233. Q&A: How can I get my child to cooperate without using threats?

Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg and I talk about...

3:49 - How a child’s developmental ability to conceptualize time is different than adults’ and how this gets in the way of them sharing our sense of urgency.

6:58 - Kids often have trouble transitioning to things they don't want to do, we'll talk through strategies for helping them tolerate this better.

8:10 - The difference between a bribe and a positive reward, and when to use each.

10:45 - How integrating moments into the routine that promote autonomy and help your child feel a deeper sense of control can make a big difference.

12:25 - How Dr. Sarah adds elements of playfulness and gamification into the routine with her own kids.

18:55 - There is a huge tradeoff to our kid's mental health if they are obedient because they are are afraid of us - but that doesn't mean it wouldn't make parenting easier.

REFERENCES AND RELATED RESOURCES:

⏰ Kids Visual Timer or Sand Timers to help your child learn about time

📖 My FREE workbook with 6 games to help you incorporate playfulness while teaching your child emotion regulation skills

WANT TO LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS TOPIC?

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode that covers a 10-step framework for getting your child to change their behavior in just 3 weeks

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about what to do when your child doesn't listen to you

🎧 Listen to my podcast episode about bribery

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