that, well, it's not true. It's not in your present moment.

So what are you doing? What are you doing? Wasting your present moment on it? So another very important thing that I teach people and it's not like , I think other people , uh , in a car totally wrote a book. What is the title? One 30 . And that's because most people live in the past and the future is fear and grit. So those, those are negatives. But if you actually live in this very moment, which is, it's very homely , that's the morning near the medal .

If you learn to embrace it , to enjoy and to love and feel in this very moment, and you're not going to be living in the past with all the regret that you period , and you're not going to be living in the anxiety of the future, you're going to be living for this. I'm diagnosed with a , with a cancer journey with this particular one doesn't match. I'm going to frame it up again. And I think that lack of fear is one of the reasons I'm still here, right?

So powerful Richard, there's one thing to say, there's another thing to do it. And that's why having you on this podcast today is so important to me. I'm so grateful for it because you're standing at the place of 13 years of one day at a time of living this way. And I'm sure there's ups and downs cause you're human, but you're your proof is in the pudding. It's such a gift to be able to stand from the place of experience and then be in the place of sharing it.

It's, it's a very, I'm going to say, I want to say important. For some reason it's a very important role because I think people sometimes are on have, have experienced it, but they don't necessarily feel like they're led to share it. And that's fine. That's they're following their intuition. But the fact that you've lived it and are being led to share it to me is beautiful.

So really, really appreciate so many people get locked in the fear aspect of this disease or disease that they might get worse by letting that be their life's focus. And my life's focus is not my life focus is not more lift . I'm not going to clarify that, but try not to play the what if, when I find myself doing that. So you go back to that car, totally book.

It breaks things down to focusing green plant leaf and the veins on the leaf and the little thready things that stick out on wave two , the best particles [inaudible] better than anybody I've ever seen. And those are putting inside yourself by fear. You have to start your focus . Um, oh my goodness. I was trying to think about Wayne. Dyer has written a lot of books and the movie, the shift . There's so many things. That's a very wise man.

But so after 13 years of living the life with a cancer diagnosis and living life positivity, one Western medicine, drugs , or times over 13 years down , because right now I have not being able to do this myself someday. I'm hoping that predict yet. So I am facing that .

Now there are meeting , meeting , meeting minutes , um , for multiple myeloma and the reason it's becoming more of a treatment, but the 30 minutes that I have viewed is as last lost with me, nobody has recognized it and it's not working as good as it used to or as good as it should. So it squeaked that from finding out that I need to switch now, given that I'm not a big supporter of Western medicine, but I do believe in certain aspects of it.

And I do believe they're important, but I find myself bringing apprehensive a medication where I don't want to know the side effects because you know what my mind does when you tell you this might happen. And this is possible. That might have been a little apprehensive in switching medications . When I find myself there, I have to shift what I'm thinking about.

Even if it's just for a moment, even if it's just to feel the changes in the air as it goes across , or to see the changes in light outside. When , if the sun's out, when the sun becomes a little bit of light downstairs , some clown focus on something. That's how I get through it. So apprehensive last night when apprehensive this morning, I might be apprehensive this afternoon, but I will. And this is all, this is all controlled , right? Oh my goodness. Richard, this has been fantastic.

Thank you again so much because there's so many nuggets. And I knew when we started, like, let's just see where we go back . I knew there would be really some very important messages that would be brought through you. So thank you so much for today. I really appreciate it. And well , I thoroughly enjoyed talking to you and communicating just like we have barely photography do the sweet view . That's another of my patch . And that's another thing I do when I'm being challenged.

Oh, it totally changes your focus and you get instant gratification and beauty of what the world is around you. So it is so beautiful. We live in is so beautiful and we walk around and we're used to it. We're used to it. So we really don't see Steve, the changing of the seasons and the changing of the leaves and trees and the groove and the grass and all the things that happens around us for the magic than it is now. Exactly. So thank you again for today and we'll do this again. All right.

I look forward to each and every time we do. Thank you so

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