In this segment, we dive deep into a documentary found on YouTube about a girl who wanted to have a platonic relationship with a Sugar Daddy. She finds out the time and expense required just to message and meet these men. She also finds out that most aren’t looking for a sexless relationship, which is frustrating to her. But most Sugar Daddies will be patient and not expect sex on the first or second date, but eventually as with any type of dating, intimacy would be a natural step forward in the...
May 24, 2024•18 min
We have a full house today with fan favorite Podcast Fanboy and a return appearance of Sugar Baby Jen. These two met because of the podcast and have enjoyed a few fun dates together. He treated her to a Sun’s basketball game and a music festival during spring training in Arizona. Then they ventured to Nashville and share a lot of very interesting experiences. Jen vows that she’ll find love while Sugar Dating. We find out that Podcast Fanboy has a thing for lingerie and Jen was more than happy to...
May 21, 2024•59 min
Meeting someone online can be tricky already, but when you’re a 4-hour flight away from them, there are extra challenges. This Sugar Daddy is finding out that one party seems to be moving faster than the other one, and their communication style is also not succinct. Should he continue pursuing this Sugar Baby? I give my thoughts and I would love to hear yours. July 12th-14th, 2024 Party Application www.secretsofasugardaddy.com/services-2 Sugar Daddy party sponsorship details: info@secretsofasuga...
May 17, 2024•20 min
We had the pleasure of meeting a fun Sugar Daddy who travels around the country in his van. He has become an avid listener of the show so of course Lilly, who is in charge of nicknames, titled him Podcast Vanboy. He discovered that the Sugar Dating lifestyle is full of amazing people. But like the rest of us, he had his share of bs that naturally comes with online dating. We share a lot of fun stories about Sugar Babies who are actually willing to hang out with him as he travels around, and we r...
May 14, 2024•55 min
Many Sugar Babies find themselves desperate with immediate financial needs. Unfortunately, the good Sugar Daddies get bombarded with desperate pleas for money so often that they run for the hills when they suspect that the Sugar Baby will be constantly asking for money. Sugar Daddies love to gift and love to help out financially, but the Sugar Baby must make the time spent together enjoyable, drama free, with no sense of desperation. We know that is tough at times, but in this segment, we go ove...
May 10, 2024•16 min
Handy Andy joins us from San Diego. After being married multiple times, he finally stumbled upon Sugar Dating. Andy came from a background of gangs, drugs, and violence and when he lost his kids, he finally made his way to rehab which changed his life. This Sugar Daddy actually made a lot of money in crypto which allowed him to experience this lifestyle. At 47, Andy now has 5 grandchildren. One weakness though, Andy keeps sleeping with his ex, and it's a bit toxic. He's learned a lot of valuable...
May 07, 2024•57 min
OMG, Big news! July 12-14th, 2024 in Phoenix, AZ. We are having the biggest and best Secrets of a Sugar Daddy Podcast party yet. And the best thing, it's all free (except for the Sugar Daddies). You won't want to miss this epic event as we've secured 2 private suites next to each other at Footprint Arena for the Hootie and The Blowfish and Collective Soul concert. We have a party bus to and from the venue along with a Friday night mixer and housing accommodations. A few lucky Sugar Babies will a...
May 03, 2024•10 min
Justin, a lawyer from Oregon, joins us to discuss his transition into Sugar Dating. After a 30 year marriage and grown children, he found himself looking to date again. He has found some success in the Sugar Dating world, and seems to fancy women who are in their 20's. He doesn't hide his lifestyle from his children who are older than his Sugar Babies. His preference is PPM vs allowance as it seems to be less stressful. Oddly enough, most of his Sugar Babies have boyfriends who know about the re...
Apr 30, 2024•56 min
In today's segment, I share 2 stories where the Sugar Daddy becomes very toxic and basically tries to blackmail the Sugar Baby into a relationship. Is there anything the police can do when a Sugar Baby feels threatened? What is your advice to these Sugar Babies? Become a VIP Supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast Share your stories, questions and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy Subscribe to ou...
Apr 30, 2024•12 min
Desiree, a black Sugar Baby, has found some success and inherent struggles in the Sugar Dating world. Her niche is older, white Sugar Daddies and sometimes they get out of line. As a whole, black Sugar Babies are treated with a little less respect and the messages to them can be a bit too direct. She finds, along with many studies, that black Sugar Babies are offered less allowance and ppm than others, and that they seem to be taken to lower quality restaurants. They also experience more violenc...
Apr 23, 2024•1 hr 2 min
In this segment, we hear from a Sugar Baby who is concerned that her "girl next door" look isn't enough as she compares herself to the other "more beautiful" Sugar Babies. You'll hear directly from a few Sugar Daddies (and Sugar Babies) on what traits they are actually looking for in a Sugar Baby. So what do the polls say when asking men if they prefer Mary Ann (girl next door) or Ginger (beautiful, sexy movie star) from Gilligan's Island? It's 3 to 1 Mary Ann! Become a VIP Supporter of the show...
Apr 23, 2024•16 min
In this Extra Sugar, we discuss a situation where a Sugar Baby agreed to a monthly allowance, but then after 2 weeks went back to her Sugar Daddy to restructure it. How do you handle this as a Sugar Daddy? There are a lot of great comments, and I also give my advice on how to respond when this happens. Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagra...
Apr 16, 2024•20 min
We are joined by a self described Pick Up Artist (PUA) or Splenda Daddy. Our guest actually went through many trainings to become a PUA. He always wanted to date better looking and hotter women, but was not having any luck until he began implementing techniques that were taught to him. Unlike many, he was quite happy to see that Seeking had shifted their focus to evolve into a more traditional dating website. Although he's not afraid to spend money on a nice date, he refuses to "pay for sex" and...
Apr 09, 2024•53 min
The initial meeting of a potential Sugar Baby or Sugar Daddy can be quite interesting! There's always the fear of the unknown and the excitement of possibilities. Who should be asking all the questions though? Where should we meet? And how do you discuss allowances and/or PPM numbers? Navigating these issues is the first step to a successful Sugar Relationship. Become a VIP Supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast Share your stories, questions and comments at www.secr...
Apr 08, 2024•16 min
Jane the Virginian, joins us to share her secrets to finding and marrying her Sugar Daddy soulmate! Although Jane did not start Sugar Dating until later in life, she found that her age was actually an advantage. She was raised Mormon, even serving a mission for her church. But she felt as if she never fit in to the expectations, and went searching for her comfort zone. She tried regular dating and was appalled by some of the interactions. Finally she jumped on Seeking and was shocked how civil a...
Apr 02, 2024•57 min
In this segment, we hear from Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies about things that make them run from the relationship. Most people who Sugar Date are eventually guilty of a few of these. If you notice that your Sugar Relationships are ending way too soon, take a look at how you interact and see if you're guilty of some of these huge turn-offs. Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com...
Mar 29, 2024•17 min
Jack, a Sugar Daddy from Chicago, joins us to share some Sugar Dating experiences after his divorce. He was fortunate enough to sell his company right before covid, and he is now having more fun than ever. Before Sugar Dating though, he married someone with a large age gap after meeting her at work. But when that ended, he was introduced to Sugar Dating after he hit on a waitress in Las Vegas. Jack has also experienced a 3-way Sugar Relationship which was quite interesting. He is not out looking...
Mar 26, 2024•1 hr 2 min
In this segment, we have an updated list of strong indicators of a Sugar Baby scam. Not every profile on seeking is a scam obviously, but there are way too many for comfort. We go over a list that should give you caution when conversing with a Sugar Baby. Many times a Sugar Daddy can be a prime target as they are looking to date and supposedly they have some wealth. So be careful in your Sugar Dating adventures. Let us know if you've been scammed and how it worked. Become a VIP supporter of the ...
Mar 22, 2024•17 min
We are joined by the one and only Short King and also his acquaintance, Sugar Baby Mel. Short King tells us about his spiritual journey to India where he was off the grid for 30 days. But he certainly made the rounds with the women before his journey. He then revealed that he likes to incorporate electric play into sex. Sugar Baby Mel is new to the scene, and as an older participant, she's finding success quickly. She came from South America originally, but has adapted to the North American cult...
Mar 19, 2024•1 hr 1 min
In this segment, we explore a common issue that happens in the Sugar Dating world. Most Sugar Relationships have sizeable age gaps. What happens if a Sugar Relationship is going very well, but it's time to move into a traditional relationship which might include marriage, kids, etc? How does one break off the Sugar Relationship, can the partner still be involved despite not being together anymore, how will the family react? These are all great questions that are addressed in this segment. Become...
Mar 17, 2024•14 min
Katie joins me as we read several listener letters and weigh in on a few Sugar Dating situations. Katie gives her thoughts of our most recent party, and reveals that she might have gotten a little naughty on the first day! Then we read a few listener letters. Later we explore various Sugar Baby situations which deal with everything from being a bit overweight to providing private photos. We get into a lot of real life Sugar Dating issues in this episode. Become a VIP support of the show at www.p...
Mar 12, 2024•49 min
This segment is a lot of fun as I found a few photos from 6 years ago that reminded me of a crazy sugar dating story I had when I first started on Seeking. If you are a VIP member (only $10 per month) of our Patreon, you will get to see actual photos of this topless Sugar Baby and her “driver” in my garage! Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.ins...
Mar 09, 2024•12 min
One of our most popular guests, Sugar Daddy Dwayne, joins us again to give us a Sugar Dating update. Currently, he has found a great Sugar Baby so he’s no longer online. She even offered to cook and clean for him, but they’ve been busy enjoying getting to know each other instead, if you know what I mean! He’s not a wealthy man but has some discretionary funds and found that a small amount can make a big difference sometimes. But it hasn’t all been sunshine and roses. Dwayne tried having a Sugar ...
Mar 05, 2024•59 min
Bruce Almighty joins us a year after his first appearance to tell us about a Sugar Baby that he fell in love with. He met a flight attendant on Seeking, but unfortunately she had a severe drinking problem. Interestingly, Bruce Almighty met her mother on the very first date. Not long after they met, she moved in with Bruce along with her pet snake! Then it got really toxic and she trashed the house when she thought Bruce had broken her trust. Unfortunately, things continued to spiral and she trie...
Feb 27, 2024•1 hr 2 min
In this segment of Extra Sugar, we chat about a new 32 year old Sugar Baby who is trying to figure out a weird situation. You'll hear my views on what happened, along with input from a few other Sugar Daddies. Also, there are some great tips in this segment on how you can find success in the Sugar Dating world. Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy Become a VIP member of the show at www.patreon...
Feb 23, 2024•14 min
Kevin and Vivian join us to give updates on their Sugar Relationship. Vivian gets hit on all the time in her government job, and Kevin thinks he's found a solution to scare off the men. Vivian thinks it's quite hilarious that Kevin gets high praise for being a great boss, but she knows a completely different side of him. Then we get into an enlightening discussion of a self improvement seminar that Alejandra and I attended together in Los Angeles. Find out why I was so skeptical about the progra...
Feb 20, 2024•59 min
Amanda, from The Dichotomy Diaries Podcast, joins us to discuss the complex issues of her marriage. She actually had a Sugar Daddy when she was 21. He took great care of her for many years and even bought her a Mercedes! But the age difference finally played out and the relationship ended amicably. Amanda then met a younger gentleman who she fell in love with and eventually married. He was an attractive Mormon who was living a secret life. She found out he was a gay escort, had a severe gambling...
Feb 13, 2024•58 min
In this segment, we get caught up on a few listener letters. We love the feedback and stories from Sugar Babies and Sugar Daddies. You’ll hear a great letter from a Sugar Baby who married her Sugar Daddy! So many of you want to come on the show, and we would love to have you as a guest soon. Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasu...
Feb 09, 2024•19 min
Alaina, a Sugar Baby from Chicago, joins us for a second time. First, she gives a recap of the Secrets of a Sugar Daddy party she attended a few months ago. Then she tells us about a Sugar Daddy who’s taking her to Hawaii. He wanted a more mature and age-appropriate travel partner. Having experience in the BDSM world, Alaina gives us her thoughts about the situation Alejandra found herself in when a BDSM date went horribly wrong. She also found a Sugar Daddy in the wild while visiting Arizona an...
Feb 06, 2024•53 min
A Sugar Daddy recently got scammed, and unfortunately, it’s a common one. Find out how she set him up, and all the sad details in this Sugar Dating extra… Share your stories, questions, and comments at www.secretsofasugardaddy.com Follow us on Instagram at www.instagram.com/secretsofasugardaddy Become a VIP supporter of the show at www.patreon.com/secretsofasugardaddypodcast
Feb 02, 2024•10 min